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Neemdor/r/askTRP15/08/19 03:50 PM
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Outer Game Neemdor/r/seduction26/02/22 07:43 AM
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Teasing and joking
/r/seduction01/03/22 07:58 AM
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Paradox of life
/r/seduction01/03/22 07:57 AM
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it’s a good punch line though
/r/seduction01/03/22 07:54 AM
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Netflix & Chill
/r/seduction01/03/22 07:52 AM
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Card or board game
/r/seduction27/02/22 09:38 PM
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My name is Bond. James Bond.
/r/seduction23/02/22 07:30 AM
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I‘m in favor of keeping things vague-ish. Like in a poker game. Hide your intentions to build tensions. Convey your sexual desire through light teasing / generally speaking about sex, but do not declare your love and affection for her upfront and right away. Why would you declare your love and affection for someone you barely know? Being too straight forward takes out all the fun and makes you look needy and thirsty. Being vague-ish makes you look interesting and intriguing. Also, watch out the …
/r/seduction27/04/20 10:48 PM
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Gr8 analogy!
/r/askTRP17/04/20 11:18 AM
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😂
/r/askTRP27/03/20 08:59 PM
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You already know the answer
/r/askTRP07/12/19 01:24 PM
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Hitting on another girl
/r/askTRP08/09/19 10:05 PM
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Or you could just say “hell no”. Don’t be afraid to refuse.
/r/MGTOW12/06/19 02:47 PM
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If there’s a will, there’s a way
/r/askTRP10/06/19 11:37 AM
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“And I have a girlfriend”
/r/askTRP10/06/19 09:46 AM
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I’ve been feeling the same way lately, so I’ve started developing social independence, meaning developing hobbies, interests and goals of my own and enjoying myself company. You might meet people who share the same interests, hobbies and goals as you. I believe that strong connections and bonds are built on mutual hobbies, interests and goals. Good luck mate.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 07:30 AM
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Never say it. It’s too needy and desperate. Instead, Start acting hard to get. Start being less available to her. Start cultivating other options with other girls. Make her chase you. Make her initiate sex with you in hope to get you back. Sex is currency in exchange for attention and commitment. never give it easily.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 01:05 PM
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Regardless of age, 3 months is definitely not LTR.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 12:58 PM
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This.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 12:54 PM
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You can reply to her with a defensive attitude. I find it useful sometimes. Examples: How do you know what I want? Can you read my mind?
/r/askTRP02/06/19 11:32 AM
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Basically she tests your frame, confidence and independence.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 11:25 PM
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“I have the right to remain silent” “I don’t kiss and tell” “Maybe” “Perhaps” “Ladies first” “Irrelevant” “Why are you asking?” “It’s too soon for that question” “I’ll tell you if you tell me” P.S: I like to keep it mysterious and vague.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 11:16 PM
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“Im sorry for your jealousy”
/r/askTRP12/02/19 09:12 PM
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Don’t bother setting up another date. Either she initiates it and you set your own terms for it (aka place, time and activity), or no date at all.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 05:52 PM
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“I like your boobs. It remind me of photoshop”
/r/askTRP10/02/19 09:22 AM
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“Thanks”
/r/askTRP04/02/19 05:12 PM
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Make a plan b if things aren’t going the way you planned or cancel the whole trip. Anyway release any expectations towards her.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 04:37 PM
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I think you shouldn’t deny nor approve her accusation. You should reply with something neutral like: “if you say so” or “if you think so”. Getting into an argument with her is getting into her frame. That’s obviously a shit-test to test your frame.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 09:43 PM
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I want Sex
/r/askTRP29/01/19 10:07 AM
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A good response would be: “good 4 u”.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 09:47 AM
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Return to the Sidebar ASAP
/r/askTRP28/01/19 11:12 PM
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Focus on your fun, not hers. Be fun and funny (for yourself). Maintain outcome independence. Show general independence. Escalate if possible, without any pressure.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 08:59 AM
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But in your post you said you already stopped giving her attention.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 08:48 AM
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If she asks what happened to you two, you could tell her you were busy with your studying. If she’s still you’re crush, you shouldn’t be friends with her. Have you tried to hookup with her?
/r/askTRP27/01/19 08:27 AM
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Avoid suggesting or offering him anything. Focus on yourself and do whatever is right for you.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 01:59 PM
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Stop telling jokes if it makes you laugh unwillingly
/r/askTRP25/01/19 01:56 PM
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I’d answer sincerely. Authenticity is Frame. In my opinion.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 01:51 PM
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Developing hobbies
/r/askTRP24/01/19 10:51 PM
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Apply late replies to her too and stop initiating contacts with her. If she’s into you she’d contact you and make plans with you. That’s part of maintaining Frame.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 09:42 PM
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“You know the answer”
/r/askTRP21/01/19 03:01 PM
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Maybe he is a thirsty 12 years old who has never seen a pussy before
/r/askTRP21/01/19 02:59 PM
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Why does it bother you? You do you what you want and she does what she wants. End of story.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 08:22 PM
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Try acting indifferent and cool
/r/askTRP19/01/19 08:18 PM
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Sounds like you’ve developed feelings for her, so either you tell her how you feel and hope she feels the same, or you ignore those feelings and keep it as usual and casual, or you cut it off immediately.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 01:50 PM
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Sounds like she’s still not over her ex. Let her go or downgrade her to a plate. if she can’t promise nothing will happen, so can’t you.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 01:37 PM
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Try staying sober
/r/askTRP13/01/19 07:34 AM
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Be more specific please
/r/askTRP12/01/19 10:02 PM
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Who is “we”?
/r/askTRP12/01/19 09:58 PM
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Define “every once in a while”
/r/askTRP12/01/19 09:55 PM
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Deny
/r/askTRP11/01/19 06:39 AM
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Reply with 👍🏻
/r/askTRP10/01/19 04:05 PM
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Try staying passive and responsive when interacting with them, not active and initiative. That way you’d show more independence and freedom of expectations from them.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 01:40 PM
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Try being indifferent and neutral about it and see how she reacts
/r/askTRP10/01/19 11:32 AM
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Are you needy with attractive women only or with unattractive women too?
/r/askTRP10/01/19 11:22 AM
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It would help if you speak specifically
/r/askTRP09/01/19 02:38 PM
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Alfa males do whatever they want to without any fear of them being judged or criticized. Be authentic and true to yourself and do whatever you want to. You’d make way better impression doing so.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 02:36 PM
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“We are humans”
/r/askTRP08/01/19 07:52 AM
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I’d ask her what does she mean
/r/askTRP08/01/19 07:39 AM
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Regarding her wish to go to Starbucks, you could have told her she could go by herself if she wishes to, but you rather stay at home. It’s way cooler to refuse an offer elegantly and do as you wish, and at the same time let the other one do as he/she wishes. Regarding her request that you close all the doors in her family’s house quietly cos some of her family members are asleep, that sounds very legit. In that case you should have been more considerate. Being an Alfa doesn’t mean dictating your…
/r/askTRP08/01/19 07:32 AM
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Just move on and Next her. Don't overthink or analyse it. You can't really know what's going through her mind. Do not develop oneitis. Just move on.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 12:34 PM
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Write down some TRP ground rules for yourself and stick to it
/r/askTRP07/01/19 12:19 PM
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until you get bored
/r/askTRP07/01/19 12:07 PM
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Let’s agree to disagree
/r/askTRP07/01/19 08:30 AM
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Just be authentic and don’t overthink this matter. You will show more confidence by being authentic.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 01:05 AM
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Keep chatting with her but don’t ask her out again. Wait until she asks you out, but don’t answer yes too quickly. Keep her intrigued.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 12:59 AM
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I‘d initiate a contact one last time in order to check if she still got any interest left. I’d just mention a time when I’m available for hanging out, sort of an open invitation without any expectation. her response or no response would indicate her interest or loss of interest.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 12:53 AM
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If you downgrade her status from LTR to plate you would maintain frame more easily. You would care less about her drama scenes and could avoid it easily.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 12:36 AM
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Some women are more into rich men, some women are more into handsome men, some women are more into funny men, some women are more into sophisticated men, some women are more into gentlemen, some women are more into muscular men, some women are more into famous men, etc. Focus on improving yourself at the right aspects for you, and the rest will follow.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 12:27 AM
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That's actually not a bad idea. Set your terms for your ideal relationship. Just like negotiating a deal. I actually think romantic relationships are kind of literal deals.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 12:21 PM
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In order to not come out as needy for sex, you should increase your SMV by flirting and hanging out with other women, whether it's under romantically or friendly circumstances. Sex is currency for love / attention / affection. The higher your SMV, the higher the worth of your love / attention / affection, thus the greater the sex you get in exchange for it.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 12:13 PM
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Do not commit to any girl before she is willing to commit to you. Keep plating until that happens. Stay in the game and stay hard to get. That is my opinion.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 11:34 AM
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I'd go with honesty
/r/askTRP06/01/19 11:25 AM
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try tracking your rehabilitation process with a calendar or a diary
/r/askTRP06/01/19 11:15 AM
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It doesn't matter what a girl thinks, it matters what you think. Don't overthink this matter.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 11:10 AM
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Do whatever you wish to do or feel like doing. Be loyal to yourself first and foremost. Her expectations shouldn’t be at your concern at all. They belong to her, not to you. If you do not wish to commit to her, do not commit to her. Be authentic and honest with yourself and with her, and whatever will be will be. If she brings up the exclusivity issue, you can just tell her you’re not ready yet or not too pleased with her yet. you can also tell her the exact things about her that bother you. Pay…
/r/askTRP06/01/19 11:06 AM
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I think you should act the way you feel like at that exact moment when you see her. If you feel like ignoring her, ignore her. If you feel like saying hi to her, say hi to her. It’s up to you.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 11:10 PM
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As I see it, as long as she flirts with other guys, especially around you, it means you two are far from being exclusive, and you should keep her as a plate. You do what’s best for you. Her pushing for an LTR with you is her goal, not yours. You should keep it the way it works for you, if it means keeping her as a plate, so be it.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 11:02 PM
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This
/r/askTRP05/01/19 10:39 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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