Slept with girl on first date and dated for 4 months. Never stay the night. Dating other women casually but slowly considering her my main because we have a good connection. About to go on vacation. Girl invites me over more often. Asks me to come over every other day before I go on vacation. We'd never seen each other more than once in a week but I'm starting to really enjoy spending time with this girl so I do. We fuck a lot. 2-3 times a night and then 5 or 6 times the last night we see each other.

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Waited a week then texted her that I dreamt about her the night before. She asks about the dream but I turn it into push/pull and tease her with an inside joke about her underwear being cute so I knew I was dreaming. Text back and forth a few more times until I feel like I'm telling her too much about me and stop. It's starting to feel relationshipy... Thinking about her a lot more than I am comfortable with.

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Our most recent text exchange:

Her: Merry Christmas!!

Next Day

Me: Merry belated Christmas! Lost my phone...

Her: You lost your phone?? I'm sorry. I'm excited to see you again once the holidays are all over...

Me: Yeah, lost it in the Christmas chaos and it just reappeared. I'm excited too. What's next week look like for you?

Her: I think I'm only working 3 days next week... Might be going to (nearby city) for a few days. When you back?

Me: Right on. I'm back late monday night.

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That was 9 days ago and haven't heard back from her. Might be psyching myself out here but I feel like she's purposely being vague about her availability and hasn't reached out in order to get me to chase. I feel like if I initiate then she'll see she's "Got Me" and lose interest. Should I soft next and wait for her to re-initiate or should I pursue and try to set a date?