Did I fuck it up?

TheStumblingWolf · 2017-11-16T14:41:55+00:00

Don't consider it a fuckup, consider it a lesson. Calling it a fuckup is an incredibly negative way of looking at it and it'll only hinder you. Think about it - next time you're in a similar situation there's a significantly smaller chance you'll handle yourself the same way.

In time you'll be confident enough to listen to what your subconscious tells you. The way I see it when we have these hunches it's usually a result of your subconscious having picked up subtle hints.

redhawkes · 2017-11-16T14:59:32+00:00

Just remember this:

Always be escalating

As for the escalation part, don't sweat it that much it'll feel awkward at first.

Put your hand around the small of her back as you walk.

Make deep eye contact with her and start making out.

Grab her ass, then move your hand and grab her boob. Put your hand under her shirt and continue.

Then move your hand towards her inner thighs and start rubbing. You can sense the tingles from there on. Rub her pussy thru pants, if she doesn't resist put your hand inside and continue.

Remove her shirt, then yours, then her bra etc. and the most important thing you should remember is to make it your fault, meaning you lead she follows. That will prevent you from triggering ASD.

As for ASD/LMR two steps forward, one backward rinse, repeat.

If there's asd/lmr after 3-4 attempts, remove attention/affection and go do something else.

My question to you guys, did I really fuck it up or and how do I recover?

Maybe.

Text her for logistics after 3-4 days, if she doesn't respond or if she gives you excuse and don't reschedule, next.

coloredzebra · 2017-11-16T14:35:48+00:00

I'll just say this, women can smell the hesitation, at least in my experience. When they do, it's equivalent to us downgrading a main, to a plate.

Meaning, they no longer see you as the strong assertive frame which they thought. You may have lost a couple pointers, although it depends on how attracted she is to you.

jtmazari · 2017-11-17T00:29:54+00:00

Learn from it, not much to it. If she puts herself in the situation then she definitely wants to have sex with you. How old are you?

Title	Did I fuck it up?
Author	ChadThundercockII
Upvotes	3
Comments	12
Date	November 16, 2017 2:30 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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