Still learning TRP so could use some insight.

Went out for this girl’s birthday (we’ll call her Jennifer) with a group of four of us. Went to some rooftop bar. Stayed until 4AM and had a few drinks/me. Hooking up with her was inevitable since the most recent two times we hung out, I escalated each time but never lead to sex (group settings).

Afterwards all of us head back to one of the people in our group’s apartment. The person who’s apartment we go back to is also one of her best friends. The other guy in our group is married and only came back to eat with us. He leaves soon after so it’s down to just us three sitting in the living room with the TV on.

Jennifer and I have our own couch and her best friend is alone on hers (her boyfriend was out of town). Jennifer and I immediately start hooking up, making out, and the other girl leaves us to do our thing.

When we get to the point of fucking, I for the life of me couldn’t get hard. If I did it was brief and half assed. Jennifer has a bangin body, nice ass, pretty fit, and tits are nice sized too but could be a little bigger but I’m more of an ass guy. I ate her out and she came. But when it came to getting a blowjob and fucking her I couldn’t get hard! I was embarrassed but I didn’t show it.

She was polite about it though and asked me if it was because of the drinking we did. I told her probably, let’s just try again in the morning. So we stopped, and cuddled the rest of the night.

Morning came, I was finally able to get hard with the slightest motivation... and we fucked raw for a good amount of time. Finished off in her mouth and she swallowed my cum like a good girl.

To be honest I think I had too many drinks in me. And I felt bad because she asked me if I was into her at all to which I replied of course I am. But the sex in the morning made up for it.

Asked her if she wanted to hang out Friday but she has work. So I countered with what about the Friday after? She instead suggested this coming Thursday after I get off work. I told her I might be too tired I’ll see how I feel and let her know. The truth is I’m broke right now because of unexpected expenses, so I want to save money. At least Friday I’ll get paid and have a little to spend.

Did I handle the “not be able” to get hard part okay? I didn’t admit guilt or embarrassment, or apologize in any sort of manner. I simply said let’s try later in the morning, it’s 5:30AM right now and get some sleep. We also stepped out for a cigarette before going to sleep and talked a little bit but nothing on what just happened. Is it normal to not get hard sometimes after a night of drinking then leading to sex?

TL;DR: Couldn’t get hard for this girl I like because I drank. What are some good ways of dealing with that and not making it weird?