ill make it short,writing a girl for 2 days

was suppose to go on a date today, she found out that i live far so she said lets not do it today and game me other options and asked if that is ok

i responded:not really ok, but i will let it slide, you have to make it up to me

-- i felt she took it hard , so i did a beta thing and told her (after half an hour(, i guess i still going to boss you around a bit , but ill do it once day maximum, ill see you later ( i bossed her around yesterday i dont think she liked it)

she responded immediately alright great goodnight

did i fail the shit test?, should i not write the first or second message? any tips what to do tomorrow? (its very late now)