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Well exactly that - I'm almost sure that new forum won't be found by anyone new which means that community will be sealed. Personally I won't migrate.
/r/askTRP24/06/21 02:49 PM
56

it makes me feel good when I reject them, why? You were rejected A LOT OF TIMES, like a REALLY A LOT so now when side changes it naturally feels good to be the one that rejects.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 07:03 AM
20

But how much information could/should I give her? None, always playfully dodge this question. Should I give her specifics? No. What are the benefits of negative consequences if I do? As from benefits she won't be asking about it anymore. Negatives are MUCH worse -> if the number is too low she will feel like You were not good enough to get more women therefore she will see you as a looser BUT if number will be too high she will see you either as a manwhore or a player and will be constantly nagg…
/r/askTRP22/06/21 06:28 AM
2

It's a crabs in a bucket mentality and the best You can do is just not to get involved.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 07:02 AM
17

It's the same reason why men are encouraged not to bring foreign women back to the United States. Even if they come from a traditional background they'll be ruined once they come here and experience our culture. This should be a auto answer to all posts like "Guys I wish I could have EE/Asian/African woman, she would NEVER be like modern american woman". It's like you put a delicious meal in front of hungry man and expect him not to eat it.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 06:49 AM
1

i lied on my CV and said that i have some months of experience on a supermarket. Watch out for that because someone may ask to see copy of contract as a proof that you've worked there and when employer discover that you've lied in CV he won't hire You for sure.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 06:39 AM
37

Well You either accept fact that she had this threesome and deal with it or break up with her because it's not worth to have your mind haunted by those past dicks.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 06:11 AM
5

Same mistake here - Truth is hard to swallow and most of people I've spoke about RP related topics would rather die in lie than accept the truth so this can throw You away from social circles instantly.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 07:22 AM
1

It's her insecurity not yours so You don't have to follow "her rules about IG". Tell her to not stress about it because You are dating her not some other IG girl you've followed.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 07:17 AM
5

She's allowed to see other man? But I'm not allowed to fuck other ladies? Sounds selfish to me. She wants to have a the cake and eat the cake. How to deal with it? Just keep doing what You are doing and don't fall into feeling bad because he gets mad. It's open relationship and she needs to understand that or say goodbye.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 07:12 AM
1

Fucked her after knowing her for only a couple of hours, then she told me she has a boyfriend, who she is going to break up with. Great girl but not for a LTR. My entire being is resisting this plan. If the ONLY reason You would move is because she is moving there then it's clear that You shouldn't do it.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 07:53 PM
1

Again it could all be out of pity, but that’s a lot more compliance than the hot woman in your example. Sure because this example was meant to be as simple as possible.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 06:22 PM
1

Your wording towards the end of that first paragraph is confusing. I mean that she will visit You/hug You maybe make out a little to convince herself that she is a good person BUT she won't have sex with You because she is not attracted sexually. It's like when an average guy asks out a hot girl from social group. Most likely she won't say "I won't date You because You are ugly" but something like "Oh sorry, I'm already seeing someone" or "You are cool but not my type". It's all about her image.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 07:51 AM
2

she felt that she never felt butterflies with me like she did with her ex BF of 6 years who seriously hurt her Most likely You were a filler guy(filler guy can last LONG with good circumstances) for her. All other things about her EX suggest that she is some sort of alpha-widowed. She still was thinking about him, she had a breakdown when she saw that he is good without her etc etc. She had 0 friends in her new city and about 6 months in asked me my thoughts on using tinder to find friends From …
/r/askTRP17/06/21 07:47 AM
1

Whenever girl texts You some sort of BS which can start drama just ignore it and go on like it didn't happened. This simple trick saved me many 'arguments'.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 06:41 AM
5

Shy - If You don't like going out much, sure. Weird - Probably not but it depends what exactly it means? If this 'weird' part is that she wants to have sex 2 times a day everyday I'm fine with that but If it means that she have is in some sort of cult then hard no. Ugly - No, I wouldn't LTR an ugly girl because for LTR I require a good mix of appearance and intelligence.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 06:16 AM
1

My question is why did she want me to close the blinds in my room, take a nap, allow me to later make out with her (there was resistance) and allow me to grab her boobs? That's basically some sort of 'fight' she has in her head - She were attracted to You (pre cancer) and want to look as a good person (for herself as well) so she don't want to stop dating You because how You look after therapy - remember women have to take care of their social appearance a lot. Then why she resist? Because once …
/r/askTRP17/06/21 06:10 AM
1

Sadly I have to confirm You there her attraction is 100% gone now. She is visiting You to be 'a good person' but in reality she don't want to spend her time with You. Look at some top posts from this sub and You will find similar stories where girls attractions drop downs to zero after something bad happened to guy. The best You can do is work on yourself during recovery and find another woman.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 12:35 PM
1

LDR is not a thing and even if You manage to 'survive' for 6 months when she is in a rural town it will fall apart within 2 weeks when she will be oversea drunk with emotions and oversea chads.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 12:12 PM
1

Instead of complaining start doing something to make it better.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 02:18 PM
84

Depending on your behavior, maybe I'll let you sleep with me Depending on full convo and overall dynamic between you two she is either playful or thinks that she have an upper hand.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 02:07 PM
33

Do you guys think she flirted with me and wanted me to ask her for her number or is she just an extroverted person who had casual small talk with me. Most likely she wanted to check if she gets your attention but it doesn't mean that if You would ask for number she wouldn't give it to You. I was thinking about asking for her number but I was scared because of the age difference and what the other people in the bus would think Here is quite important lesson - You miss every shot You don't take.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 02:02 PM
1

Don't overthink and just do that and You will find out that it's not that hard.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 11:48 AM
1

I guess it's more natural to go with text after instead of doing this voice recordings.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 05:52 PM
1

Just go with "I want to check X place, You can come with me". If she wants to change a place anwer with "maybe next time, this time I want to go to Y"
/r/askTRP09/06/21 08:18 PM
2

If you feel like it - do it. I never had and I never want to get a blowjob with condom on also I haven't heard about girl that rather suck condom than a raw dick. For playfull slaps, light chokes do it and watch her reactions, if she will enjoy it You can go further. What are You going to do? Ask her to say 'Hi I'm XY and I want to have sex with anycolour23' ?
/r/askTRP09/06/21 08:14 PM
8

Her demands can be favours, food, money (mostly its money), drinks and just about anything So basically an escort girl?
/r/askTRP24/05/21 07:35 AM
1

Classic ASD followed by LMR.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 09:45 PM
2

You can't undo past so all You can do it shape better future from this moment.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 09:42 PM
8

Big brain time from those women. Checked betabux and get fat so they don't have to say no to sex since guy doesn't want to do it with her anyway.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 08:52 AM
2

I think it's not about having socials but living in them instead of real life. If your girls spends 6h/day browsing instagram/facebook/twitter/snapchat she is fishing for attention everywhere and most likely not getting shit's done.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 08:49 AM
2

She slept with You once and now tries to keep You in orbiter zone. Most likely you should next if she is not excited to meet You.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 06:00 AM
2

It means that this boyfriend exists for guys she don't want to date/fuck but suddenly disappears when when she want to fuck/date other guy.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 08:00 AM
3

So first time bar and pay for a drink or two and that’s it or don’t pay at all? I would probably say something like "first round on me" so You don't look cheap but You also mark that it's FIRST round not everything. After that it depends on the mood.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 07:51 AM
2

should I call/ meet up in person to end it? Unless You are in exclusive relationship (with I don't think so since You call her a plate) You don't own her any explanation.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 11:56 AM
3

Exactly that. One of my close friends used to smoke daily with his flatmate. I think it's fair enough to say that most of this time they used to sit down and talk how baked they are.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 01:10 PM
8

She actually never was in love with you. She actually was never happy with you. This. It's more like she loved how you made her feel - in past good because everything went well. Now it's bad so she want to end it.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 07:19 AM
18

Do whatever You want but keep in mind if she will cheat WITH You, she will also cheat ON You.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 07:41 PM
2

Agree, even if it's killing mood a little it's better to make sure that she likes it if You are not sure.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 03:39 PM
6

Suddenly everyone have constant anxiety, every relationship is toxic and either have depression/ADHD and most of them are self diagnosed so it's definitely used as an excuse. Don't get me wrong I think there are people with anxiety, toxic relationships etc etc. but it's probably less common than it seems.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 03:24 PM
2

Pretty much this but I've never asked girl if she likes it because always I was able to see if she enjoys it and want more. Most of them do.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 03:18 PM
2

That's classic time waster and she just want younger guy orbiting her (this guy is YOU). Don't waste your time for being pen pal and free validation machine.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 07:11 AM
7

Somehow it was still all my fault to her, her family, and her gaggle of SAHM's. You will not escape that either. She could literally murder You and drop your body from cliff and her friends/familiy would say that probably You were toxic and that's why this poor woman did that. Some people have to understand that other people will take someone's sides not analyze it and give a fair judgement
/r/askTRP20/04/21 07:40 AM
2

You have to understand that in most of the time girl will push for relationship. If You make it clear that You want to keep things casual and she doesn't then it's over but it's still better than being in unwanted relationship.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 07:36 AM
2

Give her 1 word responses like "cool","ok" with mixed ignoring so she will soon stop because of how dry this conversation will be.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 07:47 AM
2

If You don't have any friends You probably have problem with socializing. Making friends will improve that so cold apporaches will be easier.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 04:45 PM
0

Plus everyone feels the tension regardless so idk what to do in those situations How do they feel tension if You isolated correctly? If you have problems with that at the beginning start with casual way to do it like get her to bring drinks for group with You. This way You isolated her for some time and can escalate a bit. If she likes it she will make it easier and easier to do it.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 08:55 AM
2

will be in the city in x weeks/months She will forget about You next week and get new matches from your city within 5 minutes of setting location there. You can leave your # to her and tell her to call when she will be there but I wouldn't expect anything from this.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 08:43 AM
3

You've fucked up to the point that You HAVE to change your job because if she will be pissed she will "cancel" You to the rock bottom.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 08:38 AM
6

”Damn, now that’s a hot babe, if only I banged her!” If that your thought about every woman it's obvious that if You bang her You get what You've wanted. If You didn't click with her with different things it's normal that You didn't want a girlfriend, You wanted to bang her and that's it. What's the solution? Don't go into relationship with girls that You are ONLY having sex with. Go for FWB with them instead.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 08:30 AM
0

Well as always it's depends on many factors like do they see each other for 2 weeks and hookup once or do they see each other for 6 months? Does he wants to have a relationship with this girl? I don't know so that's why I've provided 'open answer' which postpone 'real answer' for future when OP makes up his minds.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 08:25 AM
2

then focus first on making some friends. Without friends at all you will be pictured as this creep that approaches random girls.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 07:18 AM
0

I would answer with something like "I enjoy our time together" without going deeper into topic because it You will appear to "lovey-dovey" and it will turn her off. Change topic and don't turn into a pen pal.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 07:15 AM
2

Most likely You are not THAT attractive physically. Girls around 20 tend focus on looks and charisma, because they know that this hot chad is for short period of time,. Women closer to 30 look also for security ($$ your own business), status(your decent social scene) anything else is a bonus.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 07:13 AM
5

I did analyze and understood that she had many red flags that I've ignored and 'forgot' about Banged hotter girl
/r/askTRP17/04/21 07:03 AM
0

just isolate and escalate.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 07:00 AM
14

There is always a bigger fish - she just haven't spotted it yet.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 06:55 AM
4

I have no free time and I am starting to get frustrated that I have to give her every minute of my free time. Tell her that You need free time for yourself. I have been finding her less attractive and thoughts of wanting to break up have been entering my head. It's because this situation is annoying. She is too needy for your schedule that's why attraction drops. Instead of enjoying time with each other You spend more time but "less quality" time together. What do I do? I want my free time. I do…
/r/askTRP16/04/21 06:52 AM
1

Because You were next guy that was trying to talk to her. If we was approached by 2-3 guys in park during 1 day then she is probably approached everyday/everywhere. She is just tired of guys approaching her so that's she didn't want to talk with You.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 07:15 AM
4

Don't be silly wrap your willy
/r/askTRP12/04/21 07:09 AM
2

She still hasn’t opened my 9 AM Starbucks text. Let alone respond. Hard next? Don't bother checking if she read your message or not. She probably read pop-up notification and decided that she rather ghost.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 09:34 AM
3

I just sat there and tried to check for any choosing signals before talking to her so when she removed her earphones I shot my shot Removing earphones is not a choosing signal. she then started replying in a very annoyed way and it was very hard to keep a conversation with her. At this point You should understand that she is not interested, wish her good day and do your things.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 09:32 AM
1

Depends on what happens. If it's something 'bigger' or overall know as bad for relationship she will know "what is wrong".
/r/askTRP05/04/21 10:10 AM
1

If You are ok to drop job once things get sour and You are sure that it won't impact your future jobs then yea, otherwise don't bother because its not worth.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 10:04 AM
2

Obviously wife material - propose before someone else will do that. /s
/r/askTRP05/04/21 09:59 AM
14

2 weeks in tinder is like 2 years in real life so don't be surprised if she will flake hour before meeting. Better start working on another girls but if You really want to meet this one maybe try to reschedule into mid-week evening.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 07:47 PM
13

Did stopping change anything for you? Qutting porn made me able to go for more rounds in shorter period of time so I guess it's good.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 08:28 AM
6

Is this Oneitis or am I being BP? probably both.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 06:18 PM
3

Unless it's only OLTR in your head there should be not problems from her side. If Plate girl wants relationship with You and finds out that You have OLTR she may break.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 06:59 AM
2

feeling suicidal recently, Find some therapist or psychologist to talk about it. While RP is most of the time true it's also hard to swallow so it can backfire on You. Few words from me:Regardless what You've been doing - it's already done so You can't make everyone forget about it. You will have to rebuild yourself as a new person and live with that. If You feel really bad think about moving to another town to get this 'fresh start' but most importantly - hold on tight because it may be bad now…
/r/askTRP29/03/21 08:21 PM
2

If I do hang out with a friend in person though (which is unfortunately rare at this point), her affection does increase a little around that time. Here is your solution. Be a little less available to her. Don't ignore her completely because she is your LTR but show some independence by being less available. She will soon understand that she actually have to put some work in order to have YOUR time.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 01:38 PM
2

She lives with me Because of that You are not mystery to her at all. New single guy have this "mysterious fog" around him so she is slightly attracted by that. Enjoy this downside of living with your GF.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 01:33 PM
6

"I don't deal with x bullshit" should be enough. It's not about not explaining, it's more about not doing 50 minute lecture about how sad You are because of something.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 09:56 AM
9

Really good story - sometimes risk after is not worth.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 07:17 AM
6

how do I soft next without seeming like I am butthurt for them avoiding me? Be busy and try to find new friends.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 01:44 PM
19

It's actually simple. Don't talk about your previous relationships so this won't happen.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 01:42 PM
2

Since it's your EX and it's bothering You just unfollow/unsubscribe her and do your things.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 07:51 AM
5

This 'good wife' is trying to cut him from all his friends in order to control him 100%. One day he will find out, or not but it's not up to You.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 07:34 AM
21

Get fit. Fit people look healthier and overall better. Baldness - Try haircuts with really short hair like 1-5mm. If You already lot half of your hair just go full bald and own it. Being short - Once again be fit, practice some martial arts to feel more confident even if You are 5'6. Also some sport sneakers are using airbags (air max etc) so if it feels your style it can always give you this 1-2'.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 07:23 AM
3

Here is how it works - You give her your answer and either she deals with it and keep seeing You and having sex with You or she disappears from your life. Live by your own rules.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 08:31 PM
1

Just own it, if You are trying to cover it with wigs it means that You are insecure about it.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 07:40 PM
5

Well if You don't want to go exclusive with her it's already clear - broken plate.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 07:38 PM
8

I told her i don’t like the body count and want to break things up. She said she would like to win me over. I don’t want to plate her because i already have some girls. What do? Didn't You already told us what do You want to do? Just break up it's not like she has to agree to that lol.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 06:03 PM
2

I wish I could upvote this more than once - it's always "with You" and "now".
/r/askTRP22/03/21 07:35 AM
1

It's probably some sort of "dopamine/pride thing" that You get a nude but like I've already posted -> it's worthless. Will it bite You in the ass? Well I guess You won't go to jail for that but I still consider it as a waste of time.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 07:28 AM
6

There are milions of nudes in the internet so if You feel You need to see "naked lady" look for one and for fucks sake do something productive instead of working your ass for meaningless picture from random girl.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 07:15 AM
5

Most men's motivation to look for sex elsewhere is because they aren't getting it at home. I think it's true. Especially in cases where for example first 6 months of relationship were full of sex to turn into once a month. Little analogy: Let's assume You find a good job with nice salary and everything goes well but after 6 months suddenly your salary drops -80% but You are working the same amount of hours. What's natural reaction to that? Probably looking for another job because it's not what Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 07:51 AM
1

What does she even mean by asking whether it’s cheating ?!! Of course it’s cheating. As they say - lie repeated 1000 times becomes truth. In this case she just needed confirmation from OP that "It's not cheating because You were drunk!" so she would rationalize that for herself.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 07:44 AM
1

I guess You still have regular phone so just use whatsapp - it provides all of facebook messenger features without needing to have a facebook account.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 05:25 PM
4

And this is my first plate Plate is a girl that you have sex on recurring basis. She isn't one if You didn't have sex with her. How should I proceed ? Contact her like nothing happened for rest of information just read fucking sidebar.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 05:23 PM
2

If you are feeling bad because of socials You probably shouldn't use them. Personally I would delete them but it's an easy way to keep in touch with some of my friends etc.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 05:18 PM
5

Go and find out yourself.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 04:43 PM
1

to keep the conversation interesting Being pen pal is perfect way to join her orbiters club. Arrange meetings in real life and start from there.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 04:21 PM
28

Option 1: Don't drive your expensive car, don't take girls into expensive places etc. while dating. Appear as a guy that gets paid like 1.5-2x medium income so You are seen as doing good but not rich. Option 2(You will be pictured as an asshole): Trick girls into relationships without investing much and once You are bored dump them for another.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 04:16 PM
5

This is a big thing. Sometimes You just have to start doing things instead of waiting for better moment. Why? because there may not be better moment than NOW. I'm still working on it but I've saw difference in my life when I've just started doing things instead of thinking about doing them for days/weeks. This pushed me forward and it pushed me out of comfort zone (which is one of the strongest things that keep You at the place).
/r/askTRP20/03/21 10:02 AM
12

she's saying she won't come unless i agree to these terms. do what? she's nice and i don't want drama Do you really want to do everything woman says to You after 1 ONS after she nexted You? Do whatever the fuck You want but personally I wouldn't confirm her that You will stay with her.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 08:48 AM
2

If You don't want anything with her it's simple - ignore. If she will keep on blowing your phone 24/7 - block.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 07:33 AM
39

Easiest way to explain me would be something like this:If a guy is 9/10 he won't LTR a 7/10 woman because his SMV is much higher than her. IF EVERY 9/10 guy does that that 7/10 woman will have to settle down for someone at her level.On the other hand if that 9/10 accepts 5/10 woman, other 5/10 will also think that she deserve 9/10 (and she wont settle for less - so she will go into hypergamy mode). This way that high SMV man supports hypergamy because he actually give this opportunity to them.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:43 PM
7

It's normal now. My friend had HB9 with pretty profile pic on facebook and amount of RANDOMS (not even mutual friends) messaging her about how hot is she and how much they want to go out with her was absurd. This was like 5~ years ago so I expect it's even worse now. Guys will try and You can't stop it and be mad at your girl because of that. If she doesn't read it or answer You are good. The problem starts when she starts talking with them and agreeing to meet.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 05:35 PM
6

And why do girls come back like this after months and ignoring? They are checking if You are still available for them. If You are it's an ego boost/validation for them. In some cases if You improved a lot she will also try to stick with You.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 08:18 AM
2

Just to be clear - if she really wanted to meet You she would find time already. If she doesn't do that it means that she is not that into You.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 08:04 AM
2

I've always thought she has played this innocent card that's reinforced by her *never* sharing her thoughts on the relationship or her own personal feelings. I really have little clue where she stands with anything with us Usually girls rather love bomb you than do something like that. It looks like classic plating from men side performed by woman. ​ I've also sensed she's still been seeing other people despite her playing up that she was upset that I was still seeing people many months into han…
/r/askTRP18/03/21 08:02 AM
2

If You really want invite her once again but if she flakes third time then is clear hard next.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 04:42 PM
1

You've left us on cliffhanger - did You bang or ask once again and she said "no, I was kidding"?
/r/askTRP17/03/21 04:35 PM
1

Drop your Ego. Life is really much more enjoyable when you are not stressing out about shit like that. Your story sounds like high school drama.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 08:41 AM
4

Focus on developing yourself first but don't miss opportunities to hit on girls. From when? From now.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 08:18 AM
3

Depends on what is it. If for example You've stopped working out and lost confidence because of that - start doing it again. If You were hit by truck and lost your leg.. well that's something not so easy to fix.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 08:21 AM
1

Make a review of your life from moment you've noticed that your ability to talk to women disappeared. Maybe something happened that broke your confidence etc?
/r/askTRP15/03/21 07:13 AM
1

Don't get so hammered and problem should go away.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 11:25 AM
3

TBH I don't understand why would You do jaw/weight surgery unless You are an abomination. Braces on the other hand are good idea.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 07:55 AM
2

99% they know what they did wrong, they just don't want to admit it.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 07:39 AM
2

Invite her out/to your place once and if she refuses without rescheduling soft next till she reaches. If she won't she hard nexted herself. Bar is good. Get few drinks, escalate and move to your place. Also as someone else suggested - don't focus on what she says, focus on what she does.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 07:30 AM
1

You can give her something like 'nice' once every 3-5 photos but focus on logistics. There is plenty of girl pics out there and hers are probably nothing special at all.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 07:23 AM
1

​ security pillow - this should cover around 3-6 months of your financial responsibilities. self investment - are there any courses/studies in your field that would make you better at your job? Pick them up so You can get a pay rise for your better qualifications. This is great investment because You literally can't lose in this. After 1 & 2 You can start looking into some investments like properties/stocks etc. This one depends heavily on where you live.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 10:50 AM
2

Let him do whatever he wants, he will see results later but if it's a really good friend help him when thing will fall apart.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 09:54 AM
3

https://www.trp.red/p/mattyanon/274 more inside
/r/askTRP03/03/21 09:52 AM
1

Act like it never happened and if she asks You about it say that You forgot about it. This make her think "HOW IT'S POSSIBLE THAT HE FORGOT ABOUT ME!?!" and You are all good.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 07:19 AM
5

I'm pretty sure that sidebar covers this case called 'the talk'...
/r/askTRP03/03/21 07:07 AM
16

That's the thing - sometimes women don't want to put a 'relationship label' so they can be 'free' but still have casual sex with You for months.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 03:48 PM
27

In each group there is always some sort of 'elite' so even If you are with high value people woman will compare YOU to rest of this group.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 03:27 PM
1

Being nice often means that You are pushover for others, don't be like that - fight for yourself.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 03:46 PM
1

If You are not hitting any other girls beside this one - You are her plate because She can get a D-delivered within 30 minutes from either her ex/orbiter/random guy from tinder.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 08:48 AM
2

For most women it's absurd that MAN CAN REJECT THEM be4cause their ego is super high. Once You reject them they have to hamster themself to point that "She wasn't interested in You anyway so she blocked You".
/r/askTRP01/03/21 08:42 AM
12

Basically he broke up with his batshit crazy gf, only to have her invite him back to her place a month later to fuck. If You breakup with some batshit crazy girl You don't contact with her at all. Comming to her place to smash is like putting your dick in a bonfire.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 08:33 AM
4

Does she sound like an LTR Material? It's sounds like BDSM relationship and it have nothing to do with it becoming LTR. Also if she is barely legal it can backfire badly.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 08:31 AM
2

Generally rules for attraction are the same so there isn't any special things that You have to do so if You are high value she will monkey branch towards You but personally I would not go for that since there will be a lot of drama involved.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 09:54 AM
7

Workout all around, change positions, deep breaths.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 09:47 AM
7

I also suspect this. She probably found decent guy with rules and she naturally lied about her past. Now You have proofs that she lied so she wants to "clear her papers" just to be sure.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 09:15 AM
3

As mentioned I’m sure it is safe to say just not interested? If she doesn't want to meet it's clear she is not interested. Move on.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 09:10 AM
1

Instead of talking that You will deliver something - simply deliver.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 08:52 AM
1

Yes girl that initiate is a ego booster for man but like with most of things MAN have to lead. It's not a problem that You as a man initiate, problem is when You do and she constantly rejects it.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 08:49 AM
11

I agree, most likely she just wanted to 'feel something' and this something was strangers dick. Treat it as ONS.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 08:38 AM
12

She was not interested and that's it. Being honest it's more retarded to pull a NiceGuy and then rant on reddit.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 02:03 PM
2

This is perfect answer - instead of throwing words just work on yourself so she will be rewarded with having great man around.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 09:39 AM
1

Maybe She thinks she is already in LTR with You and since You didn't leave her she don't have to do anything to improve.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 08:33 AM
6

If she is willing to send her naked pics for 5-10$, she will suck dick for 100$ and do anal for 200$ and guess who is also doing that?
/r/askTRP23/02/21 07:52 PM
2

because only hoes are making onlyfans accounts, would you like to ltr hoe?
/r/askTRP23/02/21 07:48 PM
2

If You are not willing to change job if things go sour don't hit on coworker.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 04:39 PM
2

I don't think I'll ever see her again but she was a better bro than most of the guys I know. If you think this way, You can keep this 'friendship' for some time but don't go BP for her. Also remember that things may change because she remember You as a BP guy and now You've changed.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 10:39 AM
39

Be confident. Do whatever You feel You like and put some trust in yourself. Don't ask for validation of your decisions. Be in control of your life and your surroundings. Know when to say 'no' in assertive, not aggressive way.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 10:34 AM
1

For some it's common but You can look for girls that can actually do something by herself. Personally I get tired of those "Ican'tdoathingalone" girls because I have plenty of my work to do so I'm not interested to help with super common things that can be done easily IF YOU ACTUALLY want to do it.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 08:25 AM
6

Agree, mute chat and not read it. Then go back to your stuff and wait for her to start convo. Don't jump around her like she wants You to.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 08:16 AM
3

When should I start taking care of myself? Generally speaking as soon as You can do it in quite comfortable way. If your parents are supportive be nice and use time they give You to learn things in order to skip shit jobs and aim for intern in field of your future expertise, if they are toxic You get that shit job and move out for your own mental sake.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 07:05 PM
2

I've read about women going to expensive resorts fishing for millionaires on their yachts etc. so... You have to make research where women like that are spending their time and then go to those places and "fish for it".
/r/askTRP16/02/21 07:02 PM
1

Just because You've matched it doesn't mean that she will drop everything and meet You anytime. Seems that she doesn't want to give You her address because she doesn't feel comfortable with that. She don't want to come over because of car/snow/time etc etc. Usually it's like this - if she doesn't want to meet she will find all the excuses but if she does she will find a way/time to do it. ​ To sum up she is not THAT interested. You can try 1 max 2 more times. If she still will reject she won't m…
/r/askTRP16/02/21 04:24 PM
6

You can but relying on 1 exercise is really bad because you are only working on part of your muscles while others that are not active during push ups are not growing so it's better to take care of your whole body. Think about it this way - when You take a bath do you wash your whole body or just ass?
/r/askTRP16/02/21 04:07 PM
10

Did you even tried to look for answer in thing called internet?
/r/askTRP16/02/21 03:59 PM
4

If You are not having sex with this girl sexting is blue ballsing yourself. Also better arrange meeting instead of being pen pal.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 03:56 PM
2

she basically gave me the ultimatum of either moving in together or breaking up. Next time she will give You an ultimatum of "either I get all your money or we break up". Fuck man if someone puts You on ultimatum it's clear that it's over.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 08:05 AM
2

Usually I don't post any links to videos but this one have this "dating single mom" subject covered.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 07:53 AM
4

I'm a above average looking guy, If 90% of girls flake on You it's probably your ego which is above average I'm currently spinning plates with chicks online (instagram,tinder) probably 90% of them flake Girl is not a plate until You have casual sex with them. Once again your ego speaks by calling them plate before they become one. All signs of attraction are there, she's sending hearts, some of them send nudes, and they still flake. Sending hearts means shit, sending nudes before meeting you mea…
/r/askTRP13/02/21 08:52 PM
11

ex plate + Should I try to contact her again No
/r/askTRP12/02/21 04:12 PM
4

There is a difference between being needy and giving some comfort. Being needy is texting girl all day and double texting when she doesn't answer for 10 minutes while giving some comfort is sending a text here and there. If everything goes good it's a rewarding for girl to give her some comfort, if she is just a plate You can do that to spin longer (as long as it not tiring for You) or not do it at all and expect plate to break)
/r/askTRP12/02/21 04:10 PM
1

she’s not comfortable with just me wearing a condom. Why exactly? It should be yours go-to option 100% of time to avoid stds first and then to be in control of BC.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 08:33 AM
11

but she cheated on her ex-bf of 3 years, and cheated on him AGAIN with this no arm guy. Once a cheater... If it bothers You( and we already know it does) break up with her and start talking to new girls
/r/askTRP12/02/21 08:26 AM
2

Now suddenly one day, this crazy btch started texting me things like: you don’t like me, you just used me, I’m boring for you... Classic shit tests. I would ignore those texts and not deal with this bullshit. If you liked her just meet her and enjoy company, if not - ghost her.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 08:30 PM
3

Why would You talk to your girl that some guy from her past reacted to your instagram story. What exactly do you want to get from that? Ignore this shit and keep improving.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 07:33 AM
2

Dude You've met her 2 times and You are scared that she goes out with someone else? I can already see that You are scared and your frame doesn't exist. Soft next her and get your shit together because with this mentality every girl will leave you once she realizes that You don't have balls at all.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 07:30 AM
3

The cheating occurred when we werent a couple Then it's not cheating. Just because she liked You before it didn't mean that You couldn't fuck other 10 girls but she goes mad about it next she will be mad about you talking to a lady in a grocery store. What to do? Gym, self improvement then find other girl.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 05:02 PM
3

I guess You can just try to hit this hotter girl but don't expect much from it - most likely she already have tons of guys messaging her.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 04:56 PM
7

Just my guesses: 1)There is less gay man than hetero woman -> less competition means it's easier to be on the top of group 2) Men usually are hornier -> look how men swipe right 9/10 profiles on tinder while woman swipe right like 1-2/10. It probably translates into gay groups as well.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 08:32 AM
1

Question is how do you forget about it and move on. Well all I can advice is that You have to understand that thinking about past and "what if" is useless and most likely it's damaging your future. When it comes to your case I would probably pull out that 12k so worst case scenario I wouldn't lose anything and kept rest of crypto running or pull everything and invest like 50% of that for something else - not waste this money. What can You do now? Learn from your mistake and don't repeat it.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 07:56 AM
1

If You are sure that You are a key person, demand key persons salary. They already know after a year that it's not that easy to find someone like You. Worst case scenario You can stick with your current job or look for another company (not old one).
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:09 PM
2

Before first date she already have some sort of "perfect picture" of how You should exactly be. During date there is a reality check and if You don't meet that well.. her interest goes away as well.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:00 PM
16

Generally don't do so straight forward dirty talk before You sleep with her.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 12:19 PM
2

Exactly, at this point where she tries to go "I'm not going to talk to You" he should just say "ok, goodnight" instead of being butthurt and messaging her about being petty. Don't even argue with women because 90% of times it's pointless and even more important DON'T ARGUE OVER TEXTS.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 10:31 AM
2

Unless she goes with "we have to talk about us etc etc" just stick with what You are doing now if it makes You happy. she hits me with the whole what have I done are you ok messages and it is really starting to get irritating and make me see her clingy side, where she needs to know what I am doing all the time I'm busy doing X, we will catch up when we meet. -> do your stuff and don't bother about her.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 10:28 AM
1

Even though she said she is distancing herself from crazy girl and doesn't think what she does is ok, she still partied with her all last summer. Have You even went out with your best friend to party and stayed sober/did not hit on girls/did drugs etc etc when he did? People that are BEST FRIENDS are doing the same things on parties so if your "girl's" best friend is cheating and doing all those crazy things trust me - yours is doing it as well. He won't admit it even because she will hamster it…
/r/askTRP06/02/21 10:34 AM
3

leaving it in 3 months for good Ignore for this period and then never see her again. 3 months will pass quickly if You focus on studying/working out instead of thinking about that random girl.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 10:28 AM
1

(she is carried away by emotions that she does not control) Women like that tend to be fun for 1 night/1 party weekend but not for relationships. Now I get messages from her that we will never see each other again and we will not get back together. That I broke her heart and she won't forgive me. Dread game, she is trying to put You 100% in her frame and beg her to stay together. I just want to know if you would have made that decision if you knew that you are currently unable to give what the g…
/r/askTRP02/02/21 08:46 AM
1

I made this chick at work uncomfortable You have to be very careful about jokes at workplace because of situations like that. Worst case scenario it can make You lose your job. Watch people first then judge if your jokes are ok for them or they will get butthurt.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 11:35 AM
4

so if everyone is using facebook for hookups there maybe it's a good idea to use it as well?
/r/askTRP30/01/21 12:40 PM
2

'HMU when You will be back in city so we can hang out" and go back to your things.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 11:52 AM
1

Text mostly for logistics but give her some "small talks" here and there so she won't feel ignored, this way You give her some comfort so she will be more likely to stick in.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 11:50 AM
9

let me open your eyes. If she would be really interested this part of "cant get to your place" wouldn't be a problem because she would take an uber/cab to get there. She just put you on waiting list because she don't want to have people talking shit about her in new workplace.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 11:35 AM
8

calm down horny boi.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 11:32 AM
5

Not gonna lie this switch from "I want to be with you forever 😭" to "please don't message me again" made me both laugh and sad.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 09:58 AM
6

OP is 21 so he is mature (in terms of law) so he can get a job. Being able to be student and NOT PAY for rent/food etc is some sort of "luxury" because if You start adding that money it will rise quickly. That's why if he gets free assets from his parents he "owe them" and should respect some rules. If he doesn't want to do that he is free to leave, get a job, rent a room and do WHATEVER he wants because he is not depending on someone else. TLDR: If you make your own money and live by yourself Y…
/r/askTRP28/01/21 09:52 AM
6

This. Something like "I've booked hotel for us" puts too much pressure on girl so she is much more likely just to ghost you in last moment.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 08:39 PM
3

Then message her ONCE again like previous never happened. If she will leave you on seen/delivered again You should understand that she is not interested anymore.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 08:31 PM
1

Same rule - only outstanding things. Noone cares about your standard breakfast, standard coffee in starbucks or walk in the park with dog. Start doing things in real life instead of trying to make it look good in socials.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 09:33 AM
5

Actions, not words - also don't get frustrated about single girl from dating app, this situation isn't anything special, it happens everyday.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 09:31 AM
2

Unless You are super popular influencer etc post only quality things - so once in a while. Quality speaks over quantity of shitty selfies etc.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 09:27 AM
1

Because they make rules for betas/orbiters
/r/askTRP26/01/21 09:05 AM
2

"let's hang out after Covid is cured!" always mean You are not attractive enough for me. In this moments i remember comment that : "Girl would crawl whole hall of broken glass to suck Chris Hemsworth dick."
/r/askTRP26/01/21 09:03 AM
7

If she is on all sort of meds for mental stuff You should really quit it and in this case HARD BLOCK and pray that she finds new target for her mental issues (You work there as a emotional dumpster). Leave her, it's not worth at all - If You let her stick in your life she will make it miserable. Trust me.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 10:11 AM
19

This kind of thread appears every second day there and answer is always the same - DON'T USE DATING APPS WITH ANY EXPECATIONS, or better - MEET WOMEN SOMEWHERE ELSE.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 07:14 PM
4

But so far I’m like 1/200. Dating app ratio is 80/20 m/f -> there is like 20+ dudes asking her "hey what's up" so it's numbers game. Also if you want to improve your odds You have to stand out of the crowd with something e.g -> be model-level handsome, have cool photos that show that your life is more than work and "netflix and chill", be more interesting than "hey, what's up". Last but not least - dating apps shouldn't be your main way to meeting women.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 07:44 AM
1

Totally agree, the most important competition is the one with yourself. Be the best of yourself and trust me it will lead much further than many guys went.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 07:36 AM
1

You can put a lot of work on yourself but You can't change your genes. Chad will put will have genes and do the topping with hard work. Average guy can perform some maxxlooking and work hard but without chad genes he will be always behind Chad (assuming Chad is doing the same)
/r/askTRP20/01/21 06:26 PM
1

I like it because it's so clear message that it's literally impossible for girl to flip with something like "oh I didn't know You've mean that", "oh I didn't know that You don't like it" etc. It's super clear rule and if she don't want to follow it, just let her go. It's not worth to play hide and seek.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 06:13 PM
5

Leave it on read if she will bombard You with more messages answer with "don't text me, thanks"
/r/askTRP20/01/21 09:38 AM
1

Whatever You do in your life, be ready to take the consequences. In this case being public made Girl #2 go tantrum-mode and that's it. In other case good picture on Instagram could attract other girl. The girl just didn't want him to have any other options while she herself plays the field and fuck different dudes. Fuck yes, but here is the catch - everyone wants the best for them and in most scenarios: Guy would be happy to have 10 girls that are exclusive to him - More sex and more diversity w…
/r/askTRP20/01/21 09:24 AM
13

Tinder have 80/20 f/m ratio so women can be picky. Don't get mad at them because of that because let's be honest if You would be getting 100 messages from 100 girls You would only bang the very best. You can keep tinder but don't use it with high hopes or as a main way to meet woman. Use it as an addition. EDIT: You can always just say in bio that You are 5'10" and therefore You know that girl You've matched isn't bothered by that.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 10:09 AM
1

In the end women always want you to be in a relationship with her (unless you are just HER plate/orbiter) so when she finally understands that You won't go for it.. well.. she goes to look for another guy that will do it. Simple as that.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 09:16 AM
10

Speaking as someone from EE with some experience in other countries in EU: - Hookup culture is less common - In some countries 'cold approaching' on the street is super weird and it's treated as 'PUA' which have pretty bad reputation. Generally people as not as open as they are in States/other western countries.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 12:35 PM
1

You can ask her out of curiosity with something like - "What do You expect from meeting him". I bet she will be answering with something like: "Emmm, I don't know, I just want to talk, is that weird? I'm not really into him" yada yada sure You are not and that's why You want to meet this guy so much. TLDR: if she goes, next her because this 'exception' will happen more often later on.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 12:25 PM
1

Sexual Vibe > Sexual Topic 100% agree, it works much better than talking straight up about sex and how "you are gonna destroy her pussy" etc etc. This can show you as a thirsty, desperate guy which women avoid.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 04:00 PM
1

If she acts like nothing has changed and You are ok with that why would You care?
/r/askTRP16/01/21 02:18 PM
1

Or does she only see me as a friend (don’t think it’s this one because I’ve made my intentions clear + she matched with me on Tinder). Even if she matched with You on tinder it doesn't matter that she can't transform your into one of her orbiters. Ask her out once/twice more and she better propose another date if she declines first try if she will go just with "nah, maybe someday" etc without that it's clear that you are a pen pal which she keeps on hook with "maybe someday we will go on a date"…
/r/askTRP16/01/21 02:11 PM
1

She met him on tinder So You have a 'girlfriend' with active tinder account? Yeah sure it's the best application for finding new 'friends' and it's just so random that all of those friends are attractive males. Oh yeah if forgot there is new popular thing called 'fuck for friendship'. This way girl can fuck with to-be-friend from tinder just to get-to-know each other better :). You know covid times are hard and people are isolated. Your girl probably need some touch and You are 10hr apart from h…
/r/askTRP16/01/21 08:16 AM
1

women can smell desperation and for them it's smells worse than horse shit. Don't be desperate, it won't help.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 07:56 AM
2

Young people now tends to go for social first etc. Many of them treat their number quite private.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 07:54 AM
2

really good response, I would upvote it 10 times if I could. OP read it few times and think about it.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 07:46 AM
2

You cut contact because either you become that friend that is not allowed to touch her (lol) or end up with sexual harassment charges. If she would be really into You, she wouldn't have problem with that.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 07:41 AM
1

From title of your post I expect also that You don't want to go into relationship with her so You want to speed things up. She is not that into You or will make You wait for gods know how long. For sure don't try to force it because it will be 'rapey'. You can hang out with her few more times and see how it goes but if it will stay the same I would next her.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 07:35 AM
4

it's possible that this plate will break soon because she starts to think "what you guys are". Tbh I would probably acknowledge that it's good that she tells You that but wouldn't go deep into starting 'the talk'.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 07:22 AM
2

I’ve never felt this level of despair. this is why I NEED to get her back You let yourself to this point - low smv because You get to comfy with your girl. Learn from your mistakes, move on and improve. After that it will get easier to find new girl that You will be able to develop new and better relationship.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 05:07 PM
12

The easiest way would be to compare how you treat your trash and how do you treat your thing that You care for. Men are treated for their value, if your value is low, You don't have anything to offer so You are treated as trash.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 04:44 PM
5

No
/r/askTRP13/01/21 02:58 PM
2

Should I explain to her that I am actually not texting her so much on purpose so we have stuff to talk about later in the day? Or how should I address it? No, don't explain that. Just be busy and don't answer. If she asks why don't You text her, tell her that You are busy and You guys will talk later.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 02:55 PM
13

There is a 'joke' that goes more like this: Women that don't put out at all are bad Women that are sluts to everyone are even worse but.. Women that are sluts to everyone but not You are the worst.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 02:51 PM
2

she says she loves me. is it a lie? let me correct it she says she loves me NOW. is it a lie? You gotta understand that women will say everything depending on how she feels when she says that. Let me put it that way - Unless You can talk out what happened and correct it (without transforming yourself into her dog) do that, otherwise end it and don't stick with 'crying relationshit'
/r/askTRP11/01/21 09:27 AM
2

aside of saying that she was tired because of relationship suggesting that in her head its already over haven't You tried WHY does she cry for HOURS? But she still wants to leave because I really hurt and hurt him so much in the past. She want to leave because you hurt her or what because I don't understand?
/r/askTRP11/01/21 09:15 AM
1

I agreed we shook hands How about some contract that says how much do you earn for your job? I'm fairly young and office politics seem to play a key part in this job whether you stay employed or get fired. Welcome to 'corporate rat race'. Anyway learn that for EVERYTHING business related You should have a contract, without that You can be always fucked. What is the smart move to get my promised salary and promotions in the future? Really need some solid advice here fellas thank you Hopefully it'…
/r/askTRP10/01/21 08:04 AM
1

Like /u/partyn3xtd00r6 said there aren't any magical words that make her not ghost. It's numbers game, You need to get lucky a bit but You can help yourself by being attractive. Usually You need to feel the ground with girl because some one them will agree straight-away and some of them will need to build some sort of 'comfort' with You to ensure that You are not a rapist.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 03:57 PM
1

Don't ask her with something like "lets do it in X position", lead her to that. If You are lucky enough she will like it a lot and You will be able to repeat that. Most of the time woman in bed want to be leaded, and that's your job. Also I understand her attitude about not filming it. It's dangerous for girl rep. if "somehow" it leaks.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 03:48 PM
1

but if only chads will pass genes some of them will be chadder or even chaddest so it's possible that "today's chad" will be tomorrow's normie.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 02:19 PM
2

Maybe yes but those(who fall into those categories) don't speak. The only ones that care to answer are ones that say "I'm not like this!" etc etc. so it seems that it applies to 100% of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 01:03 PM
1

Just chill and focus on your things because I bet You have something else to do. You gave her option to hang out with You and she refused. Don't ask her 10 times if she wants to hang out. If she will want to do it she will let you know and then You decide if You are still up to this idea.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 11:37 AM
1

If you want to spin for a while - postpone 'talks', if You don't care - drop.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 08:22 AM
3

You gotta understand that women lovebomb You so You stay attached and she feels good not because she wants You to feel good. You feeling good is a 'side effect' of that because men are not used to attention/lovebombing as women are.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 08:21 AM
3

Only this, Don't ever slap a girl because throwback on this will be huge. If she start bombing your phone after that trying to continue drama say that You won't talk/meet her til she calms down.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 08:15 AM
1

unless You are 10/10 male model vag jokes in bio suggest that you are thirsty mf
/r/askTRP08/01/21 02:52 PM
2

Yes it is simping, You pay for nudes/sex videos etc while internet is full of it so first it doesn't make sense from finacial point. Also some of those losers think that if they sub and message girl she will fall for them. (she will fake it to milk some more money from You)
/r/askTRP08/01/21 02:35 PM
5

If You are together for 4 years I wouldn't think about what will happen after next 7 yet because a lot can change.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 08:10 AM
5

By real experience - had a girl that I thought is this 'magic soulmate' and with time I've started to notice more and more things that are bothering me. Before/After I've dated another girls and it was almost the same. Also I tend to think that man is more of "brain" where woman is more of "emotions" and those two often work against each other so there is no way that there is this 'perfect soulmate' out there.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 04:10 PM
2

whether the female will try to get back with me after I left her? Not always but it's possible. When YOU dump girl her ego is hurt so she either get involved into new relationship very quickly and this way cover/heal this 'ego wound' or try to convince You to take her back to prove herself that she is 'good enough'.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 04:05 PM
1

It's probably better to lead her with something like "I'm going to do x, do you want to join?"
/r/askTRP05/01/21 09:44 AM
3

I told her I’ll miss her because I’ll be busy this year and can barely see her, and we both cried. ..... we both cried Those tears of yours made her dry as desert. Get busy with your life, show her that You have something to do and once she understand that your time is valuable she will be happy for time You spend together.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 09:02 AM
2

Coffee is fine but lunch date is not something I'm willing to do with random girl.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 08:39 AM
2

Let me be honest - after 1 date You can't and You shouldn't expect anything. I've heard numerous times about girls going on dates, saying it was great just to ghost next day.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 08:37 AM
4

When people like You, they are more likely to do something for You. Isn't that simple?
/r/askTRP05/01/21 08:29 AM
1

If You are OK to move out accept offer and go with the flow if she start doing something with you, otherwise just say "no thanks, i'm fine there"
/r/askTRP04/01/21 01:59 PM
1

moved in with her final year of college, started fucking her, things got nasty and she told me we should stop what we’re doing and just be friends. Ahh so You've shit where You eat? Classic. Keep it casual friendly without any special treatment to avoid atmosphere getting sour, otherwise You will have to move out and learn from your mistakes horny boy.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 11:16 AM
3

If your main goal is to "stick it" and nothing else it can be done but if You want something more - 100% do not date girls that are not over their exes.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 10:53 AM
2

I don’t really like when a girl still has pictures of her ex on her phone (she said that she still can’t delete them). Usually I would say I don't give a damn because even if she deletes them she can still be starring and his instagram/facebook/whateverelse profile 24/7 but it's already a warning that she is not over him. “I am not ready for a relationship rn because I still have some feelings for my ex” If she is not over him and understand it to this point that she tells You about it, it's obv…
/r/askTRP04/01/21 09:14 AM
3

It drives me nuts when people think that basically EVERYTHING YOU DO in your life is to get into woman's pants. YOU EARN that money for yourself, to be able to do whatever the fuck You want, not to be a living ATM for some girl.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 08:40 AM
44

I’m dating someone and I want to make sure she’s not dating/talking to someone else. What should I do? hmmm... To give you a little bit of a background, we met through Tinder. Before reading everything else - she is talking to at least 10+ guys. She asked me to delete my account and I obliged. But when I asked her to do it, she refused and said she’ll just uninstall the app. So You mean random woman on dating app and instantly do whatever she tells You? Did You transfer your paycheck already? I …
/r/askTRP04/01/21 08:35 AM
3

It's the same - they are going back to market so they are applying maxxxlooking with this 'its new me attitude'
/r/askTRP04/01/21 08:29 AM
1

Exactly that, there is nothing wrong if You are spend like 1-2h playing video game if You managed to do everything that You should have done.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 08:25 PM
2

Languages and soft skills are always viable.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 08:21 PM
3

etc. I just don't know how I'm losing them. Understand that You are probably one of the 20/50/100+ guys that are trying to talk with her. Unless You are a 10/10 male model it will happen and there is not much more that You can do about it. It's a numbers game with some of luck.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 08:21 PM
1

For myself I don't care, I just find it funny in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:47 PM
11

Just like with many addictions first few days are quite hard but later on it becomes much better.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 12:20 PM
6

Too bad that high T often comes with balding so those 2 often cross each outer out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 12:12 PM
2

at this point it have to be 100% troll or mental issues and I wish first for this guy.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 11:12 AM
10

By reading this story it seems that girl is smarter than You and found sugar daddy while you are faking this 'i don't care about her'. She doesn't care about You either. Story is over, move on.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 11:42 AM
1

I've never said it's impossible. It's just harder. I hope that You've tried dating in several countries to say that 'it's not true' without any explanation.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 11:38 AM
4

Maybe eastern European whores see that I'm from America and immediately think I'm rich or whatever This. Both men and women are more attracted to things that are not common. If she swipes 100 guys from her city and 1 that has his location in US, she will be more interested just because of that. It's the same rule as average white male will be more popular in Asia because he will be more 'exotic'
/r/askTRP02/01/21 11:34 AM
-2

Is it actually possible to have plate spinning in the UK? I'm not from UK but 'plate theory' everywhere is a little bit different. For example in USA there is much more sexual freedom than in UK/EAST UT/INDIA ETC. Does it mean that it's impossible to spin plates? No, it's just MUCH harder because there will be more slut shaming etc. It's riskier for woman to sleep around and get marked as a slut. Basically the more they have to lose (reputation is a key) the better You have to be. Sorry man, You…
/r/askTRP02/01/21 11:25 AM
6

We all know there's really successful guys who suck with women and don't get laid. Just because You are ripped, earn 6 figures doesn't mean that You are not socially retarded because socializing is another skill that is required to learn and practice. Also You are a Man, You should lead and that's why You should be confident enough to approach woman and ask her out.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 10:47 AM
25

You can't negotiate attraction or in this case - "You can't buy attraction"
/r/askTRP31/12/20 10:15 AM
3

First of all don't ever expect your girl friends to take your side even if You are right. They are HER friends so they will stick with her and hamster her from everything. As for your friends I guess this 'soft dick' was a joke or your friends sucks so reconsider who You are hanging out.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 12:24 PM
2

I'm only few years older and it shocks me that so many people acutally thinks that being a pro gamer/twitch streamer/youtuber is such wonderfull idea. Those 'jobs' are so fucking top heavy that if You are not 0.5% of best You are probably barely make a living. As for myself I always wanted to try things because I was never a 'super talented' guy. I was good at many things but I've always found someone better than me. Acutally it drives me - getting better at everything so I've went for high sala…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 10:43 AM
2

​ So what are the options? -Jerking off? Personally, I’m not a fan of porn or masturbation. Every time I do it, I feel like lame. -Cheating? I could, easily, but if I got into a LTR it’s because I wanted to, and consciously chose it above plates, so not an option. -Asking for it? I’ve never had to; not fond of the idea. If You don't like jerking off don't do that. It's a dopamine rush which is addicting AF. Cheating is generally bad unless You don't have any moral stance about it. Asking for it …
/r/askTRP30/12/20 10:37 AM
7

asks me "do you think im fucking up my life ?" Is she doing anything to improve/progress with it? If not the answer is Yes, she does. she is 22 and is so sad about not knowing what she like to do in her life as a career or something. That's almost a time when she discovers that she ain't no disney princess and she will have to work for herself and that makes her sad. Playtime is almost over and unless some rich white knight appears she will have to life regular life. (You ain't that rich white k…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 10:21 AM
2

so our fav man BetteClown strikes again with 10 threads about his ex.. My last advice for you - if you are not trolling just look for some professional help because clearly You have some mental problems.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 09:55 AM
3

Or would it be more kind to ‘taper’ down the frequency of contact and try to be there and supportive to them? Especially if you want to eventually be able to be friends. So basically almost like relationship where you (male) still provide validation, support and invest your time to woman while she bangs another dude? Sounds great.... for a woman.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 09:47 AM
1

If it's a plate You do your thing and not care about her being upset.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 09:43 AM
6

Sorry OP but /u/Kanadyan is right there, if she would be that into You she would be blowing your phone 24/7. If she doesn't even start conv once You are just another orbiter
/r/askTRP30/12/20 09:40 AM
1

You deal with it getting a good job that can provide enough for you to move out, even with another flatmate it's not so awkward as it is with parents.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 06:55 PM
1

Don't argue over text, don't apologize for her mood swings. If she will want she will contact You, otherwise she decided that she doesn't want to do anything with You.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 06:50 PM
3

How could she think that you were looking for something more serious when you guys hang out and fuck once-a-week on a weekday? Classic women thinking that if she have sex with you and wants relationship, she should get it rightaway.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 10:39 AM
4

Even if You are ugly You should be maxlooking by doing what I've wrote above. If you will be not taking care of yourself then next to your 'wealth' label there will be 'creep' one as well.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 10:21 AM
4

I'm basically ugly, Start taking care of yourself, workout, keep your hygiene, try to socialize and then with your money it will become much easier.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 10:17 AM
6

If You have to create thread with 4 paragraphs about how bad this chick is it's really obvious that she is auto next.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 03:07 PM
9

Those tests are to prove that You're value is higher than her's so she can rely on You, they keep on doing that forever because as they say "women are born, men are made"
/r/askTRP23/12/20 03:01 PM
2

At this rate I'm not even sure if he is trolling or just very "special"
/r/askTRP23/12/20 09:33 AM
6

For women it's often about 'feelings at the moment' so at this moment he was nice, supportive etc and she felt like she wants someone like that. If she would stick him for a month he would turn into 'boring'. Also why would You care if some female friends of yours sleeps with. It's not your business at all
/r/askTRP23/12/20 09:29 AM
2

Since You are living in UK now I don't think Hindu background and rules are that important BUT it's all up to You. Be a grown man and do in what You believe. If You think it's right to not have sex with her don't do that, if You do - simply follow that. I don't think that red pill have good answer for strict religious rules but as someone who is self aware of his existance and believes You should be able to make a choice by yourself. My piece is that there is nothing like "forever" and even afte…
/r/askTRP22/12/20 04:14 PM
2

That's her pet orbiter for free validation/attention. I've asked her multiple times if that guy knows that we are together and she kept going around with ''Oh, I think he knows...Like, he saw photos of us...''. Most likely she didn't explicitly said "I have a boyfriend" because this guy could see that his chances for getting to her are too low so he would focus his BP shit on another girl so she would lose her pet. and she told me she can talk less to him, and that she does not think he likes he…
/r/askTRP22/12/20 02:18 PM
8

I’m not really that close with the guy anymore and would say my smv is higher for sure. Then it's almost like a stranger. You are 28 so unless You pick up 18-19 y.o there will be always guys that she slept with before You. This one is not a problem. The problem would be if she had gangbang in college. Also think carefully if You want to promote her to LTR. Just because she is doing her job well as FWB doesn't mean that it should be something more.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 02:07 PM
2

if You can't impress her with money You will have to be better at other aspects. Women always wants man to be smarter/stronger/richer etc. They never date down, they only sometimes make an error calculating your value at the beginning.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 10:55 AM
6

Depending on how rich her parents are she may have this attitude of "I don't see price because I'm not paying for it". Because of that it's possible that You will lose SMV once You start talking about money and something like "Hey baby maybe we should get a cheaper hotel because this one is super expensive" At this exact moment she will understand that You will be holding her back from things that she want (and in her mind ofc deserve). In moment's like this your other points have to be on top -…
/r/askTRP22/12/20 09:12 AM
1

That's a really good cocky pressure flip
/r/askTRP22/12/20 08:51 AM
2

Generally I would say don't EVER shit where You eat but if You really want to understand those rules: 1) If it's a workplace make sure that it's not connected to Your desired type of job. example: If you are going to be an Engineer and currently earning some money working at groceries or call center and You can drop it anytime to find another "shit job" it's 'ok' because there is not much to lose 2)Have a backup plan to those places. Wanna hit girls in your gym? Make sure that either there is an…
/r/askTRP22/12/20 08:49 AM
1

Best answer - They just open app and scroll everything without thought and OP is getting horny that some snap thot viewed his photo..
/r/askTRP22/12/20 08:42 AM
2

It's over. She is not interested anymore.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 08:32 AM
1

Algorithms works the same way for female profiles -> You get to see the best ones so You stick to using application.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 06:32 PM
23

If a girl ask You to buy her a drink and after You refusing goes away it means that she wanted a free drink, not your company anyway.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 02:28 PM
4

Let me explain how dating apps works. You create an account, update your profile etc. Are You finished? Great. Let's hit them girls. Since you are new apps algorithms give you 'high score' which is around top 20%-10% of male profiles. Thanks to that even if there is rate 1:8 or 1:10 (men:woman) they are able to see your profile. Now the most important part. Depending on first 10/20/50 swipes of women your score is updated. Generally male model will be attractive so his score will stay as top 20-…
/r/askTRP19/12/20 08:22 AM
29

No. They are attracted because they can get something from that - easy life and status from dating man like that. If a guy is basically a 'Chad' she will be sponsoring him, she will not care if he is unemployed or lives in mommy basement. She will do everything for him and she will be dripping wet everytime she will she him. It will be so deep in her brain that she won't be able to explain why but it will be like that. If You don't believe me try to look for some stories where handsome prisoners…
/r/askTRP19/12/20 07:46 AM
2

Is it worth it being rich/hot/funny etc on social media platforms with the lack of anonymity and mystery that comes with? Generally whatever You are doing if You are really good at it it's worth. For example if You would be a successful instagram influencer with 50k~ it would be 'intersting' for women.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 07:32 AM
3

Everything is fine, just don't text her next day with something like "Hey are you coming over?" "??" "Hey" You gave her option, if she wants she will come and You don't need to tell her that twice.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 07:27 AM
1

Try to invite one of them to some activity, casual talk followed with "im going to do x on y, wanna join?". Let her join but don't let her know that she is the reason why You are doing this. If she agrees to spend some time with You after work then You will be able to see how vibe goes there.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 07:23 AM
1

Because it's free validation for her, free attention. etc. Be cool. Let her miss You so next time You see each other she will be hungry for You. You can do some sexting as warmup 1 day before You come back. Sexting for days is not exciting, I would say it's even boring.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 07:20 AM
4

Depends on how good looking You are.. generally when You are 17 and try to game a little bit older girls they still may see You as 'just a little bigger kid'.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 04:24 PM
2

Just say 'thanks' but don't go for something like 'WOOOW THATS THE THING I WAS DREAMING OF SINCE I WAS 12'.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 04:10 PM
1

aaaaaaand she's gone.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 04:08 PM
1

Well in that case just go out with them when it will be possible and I assure you after 1-2hr You will already be able to predict result of this meeting.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 04:05 PM
1

The problem is that you are 5 hours apart (enough time to kill mood) and You want to trust what women says and I think we've all already learned that listening what woman says is not the best idea, it's always about what is she doing. Personally I would never do a 5hr ride just to 'check'. If those girls would be in my town I would go out with them to have fun but fuck 10hrs of travel to find out that she was just joking around.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 03:58 PM
1

If you keep putting her on pedestral and 'sexting' without her being interested in that soon You will have monogamous gf that: have period 2 weeks/month 3th week she will be tried 4h she will be not in the mood. aaand repeat with You being blue balled by yourself
/r/askTRP18/12/20 03:50 PM
1

I don't see any reason why 2 people that want to have and raise a child can't do that without marriage. Yet I can see reason why marriage can be really dramatic for 1 part(90% cases men) . Care to explain what are advantages of getting married? Because if woman wants to cheat, her being married won't change a SHIT. If she wants divorce and You earn more? How about some alimony for rest of your life and 50% of your current belongings?
/r/askTRP18/12/20 03:46 PM
4

Super Slut with boyfriend - nice LTR material. It's hard to believe how some guys would LTR/Marry any girl that puts out. At least this guy did shame account delete
/r/askTRP18/12/20 03:32 PM
1

If it was first date week may be a little bit too much, 2-3 days would be fine as well. Response? "I'm busy at X, lets meet at Y"
/r/askTRP18/12/20 03:29 PM
7

Technically I would say If You are getting EVERYTHING done - regular work, lift, meeting with your friends it's OK but sometimes You should just tell her that You are busy anyway. She doesn't know everything about what You are doing (and she shouldn't) so in her eyes it looks like You are always waiting for her to ask You to come over.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 03:27 PM
3

If she is 18 You don't have to (and You shouldn't) answer to any questions like this seriously. Always just be cocky-funny which You did this time.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 03:23 PM
3

Usually dates midday are more like 'interview date'. Often after lunch there are also other things to do so You end up not closing date at all. Evening have much better mood for dating - drinks at bar, wine at home etc so You both can relax since there is nothing else that has to be done today.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 09:06 AM
2

Ask her out after christmas but on specific date like lets meet XX place at YY time. This way You lead, show that You may not have time another day.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 08:50 AM
1

First go to good barber and ask what's possible to do with your haircut. Even with thinning hair You can have ok haircut (most of the time short on top and super short/bald sides) but It can look good. Second ALL of medications can slow down/prevent some hair loss but most likely You won't win fight with your genes. The most powerful tool is probably Finasteride but It can cause You much lower libido, problems with erections and gaining fat. Third contact dermatologist and do some checks on your…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 08:41 AM
1

You have your balls in her purse... 1) If the only reason You should not talk with your female friends is because she wants to it's obvious that You keep talking to your friends. 2) Just no. Without explanation because it's just retarded. Woman can do it for her man (as someone else mentioned to feel safe) but not the other way around.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 08:01 AM
1

If you still care about random people's opinion You are still mentally weak. You know what You are doing, You know why You are doing it and Finally YOU know what do YOU want to achieve by doing that. If You still have problems with that imagine that those random people around are like NPC's from games.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 07:46 AM
1

That's an option but I don't think that every guy is able to do 'casual test of 100$ dinner' often.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 07:38 AM
9

It's not your business that she got caught. If she didn't wanted to get caught cheating she should behave like normal person and break up instead of doing it. Please bros I'm kinda shitting my pants here. Worst case scenario her mad bf will kick your ass and your plate will break. What else can I do? Do I respond? What do I respond? "No problem, I've enjoyed it too"
/r/askTRP13/12/20 03:23 PM
3

I like this 'conservative' girl ideology is that having sex at your/her place would be bad but blowing your dick in your car like a highway hooker is fine.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 03:10 PM
3

Best idea is to start doing something without thinking that much, almost always the hardest part is to start.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 03:07 PM
11

Exactly, I don't understand why some women think that first date should be dinner or something else FULLY covered by man. Like damn, we just met and we are total strangers and I'm not giving away my hard earned money to strangers just to talk with them. It's not like I'm not willing to pay for dinner with my Girl, I just don't do that at the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 02:08 PM
5

In the end everyone (and women for sure) care only about end state, not how did You get there. For example she doesn't care If You are a millionaire because You have rich parents and You've been given 50m to 'start your life' or If You've builded your own business for 20 years and reached this status. All she cares that You are rich and she can benefit from it. ​ Having body like a ancient greek demigod? She doesn't care if You have perfect DNA for that and all You've had to do was 20 pushups a …
/r/askTRP13/12/20 10:40 AM
1

Looks like you want to be a dog for her if she will sometimes put out for You. Move on and meet new girls.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 12:25 PM
1

that's some chad marks on her trust me bruh.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 12:13 PM
1

First I'm not sure if she was your 'plate' i You are so worried about her and caught oneities for her but I think she is just checking if you are still attracted to her. Once You fall into her frame again she will smile and be validated. P.S If you somehow managed to not get toxic environment at work after breaking up with her don't fucking go down this road again.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 11:56 AM
1

so you are her orbiter/emotional tampon/'girlfriend'?
/r/askTRP10/12/20 10:55 AM
3

As long as You don't feel bad with it and You are doing 120% of what You should be doing - work,exercise, develop yourself then You can be genuine and give someone some 'free' time of your company.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 10:49 AM
3

The thing is that your male friends most likely will understand You much better because they share much more similar life than your female friend so connection is easier. What man usually want from women? Intimacy and sex - so If a female friend doesn't give that to You she could be easily replaced by male friend. What woman wants from man? Attention, Validation, Money, Help, Intimacy and Sex - Women tend to be more competetive than MEN (this is why there is so many girls that says "I'm just bet…
/r/askTRP10/12/20 10:47 AM
3

Aside of TRP I don't undestand this stupid pard about quarantine (She can leave the house for a few hours on Fridays) Does it mean that the virus is sleeping during those hours and it's impossible to transfer it to someone else? Or is there another reason to be quarantined. About your question: She is bored, have lack of attention etc. Women are addicted to attention and orbiters around so i she is cut from it it's like cutting her away from drugs. What You can do about it? Probably not much, gi…
/r/askTRP10/12/20 10:42 AM
1

Simple "Ok, good luck" or just 'SEEN'. If it's over it doesn't really matter what You say so don't waste Your time. Closure is for women to convince that they did nothing wrong even if they did.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 10:31 AM
1

She is playing with You with the easiest way and it works!
/r/askTRP07/12/20 08:50 AM
1

If she is your LTR and aside of ncount she is providing for You everything You need don't ask. If women likes sex, she will be having sex (and most likely You don't want woman that doesn't want to have sex). Because of that she is could be just choosing which guy she wants to ride today. If You could go to bar/club and pick a girl to sleep with You would be doing it EVERY DAMN TIME - and Woman are in this position so don't expect them not to use it. Fast forward - lets say she has ncount of 20. …
/r/askTRP07/12/20 08:41 AM
2

If she dumped You and have another dude around her cut contact because she is "above you". She monkey branched or even worse felt like You are so bad that she rather be alone (which is fucking nuts for women because 90~% of women I know are jumping from 1 relationship to another within 1 week). Cut contact 100%, in this scenario You will be her plate not the other way.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 08:31 AM
2

Agree - She said that she is 'not a hookup type' then broke her rule. Afterwards she was hit by it and felt like a slut so she ghost you to make all of this never happen for her future Beta Bux
/r/askTRP07/12/20 08:25 AM
14

Yes because they care about their social status. If their partner have a big social circle she can benefit for it as well. ( Almost the same as with money)
/r/askTRP06/12/20 09:59 PM
20

Even if You bust quick don't explain her anything or be sorry - say something like how great she feels that made You cum so quickly, then go play with her while you get ready for round 2. Now because You've explained yourself to her with NNN it looks like You are insecure about yourself I’ve texted her twice after that night, she usually texts back quickly. Double texting because you are insecure after sex. The problem with this girl is that she is always down to meet me and engages well but she…
/r/askTRP06/12/20 09:58 PM
2

As many others I Agree 100%. Nothing is better than doing a girl which wants You so badly.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 09:49 PM
5

I like that - basically If woman wants to cheat she will do it anyway and If you can't let her out of your sight for few hours (give her some trust part ) with her not choking on a dick it's better to find it sooner than later ( this is verify part )
/r/askTRP06/12/20 09:44 PM
8

Remember that You will have to stick with yourself for whole life while women will come and go (because of various reasons) so always be a little bit selfish. Don't focus your world around any woman, have her to be part of your life, not everything. This way You can manage to have limited trust and power/self esteem to know that if she leaves anytime You will be fine because You have your own goals/missions to complete.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 08:48 AM
4

The thing is that back then people was starting family earlier. Now women tend to 'explore themself' and 'have fun' (which in both cases means getting dicked). Also 10 years is a LOT of time. Average/Slight Above Average girl is able to go to bar every weekend and go back home with another stud and that would be like 95% success. Now lets say imagined 30 y.o 7/10 have ncount of 50. Let say You are n51. Do you really feel special? Do You thing that she finds You that different than those 50 guys …
/r/askTRP06/12/20 08:38 AM
8

You leave this chat and tell her that You are not interested in her kid. Explain that your 'relationship' is between You and Her not You and Her + her kid If she get pissed about it just cut contact with her which shouldn't be problem since You are already dried up with her.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 08:19 AM
4

Should I worry / do something? You made mistake by taking your plate (or more like GF) to your friends. Any tips on how to act in the birthday party? Natural, You are with your friends. Any tips on how to overcome this anxiety I'm feeling would be appreciated If your SMV is high enough for her she will stay with you regardless what she can find from your female friends. If not learn the lesson from point 1.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 02:42 PM
4

Anyway, what’s a good move here to kinda keep the sexual tension alive? Don't text too much so You won't dry her pussy. Keeping sexual tension over text/phone is possible but only at short period of time e.g You start building atmosphere during the day for evening meeting. If You have much more SMV than She does She will stick with You, if not well...
/r/askTRP05/12/20 02:35 PM
1

Hot chicks actually are quite bitches because THEY know they can get away with being bitch because their are pretty. I like this sentence -> "It's really good if woman is beautiful but it's really bad if she knows it"
/r/askTRP05/12/20 09:16 AM
1

Apparently if woman have tattoo She must have suffered something or is crazy. From my experience most of them are just following trends in western countries and have those stars/hearts/something super common and it's not a problem.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 09:11 AM
1

It's normal to feel drained after few nuts. No worries. Don't waste your all energy on fucking.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 08:38 AM
2

Everybody is different libido. Exactly that. Depending on the mood/health/time of the year and probably like 100 other reasons I sometimes want to do it 3 times a day and sometimes 1-2 times a week. Libido is not static and some men naturally have it lower than others (Which is not that bad because the worst thing is being unable to focus on something important just because You want to stick it in)
/r/askTRP05/12/20 08:31 AM
1

If You can't cut feeling from EX don't be FWB with her. Might be harsh but You are too weak/emotional for that, move on.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 08:26 AM
1

As much as I agree I don't have a clue how meditating is suppose to make someone more interesting. Does he have to brag about it? Meditation is more to hear yourself and clear your mind, it's for yourself while being boring/fun is for social life
/r/askTRP05/12/20 08:24 AM
1

First of all - why do YOU want her to be jealous? Do you need some extra validation from her or what?
/r/askTRP03/12/20 09:33 PM
1

She outright is saying she is physically attracted to me, so is there a potential for FWB? And if so, how do I respond to that? First of all it's not potential FWB. It's potential hookup. Second - Do something exciting that does not involve getting drunk. Women love emotions and alcohol makes emotion stronger so if You tingle her right without it she will be good to go.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 09:25 PM
1

So technically RedPill is against social media but like many other things it can be used but there is a catch. You have to be really good at it which means - high follower count, cool photos etc. If you manage to do that it creates image of You as popular/handsome/cool person. This way woman see that you are already 'approved' by other people so she is more interested in You. Bad part is that it takes time to manage socials and it can be used much better than trying to fish for likes.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 09:01 AM
3

You can attract them (because they will think that You are mysterious) but once they find out that you are not doing anything interesting they will leave You. Pick up some hobby, think about what you've always wanted to try and simply try it, if its not for You try something else.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 08:53 AM
2

99% You have your eyes covered by pussy, once You get another girl You will forget about this one
/r/askTRP01/12/20 08:50 AM
2

Then read what /u/psypD wrote again.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 08:49 AM
4

15 red flags vs 3 green so I guess it's obvious.... plate or hard next.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 08:45 AM
1

So if she is full of feminist ideology first of all DON'T get her pregnant. IF your ideologies about life are so different this relationship won't stand so stay for a while if she is fun aside of this but be ready to press EXIT button.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 08:30 AM
2

+ the most important thing is always to improve because 'hoes will come and go'
/r/askTRP30/11/20 08:21 AM
5

How about nice thing called.. DON'T SHIT WHERE YOU EAT You've fucked up dating girl from your work at the first place. If You are not willing to drop job DON'T date co-worker. You did that so either you change your job or eat this shit. If you want to somehow manage this situation be as neutral/boring as it's possible. Don't be passive aggressive with something like 'are you gonna cry'. Treat her like any other co-worker so just say Hi, How are you (you are always good because co-workers don't g…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 08:16 AM
1

Yes, it's basic thing - If your SMV is high enough woman knows that you have other options open so she asks you for being exclusive, then it's up You to decide.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 06:38 PM
2

This is really good example OP, read it and try to understand it even if you are autistic.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 06:25 PM
1

First of all You did not said if its about LTR/plate or random girl You know so.. Should I call her on her slutty moments? If it's your LTR and she sends pictures to other guys You already know that this is not LTR material, demote to plate or burn this bridge, You don't want to be cucked. If she is a plate You don't care and don't tell her she is a slut even if she is. At this point You've would broke this plate by rubbing truth in her face. If it's a random girl that is not connected to You at…
/r/askTRP29/11/20 06:23 PM
6

I’m at the mall or somewhere in person I’ll get a Snapchat’s 9+ they never open my message but always the first to watch my stories They are playing on their phones 24/7 so they are watching all stories, not only yours.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 06:15 PM
3

If You are not happy with this relationship just break it. ​ She always had a fear that I will leave her and even cried several times thinking that her bad actions made me mad and make me love her less. And she always told me not to leave her, etc. Insecure 101 but it's not your problem, You are not her savior or anyone who is responsible for her happiness. ​ I fear that she will be in depression which will affect these exams or even worse, she will hurt herself. If she is willing to hurt hersel…
/r/askTRP29/11/20 06:13 PM
2

Well user /u/day2right put it hard way but it's kinda true... Don't get involved with coworker (especially on her 'bad period') if you are not willing to drop this job the next day. If anything happens she can always blame you that you've used her 'bad moment' and forced her to do something or made her uncomfortable. If she cheats with You, she will cheat on You. Being nice and supportive doesn't get you laid. You are being used as emotional tampon and support. Sexual desire doesn't work this wa…
/r/askTRP29/11/20 12:10 PM
2

perfect 1 liner sum up.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 11:51 AM
2

If she is a plate You simply don't care. You've had your fun, time to move on.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 11:50 AM
6

She tries to count your money/income by your belongings and then decide if she wants to 'fall for you'. Answer that you are not looking at lables, just whatever suits you best.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 11:47 AM
5

By getting low SMV man those women are doing 'safe pick' so they don't have to compete with other women. high SMV men have A LOT of options because there is not that many of them.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 11:45 AM
0

If you are more masculine some guys wants to fight You because they are looking for a challenge so it's good to pickup martial arts to feel more confident.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 08:14 AM
1

If you count empathy they have from Themself.. yeah You could said that.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 06:45 PM
2

Any advice how I should apply plate theory here? As someone who comes from middle/east EU I can say that It's really hard to spin plates here because most of girls want to be exclusive really fast even without talk because it's natural there. The key there is either to avoid "the talk" and not mention that You are seeing other girls or "put your cards on the table" and let girl decide if she deals with it or not. Option 2 can be applied after first hookup but it may be dangerous for your reputat…
/r/askTRP23/11/20 06:44 PM
8

Hang out with her at your place and try to escalate, if you end up hooking up and she will enjoy that she will come for more.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 10:31 AM
1

Don't focus your life on women because they come and they go. Focus on yourself because You will have to be with yourself to the day You die. This is why You should always think about improving yourself and doing what's the best for you.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 09:20 AM
1

If she reaches You and try then You can think about it, otherwise don't even think about it, You are already in her dumpster.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 09:10 AM
3

Well shit is done already but I would suggest just treating her like every other co-worker which means do what is needed with her when it comes to work, have a bullshit small-talk if you meet her in elevator or at coffee (by accident, don't ask her to get it together) and don't be butthurt over it.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 09:02 AM
1

It could be that this birth control is not good for her and causes lack of desire, maybe she should drop it completely or review it with doctor. (Remember that even if she is on birth control you should always wrap it because if she misses pill and she end up pregnant You will be fucked). I've understand part about attention - Yes, hang out with other females and get her hamster spinning, You don't have to have sex with those women but You have to make your LTR believe that those women would lik…
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:34 AM
1

Exactly this, Girl wants OP's validation that she is attractive, once OP will fall into her plays she will settle him as another orbiter
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:24 AM
2

First of all try to set up meeting as soon as possible - before that You are just one of 100+ guys she got matched and can choose anytime. It doesn't matter if You set up date via tinder or whatsapp, who cares - just meet in person instead of texting 3 weeks.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:11 AM
2

Meet her, have fun and see how it goes but don't overthink about LTR. Generally If she will find you attractive she may be sticking with you for a while but around this age girls start to look at what you can offer aisde of good looks.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:06 AM
1

Exactly this, cut contact and move on with your life. Invest your time in something else than being emotional support to your ex.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 04:27 PM
1

You are tall, that's good because there are no exercises for your height but You gotta pump some muscles man. You must be extremely skinny.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 04:19 PM
7

it’s her birth control, Did she just started to take it and then her sex drive dropped or it dropped randomly after a year being on birth control? It can happen that when she is on birth control her hormones tells her she can't have baby therefore her inner sex drive is super low. ​ she didn’t want to have for 5 months Unless You both are like 60y.o it doesn't happen if she is attracted to You. Other option would be only heavy depression. ​ My issue is that on the sparse occasions when we do hav…
/r/askTRP20/11/20 04:15 PM
10

I see it in 2 ways. 1) Better option for real man - Ask her to move out because You need your space back to work and so on. If she flips on You about it just say that You've never said to her that she can move it, You just didn't told her to leave when it was ok for You if she stays and now it's not. 2) If you are not owner of this place tell her that landlord want more money for this place because there is another person living there which means You are using more energy/water etc. but I wouldn…
/r/askTRP20/11/20 04:00 PM
2

With 70/30 M/F ratio they are getting validation all the time, same goes for attention so don't get to friendly they already have upper hand. When they ask for your help (about work stuff) it's up to You if You have time, sure it's good to be helpful, if not just say that you are busy. When it comes to work You shouldn't even care if female coworker is hot or not, just if she is decent person.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 09:27 AM
1

You can meet with other girl to ensure your LTR that You have options so she have to behave. Women love when their partner is really wanted by other women because that's validation and 'social status'.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 09:14 AM
1

It's normal but You can't change it anymore so You should let it go. My overall advice is try to not worry about things You can't change/control.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 09:08 AM
6

Improve yourself and find someone new. You already know that she will be boring for you over time.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 09:04 AM
1

Fuck you know what it’s probably cause I’m not talking to anyone else. Probably truth, if You can't get into with other girls find something to do - if you are not busy it means that You either don't have any ambition to do something productive or you are boring and women hate both of it.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 08:41 AM
3

Let him brag about it and if You are bored with that just say something "yeah, you've told us already", no need to be offensive about that.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 08:18 AM
31

It's possible that you've seemed strong so her dad recognized that is daughter won't be in control of this relationship. It may sound weird but dads often wants betabux's for their daughters so: 1) If You are BB, He still can be familiy alpha 2) if you re BB, His daughter can play with You as she wants either be happy with what You provide or find another man. You have to understand that father of your Girl doesn't give a shit about You, all he cares is his daughter and with you being strong it …
/r/askTRP17/11/20 08:14 AM
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