Not completely uncharted territory for me. However, every one that I’ve had involved the girl doing the leg work through and through. I showed up and pulled my pants down.

The girl, that after 3 years as a plate has now turned LTR, I am seeing wants her first one. But, she is not good at getting it done and closed out. No idea what she is doing, so it’s on me.

We were at a party. We had 2 girls picked out. 1 became out of the question, the other was right there with us. I got them isolated. However, 2 things happened. When I began flirting and smacking the girls ass, she didn’t have much of a reaction other than confusion. And 2, she didn’t get it. She didn’t understand that the girl I was with (they know each other from other casual setting but not close enough to even have each other’s cell phone numbers for example) was cool with it, and that we both wanted to fuck her.

Basically, I dropped the ball and didn’t execute correctly. The girl began to annoy us both talking about how she is attracted to the cousin of the girl I am seeing.

What can I do next time? I was on the verge of grabbing the girl and making out with her in front of my girl (wasn’t sure if this would of been too aggressive and upfront considering I had my girl with me) or straight up saying it (which I know action is always 100 times better so I didn’t).

It’s clear the girl with me wants this and will do and go with whatever I want (anything goes), but what is the best execution for this scenario that will likely yield the best result? Thanks.