Differentiating between powerful gut feeling and so called delusional paranoia

fuzzyface1980 · 2016-06-01T08:30:50+00:00

http://www.sharischreiber.com/articles.html

Learn, apply to yourself, internalize, see that predictive patterns and decide for yourself. Perhaps she's a cheat. Perhaps you are living in your own fears. Perhaps it's both.

Read the article dealing with Waifs as it clearly shows why some people give mixed messages. Then look at how you are perceiving them.

Basically, become self-aware. Because most people are fucking not aware of shit.

quicklogaccount · 2016-06-01T13:21:54+00:00

There's some stuff to bear in mind about "gut":
1 - It is an heuristic we have guided towards PREVENTING catastrophic damage. It doesn't matter you stick your hand in an empty hole most of the times or pick a rabbit from it 50% of the times. One snake bite and you're dead, you genes didn't move on and the guys that had gut feelings passed on their genes and wisdom. You have a gut feeling she is cheating? It doesn't matter you are wrong 90% of the times, if you marry a slut you're done for.
2 - We program it, through experiences and observation. Usually when we are used to a given hazardous environment we have gut feelings when there is something odd about it. But we do it with women too, and we have reasons for it (we usually end up giving the relationship an undue responsibility in our welfare).

So, the thing is, gut feelings and "paranoia" are the same. If you are having gut feelings DESPITE THE FACT EVIDENCE SUGGESTS OTHERWISE, you have paranoia without quotes, but that's rare. When it comes to random gut feelings, you can either hear it and play it safe (mainly if the damage for hearing it is small and assuming you're a well adjusted person) or you can dig it to see the causes, it usually offers you way better insight.

ecosci · 2016-06-02T03:05:58+00:00

Sometimes its just low self esteem but always watch her actions and body language never pay attention to what she says but if shes not initiating sex she is looking for alpha d*ck or is already cheating but stay cool you have plenty of options she doesnt have the only vag in town.

Title	Differentiating between powerful gut feeling and so called delusional paranoia
Author	goingright32
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Date	June 1, 2016 7:35 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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