My dad has been shitty as fuck towards me my entire life. After my parents got divorced he moved across the country so he “didn’t have to see her”. Ultimately not seeing my little brother and I as well. Eventually he manipulated me to believe that my mom was the bad guy and initiated the divorce. I was a 12 year old not a mediator. Started showing up wasted to pick my brother and I up for our summer vacation. Recently tried calling him for a week straight to see if he had gotten his stimulus check but he continued to blow me off. I gave up on trying and now him and my step mom won’t leave me the fuck alone about not talking to them. Hard nexting girls is one thing but completely cutting off my father is another thing. Any ideas?