Yesterday me and my gf had some active time meeting with her friends. She got pissed couse of some girl related problem (which was totally not my fault). Started being irritating and threw minor disrespecting behavior towards me (like accusing me of that fault, bitching about that.

We had plans together later that night, but i told myself i'm a man and i won't tolerate shit like this. As soon as we left from friends i told her i changed my plans and i'm going to home alone. Here's the part i feel like i slipped - as she started to cry and telling me that she wants to go with me and asking why i changed the plan and if i'm angry at her, i threw something along the lines that i need to get up early and shit.

I'm really proud of myself and i honestly feel like i'm bragging right now, but one thing confuses me - i have a gut feeling that it would be more efficient if i replied straight up that i don't like and i won't tolerate bahavior like that.

What do you guys think?