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[–]SarsaparillaCorona2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You're grossly inexperienced, the problem is that unlike most new people here, you actually have success, and therefore can be put into a situation where red pill knowledge is too far out of your reach.
I've done the same thing as you, found a girl after a short time on TRP, fell in 'love', got my shit kicked in, I wouldn't take it back because it was an excellent learning experience for me, but I wouldn't do it again.
I'd recommend going and reading 'Men in love' and 'Women in love' on Rollo's site, but I'll sum up the core meaning.
Men experience 2 types of love, Protective Love and Respectful love. Protective love is the love your mother and father give you, it's the love that tells you everything is okay, that you're a good person, it doesn't care about flaws or weakness, it wants you to be the best you can be.
Respectful love, on the other hand, doesn't forgive and doesn't forget, it doesn't care that you had a bad day, or that you aren't feeling up to it, because respectful love is a love based off the fact you aren't any of those things, it's the reason why women say they 'feel like the most important girl in the world' or 'they can't even think when they're around them', it's a love given out of respect for the person providing protective love, and unlike your mother, respectful love will stop if you stop giving out protective love.
This is why relationships fail to start or cease to exist, the man does not know how to give out and continue to give out respectful love, or they want protective love, love they'll never get from a woman. It's also why men actually love more than women, sure, women fall in love easier, but men give it out harder and with less protection.
That's why relationships are TRP on hard mode, you have to constantly and reliably give out protective love, something that is difficult if you don't know how to run a tight ship, or if the partner you chose isn't capable of giving you the respectful love you desire.
It's entirely up to you wether or not you pursue 'love', but if you do, make sure it's earned (Women will give out respectful love easily if they think you are able of giving out protective love) and make sure what you give out is always met with respect and not taken for granted.
[–]9600ronse4 points 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I realise I have a lot more to learn and I probably shouldn't settle for someone after 2 dates.
Thank you for the extensive reply.
[–]staple_this0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh my god! You're gasp getting feelings?
... Getting feelings is normal, putting anyone on a pedestal is not. I mean, have fun with the sex and making out, but good luck if you think it'll turn into anything meaningful and fulfilling if you only think of women as fuckholes.
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