I have had an LTR for about a year now, but there is this girl I have been chatting with casually that has made it very apparent she wants to get with me in the past week and said she would be in town next week "if I'm available".

Now, I don't know if my current LTR has had sex with anyone since we've been dating, but this brings to mind certain TRP topics like "she's not yours, it's just your turn". My current LTR is very attractive, wealthy job, we get each other's personalities, and have a fun time. Like it's been said on here, if she's attractive, there's a good chance guys are hitting on her in general, especially if she's not married.

Basically at this point, I have a difficult time trusting women after reading TRP. I could see most women wanting to be exclusive these days, yet, an emotional wave hits them, releases the handbrake that logic puts on them, get pumped and dumped, and reply that idk it just happened, no fault for it. If a man were to do that, well he's just cheating scum and society vilifies him. If I'm with a woman that's stated she's not exclusive, I feel she has no shame riding the carousel, which means her count is high, possibly red flags with that in general.

How should I approach this upcoming opportunity and my overall thought process behind an LTR?