If you were a very high smv male who met a woman who was had one higher than yours. Who appears to be smarter than you, more logical, and driven. Who is really like an alpha male in an attractive woman's body, would you date her?

As far as I can tell she is emotionless. I don't know if it's nerves (wishful thinking), or if she really just can't feel. She has smiled and laughed at things, but who knows if it was even real. She appears to have total control over herself and surroundings.

She asks me what i want to drink and then buys it. I'd put up a resistance to that but I figure that'd make me look insecure.

Most girls get frustrated with me because I'm cold and emotionless, now i've met someone more than me who is actually like me. For all I know it is a dude with a woman's suit.

The big problem is currently last night and tonight is us dating (tonight will be the second) and the dating is bar/dance hopping while among her gf's and my friends. This is very hard to navigate. If i'm with her, her friends dissipate, and then she makes her way over to them like a slow panther. And I woudn't worry about keeping distance and not getting to know her much if she didn't live out of town and only came back every couple weeks or so (currently that is).

Largely I seem to be fighting bad situations. I guess in this situation I just lose and move on. I would like to believe i can have a woman with higher smv but probably doesn't work like that. I could suggest not seeing her tonight but since I don't text and wouldn't see her for another 2-3 weeks im betting it would die.

I cannot dictate the situation because of her friends, she is relying on them as a place to stay and as to not upset them. I feel like im tagging along. Probably won't be succeeding in this but thoughts are warmly welcomed.