Over the last few months of self development, I have occasionally paid for sexual services with a particular woman. Single mom, over 25. A few days ago was just like any other. I was doggystyling her, I came, pulled out & the condom looked broken. Internally freaking out, I pulled it off to look at it closer. It looked fine. I threw it in the trash, told her I was scared because I thought it was broken. The lights were dimmed so I thought I was being paranoid. I leave normally, and then get frantic texts saying she looked at it after and it was broken. I immediately offer to pay for her morning after pill. She then accuses me of lying, and how I lied to her this and that. My phone is fucked so I couldn't just email transfer her the $40. I decide to go back and be an adult about this.

As I enter her place again, I am confronted by a dude who rushes me, pins me against the staircase (he dominates me physically) and takes not only the $40, but all the money I had on me. He treated me as if I were some kind of rapist agressor. He threatened me with very serious harm. He then told me to leave or else. So I did.

No contact since then (been 2 days). Should I assume I'm safe after a week? She stood by & aided & abetted theft & assault. Can't goto the cops though, I have zero evidence and it would just fizzle out to a waste of time.

The only mistake I made throughout the whole thing was not looking hard enough at the condom after I pulled it off. I figure it bursted when I came. What would you have done?