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| 28 | Be selective; avoid taken women"A Tale of the Legendary Libido" 2008, its absolutely bonkers | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/25 09:23 PM |
| 59 | Be selective; avoid taken womenHell even if shes not taken by anyone and shes bitter about the breakup you could have dudes that are friends or orbiters that can spread rumors or go after you in business. This is why, one reason why, I quit fucking everything I could fuck. There is this funny asian movie, maybe chinese about virility. This young man with a small pp gets a huge cock and rails all the women in the village. It causes so much imbalance in their societal structure, men lose their wives, and he almost misses his op… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/25 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Competence Kills or Be Good At That Voodoo That You Do So Well!Slay queen! | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/25 12:43 PM |
| 0 | i dont get why you guys chose the "Red pill"The red pill is black magic but most guys don't realize this. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/25 08:05 PM |
| 4 | i dont get why you guys chose the "Red pill"Hell anyone is free to do as they please. You lose either way. The fool believes the magic trick but gets hit with wonder, and the magician knows the trick to cause wonder but gets none himself. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/25 08:04 PM |
| 3 | Your Best Chances of Getting Lucky Using Cold Approach - The Hotel Bar StrategyI once crossed paths late one night with this cutie. We made eyes and as she left the front door I turned around to go after her. I asked her where she was going and she said home. I said do you want to come upstairs? Within 5 min of not knowing her we were 69ing and didn't even know her name. You can tactics this stuff. You are either carrying the energy of directness or you're not. I was so horny that helped me be direct and focused for many successes. Not saying do this, the point of course i… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/25 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Women shit test unintentionallyI think it could be possible a woman might unintentionally shit test you thinking you're low value but not entirely convinced - to the point passing them isn't convincing her uncertainty. I did this with a latina once online. Just talked straight shit to me calling my hobbies gay and what not. Eventually the conversation was just infantile. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/25 11:03 PM |
| 3 | Sex energy is earned through confrontation with chaos. You cannot fake itGreat post - I find if I keep confronting all I fear I gain wisdom and strength. Go into the abyss of all you want to avoid and there you find gold | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/24 03:07 AM |
| 1 | What i’ve learned as a 18 y/o red pilled guy.lol | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/24 02:14 PM |
| 5 | Getting Muscular changes everythingIt does. I was skinny fat but decent looking and could still pull but lifting made me hot to girls. And that in grad school at 25 was fun as hell. In fact I had so much fun I spent nearly a decade in that zone. :/ Women are great - and being fit is great - but above all holding frame is the greatest. When you have ascended past these things we often cling to you'll really feel freedom. Find out what you want for your life and follow that - I spent too many years upping my game for pussy and they… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/24 11:01 PM |
| 1 | It's Time to Polarize and Offend PeopleI'm almost 37 and I can say this is something to never ever forget. My past nice guy tendencies always come back, or even spiritual ones where I treat everyone with respect even to all their opinions. But if you do that you will find few respect you still, and women will keep telling you they "didn't feel that spark" when you might have done everything right and be a good listener, have wealth, looks, etc... it doesn't matter if you don't create some kind of feels. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/24 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Surviving the soy corporate world.This advice is true arguably in any field period, solid post. I have experienced first hand all these pitfalls from thinking coworkers are like family, never ever do that. It is always like a game of thrones. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/24 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Interpretation of an event from red pill POHV : Even a stereotypical Alpha's girl is always looking / signalling for options.What country are you in? Sounds like Italy or something lol | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/24 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Interpretation of an event from red pill POHV : Even a stereotypical Alpha's girl is always looking / signalling for options.I see a similar thing at my gym with a probably less attractive couple but the woman does look like Sara Jay if she was super fit and had a great ass. Its likely just attention. She wants to see if she can get it from other men. And her dude is always creeping around to see if any dudes are taking the bait like hes ready to fight. Its some mouth breather shit. But lol, dude this is so normal. Youll see this over and over the rest of your life you young pup. Wait til married women dm you, your mo… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/24 09:17 PM |
| 5 | Married women keep feeding me the red pillThe key is to always seem like her best option. Not being nice is only as good as it serves to suggest you're high value. Think about the mind of some woman. 50 fuckin dudes she noticed last month, compared. Many she hoped would notice her, these guys all are potentials. Along comes Billy and hes charming, really sweet, but doesnt seem to be into anyone else... Damn Billy is like great value brand - hes affordable, I guess thats my worth... being with a common dude... No, Im hot. Ill show Billy … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/24 11:42 PM |
| 1 | 1) Be Attractive. 2) Don't be unattractive. Notes from a bodybuilder.Eat spaghet bro | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/24 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Girls Just Wanna Have Fun: How to Not Be Boring When Cold Approaching WomenYeah - I like to think about language thats effective for the mind to interpret for new adoption or clearer understanding. I agree here but maybe its saying we focus on how we say and conduct versus how men want to get all wild on whats being said, and somehow that seems feminine. For instance I work with a girl who is wildly in peoples faces and smart. So like today she criticized a guy for how he was ordering and he started trying to clarify his words weren't aggressive (they werent). His defe… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/24 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Girls Just Wanna Have Fun: How to Not Be Boring When Cold Approaching WomenYou're spot on. Late 30s over 160 dates and banged 100+ women I can now say conclusively if a man ever thinks good looks are gonna keep a girl who has already fucked you you're gonna be in for a treat. Late 30s girl, single mom, ohhh easy ill be who I am which is a caring understanding guy and get a nice partnership. Suddenly there is an issue. If women got so upset about Negs its likely because they worked. And I hate that this is the world but Gods do not date humans for this reason. Women don… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/24 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Girls Just Wanna Have Fun: How to Not Be Boring When Cold Approaching WomenI think these things are so difficult to talk about. You could be confident as autists are and be emotionally distant. Do we make it all too complex? I think its strong caveman. A woman is a liability, a fascination, not a comrade. Partnership means you take care of her like a child. When we evolve to enlightenment its clear that interactions with women only ever can be fundamentally flawed and toxic. The perfect man is always trouble, because the actual perfect man is boring. We can talk all da… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/24 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Girls Just Wanna Have Fun: How to Not Be Boring When Cold Approaching WomenI feel this post (while making really great points) could be more summarized back down into "how you make her feel" Obviously the man's role is excitement within security. At a certain point and enough bodies they take themselves outside the realm of satisfaction. Time is highly guarded, moves are under great scrutiny. They can only move up to what they think they deserve now. Let me warn you as a somewhat elder - do not get carried away with spinning plates or successes with women. Eventually y… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/24 08:06 PM |
| 1 | My thoughts. Let's discuss somethings we should discuss for men as a group.Be Dracula. That is all. Fundamental elements. Fire, air, water, earth. Water is mother, woman, produce earth - The Beast. The highest form of the beast is Dracula, his death to material form is Christ. Women want the beast. This is a classic archetype that relates to fundamental evolution. Maiden with Dragon on a leash. The rest of this overcomplicates it all. Youre in a bar bunch of guys, text messages, fortnite, boobs, hair, all bullshit. Its just energy. Call it frame but the state of which … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/24 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Plate asks why going on a weekend trip with a bunch of guys is a red flagIn a sense what you are showing is a desire to hang on to the ideal reasonable woman. Unless a woman was raised in hard lands, few men, and a great father she will respond to herd mentalities. Spinning plates is fun, but it's also a waste of time if youre not trying to get laid. A good relationship with a woman requires emotional stability on our part, but giving her the tingles is a direct threat to her security that you're doing it with other women. A relationship means you must act like a pus… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/24 04:21 AM |
| 1 | THIS IS THE WAY to Text Girls on Tinder, Hinge or Bumble (Full Example + Breakdown)Well nice to see you again, cant believe you two had the balls to walk back into this place after you embarrassed yourselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/23 01:25 PM |
| 64 | why do women do this?I think that comes down to the anxiety of giving a guy a reason. If they haven't already seen you, like you... looking at you is potentially inviting you in. But - if you're gonna stare do it with some purpose because you will come off weird or terrifying to them. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/23 06:14 AM |
| 26 | What escorts taught me."The thrill of doing something im not supposed to do" That. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/23 02:49 AM |
| 2 | How to manage craving other girls in an LTR?Yes. Some of the comments here suggests people aren't getting this. Women branch swing, they tend to favor security over freedom. To end a relationship, even one of which they're unhappy is hard. Ive dealt with several girls in this position recently. As a guy with a gf would almost never hang with another prospect woman alone... thatd be borderline cheating or cheating. Women do it all the time because its necessary before dropping what they have to have something lined up. So to reiterate most… | /r/askTRP | 24/11/21 03:35 PM |
| 1 | I'm terrible at getting a second date, how can I improve?Tell her youre a wise magician and you can make her panties disappear | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 11:12 PM |
| 2 | I feel like the whole world is against meYou need to be willing to die to experience a great unconditional love. Thats the love of self sacrifice beyond the material plane but in the conscious plane of spirit. Don't see the truck driver, see the driver of a truck. Which is a piece of metal being manipulated by electrical forces stemming from brain waves. Whatever energy you read, it was you who read it. Always. You decided how it went. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/21 03:57 AM |
| 4 | My game is 10x better with 'ugly' girls. How to apply the same with 'pretty' girls?The one thing beautiful women dont respond much to is their looks. Its their troubling relationship with this stock holding of what everyone reaffirms is why they are great for existing. A mans looks matter to a woman in regards to inferring care over superficiality. Women may often seem superficial but actually have a love/hate relationship with appearance. Its like having money yet detesting the idea. You know money helps you live yet its not how you want to be valued as a human ultimately. Id… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 01:45 AM |
| 1 | If you give her the best D she’s ever had, she will never leave youSounds like my worst nightmare | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 01:15 AM |
| 1 | She's not yours, it's just ...You know what I think it is? A low level of illusion within the matrix. And redpill is the hacking. Input command for higher probability, decreased potential outcomes. Ive thought it many times. Redpill is magic, its a hypnotic perspective that reinforces truths that operate within the natural laws and their dynamics. Im not saying stay away, just that this seems what it is. It is a kind of hermetic knowledge that comes off as a history of men passing along their experience. However, it has noth… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 03:04 AM |
| 4 | She's not yours, it's just ...Shes gone, oh wah, I better learn how to take it | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 02:51 AM |
| 1 | What's the beta habit you had the hardest time giving up?Woah, im just learnin about this. I thought it was altruistic to deeply explain, never considered it like this | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 02:26 AM |
| 5 | The Social Credit Score system takes hold in it's first bold move "Tinder will soon let you run a background check on a potential date." This will become a norm. Blackballing people and reporting on bad dates will follow. MARK MY WORDS.Theres an idea. Setup a queen account online, put together some half ass facts about how tinder is racist and work on trending it on twitter. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/21 01:44 AM |
| 2 | It just feel like it's all about looks?Theyve done studies on this plus you can always ask around. It really sucks for me im very blonde. Yet they call Ryan Gosling or Chris Hemsworth blonde, and they're light brunette. Id do it but Id look fuckin off. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 11:33 PM |
| 2 | It just feel like it's all about looks?Dude im considered a hot good looking dude. In fact the last girl I chatted with from a dating app said this and never responded. Now... I know a lot of dudes will object to this but a big factor is being fair-haired. It comes off as soft and weak. Especially with a kind face and you have that. I can relate trust me. You need to do extra work to look wrong, naughty. You need to look like a bad boy at this age not a financially responsible real estate agent. Im giving myself advice here to, Im ju… | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Why would a woman leave if the dude has rock solid frame, and great D game?Man this depends on the chick. Maybe that will ruffle some feathers of RP but I knew a girl who only fucked what she called ugly dudes for a while. "The uglier the hotter it got me" Some seek excitement, risk. Some its pure stability focused. If they arent getting it theyll look elsewhere or take the next best. Not saying I know dick, ive mostly LTR with whores. Loyal whores though. I dont mean this derogatory, they were super nice and would fuck anyone. Sex was the exchange for this extreme sen… | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Getting wayyyy more success with women on Tinder in Nigeria compared to AmericaFantastic, thank you. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/21 11:21 PM |
| 5 | Getting wayyyy more success with women on Tinder in Nigeria compared to AmericaIve been considering this, and learning code to do it. What kind of passive income does your friend have? | /r/askTRP | 06/03/21 10:54 PM |
| 2 | TRPers who got their shit together after college and started getting laid, what changed?Im not sure what more to say. It just kind of sucks. The single alpha type of thing is better off in a big city of attractions like NYC where you can be single forever. In a small town people think something is wrong with you. Id like to date a woman my age but its continually been failure after failure. My best range is 20-26. My advice is to have strong social circles that can offer you contacts and new connections to branch. And definitely have money, I cant stress it enough. If I could go ba… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 02:04 PM |
| 5 | TRPers who got their shit together after college and started getting laid, what changed?Same until I got into 30s. You really have to consider location, contacts, etc. Around this time many friends get married or settle down and if you dont have a plan you'll be isolated. That said young girls are very inclined to jump your bones but you gotta remain young at heart or it just feels creepy. When you have such a leg up its like playing kickball with children... sure you'll win but is it that fun? And good luck with older girls 27+ cuz they are impossible unless you wanna be a provide… | /r/askTRP | 02/03/21 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone had to tell a plate to not make it obvious they’re fucking other people?Shes gettin some dick whitman before don drapes her. Thats a mad men joke. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/21 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Getting job in sales cured my social anxietyWe likely need more people in sales who aren't the type to have always felt comfortable moving their weight around. In fact we need opposing polarities in most fields to really benefit those fields. We need thoughtful people in leadership roles for instance. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/21 08:00 PM |
| 5 | Need help processing this. Why would she show me these videos? Was this some sort of tactic to win me over with sick humor?They just wanna know if you know they poop because feminism suggests you don't. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/21 09:00 PM |
| 8 | Is it worth to fuck below average woman?Sometimes I can't beat because of the imagery. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 10:51 PM |
| 20 | Is it worth to fuck below average woman?I bet one of mine can top the worst of yours. It includes a 6'3, a winged backpack and ruffled socks, a smell of baby powder and bad food, a butt plug. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Should I leave a good girlI think its always a question of desired priorities. Sex is important. For some its not a big deal it seems. If having kids is important then figure out that part. She sounds comfortable. Maybe you need to get it on her toes. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/21 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Courses vs books thoughts? fake gurusAll gurus are a scam dude, there is no guru. Eventually you learn you must become the master and everyone then becomes your teacher. When you reach that point you'll pull wisdom from everything. Gurus are just great reminders. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Women aside, does life get better when you get older?Balance man, balance. You sound like your doing fine, set yourself up for success. Im in my early 30s and I spent time honing skills that dont much apply to the current market and never set myself up for even the freedom to pivot. I banged a lot of ladies but you can wake up one day trying to claw out of a hole you're in and it can be hard as hell. Id have rather been financially stable and lived a blue pill dream of finally finding that girl who actually just got off the cock carousel than tryi… | /r/askTRP | 07/02/21 04:47 PM |
| 6 | So this is a thing?Man who got it years ago tells man trying to get it to "stay a while and listen". Okay Rufio calm it down. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/20 01:03 AM |
| 4 | Why do girls love playing hard to get even after fucking them?This stuff starts to look like cosmo. Just consider a bunch of ladies going, "what is it about men always wanting...". We never crack the code. Never. The Pill is just a realization of non fantastical mating dynamics that go back to survival. This is a waste of time. What you fail to see is that 25 years ago this girl wouldnt have a phone. She'd have maybe a couple guys at school, some celebrity crushes, and hard to get wouldn't make much sense. That world is over. Its a free for all. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Kiss & TellYeah.. thats the breaking frame thing. And a loss of security is what that comes to. We can think of guy friends and who has your back? The guy who caves in and people pleases? That guy surely wont fight for your sake. Largely I think this too is what women want... a rock that stands in the waves. Thats really the rare gem to be found today is a strong resolve in people. Hell I cant find male friends I want to keep around as most of it anymore is similar to a girls night out. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/20 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Kiss & TellWe have to remember words are just constructs. In this case it could have been a shit test. Girls just throw whatever at you for emotional response very often. In OP's case it sounds more like comfort test than shit test. This girl you saw sounds like she likes to be badly treated. But overall the idea is reading the situation over verbiage - something thats becoming lost to this generation. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/20 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Kiss & TellI dont exactly agree with it as a prideful ego thing to actually tell the damn truth. I mean sure this world is overrun by demons now but some of us still wanna be honest. I cant stand the guilt personally. Lying to others is lying to the self. Your issue here is communication. And the difference in dating around and fucking. Also if a chick throws something like this out its usually a mild form of manipulation and hint dropping. She was likely hoping youd get jealous and go "I dont want you see… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/20 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Girl posts snap grinding with her “friend”What do you want? Thats your answer. But you obviously want her or you wouldn't ask. So how do you get her to stop doing this? Well, do you have the leverage? Would she commit if you asked her into a LTR? Wtf knows, thats up to her. If you say something you better have the leverage. Otherwise keep your head down and get back to life. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/20 05:13 PM |
| 1 | The TRP Endgame: Financial FreedomRegistered Nurse, that's one smart idea. Do we have any pages about the other options to exploit such as this? Can we get a post going that just focuses on types of work to get into? I'm a professional painter but at best I can do some measly commissions if not well paid ones for wealthy clients which requires those sucking dick connections. You may not have the answer I just post this here as I think it'd be good to use collective minds to lay out ideas and options. I personally am always activ… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/20 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Rejected all the time and it's making me depressed.From how you started describing how you take care of yourself I think the issue is likely just not being overly exciting to highly stimulated 2020s. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Good places to pick up chicks during covidCheck under them bleachers lookin for ass. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/20 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Keep getting ghosted after first date, even after sex! What am I doing wrong?Just saw the length of this and that alone suggests a lot. You will think all these details are important but they dont really matter that much. In todays climate its hard to remain exciting with so much stimulus around. You either need to offer excitement or stability to great effect. Having a tinder alone robs a person of a sexual energy storehouse, it just leaves life a bit more bland like snacking before dinner. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/20 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Successful RedPillers: Ways to identify a good lay early on?I mean what do words mean? Different for all. I guess girls that can flip emotions so quickly, I think 'crazy' girls have this behavior. And it makes for amazing sex. Horses are a state of temperament. Highs and lows. They are magnificent and stimulating. They see primal instinct all the time. Maybe those are reasons. Just seems to be. Dull girls dont ride horses, girls who ride horses are rarely dull. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/20 06:42 AM |
| 9 | Successful RedPillers: Ways to identify a good lay early on?Find a crazy girl who likes horses. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/20 05:08 PM |
| 1 | How would you handle this?By the time you get what nexting is youre sure as hell not asking for advice. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/20 05:04 PM |
| 4 | How would you handle this?Manhood comes from striving, suffering, hard lessons not tactical responses. Im saying not to run from the feels here or pretend but bask in it. Toxic masculinity is ignoring that you feel weak and pretending you dont care, thats the whole issue with the blue pill is head high fantasies. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/20 05:03 PM |
| 9 | How would you handle this?11 months of a ltr? Comon, gotta put the big boy pants on here. Not act like some emo girl who caught her bf cheating. They have history, it takes balls to admit that then move on. You think OP really doesnt give a shit? Please | /r/askTRP | 16/10/20 03:54 PM |
| 12 | How would you handle this?Heres the thing though. Thats probably super bluffy for OP. If this is how shes ending it she likely thinks hes too soft. Ironically a bold move such as acting like he doesnt care probably makes him look dumb, fake, or even more beta in such incongruity. Probably best to say "im sorry to hear that, I understand" and then cut ties. I doubt shes thinking hes some massive ladykiller with options saying shes too busy for a LTR just sayin | /r/askTRP | 16/10/20 03:45 PM |
| 1 | How would you handle this?It took me a long ass time to realize certain things about relationships of any kind. What I do know is if attraction is lost you wont get it back through willpower or good argument. The best you can do period is move on as thats whats needed for it to come back and or for both parties health. Its immature how she handled it but I sense in this wording she doesnt want to flat out say its just not workin for her as she doesnt want to hurt you. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/20 03:38 PM |
| 14 | Why is it so hard for girls to understand that we don’t wanna date a slut?Im feelin this. I wanted to make a partner out of a girl who lived similar to me - because I dont judge her for it, she was also repressed. But damnit its a turn off. Its a turn off for her to act like a dude at me. Maybe thats why ive lost attraction. I dont really want a girl that flashes me constantly or asks me randomly to finger her butt. I guess its like cake. Cake can be messy and delicious, but who wants to eat cake thats already a mess when you get it. Sex is about a build up and releas… | /r/askTRP | 14/10/20 03:12 PM |
| 4 | On paper my life is 'better' than ever, and I have plenty of opportunities due to a new stable job. Why do I feel more stuck and apathetic than ever?I need this stenciled on my wall | /r/askTRP | 03/09/20 07:26 PM |
| 2 | In the end, what's the point of relationships ?I dont see it as simple. It people are trying to create a bond through understanding each other with a whole mix of personal problems to arise and inflame. If worked through the relationship can grow, if worked through. But if people are at very low growth points, understand or love themselves very little a relationship for instance is near impossible. And people need to want a relationship because they want a relationship. If its to have steady sex, a support, etc as reasons its got bad groundw… | /r/askTRP | 03/09/20 04:08 PM |
| 3 | In the end, what's the point of relationships ?To go thru hell! And then come back | /r/askTRP | 01/09/20 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Despite reading the sidebar and TRP, do you ever catch yourself slipping?Nothing wrong with emotions but if youre just bland it also kills the sex. Tons of buff dudes with anger issues getting laid and thats their insecurities not strength. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/20 10:47 PM |
| 3 | Female Solipsism and Male FitnessRed pill is also magick. Its a means of framing your reality whereby you act accordingly to its precepts. Otherwise you would just live in the moment and pay attention. When you take red pill action in your life you do not prove red pill, you prove natural law. And natural law is where astrology, tarot, witches, etc all come from. So does greek philosophy, they got many profound ideas from Kemet (ancient Egypt). Women are attracted to these ideas more so because they are nuanced influences and d… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/20 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Anyone noticed the growth in witches ?This stuff is all really off base. Basically in super simple terms people tried to share and teach, people always misunderstand from lack of awareness collapsing the metaphors. Most people don't believe things more so because they hold incorrect ideas about what those things are. The bible is more so a magic text for consciousness, not policing behaviors. The deadly sins are more about consciousnesses greatest obstacles and threats to attaining the kingdom of heaven which exists inside you. The … | /r/askTRP | 12/08/20 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Anyone noticed the growth in witches ?A lot of these girls use sex as a form of ritualistic magick, you probably were just being used. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/20 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Anyone noticed the growth in witches ?This is logical fallacy and also why people are quick to think magic isnt real. You believe somehow it isnt directly also tied to non mysterious reason. Mysteries are only so when they are unknown. But dont make the mistake of thinking your reasoning here and other aspects cant coexist as factors. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/20 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Anyone noticed the growth in witches ?Witch here. Most of that is fast food nonsense, gobbled up as emotional comfort or excuse. Most of these girls dont know the first thing about this stuff. Yes astrology is contained in this old art but it also gave birth to our modern science. But science today is more concerned with testing hypothesis than combining it with esoteric wisdom which draws off relationships. Thoth/hermes/hermes was the original wiseman who wrote about these matters some 33,000 b.c. Which was passed eventually to the… | /r/askTRP | 12/08/20 03:11 AM |
| 2 | What does "not looking for a relationship" mean?If you live your life with positive outlooks on situations you can quit asking these kinds of questions. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 08:25 PM |
| 3 | What's with super jacked guys and their below average gfs?I cant exactly say I fit the description but as a guy considered handsome with a chick a bit less surface wise my equal its currently because we work extremely well together and fucking randos and all that isnt exciting right now. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 12:57 AM |
| 4 | Is the reason to come over, just a way not to say "come over let's fuck"?Do you really want the world where she texts you how she wants some cock? I mean it sounds great on the surface but most guys, whether or not theyre aware, like the feeling of getting what they want. Ive been with plenty of girls who tell me their pussy is ready, and get real vulgar, but its not as fun as feeling like your the vulgar one corrupting innocence. Just chill. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 05:09 PM |
| 1 | BP gets laid too?The issue is conflated here. These are often bp behaviors but not exclusively. A chad can bring flowers or drive 8 hours. Im told im masculine as hell by girls all the time and also more feminine than most guys. That all is more about hiding or not hiding who you are. You can dress like peewee herman with flowers and all kinds of shit if you can own it and command a room. Women are masters at non verbal communication you understand, if you aren't real get to work. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Should you really not date any single woman over 30?Im seeing a career woman, like tv example in nyc. We both had different religious but oppressive backgrounds which most people cant relate to. She was also with a woman before. I mean it really depends on a persons energy and circumstances. On the inside im more like a butch lesbian in a male body if that makes sense, so we work well. I dont work well with straight girls long term, theyre too needy or something for me. I guess im saying to each their own, you need to know who you are first... an… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 02:22 PM |
| 5 | Blue pilled guys being proud of being told what they can and cannot do by their "Mrs" and posting it onlineIm not sure the user is conflicting with your point, just pointing out a kind of adapt or die. It may be beneficial too for men to fuck and casually be with whoever whenever its good and drop it without legal consequences when not. Of course bye bye nuclear fam but those that want these need to get off tinder and lay of attention whores. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Guys who do manual labour, how do you have energy for anything else?I mean not everyone was an ex con or sex offender but a good amount were. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill recommended movies?Not exactly, It definitely starts out really sexist and shows patriarchal norms but as it progresses there becomes a more equalized dynamic. Peggy and Joan are just very independent women who still love men but put their careers first, I guess that could be said as uber feminist. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 06:54 PM |
| 6 | Red Pill recommended movies?One account you dont wanna lose | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 04:19 PM |
| 30 | Red Pill recommended movies?Mad Men | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 01:31 PM |
| 3 | Guys who do manual labour, how do you have energy for anything else?I did some of this work... was depressing except for being outside. Having a masters its hard to gel with ex cons and sex offenders. The shittiest part was living out of an extended stay motel. Definitely hard to get laid in shitty motel. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/20 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Why You Aren't Translating Your Tinder Matches/Dates Into LaysI think tinder now is largely a waste of time. At least past 30 anyway, not the age probably to be using apps. Im not a typical guy but still thats not understood on baseline assumptions. I can say with upmost certainty that if you want Tinder success you should craft a bio that is as attractive and vague as possible because at the end of the day their gonna use you as a vessel for a fantasy or if a bf... because you can be used. Our age seems cool with using guys because back to the sidebar, be… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/20 08:26 PM |
| 1 | ‘No means no’ and sexual assaultSame. I havent seen or heard about mooning in forever but that was on the regular in my teenage years. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/20 07:47 PM |
| 8 | ‘No means no’ and sexual assaultI fear this will always be an issue with casual sex or poor communication and people being human. This issue will only get resolved with grow for us all. When were young and dumb, emotional, confused, inexperienced, etc. Its almost like what the fuck can you say? Very rarely are these encounters like a violent horror movie. A guy I know tried to caress a girl he knew awake for sex, which is definitely a no no, but in that situation on drugs he probably didnt see it as 'harmful'. It was labeled a… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/20 03:52 PM |
| 2 | I Genuinely am disgusted by simps and it's fucking me up.[rant]Likely its because you dont want to be so bad. Try accepting it and move on. I eat everything, thats a secret to power. Become it all. I follow gay instagrams and im not gay, but its knowledge. Allow it all because it means little. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else that finds life/existence weird?Take this as you will but it might be time to dig into the hermeticum and Thoth's Emerald tablets. It is a key to knowledge and wisdom weve long forgotten. So much exists today that traces to Thoth, or Hermes Trismegistus, Hermes. Our science, free masonry, the golden dawn, newtonian law, arguably the Greeks as they may trips to Kemet (Egypt). The truths will be illuminated for the language hidden in plain sight. If you wanna keep playing seek wisdom. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/20 01:46 PM |
| 6 | Infuriating example of 'cancel culture' and how hypocritical, cognitively biased, and malevolent women can beIts like nothing really matters other than what catches the emotional mob | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/20 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Infuriating example of 'cancel culture' and how hypocritical, cognitively biased, and malevolent women can beAt least young spoiled dumb girls who somehow command cultural leverage. Maybe Kylie jenner can be our next president | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/20 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Infuriating example of 'cancel culture' and how hypocritical, cognitively biased, and malevolent women can beYeah why didnt he threaten to sue for defamation? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/20 03:58 PM |
| 4 | Infuriating example of 'cancel culture' and how hypocritical, cognitively biased, and malevolent women can beCan someone explain to me why hes under fire? He simply asked a girl of age to go to his hotel room? And thats it? What am I missing? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/20 03:16 PM |
| 21 | Loneliness Enhances DisciplineLoneliness is loneliness and discipline is discipline. Get out of the house. I fear giving you feel good advice because that will likely be futile feel good motivation you can tuck away and continue. An object in motion, you, will remain in motion unless acted upon by an outside force. Your energy and state of mind arent going anywhere without you making an effort to do so. I cant imagine many want to call or talk with how you sound, which is very self pitying. Learn from this and grow or wallow… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/20 01:15 PM |
| 13 | How do you guys handle false accusations ?Just be drunk yourself and say "fuck what DID we do? What did you do to me? I dont remember shit! Did you fuck my penis? Omg" | /r/askTRP | 19/06/20 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to "rescue" a girl from a hoe phase, and if so, how is it done?Happy to offer thought, | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible to "rescue" a girl from a hoe phase, and if so, how is it done?Dont listen to some of these comments. The world is vast, too vast for conflation of ideas. As to your question, people often fit their friends, especially most women who keep friend networks. The girl who is okay alone is different, but she may also have a more masculine self sustained energy. This is the basis of the issue. If you want emotional femininity you gotta understand they will swing with the culture and friend group. Girls and guys both desire to have sexual experiences, I wouldn't c… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 01:51 AM |
| 3 | Is lifting for strength/performance instead of aesthetics ok?For what? Aesthetics can make you look attractive but if you wanna power lift go do it. This post seems either stupid or emotionally upset. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 01:13 AM |
| 6 | You soon will be 'cancelled' for dating a younger womanIm not sure how you don't see this as a giant shit test still. I had a girl ask how nice it must be to have as men swim trunks and a shirt as enough of an outfit and I said, what girls cant wear trunks? Of course they can, but they wanna look hot and or fit in. Don't be afraid to state truths. We need that. But you know what? Were all gonna be canceled and who the fuck cares. The president who ive been tired of since day one has been canceled since day 1 and before. And you don't think for a sec… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/20 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Pimp?TRP, one of many ways to expand consciousness Looking at real behavior instead of fantasizing it away. Kill the dream but gain higher perspectives. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Does FDS actually make an effort to give dating advice or are they just men-haters?I mean that may have always been there. Beta males often for relationships, they do what they want. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 04:22 AM |
| -1 | Ex porn addicts, how did you quit porn?Do you have the reddit alien app? Subscribe to gonewild, lots of porn subreddits. Give it some time and trust me you'll be sick of seeing another pussy and asshole detached from the real life interactions. Worked for me. I have all but mostly gotten sick of looking at it. Hard to explain but its been like that for a long time now. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 01:48 PM |
| 1 | I've been spinning plates and hooking up with random girls and I don't like it.God this thing starts as self learning and eventually you end up babysitter for the new. Do what you fucking want holy fucking shit. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/20 03:35 PM |
| 0 | Women blame men for making them crazy. Claims that women are not crazy and then proceeds to explain all the ways that women are crazy contradicting themselvesWell you know hands down the chick in the thumbnail is carrying half of hell around. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/20 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Didn't wrap it upIf she was late 20s - 30s okay be weary. No decently cute youngin wants a baby right now. Also while many factors are at play its not as easy to get someone pregnant as you may think. We've all had these though. Consider the ego and the trades more than the trust. If shes a cabaret dancer ya know... or a career girl working toward her dream job. I give those more credit than trust. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/20 03:53 PM |
| 1 | I was a different man, and have changed thanks to this sub.Just wait until a manic 10 dresses down and gives you attention. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/20 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Who are the most redpilled celebrities ?Why Celebrities? And also this kind of stuff while therapeutic is pointing to idolizing, following someone. To answer, Joe Rogan probably. But celebrities careers are usually set on not ruffling the feathers of the masses. I mean we really dont have any major celebrities speaking harsh truths, maybe Dave Chapelle. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/20 10:25 PM |
| 1 | “Men learn from their mistakes. Wise men learn from the mistakes of others.” Please share one of your mistakes the rest of us can learn fromThe irony is if you do start succeeding you might want to cling, which then erodes usually. I imagine myself as a lot of things. I dont reject feminine interests and often digest them, but I get called very masculine a lot by women. Point is learning is learning. I try to grow expansively not linear. I have no idea what reading a book on birds may do for me, but I will find other perspective previously unconsidered. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/20 10:41 PM |
| 5 | Cold approach as the economy re-opensI think there is truth in that. Lower quality gals (physically) cant get attention from tiktok as easily, and unlikely your 9/10 is gonna go try getting it from dick. All things aside ive seen women are very horny. It sheds light maybe on this curious subject. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/20 04:37 PM |
| 5 | “Men learn from their mistakes. Wise men learn from the mistakes of others.” Please share one of your mistakes the rest of us can learn fromMy mistake was not allowing myself to be everything, to die to it all. Power is dropping ego boundaries. Empathizing and understanding limitless perspectives is empowering but you have to be willing to let your sense of self die. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 06:51 PM |
| 6 | How to be Alpha AND likeable?I think it will have to eventually become more subtle. As women typically crave emotional support that gets wrapped up in false examples of feminism (see those "the take" videos on youtube), we will continue towards any sign of success or ability as a man as a threat. Women want to beat you often, but when they do they're bored. That's the name of the game. Some guys say "hey beat me, i'm all yours" and those are your beta types. Truthfully we may all be getting used to some degree no matter wha… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/20 07:49 PM |
| 1 | LTR planning on sending nudes as an art project to her fine arts lecturerI'm an artist, so I have some experience here. And my advice is you don't know. More often than not the art is about the art. I think nudes are shit personally, the excitement is in the build up and not knowing. If a girl sends me a nude I expect she's telling me she wants to fuck or she wants to masturbate. If it's art related I respect that and it's used for that purpose. It's really not that big of a deal. I think too many guys on here have really lost sight and not ever read the side bar. Yo… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/20 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Things that affect our testosteroneNot exactly sure, I just know the two black filters I have in it remove pretty much everything known under the sun from dye to drugs to parasites, etc. I get enough minerals from other sources and it helps ease my anxiety that i'm drinking water that just taste like wet. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 06:19 PM |
| 1 | She came back?Keep things interesting by being boring as fuck. Is this right now during lockdown? This is a time of looking for comforts of the past. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 02:32 PM |
| 3 | Things that affect our testosteroneI have a Berkey, its great. Its probably my favorite household item. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 12:53 AM |
| 1 | How do I stay in frame when I’ve lost everything?Have you watched Ozark? I mean we used to give examples of strong framed men on here a lot but Marty in that show is beyond strong frame. Lessons to take is no matter how bad shit gets you can control how you respond. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/20 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Anybody else not really care for sex?Your post is validation seeking. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/20 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Anybody else not really care for sex?Your post is validation seeking. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/20 02:57 PM |
| 0 | Anybody else not really care for sex?Dude no. Dont post stuff like this. Soon its gonna bleed through your exterior and you wont have any chicks grinding on you annoyingly or otherwise. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/20 06:55 AM |
| 42 | Most girls are sad and attentation / validation whoring so much because of quarantine?People are also looking for ways to socially connect during this time. Its healthy, not all bad. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 03:13 PM |
| 5 | Dating during coronavirus: Not convinced online will workI both agree and disagree with you here. There are a lot of factors in play. If two people are mostly quarantined and taking precautions its likely not a huge deal at this point. We just spent weeks lagging behind due to the potus most of this sub defends, nobody knows fuck all how much damage was done until we wait. Area is a factor. In the midwest people are often very spaced out and isolated already, it wont likely go far in those areas. Im not saying its right but we all need to go to get gr… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/20 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Where are the mods? This sub needs to be culled.The audience has infected. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/20 11:58 PM |
| 9 | Men who can get sex super easy, what do you think is the main reason you can get sex so easy?You should always be patient even when taking action. Otherwise you show weak behaviors (afraid you wont get what you want so you hurry). Its like an economy of means. The more you say the more you undermine. If you dont care what you say you dont even have anything on the line. Women do want to see you risk rejection, and also be able to handle it like a champ. Know what you want and be smart about how you get it. Be direct but not easy. Only you can read the situation for approaching. These si… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/20 06:26 PM |
| 9 | Men who can get sex super easy, what do you think is the main reason you can get sex so easy?Sure. So while we often hear "dont give a fuck" I can tell you the real reality of not giving a fuck is a turn off to most girls. For instance if you just wanna get laid but you aren't cautious in your approach its insulting. Consider if it was a ten and you had a shot, you would put some extra care into succeeding. Thats the whole "come correct". Doesn't mean don't be assertive, sexy, or dominant but give a damn about your courting behaviors. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/20 05:57 PM |
| 15 | Men who can get sex super easy, what do you think is the main reason you can get sex so easy?Some have said money. Maybe what money brings as far as self assurance in basic needs. Primarily for me its about wanting it and not fearing anything else. Thats when the game is top notch. For women will see you not enacting patience as a sign of not caring. You care, but you're courageous. Also projecting a sense of sexual self independent of them is huge. Its not on them that you have sexual energy now, you always have it. They follow the frame. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/20 04:31 PM |
| 18 | Joe Rogan is stunned at Miriam Nakamoto’s open display of hypergamyYou can tell by the look in the still shes a woman who likes getting choked out and fucked hard. I imagine her mind cant pair that with flailing hands is all. The upside a woman like this, but also the downside. You can get women who like sweet and understanding but probably don't like sex that much. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/20 07:52 PM |
| 2 | A Note on LeadershipI read Beijing is actually claiming this though. While we may never know we know the world runs off money and power, the rest is to try and keep people from uprising. And quite frankly social media in all its forms has been a great platform for testing its subjects. Our president has been a great testament to someone who is highly opposed with countless legal issues and nobody being able to do shit about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/20 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Being called, “buddy”Strangers for sure. Friends its different, often endearment. Bud or Buddy is closer than dude or man. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/20 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Coping/general advice for a later bloomer that missed his "best years"?Haha dude. I didnt lose my virginity til 23. At 26- now Ive been living mostly in my prime doing all and more of what I feared was over at 25. More than any of the good advice bits you find here the best Ill think of is really want it. You need to really want it. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 03:46 PM |
| 1 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?Yeah dude, its a tough one to notice sometimes. I think it seems like heaven to some degree when you finally meet that girl down for whatever whenever. But my ex began to watch every move I made, where my eyes wondered. She'd bite her nails nervously all the time. But the pressure fucked up my sex life some time after we broke up. Mostly when it came to intimate sex not fucking. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 07:18 PM |
| 1 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?Yeah, ive seen this a lot from girls. I guess its deep insecurity that drives the need to have this much power. Hell I think much of the "i want to be choked and dominated" to non dom types is a similar power grab. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 07:09 PM |
| 1 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?I dated one of these. It ended when I didnt get a boner once and she screamed and cried. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 03:01 PM |
| 3 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?Everyone should consider this is not a dating problem or a woman problem but a drug problem. You're struggling with great highs you can no longer match, and truth is you likely never will especially by comparison. Maybe its a reason not to stick your dick in crazy because crazy is often the best sex you'll ever have (im not sure what this says ultimately). But few of us want to get addicted to heroin though its likely amazing. We've all fallen from points of great pleasure. I really hate to say … | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 02:59 PM |
| 5 | Anyone else get turned off by shit tests and feel bored?Yes, it gets old. Its all about the ride not repeating. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Should I just hire a prostitute to lose my virginity?Dont. I was 23 when I lost it. I was so hungry having held out for religion that it pushed me into just going for it one night with a friend. She first hesitated if I really wanted to lose it to her and I said who better. She thought about it then I got my first BJ. Next thing I know she was trying to mount and I was like "woah! On second thoug-" and boom that pussy slipped down and there was no goin back. Point is dont let it be some transactional bullshit. Have some fun with it man, its life n… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Why does nexting/ignoring girls work?If a man is very attractive a woman can brush off his disinterest far easier than a guy below her level. So for instance in her head a dude who clearly should be all over here isn't, it drives her nuts. Pickup is a game for nerds and slightly less attractive dudes. Hot dudes don't neg girls for this reason. Make sense? Negging worked/works because it strikes at validation and creates intrigue. Girls can get emotional support all fucking day, what they cant get is why Chris, the guy who isnt a kn… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Why ugly / average girls on social media / Tinder are disrespectful?Its because theyre looking to boost their insecurity. Think about it. Lets say youre a guy out of shape but smart as fuck and you see a beautiful woman who ignores you. You might tell her looks fade, shes superficial, etc. These girls are doing their best not to feel worthless, and even better if they can say that to a hotter man. In my experience attractive women have commented on me being hot far more than unattractive women. The more unattractive pretend like it doesnt exist. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 06:34 AM |
| 5 | Why does nexting/ignoring girls work?I think this is incorrect. Its about validation which drives some emotions. They want you to bring affirmation to insecurities. It works better if youre not much of a catch. If youre a hot dude it matches with expectation you wont text back. Thats the whole catty game of value projecting among women. Ever notice how women dont seem to pine over super hot guys? Its almost always 7-8s. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/20 07:14 PM |
| 1 | What happens to this crop of ladies?I get that part, the sex. Im talking about getting by. They gonna go back to school? Get into trades? The world is gonna be flooded with fallen, mostly intolerable, women. I dont think there are enough thirsty betas to carry them through financially. Some sure. Many will be cat ladies. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/20 09:18 PM |
| 1 | What happens to this crop of ladies?I can see this for very attractive ones but what about average to low? In the past a 9/10 can ride for a while off looks but there are a lot of overinflated girls from social media apps. Im currently in the midwest and Ill say ive seen thousands on tinder who make bio demands that should be lucky to find any dude. Thats what seems different currently. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/20 09:03 PM |
| 4 | 5 Ways Women Use Beta MalesFeel sorry for that dude if so. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/20 07:08 PM |
| 8 | 5 Ways Women Use Beta MalesWell she was slurring words and took a 30 min bathroom break to come back scratching at her nose so it was more than a no no. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/20 05:26 PM |
| 9 | 5 Ways Women Use Beta MalesMan had I watched and remembered before a date last night. Got hustled somewhat by this girl on coke and god knows what else. But she was insistent on the bar we went to. I had bad feelings but I thought id remain optimistic. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/20 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Beta shit tests in the gymI hate getting older. I forget younger people even exist. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/20 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Beta shit tests in the gymThis guy doesnt sound right in the head. Unless hes pretty young. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/20 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Finally did it - shaved my headYo I just did the same, just to get rid of my hair attachment/save money. Looks good! | /r/askTRP | 23/02/20 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Why do the majority of modern young women choose to offer nothing of substance to the world?This must be why I keep ending up interested in Lesbians. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Girl at a rave tonight said “you act like such a player but I can tell you’re a good person”Some don't but most do. Arguably some girls may hate themselves and look for an abusive guy. Some act like they want a dominant guy but guys who over display it externally are usually soft - like southern/midwestern guys I grew up around. Those guys are often gay too but don't know it. Its just not simple was the point I was making. I cant stand Adam Levine but in the midwest he'd be seen as gay or a pretty boy, in NY he'd be a just a dude or even masculine due to that cultures perceptions. Real… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/20 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Girl at a rave tonight said “you act like such a player but I can tell you’re a good person”TRP can be a bit like going out and looking for blondes only. And youre like "theyre all blondes" no shit dumbass. All kinds of girls out there. Some want ugly dudes, grandpas, soy boys, its a big world. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/20 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Girl at a rave tonight said “you act like such a player but I can tell you’re a good person”Genius. This particular case the girl drank my load twice but didn't want to fuck. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/20 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Girl at a rave tonight said “you act like such a player but I can tell you’re a good person”Women in general are largely blessed with much subtler body reads. Is she right? Ive had girls not want to fuck because they didnt think Id be dominate in bed. They might be right in the regard that its not always my favorite, Its something Ill do. At the same time I like dominating in less external ways like changing her mind or making them beg. Point is life is complex. You might be a good guy but to some extent its good women can read because then all you gotta do is become who you want. Trus… | /r/askTRP | 16/02/20 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Do women really like older guys? Whats your experience like?Haha if youre in your 30s you shouldnt give a fuck about what others think. You got hot young wet girls craving you for sex and 30s wanna know if youre ready to settle down with her and the lube by comparison. Im being a bit harsh here for effect but it gets so easy if youve kept your body and looks in shape. Its just the red pill reinforced. You should worry about giving up hot young tail to settle down with an older woman who matches your ideals. I think the mid 20s is ideal personally when yo… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/20 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Field Report: Why it is so important to approach every single chance you getYeah man, not much meat in this post. Its just the same ole point of knowledge without action. Also chewing gum? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/20 01:53 AM |
| 5 | What the fck is all this "enjoy the journey bs talk"?I think its more about enjoying it because its what youre doing with your life. Those shit tests from girls will stop one day and you might realize the challenge was actually what created the excitement. Lifting is pain but its not that bad, I feel better lifting than not. Maybe youre not honest. What happens when you meet that goal? Make another? And in all that time youll wake up one day with achievement but nobody else really gives a shit about what youve done. If youre holding out for that f… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/20 12:03 AM |
| -3 | “I have no purpose, no job, no friends, am a 25 y-o virgin, play videos games and masturbate compulsively. What should I do?”Thats what this who sub is becoming, some desire for macho fight club writing. Usually those who lack chase this kind of thing. It fulfills im sure then back to betaland. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/20 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Most CHADS and HIGH SMV guys never LTR ?Finally | /r/askTRP | 04/02/20 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Why are the most attractive women almost always single?Yessir, definitely on the surprise bit and reason for confidence. When I was skinny fat and wore rags I still had confidence because of my mind and talents and I could shock a girl. If you walk into a room looking good and confident people assume you're a narcissist. You have to first be really nice to get rid of the negative assumptions. But people do it to girls too, I just don't think its a correct blanket statement. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Why are the most attractive women almost always single?Many factors. What youre having here is a limited correlation viewpoint in which you desire to reaffirm to a larger reality system. Many factors. Why do famous actors date unknowns? Many factors. Why is Hugh Jackman not hugh jacking a younger girl but his much older wife? Why do good looking people get married? Many factors. But anyone hot, with potential, has more options. Being a guy with that isnt great. You mostly get to make women sad, piss dudes off, and people think youre an idiot dickhol… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 08:17 AM |
| 24 | Five Minutes of AlphaYes, only makes it more intriguing. Funny how that works. If they wanted to block you saying "hes super nice and gets along great with parents" would be smarter. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/20 11:51 PM |
| 13 | Five Minutes of AlphaIm gonna argue that people likely know. But the issues is almost like a "just because you can doesnt mean you should". Then again not many guys can pull off great frame nor can women. In women Id say a lot like Michelle Pfiefer. Feminine but with confidence and attitude. Ive seen parents or older ladies warn girls in front of me about me. Parents know, people know. I just think society sees being weak as the sacrifice men should make. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/20 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Most girls on Tinder only use it to boost their insta followers right ?Its fucking random and many things | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 03:27 AM |
| 1 | You can't be perfectYall know you can watch motivational videos for a year and feel motivated and the only thing you'll have done is that. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/20 03:07 AM |
| 1 | You can't be perfectIll correct you, its caving into Reddits model of interface. The only things to eventually get seen will be the commonly accepted squawking sounds like the animals these users are. Diverse opinion upvoted on Reddit? Pshhh. This is what they hoped would happen. TRP is going to fall like a spiritual movement into a religion, just repetitive empty works. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/20 03:05 AM |
| 1 | You can't be perfectWhat is this Chad? Am I him? I will be Chad. Hello, I am Chad. All your women are now mine. Silly noob, I am Chad. Do I begin this Chad now? | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/20 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Are bluepilled men really ok being emasculated by the insanity of modern society, or is there more to it?They probably see no point. Most of these guys and guys in general arent out playing the field. Theyre more concerned with careers, video games, w/e and a woman is more so a part to a life. The dynamics dont likely mean much you dig? Also back when PUA was just started most guy friends laughed even if they were bp. And you obviously understand why. Im not sure if its all worth freaking out over more than planetary destruction. No use in worrying about sexual dynamics when your food lacks nutriti… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 04:43 PM |
| -1 | You are enough. The core of RedpillI definitely had a much better post recently that didnt go anywhere on this subject but the real point is anything outside of your awareness isnt you. Reflect on peoples responses to what you do fine, but its no measure of worth. Its not in your body or wealth, or your frame. Its valuing yourself period and in turn you value others in cosmic connectedness. You can still desire growth from this mindset and youll be much more ready. Consider this, if you're familiar with being seduced, you know ho… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/20 05:12 AM |
| 8 | You don't care enough: why your life sucks and how to change it.As a likely pitted hipster it really depends. A truly hip cat might have alternative style but a guy with all these extras will be seen as a poser by top tier artists. Top tier hipsters bang more than bros and have access to models. Im talking about guys that tattoo, bartend, play in bands. Yall really gotta stop hating sometimes girls are just too privy to date a muscular dude that looks like a tool with some gross ass jeans from the buckle or red sneakers. Style is a projection of behavior, be… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/20 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Mindset to stop basing self-worth on womenIts. All. In. Your. Head. Period. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 01:25 AM |
| 18 | Feminism is a rejection of biological nature; being red pilled is an acceptance of biological nature.This is more right than the rejection I think. Esoterically its not the material, the facts, etc that display whats happening but rather the energy and behavior that is more important. Same as watch her actions over words, the words are balloons filled with attempts at attention, desire, anger, etc. Its just hard to imagine theyd make it so tough that theyre weeding out guys who dont fear assault allegations. But its nature, its not premeditated. Same as you dont really give a shit about her car… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/20 06:41 PM |
| 1 | For the ones who had a porn addiction: How long did it take to rewire your brain and finally enjoy sex?Maybe, but when youre inexperienced to womens bodies that alone gets you off as does the typical big breasted bombshell type. The body works when its uncommon and the excitement is getting to see it sure. But if you have sex 4 times a week with different girls its not even a thing. Chemistry is the only thing that remains, the build up to overturning the dynamic and releasing the tension. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 05:48 PM |
| 5 | For the ones who had a porn addiction: How long did it take to rewire your brain and finally enjoy sex?Hell if you do it enough you might just get tired of it. It bores me unless its got a good dynamic | /r/askTRP | 17/01/20 09:19 PM |
| 7 | Don't Get Cucked By CuckcervativesIts really true. Small towns, midwestern cultures thrive on making sure everyone is friendly and spineless behind the facade of masculinity being big, camo wearing, old fashioned values having. They dont like city people because they find them cold natured but thats precisely what having a backbone and saying no often needs. When you get a group of these "masculine" guys drunk they act like feminine boys or some are just emotional wrecks who are nuts. Those are the dark triads of the south, insa… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/20 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Guys who are into fitness - how good of a shape did you have to get into before you've noticed your SMV clearly increase?Everyone is different but for me it didnt take long and doesnt take long if coming out of shape. If youre eating right and you feel strong, tight, pumped, somehow women start looking at you more even though the difference may not seem vast. I think its much more about radiating good health more than being big or low bf though those can help sometimes. But we all know too well plenty of the 80s meathead types that remain unattractive because of lack of nuance, style, personality, overall vibe. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 07:34 PM |
| 26 | Don't Get Cucked By CuckcervativesGotta say having moved back to the midwest conservative dudes are far more bluepilled than many assume. Its like most of them in marriages are secretly gay or the woman's best friend. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/20 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: Got a blowjob on the first date. And then ghosted. Why?In my experience sex activity that feels like desired inorganic sex activity (especially on both parts) means less likely to see them again. Think about it, if the first date is getting used, using them, how is that attractive unless both parties wanna continue using each other? Shes not into you is all. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/20 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Struggling with a pornography addiction. Any tips on overcoming it?I wouldnt try and resist it. The truth is you can have it anytime man! As much as you want. You should kick back for a week and do nothing but blow your load to porn. Order delivery, dont do any dishes, dont clean anything up just sit and wank all the time and look at as much as humanely possible. Wear that pisser out. After about a week or two of that I think youll start finding yourself sick of it. When you know you can have it as much as you want itll have far less attraction to you like with… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Tinder dates, do I pay?Personally I never pay on a first date but im not sure it matters much. Guys buying drinks is typical and often overused as a form of nice guy ness. Coffee day date doesn't matter. Only you matter. Ive actually had great success hooking up after coffee in the day if shes free. I get the fear some guys have that she'll put you in the friends zone probably based on that movie just friends but the reality is it doesnt matter. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/20 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Are majority of you lacking brain cells or have 16 year olds infested this sub?Well they need guidance more than ever haha. But its true without proper teachers this will become another incel thing likely. Tons of questions of specific examples when you will encounter countless new experiences over your life course. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/20 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Are you guys lonely?Dude im 32, and I move a lot so I get it. Its tough to make friends at this age because of the lack of medium to make them. I think this is why big cities are better for guys like us, and get involved in organizations/groups/etc. Especially ones of similar interest. I think one can enjoy being alone even completely isolated but you have to cut bait in a way. You cant tow the line of both if that makes sense. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/20 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Good bye Red PillDo you smoke weed? If so fucking quit. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 10:28 PM |
| 3 | What All Pretty Girls and Champions Know But Can Never Tell YouIm not surprised this was top reference. Im considerably weird as fuck but this part just turned me off. Compounding the reminders but personally you just gotta improve yourself and all this falls into place without having to spread cheeks. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/20 05:53 PM |
| 2 | is anyone having a hard time finding male friends after you got muscular and better good looking ?Because you're a threat. This is like redpill about men men often dont see. In some cases you might be welcomed when its about attracting women around you period (very low smv guys). But the moment you come around and everyone of these dudes is tryna work angles on some ladies youre right in the way. Not only will they feel insecure but theyll be angry youre stealing the attention. It kills their tricks, their good conversation abilities, whatever these dudes might hold onto that makes them uniq… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 03:08 AM |
| 1 | LTR hooked up with a much better looking Chad right before me. Doomed?If its good now its good now, you cant control the future or her desires. Jumping ship early is paranoia as is showing concern. Focus on yourself and be happy for what it is now. Even the greatest loves and best relationships dont always last forever. A lot of these critical comments and justification comments are just these guys projections and hamstering. Youre worried, thats it. But no point in worrying. Wanna end it so you dont worry then do it. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 10:35 PM |
| 3 | 2020’s- The age of the incelsYes. I kept going back over and over mostly because at first I felt like snoop and made bangin girls amazing... simply amazing. But it ruined countless relationships in my stupor. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/20 02:50 AM |
| 6 | 2020’s- The age of the incelsUndiluted Red Pill for sure. I was thinking that through this whole read. But Weed and its legalization wont promote Redpill behavior any. Well have to see how that goes. Weed made me bp as fuck, social anxiety, overthinking. Drowning in thought and paranoia is the anxious persons common mode. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/20 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Lesson in frame control by Barack Obama. Dealing with insecure betasWhat about Trumps whiney hissy fits is alpha? That dude just fronts. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/20 10:31 PM |
| 1 | You are still NOT in your primeI mean any of yall recall playing console games as a kid. They were hard as hell often and if you found the cheat codes or game genie it was fun for a bit but I got tired of it much faster than had I played it straight. The fun is in the conquering. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/19 04:39 PM |
| 3 | You are still NOT in your primeExactly. Really buns you out if you get stuck in places where you have to eat less than healthy and times where you can get to the gym. It really is a privilege. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/19 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Outlook on womenThere are phases and phases. Nothing says you wont revert back either. I wouldnt look at them as selfish ignorant pigs but genetically wired for heavy demands. You being a drooling wimpy beta is nice for her comforts but when a guy comes busting into the house looking to rape her and kill you and her child its pretty ignorant to keep just that guy around. And if an alpha he may be out fucking around. Im not sure anyone fully knows other than women are frame fallers. They fall into frames. You ma… | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Someone help me, please. My life is spiraling and I’m losing the battle.Ive had a real shit year, and many of your issues listed though maybe not as extreme. First of all I know how tough it can be. And motivation seems pointless. This is one important question, what do you want? I didnt know, and thats why I suffered. Once you can imagine the life you want, imagine it in great detail. Feel as though you already have it. Everything around you may deny what you now fixate on but the point is to work FROM where you want to be, not for it. This gives your life directio… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Why do I get way more emotional about females disrespecting me at work than menJust light flexing, idk. But in a resting pose not great. Kind of like a backwards dysmorphia over time. I wont get into it but this year has sucked ass for me in every way. I never stopped lifting but drinking and smoking took a much greater toll and I see now I got skinny fat. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/19 03:33 PM |
| 12 | Japanese women categorize male friends by levels of intimacy, from hugging to bathingSlaying pussy like the lawn mower is a strange combination | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/19 07:59 AM |
| 9 | Why do I get way more emotional about females disrespecting me at work than menI know how both yall are feeling. I was recently fired from a job with a disrespectful manager who was very short and condescending to me. I remained stoic through it but it created a rift, I tried to pull it back but I think ultimately she wanted me to go around saying sorry and kiss ass because that's what the others have to do. I was terminated on some fabricated grounds just in time for christmas. As far as I can tell when you don't have outside confirmation, and you still think you're the s… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 07:37 AM |
| 0 | Plate canceled 8th date. Should I call?I dont know of any off hand but a few things to keep in mind are confrontational behavior, banter, keeping the unknown alive in an liminal state. I used to hang with groups of girls and theyd start talking about feminist stuff and the thing that worked was not logic just that I wasn't phased nor much cared. They were attracted to me, thats not always synonymous with liking. Like is safe, comforting. Its scary to be mean and near heartless when youre used to people pleasing but the binary, the po… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Plate canceled 8th date. Should I call?Hard one to learn but if you gotta feed it to make it come together shes losing interest. But hey a lot of women lose interest and get bored because they're boring. Friends liking you is probably a boring factor too. Tension man, tension. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 10:27 PM |
| 4 | How do I be alpha without being a narcissist?Radiate Love man. Always reading about how to get people to respect you, but often they're disrespect is about them. Dont need to be tough when you know you are. The catch is you also cant be attached to things, just enjoy the cycles as they come. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/19 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Can I be direct?Haha. Try it on a girl sometime. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 06:54 AM |
| 4 | Can I be direct?I had a girl once scream "I want yoooouuuuuu" during sex. It was the cringiest thing Ive ever heard. My face must have looked like a deer. I think that line only works when Marvin Gaye is singing it. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 08:49 PM |
| 2 | You cannot fully appreciate something unless you seek to discover it yourselfBeing able to communicate strongly and with brevity. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/19 05:49 PM |
| 0 | You were not meant to be a beta, but a great manI got a few paragraphs in and found it really cringey. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/19 06:01 AM |
| 4 | Women skeptical on gender equality (1976) | RetroFocusI think that last lady was spot on, "I think women are in danger of being controlled by other women". At the end of the day beyond equal rights each of us is allowed to be who we want from masculine to feminine to everything in between. When these things follow trends its likely just fashions, just adaptations. Thats always been my pet peeve as a kid who dealt with some bullying, the mob mentalities and hive-minds. I dont like any of them. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/19 06:38 PM |
| 3 | As the world declines, RedPill Men will continue to thriveId consider myself a hipster who drinks fancy drinks. I do a lot of gay stuff. Does this make it harder sometimes to move toward sex? Yes. I mean you might be able to pull off watching beauty and the beast and then throatfucking but you gotta be able to truly fulfill that role. It really dont matter how you wear it. To some degree them finding out your a homeless man who is actually a baller is evermore powerful. You must imagine who you want to be, be it and believe it, nature will fill the gap… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/19 02:58 AM |
| 1 | LTR says she wants to eat my assSo my ex did this right when I started to get in my best shape ever. I had some tight chinos and friends were talking about my butt. We went home later and she asked to give me a back massage but it became this. Idk if its dominant or submissive, I think thats in frame not bodily action. But Ill tell ya it feels great. So do it. Then sit on her face and eat hers, thats what I did. Ms. Jackson if you're nasty bro. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 01:41 AM |
| 2 | How do you pick yourself back up?Also think about this. If you lift well and eat good there will come a day where you see yourself jacked in front of your bathroom mirror. You go out and notice women looking you up and down, and smiling at you. You dont even need game, you need hi. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 04:20 AM |
| 12 | How do you pick yourself back up?Ive spent a year on this so I have helpful advice. Do. As painful as it all is put into action the things you need to build the life you want. Do them. Stop thinking about it and analyzing, stop reading self help books. All fine and good but do. You need to create new habits in the brain and that doesnt come easy, it comes with consistent action. Ive watched hundreds of insightful youtube videos this year, im fucking tired of them. Jesus himself has no advice I care to hear besides "action" "do"… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 04:49 PM |
| 0 | I know im not worthless, why do i get treated like i am?Why are you selling to him? There just isnt much reason for the cringey big man glengarry speech act over the internet. Give the dude advice or get out, I dont wanna hear about how you dont wanna hear about it. So go ahead and respond like you will because I told you to. ;) Trust me ive played victim before, and nothing will get you out of it until youre tired of it. I doubt a "man this guy on trp really set me straight, think im gonna change my life now". But if your intentions are for his bene… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/19 01:08 AM |
| 2 | I know im not worthless, why do i get treated like i am?Yeah.. its asktrp, this duded asked a question not directed at this dude. Idk, maybe this is tiktok. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 11:19 PM |
| 3 | I know im not worthless, why do i get treated like i am?Great response but had to eyeroll at the dont bother me about it again. Cuz first off you chose to read and reply, you always choose. Secondly this projection of I have better things to do while answering TRP questions is a joke. Just own it. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 04:21 PM |
| 2 | The rules of society and the things they say are meant to limit the sexual potential of those who didn't get it and master their own masculine energy. But it creates a Catch-22 that only you can break when you get it and become the man you are meant to be.I really enjoyed the post. My issue is once I felt like this. I had it, maintained it, could lead anyone desiring it but 2 camps of guys largely: Beta submissive males hating sexually free more alpha types and naturals or men thinking in delusion they are they alpha type. This means no members of fight club to talk fight club with. Naturals think its ignorant, betas think its ted bundy shit. And I fell hard from where I was. I lost financial footing, started smoking more weed, gained weight, my … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/19 06:09 AM |
| 1 | EX is telling my friends I like butt plugs shoved up my assAgree. Amplify. "Oh yeah for sure, you should see the things I stuck in her ass too. One day we just spent seeing what we could shove up each others ass in bed, it was nuts. Found some of my old g.i. Joe figurines too, nothing escaped that day." | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 09:17 PM |
| 1 | So basically her having a boyfriend means absolutely nothing?Unless thats what youre into. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/19 10:45 PM |
| 2 | So basically her having a boyfriend means absolutely nothing?Like the song, if you wanna be happy the rest of your life never make a pretty woman your wife. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/19 04:27 PM |
| 9 | So basically her having a boyfriend means absolutely nothing?You gotta find a girl who isnt attention seeking, who puts values somewhere else and you might not get one with great looks on this route. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/19 04:05 AM |
| 1 | How to get respect from fellow men?This. What they said. Take that advice and all will be fine. But seriously respect is earned from doing whats respectable whether its liked or not. Standing for something, even if its standing for self sacrifice for others is respectable. But if you want to do it just to feed your ego youre going about it backwards. And from what youve suggested if you dont have much going on, and youre just acting tough with your looks thats definitely gonna push people away. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 08:50 PM |
| 1 | I can hold a strong frame over some girls and others I can feel the BB overcoming me. What gives?Yeah that last one I know would only stoke. Hes going through a big divorce of a 7 year thing so hes reckless but also by far out earns me. And since shes visiting the country to likely leave in 2 months I mean. Also I meant throw him a plate. I have no problem getting dates, especially over him. But he has a way of always outshining as the mischievous friend | /r/askTRP | 24/10/19 08:56 PM |
| 1 | I can hold a strong frame over some girls and others I can feel the BB overcoming me. What gives?Am trying. Truth be told part of the turmoil started when I introduced her to an old hs friend I've reconnected with moving to this new city. He's a bit of a natural, though with many obvious missteps. Thing is I took us to meet him out at a bar, I didn't even consider being threatened because I haven't in a while. It went fine but we ended up back at my place, he wanted to smoke and while outside I was chilling in a chair while they were talking and he started talking about her eyebrows and her… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/19 08:08 PM |
| 1 | I can hold a strong frame over some girls and others I can feel the BB overcoming me. What gives?Its there, but I know more. Somehow remembering this idealistic soul connection can be had with many helps. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/19 05:48 PM |
| 1 | I can hold a strong frame over some girls and others I can feel the BB overcoming me. What gives?I definitely agree and often go by this rule but again, circumstances are really off. We were just about to have sex 2 dates ago; as in I had my dick inside her panties but I was going to be late for work. The last was a period. She speaks english but much is often missed. However for all the shit Ill get for it I actually want a long term with this chick. Shes kind, she takes everything slow, shes not like most entitled US girls. And hell shes a mexican 8-9. Point being here it makes reading th… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/19 03:37 PM |
| 1 | I can hold a strong frame over some girls and others I can feel the BB overcoming me. What gives?How do you figure? | /r/askTRP | 24/10/19 03:07 PM |
| 1 | I can hold a strong frame over some girls and others I can feel the BB overcoming me. What gives?Im in a similar boat except factors. We have a bit of language barriers at times and shes almost like a fish out of water ugly ducking attire while shes a stunner. We havent fucked after 8 dates, gotten close. The lack of sex, the new context, and our getting along great is killing me with oneitis which I thought was over. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/19 05:51 AM |
| 2 | Real talk, does anybody else feel like a fish out of water trying to approach girls in person?You know... its different wherever you go. Not something TRP often discusses is location and context. I destroyed in college towns, but in midwestern cities things are played slower and LTR are far more common as the interactions are far less. People in these places might move to a big city and be like "wtf, I could be with all these people and a LTR holds me back". Yes many same principles apply but we have to consider most humans are directed by resource, basic needs. Smaller cities are all sh… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/19 05:10 AM |
| 1 | LTR of 3.5 Years that "loved" me to death cheated this weekend. Why and how to pursue?I havent a clue, but I cant imagine how badly this sucks. Sorry man. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 12:19 AM |
| 1 | The meaning of "maybe"Sometimes maybe means not convinced. I worked a girl up over bumble once who started sending pics of her pussy creaming demanding I drive over and fuck her. You need to know how to charm, seduce, talk to a woman more than just hold frame, lift, and work on your smv. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Women's boundaries are different depending on men's attractivenessI feel like shit in TRP gets overcomplicated. If a hot girl asked you to go bang her raw in the bathroom while at your grandmas funeral you would far more than a less attractive chubby girl who acts like a masculine dude. Of course women will make exceptions for higher SMV dudes. You could work at Mcdonalds and live with your parents but if you had great frame and body you could get exceptional lays that wouldnt happen for many guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/19 03:16 AM |
| -1 | Girl opens her legs up for a guy on the first date, is absolutely shocked when he ghosts her afterwards. Alright boys, which one of you was this?Man, I think im finally getting to that point of yeah these things are real but fucking hell this post vibrates early 20s. Good post kid. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/19 05:40 AM |
| 9 | Im missing human connection. Or is that connection false?I believe this is largely due to the unrelaxed climate we live in now. We do have distractions and comforts but we lack feelings of purpose or that there even is a future worth fighting for. Combine that with overstimulation, drugs, etc there just isnt much connection to be made anymore. Used to you'd enter into a pocket tribe, find a person you felt deeply on similar paths with but we dont dig deep paths like we once did. 10 years ago if you told a good story at a bar 10 people at your table mi… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 12:56 AM |
| 3 | Cuckold sub has 246k members now, what the fuck is happening ?I dont agree with most comments in my case, If I see a cuck video I imagine im the guy fucking. Call it empathy but I watch porn and get off on the focus of the woman. I like the dynamics, the resistance and giving in, the slutty tempter, the super slut. BUT the biggest issue ive noticed is that my memory has stored these ladies faces and I become attracted to random women who remind me of them. Its not terrible but it usually means I dont really get hot for your classic beauty types. I get hot … | /r/askTRP | 13/09/19 05:52 AM |
| 7 | Why masculinity is toxic all of a suddenThe real toxic aspect is weak men looking to display strength, have control, basically reaching for what they lack. The better perspective would be making clear distinction. But truth is nobody will ever give a fuck if you're truly masculine. If you take away Don Drapers toxic aspects he is still a masculine highly attractive guy. Like most things feminist its aimed at Betas attempts more than truly masculine behavior. When being calm and collected becomes toxic, or standing up for yourself then… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/19 02:04 AM |
| 39 | 'The Hopedigger': "This is the woman who falls in love with a man before he has made his mark on the world, because she sees something great in him that needs time to burst forth. She places her hope in him."For that writer, artist, actor, entrepreneur. I think this is a great trait but im gonna sound sexist when I saw rarely does a woman know a loser from a winner before the the guy makes it. Back then hoes didnt want me, now im hot hoes all on me you feel. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/19 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Had a girl yesterday then 10 whiteknights fucked meI don't doubt that it does. Its just a funny thought having 10 dudes come up you. Its rare to find ten dudes hanging out period, let alone orbiting and sounds like something someone would say to exaggerate. Yeah in those situations someone is gonna get hurt from the big dude. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/19 06:47 PM |
| 1 | How to stop hamstering? Am I on the right track?You still seem a little too invested. But what can one tell you, these things take time on your personal growth. That said enjoy it man. Enjoy it all. I moved from the college town I was in (even in my 30s) and these are moments hard to come by the older you get. Laws of attraction, typically cute girls need high stimulation to keep them interested. You can be fun, exciting, sexy, hot, but you don't carry yourself like someone who has abundance she wont be up at night with you on her mind, itll … | /r/askTRP | 08/09/19 05:29 PM |
| 5 | Had a girl yesterday then 10 whiteknights fucked meIs this girl a solar system? | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 10:31 PM |
| 9 | Had a girl yesterday then 10 whiteknights fucked meIt was 26 guys! Big guys! And they all had guns! | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Man jailed for 28 years because she "dreamed" that he raped herAlso assuming this sub is only for right winged minds is pretty alarming, the world is far more complex. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/19 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Man jailed for 28 years because she "dreamed" that he raped herFirst off were talking about systematic racism of countless cases of blacks persecuted for crimes because they're black, and many whites getting a much easier time overall. One particular case you've shared from Breitbart no less is not a strong argument. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/19 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Man jailed for 28 years because she "dreamed" that he raped herMaybe so but when did you hear of a young black man getting off easy because his future could be ruined by actually raping an unconscious college girl? Oh please is something you need to shove back into your mouth. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/19 09:53 PM |
| 1 | What do you talk about with women you meet at a bar?This needs to be a stuck on my wall. Ive totally forgotten this principle of energy behind words not the words for women. Im known to get really deep and my dates end with a hug and "youre so fascinating" with some advice and then a block or unmatch. But when I used to flippantly talk about simulation theory behind the eyes of I really want to fuck you it didnt matter. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/19 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Radicalizing the Romanceless: "If you're smart, don't drink much, stay out of fights, display a friendly personality, & have no criminal history – then you're the population most at risk of being miserable & alone. In other words, everything that 'nice guys' complain of is pretty darned accurate."The darkest part is im very well acquainted with redpill and was very successful a year ago. Sometimes knowing isnt enough to fight demons. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/19 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Radicalizing the Romanceless: "If you're smart, don't drink much, stay out of fights, display a friendly personality, & have no criminal history – then you're the population most at risk of being miserable & alone. In other words, everything that 'nice guys' complain of is pretty darned accurate."It's harder to drop than one would think, but more so my current situation. I should probably not date right now in between jobs. You're right though. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/19 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Radicalizing the Romanceless: "If you're smart, don't drink much, stay out of fights, display a friendly personality, & have no criminal history – then you're the population most at risk of being miserable & alone. In other words, everything that 'nice guys' complain of is pretty darned accurate."I still struggle with niceness. Partly because when meeting a new woman, especially the liberal septum piercing type, I already assume they may think im a misogynist trump supporter who gives no fucks about the planet. So the last thing Im compelled to do is give them shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/19 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Quick Tip for a date idea that saves YOU money, gives you more exposure, and nets you value even if it doesn’t work out.Holy shit its my cake day and I didnt realize. Never have actually in 8 years. Shes a prostitute I think. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/19 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Quick Tip for a date idea that saves YOU money, gives you more exposure, and nets you value even if it doesn’t work out.The one I was just chatting with said its pay to play, what do I do about that one? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/19 01:32 AM |
| 1 | What do to do when a guy is competing for a girl your with? I was making out with this chick and I noticed another guy was trying to make moves on her but I knew if I got upset or fought it it wouldn’t do me any good so I kinda didn’t give a fuck and just played with her ass and kissed her.Yeah that shit can be weird. I think the thing to remember is you are the prize, she will always have guys around interested but you want her fixed on you. So best thing to do is not care, act like you normally would. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 07:48 PM |
| 1 | What do to do when a guy is competing for a girl your with? I was making out with this chick and I noticed another guy was trying to make moves on her but I knew if I got upset or fought it it wouldn’t do me any good so I kinda didn’t give a fuck and just played with her ass and kissed her.Im so confused. You were making out and another guy was tryna make moves on her? | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that woman would hate to discover that a man learned "game" instead of being a naturalExactly. Also being "woke" is likely to be seen as sexual strategy and falls in similar category to "i was nice so sex now? Show me bobs?" | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that woman would hate to discover that a man learned "game" instead of being a naturalCrazy world we live in. TRP is quarantined when its likely the best remedy for incels, yet its tied to incel assumption. Much of what has happened is women continually make it harder for us both. The guys listening to the ridiculous over the top feminist stuff are ruined by it, furthering their isolation and success with women. The guys who don't even bother listening who you'd assume they want to reach continue same as ever. Its a weeding out constantly whether this is known or not. In my opini… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 01:44 PM |
| 1 | The Foundations of Natural GameThats a good point. Being inside ones head seems to create a self centered view. I see a lot of posts from women saying its harassment to approach a girl at work or in a store, etc. I really hope that doesn't become common thought, hell. But I know, that is targeted at unwanted approaches. I was a bullied nerd who became "hot" and now women think I'm a prick but I'm sensitive and I don't bust through that barrier to prove them wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/19 07:24 PM |
| 1 | The Foundations of Natural GameI got there once. But then I got dragged into a horribly situation, had to live with parents in a shitty small town, started smoking a lot of weed, dove in to all the online outrage and walla months later youre afraid talking to a girl will get you shamed on a million follower feminist platform. Im in recovery. Gym, good food, off the popular pacifiers. Its still difficult Ill admit. A girl on Tinder called me a sexist for asking if she liked Rosé. And then I spiral back to the world is ending p… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/19 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Why have male attraction standards for looks increased so much relative to female standards?If you had actually read by post instead of poppin your ego boner you'd know. In the canon of western art for many centuries it was larger robust women who were not just accepted as not ugly but praised as the highest ideal of feminine beauty. And never was my point to say it is the ideal but that it definitely isn't objectively ugly. And that there is a big difference between a fat girl whose fat sags, hangs, develops sores, is inflamed and disproportionate and a girl like the one mentioned who… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Why have male attraction standards for looks increased so much relative to female standards?Well arent you a big boy. Im sorry centuries of geniuses disagree with you but you do you. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Why have male attraction standards for looks increased so much relative to female standards?Haha while I see where youre coming from that chick is not nasty. There isnt just fat. There is cellulite- tummy hanging -skin sores fat where the face becomes doggish and heavy; and there is healthier fat on top of muscularity which was the damn ideal for centuries. Her stomach is fairly flat to most women that plump, and her complexion is great. Ive studied art and the figure my entire life and this chick has something rarely seen. Im sorry this is just a terrible example though I get where yo… | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Delete, Block, ContinueYou took a stand, taking stands. I cant agree more with what you've said. Ive fallen off track lately precisely because of too much thinking and being hard on myself, and it only helps to perpetuate more rejection. You have to keep a healthy frame. Keeping in touch with the 30 chicks you almost, might, have been with, etc will drive you nuts. I started scrambling, reaching out to say "hey how are you?" And what comes of trying to keep yourself in their thoughts of a potential down the road? Almo… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/19 11:31 PM |
| 1 | How the hell can you remain frame when you got herpes and has a MORAL responsibility to let future partners know?Thats so vague I think I just felt it pass by with the wind. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 03:47 PM |
| 1 | How the hell can you remain frame when you got herpes and has a MORAL responsibility to let future partners know?Shitty choices as in having a sex life? Pretty judgmental. Im glad you think you dont but many think they dont and actually do. Maybe do some research, science is a friend. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Man jailed for refusing to marry ONSJust something I noticed, wasnt sure if it was a correct assessment. On the other hand Asian dudes seem to kill with white women. Again just observations. Im fair haired, girls think im soft so theyve said. I had best luck when I stopped being nice. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/19 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Man jailed for refusing to marry ONSAm I dick for saying I just hate most of the shit about India? I mean I love the food but the caste system, the arranged marriages, tipping seen as insulting, the amount of desperate lonely "show me bob, bitch lasagna". Idk, they need to fix some shit imo. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/19 09:03 PM |
| 1 | How the hell can you remain frame when you got herpes and has a MORAL responsibility to let future partners know?Did you read my comment? One of the big points was even you likely have it and the potential to share it. Are you telling everyone you know you have herpes? | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 01:57 PM |
| 1 | How the hell can you remain frame when you got herpes and has a MORAL responsibility to let future partners know?This is a tough dilemma, but people who think they're clean cant empathize and this needs to be understood. Most people are shitty at empathizing. I understand it being a dick move not to tell a partner you have it when you know you have it. BUT the other big issue is that this "disease" is not a big issue but we live in a society that says it is because our society is fucking stupid. What if we did it with cold sore herpes? Almost all of us have that shit. And likely most of you have both types… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill 101 – Ep. #27: The 9 Iron Rules of TomassiI recall it being said once that if a woman was aware of their nature many would struggle with it. And in my mind a large issue is with letting submissiveness always be seen as lesser, as oppressed. But many men know when some girl with ass tats once you to choke them out this is potentially her control over you in a manner on the surface that seems submissive. And it is submissive in its action but it has been granted sensitively through that girls request at her request, beyond how much that g… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/19 04:35 PM |
| 1 | I'm learning that as a man nobody is going to step in and give me a helping hand if things go downhill. As a result I am gradually taking on more and more responsibility because I'll be damned if I go down as a victim.Id give gold if I could or knew how. Thanks, that Ford quote is a great one. I definitely got to a nice point and things got easy and comfortable with girls, money, friends, my work. Then I took an opportunity to move to NYC and it crushed my setup. Ive bounced around looking for a similar setup and I'm now working construction somehow without ever seeing or interacting with women much, I'm temp here so gym membership is not cost effective. I keep thinking these things are permanent and its my m… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/19 01:42 PM |
| 3 | Why Cant I Keep Anyone?Same. I think for me its been that im too self involved. But this is largely due to liking to discuss ideas and I don't like being too nice and invested because thats hurt me in the past. Tough balance. It could be women don't want to be with a guy who is good with women and sex. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Probably found my main issue with womenCreatures of habit. Thats a big one to remember. Same boat here and got lazy with easy online stuff. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Do you people feel that (alot of) American woman are very entitled or have some sort of daddy/mental health issues?Ive felt this as a dude and it sucks. Im used to being the hot guy and circumstances what they are its a tough break from that attachment/high. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 06:08 PM |
| 3 | This girl I see in the bus every few days...You weak ass beta ass bitch. Haha just kidding. I do this so much too. Youre probably in an area other than nyc. Beautiful woman are usually easier to date, remember that. For whatever reason. Also just think of it as starting a conversation like you would with anyone which means practicing talking to all types of people. Do that enough and youll be fine in these situations. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Should I cuck this guy?Id say do it if you really want to. Ive noticed in more rural larger cities a lot of progressive girls/feminist girls date these guys that seem gay or very feminine. As some comments suggest these are just beta males acting as emotional sorting, it plays a role but not of the primal instinct to have sex with a strong successful male. She will likely find another if not you. And ive spent years in the midwest playing the waiting game only to watch these girls branch swing to a more aggressive dud… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 02:26 PM |
| 1 | What things can I start doing now to develop a more positive masculine character? Also, how do "artistic" types fit into the SMV heirarchy/get laid - pure game?Yeah you dont. There are worthwhile gals out there but they dont always come standard. A lot of the population is basic, a lot of the population will buy expensive diet bs and mini mansions and shit food posing as healthy. Intelligent people are many different things but basic is the easy path, the path of the follower and not the searcher. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 04:55 AM |
| 1 | What things can I start doing now to develop a more positive masculine character? Also, how do "artistic" types fit into the SMV heirarchy/get laid - pure game?Man, every time I meet a super cool art girl shes with what looks like a soy-boy. And ive mostly seen artistic masculine guys with ex sorority now artsy hot chicks or once ugly duckling now hot nerds. Thats all my lifelong experience though. I dont think basic hot chicks care about the arts, thats why they're basic. Ive noticed girls who might be associated as hipster/indie types usually have great wide hips, great legs/butt. Not sure why that is. But attractive women are attractive women no mat… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Women use their beauty to weaken men.They may come to see this but with the feminist empowerment thing no guy is supposed to say anything. So we usually just ignore/walk away. Thats where good men go; away from toxic women. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/19 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Women use their beauty to weaken men.In general. There are some good ones. I was surprised moving back to the midwest just how many (not necessarily knockouts) there are who think about others, have goals and discipline. Its just rare. Problem then is you can easily catch bluepill wanting after a good one. Normally they aren't basic, the upside to pursuing the arts is sometimes you find you know a girl who creates a beautiful life in everything they attempt to do. And i gotta say this stuff often goes beyond the primal, and it may … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/19 08:33 PM |
| 1 | What does Patrice O'Neal mean when he says "women aren't selling what we are buying"?Ive grinded, finger banged, and made out with a lot of women who say "sorry youre super hot and smart but I gotta go, Im seeing someone" and that guy is secure. Single women 95% percent of the time I fuck on first date. As a dude constantly complimented on my sex appeal im telling you you little shit its not this simple. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 05:16 AM |
| 1 | What does Patrice O'Neal mean when he says "women aren't selling what we are buying"?Dude im sorry but it just doesnt work like this. If it were so simple there would be a simple guide to women. You can be a sexy sweat dripping chad who might get her to makeout but she will still stop before the full thing because of the guy shes with. Some women fit this category, those beyond just physical appeal. Trust me, ive been with a lot of women and been in this game a long time. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 03:58 AM |
| 1 | What does Patrice O'Neal mean when he says "women aren't selling what we are buying"?Again I dont necessarily disagree. I think Id make a note though its the intentions behind the sex that are also important. Particularly power. That is it cant be perverted so much, women definitely aren't in to a guy who wants to fulfill his fantasies with her body but rather take her and give it to her. And that is the sexuality I think, the dominating nature. It can even be super nice if it leaves a trace of a dominating vibe. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 11:17 PM |
| 1 | What does Patrice O'Neal mean when he says "women aren't selling what we are buying"?Its an interesting Idea. I don't believe I necessarily disagreed with the idea but it definitely isn't this simple. And good sex comes in many formats for a woman. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 10:32 PM |
| 0 | What does Patrice O'Neal mean when he says "women aren't selling what we are buying"?Thats exactly what im saying. You get it now. Its not chad or muscles necessarily, its anything thats a healthy confident male that works. Those weren't insults. Y'all are obviously young and being dumb, its just the truth. Go read TRP for real and get off the whine forum for a bit. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 12:56 AM |
| 6 | [FR] She was in my bed within 60 minutesNot to brag but I was once coming back from a white trash party as a 30 year old and passing a cute blonde in the hall I asked her where she was going. She laughed and said home to which I said "Wanna come upstairs?" 69ing in 5 minutes while she was saying how hot this was. Honestly yeah..doesn't mean much but where else am I gonna tell that fun night. We need a stories shared page. Edit: i did have steak n shake in my hands so maybe that was it. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/19 10:37 PM |
| 1 | What does Patrice O'Neal mean when he says "women aren't selling what we are buying"?I forget this is ask Trp. Most of yall are still babies barely gotten laid. There is inherent behaviors to pay attention to but sometimes you aren't listening to some of the valid points being made. Toxic masculinity is any form that suppresses the healthy individual. Incels hate women not strong secure dudes. They also dont take the time to pointlessly downvote in a discussion. Your words dont unravel my emotional security; youre just young and dumb right now and not much I or anyone says will … | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 10:19 PM |
| 1 | What does Patrice O'Neal mean when he says "women aren't selling what we are buying"?I don't think you get it dude. The emasculated woke allies who do it to suppress themselves in order to be what woman want is the same song different title. Don Draper is giving what he is. He isn't pretending his character and this is the point. Yes to an extent youre correct here other than not understanding what toxic masculinity refers to. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 04:58 AM |
| 1 | What does Patrice O'Neal mean when he says "women aren't selling what we are buying"?Im saying what constitutes masculinity or femininity is complicated, its more about frame than exterior displays. A false exterior projection of toughness is one of the major points to the definition of toxic masculinity more than simply being tough. This stuff is more about suppressing emotions whether its looking beta/sjw/pussyhat or tough guy with ballsack on truck. When women say be yourself theyd much rather see some not trying to maintain a thing for show but see you for what you are and I… | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 04:53 AM |
| 1 | What does Patrice O'Neal mean when he says "women aren't selling what we are buying"?We gotta look at the positive though. As a guy who appreciates a good muscular butt we are living in that era of some great booties and bodies, stripping, dancing, promoting for sex work. One has to make sure you aren't fighting ghosts in a kind of paranoia here. I've often felt that I am offending sjw's, as I spend the majority of my time with them, just by lifting and having shorter hair. What would be toxic masculinity in most cases is trying to exert power or force right? Well a masculine du… | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 03:24 AM |
| 1 | What does Patrice O'Neal mean when he says "women aren't selling what we are buying"?Wouldn't this be a kind of "mirroring" and men do this too. Also we really have to ask what femininity really is? Or masculinity? It's very complicated. Many male sex symbols are very feminine and it's seen as masculine to go against the status quo of what a male should do. However if the femininity is a frail beta in a sweater and beanie who doesn't say much that's more feminine than a dude wearing long hair and eye makeup talking about shoes who is confident and stands his ground. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 03:16 AM |
| 1 | What does Patrice O'Neal mean when he says "women aren't selling what we are buying"?I think what he means is women spot 'love to get sex' easily and women assume we always want sex so it seems dishonest and weak even if your feels are real. Where as women who want sex might come off as sluts to us so they may feign love to get sex which we will believe is honest usually because what woman would just want sex??? Haha. I jest, but it definitely exists. I think what the beta male offers is a kind of life support. It shows people she's found someone for outward validation, he provi… | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 03:08 AM |
| 3 | How do you guys deal with people still plugged into the matrix who act like your the strange one for avoiding monogamous relationship in order to foucus and improve on ones self? (21 years old)Yeah.. I date girls who say its weird Ive only had one LTR and it was 4 months at 28. Im gonna jump into a bit of a tangent if this hits home to anyone else. I was an obedient worrisome overthinking analytical church kid who never partied or dated and I was late to it all. TRP kind of illuminated things I thought I saw but couldn't understand. Before finding TRP though I had learned my confidence in my field (even while a bit delusional) was powerful. And I was often dating very attractive women… | /r/askTRP | 24/03/19 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Why do people deny the red pill so much?Hahah. I could have researched but I thought will they even care? | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Why do people deny the red pill so much?Yeah but like Oscar Wilde said, "if you're gonna tell people the truth make them laugh otherwise they'll kill you." Maybe it should be spoken but it has to be the right person and context. Feminism isn't completely wrong and society in past years has treated women like subordinates. The issue is mostly that crazy people and crazy women use its name to fuel insanity. It has now become a powerful tool to fuel hurting men, oppressing them as somehow this will create balance, and getting out of resp… | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Why do people deny the red pill so much?Consider how we create and value shows that check off the boxes, art that appears to function for what we consider good promotion for pc culture or plainly skill over truth and nuance, music mostly for catchiness and appearances. If you've been on Instagram you see day after day vain narcissistic posts under some false guise that get support for mental illness or because they're attractive, at some point its hard to tell the difference. The point is this world was never meant to make much sense … | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 01:25 PM |
| 11 | Women don't actually want their men to "be in touch with their feelings". Men don't show emotion or share their feelings because there is no benefit for them to do so in society or their relationships.I got a lot like this smoking weed. Why the connection of high THC being a product of very highly sexually frustrated female plants is not talked about more i'm not sure. Through many scientific sites it seems research has been done to show it causing spikes in things like cortisol and I believe estrogen, with temporary spikes of testosterone. Anyway the point seems to be it causes hormonal and thereby emotional issues I assume. If I experienced anything at all of what some women go through holy… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/19 12:26 AM |
| 5 | Would you rather have condomless sex 1-2x per week with one woman, or be free to have protected sex with a rotation of women?Wore a condom on a hookup, condom busted. Chick wouldnt take money for a plan b pill. Im currently riding the waves of whatever the gods subject me to. I realize its "their body" but its really not equality to me when an accident happens and you might have to pay for shit you cant afford. I guess the point is sex is always a risk, im not sure the plating thing is worth it really. If youre in a big city and have a vasectomy maybe its not so bad. In most places you just piss people off by fucking … | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Misogyny Alert: Men’s Brains Are Significantly Larger Than Women’s BrainsFinally. A person with reason. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/19 03:32 AM |
| 1 | International Feminists Go Nuts About 12 Step Guide to Being A Beautiful WomanWhats funny is I really didn't disagree with the list for men either. I see these as healthy achievements and pursuits. I wanna do what I wanna do and still get results mindset, and whats forgotten is how were programmed. But overall to all who read this, its fucked out there/here. And the progressive stuff seems far better in strong cities than in midwestern areas or areas in isolation. I moved from the east back to the midwest and most of the women here are so disappointing. If they do have it… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/19 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Physically handsome guys. Do you notice girls are more friendly/assertive to your less attractive friends than you? Or do they throw themselves at you like people would think?Its usually less largely muscular men but there is the churchy, used to be attractive naturally in high school creep type. Dudes that dont get out much, sit in coffee shops with boot cut scraggly jeans and sandals. The Aura though is just mostly an aura. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 09:52 PM |
| 4 | It fucking stings.Im so sick of hearing about monk mode. Date or don't. Locking yourself up in some kind of self improvement chamber just builds things you think make you better, more valuable. They dont. What makes you valuable is when you can be broke and considered a loser but still love yourself and command a presence. Otherwise its all conditional. Go move to a small city in the midwest where you don't know a soul. If you think having money, women, good looks, means your doing well you need to consider life … | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 03:38 PM |
| 23 | Ariana Grande with the anthem for hypergamy and branch swinging?Didn't catch this version, was it on pornhub? | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 10:33 PM |
| 7 | My date asked what is my age and I responded with "Old enough to fuck".I imagine for a guy itd be like a girl burping and going you wanna fuck my flaphole level of attractiveness. everyone loves to fuck but remember its pyschological. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Older guys plating younger womenI did this/can still but its about location. If youre in a college city its like the dream... hot 20s will drive to your apartment and come in for sex. I just moved to a conservative city for some dumb reason and ive never had a harder time getting women. One because midwest women dont plate, they get married at 20 or always keep a bf who is usually safe. Location Location. Then all that face and body stuff will get a chance to play. Otherwise in some cities youre just a guy. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Physically handsome guys. Do you notice girls are more friendly/assertive to your less attractive friends than you? Or do they throw themselves at you like people would think?Yeah I get that. I guess for me im worse off currently without it. I am too critical of everything to fully operate in total awareness. I have a sharp eye and mind and constantly saying "ohhh its fine, oh this impractical decision is okay, oh a stupid haircut is fine" i like to do everything I can to the best and its a nightmare for me and others. Now if I was wealthy itd be fine but at what cost to get there. Pot keeps me at similar tolerance to most peoples bs. Maybe im awful. Ive been a stude… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Physically handsome guys. Do you notice girls are more friendly/assertive to your less attractive friends than you? Or do they throw themselves at you like people would think?If you're not getting challenged I think you start challenging things that maybe are better left alone. Better safe than sorry is safe but it is helpful to take a few reasonable risk. Life will give you sorry no matter how safe you try Ive learned. Yeah I understand. If im not smoking i almost am too productive with nowhere to channel it. I hate seeing my abilities wasted because im not in a position of power. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Physically handsome guys. Do you notice girls are more friendly/assertive to your less attractive friends than you? Or do they throw themselves at you like people would think?Yeah its kind of a hyperawareness and if its usually critical in nature its hard not to bend every moment in your reality to negativity. "Oh shes cute but has money and wouldnt go for me because im poor" could be true but doesn't mean it is the truth because you had that thought. Knowing this and living differently is difficult. Better off being too blunted than to have complex critical thoughts all the time. That said smoking often helps me not sweat stupid paranoia more than one would think. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Can someone with experience explain why eventually you have to quit drugs/alcoholI think youre right in many ways here but weed for me actually has brought new perspectives and ways of seeing things. It breaks down illusions and attachments for me. I say this as a dude who didnt smoke weed or do drugs til 28. It actually helped me see my hangups. It all depends on how its used like anything else in life. The path is forward and not linear in personal growth. I for instance have the tendency to be a parent/people/society pleaser and people who often go totally clean are often… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Physically handsome guys. Do you notice girls are more friendly/assertive to your less attractive friends than you? Or do they throw themselves at you like people would think?Because you might be smart enough to know that confidence off looks is an unstable core. If it happens to fade you lose it. Confidence beyond all might seem impractical and it is but that is the goal. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Physically handsome guys. Do you notice girls are more friendly/assertive to your less attractive friends than you? Or do they throw themselves at you like people would think?I wanna add if you are jacked and attractive and lack confidence youll more so put people off because itll be assumed something is seriously off. I mean I get uncomfortable at good looking dudes who have an aura of creep about them. Girls can be hot and have insecurities but as a guy you cant. In fact normal to high confidence is almost a necessity for men. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/19 05:38 PM |
| 3 | Physically handsome guys. Do you notice girls are more friendly/assertive to your less attractive friends than you? Or do they throw themselves at you like people would think?Trust me did this for years and works like shit. Now standing your ground, being a bit rude even is one thing but there are enough mma wannabe tough bastards brooding out there that it means practically nothing to brood. Brood. Its a fun word to say though. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/19 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Physically handsome guys. Do you notice girls are more friendly/assertive to your less attractive friends than you? Or do they throw themselves at you like people would think?Yeah my insecurities usually move toward them judging me to be a bad person but its usually intimidation. In a sense you have more power and its a threat to situation controls for many. So if you very charming/aggressive/confident too you might get met with backlash or ignoring to keep themselves from indulging in potential dangers like husband, bf, heartbreak. It is certaintly easier to get laid but very hard to find a mate unless shes very very fine and by that point I at least think those gir… | /r/askTRP | 10/02/19 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Ex LTR rewrote our story together: “I tricked her into being with me”Surely not. Didn't you read about her riding his alpha cock? | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Why are blowjobs indicative of higher interest?Yeah, thats why I hate this current climate. Its true there are guys who push past their rejections but ive also met a lot of girls who are shy, insecure, nervous, etc. If you cant take charge they surely dont want to risk rejection by asking you. Also many girls don't want to come off as slutty and you could see how eagerly going for your dick could be. If this was a business deal business deals would never happen because no scenario is perfect, somebody needs to say its going to be fine despit… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 06:23 PM |
| 3 | NoFap and TRPCan you uh, talk to people? Think of a girl as a person and open a regular conversation without suppressing your sexual desire like you've got a dark secret you're trying to hide. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 09:27 PM |
| 2 | NoFap and TRPPeople always want to take things to extremes. The point is to get you off dependency, the pacifier for your dick. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 09:23 PM |
| 2 | What are your examples of women saying TRP shitAdmittedly I scanned the comments and commented on the rough summary rather than made it clear what I was on about. And usually I have to explain my points in depth so Ive gotten into a bad habit of shortcutting at the expense of the viewer. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 02:41 AM |
| 2 | What are your examples of women saying TRP shitMore directly women are a lot like guys. Its not TRP things being said its just a natural progression of what females have come to. I just think TRP is mostly BS. Things that usually apply and work are pretty basic social dynamic no matter the gender. I think men suffer to have success with women because they aren't interesting to women's interests, they sneakily look for ways to get at sex and courtship, they expose internal misogyny, they lack confidence in self overall. SMV is definitely a th… | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 02:28 AM |
| 1 | What are your examples of women saying TRP shitNot to burst bubbles but most of these things are perceived indications of authenticity for women and simple laws of attraction. They don't like to get the bottom shelf and they don't want a serial killer. Ive struggled with over thinking and a lot of this is. I as a dude looking to simply bang don't want to do that with my ideal partner, and Id argue women do allow an in between. Tons of guys who are comfortable with themselves and their sexuality. This stuff is so often a mirror of what we wan… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 04:40 PM |
| 2 | What has caused society’s recent (last 10-20 years) emasculinity?Its funny I was downvoted on this comment. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 09:34 PM |
| 5 | Its lonely after taking the pill., Am I doing something wrong?When youve watched it for years you have no doubt. I think Red Pills Error is honestly this is what happens when you become that person internally, this is life-hacking and using knowledge and probabilities to kind of back door get what you want. Which is likely where women get freaked out about with anything that involves help about their sex, it means they'll have less of an ability to read you for who you are. Less likely to know if you have mental issues that means to them. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 05:30 AM |
| 1 | What has caused society’s recent (last 10-20 years) emasculinity?Your male energy scares me. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 05:08 PM |
| 5 | What has caused society’s recent (last 10-20 years) emasculinity?Its their hamstering. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 05:07 PM |
| 3 | Anyone here went from incel to chad?Thats whats fucked. The feminist movement if completely listened to will leave you rarely getting laid by women other than the openly sexual ones. I still have major anxiety sometimes looking back about past sexual experiences and wondering if the initial resistance was any of the thousand reasons other than I really don't want to. Some of the most bitter were girls who said "no not tonight, we have no condoms, etc" and we'd tease it, tempt each other, she'd moan when i put a finger on her back … | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here went from incel to chad?Uhhhh well I realized early on the reason it was harder getting laid was being afraid of being open about sexuality. I used to get so upset when Id spend weeks working on getting laid and then get turned down. I learned what works the best is to be who you are and open about what you want. Also not too have too many expectations. I think most guys who struggle do because theyre scared, hiding intentions, creating pressure, all things that'd make you uncomfortable too if you were being approached… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 03:26 AM |
| -3 | If women need to be more selective about who they have sex with, what explains female promiscuity?Really? How about some women really like sex and aren't overly picky, a lot like guys. Period. Damn do yall think the world is this fuckin black and white? Biology is tendencies. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Is there hope?You're not a loser. But notice everything you've mentioned is how YOU perceive you to be a failure. You don't yet love yourself but you should. You can go to the gym, get laid, stop smoking and it will improve your mood but likely will have little effect on you loving yourself. Until you make that choice, even this shit is just a thing. You'll take this advice and go back to old habits. You have to be ready to stop hating yourself before you'll start taking care of yourself. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Did any of you ever beat the over-thinker mentality? What did you do?Operate from being, intuition not thoughts. The majority of the things you do don't require thoughts, so trust yourself. There are times to calculate but think of your head as a party. If you wanna know if the floor needs cleaned you need to clear the room. I have almost lived in other cities because of my hangup on weed. If you work out of the being level you'll consider big picture ideas instead of distractions, narrow fixations. You'll stop seeing what you want to see and see whats there. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 10:50 PM |
| -3 | Manly subredditsManly? Imo if you wanna be more 'manly' there is nothin to look for. Just find confidence in yourself thats about as manly as it gets. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 07:20 PM |
| -1 | What was your first real world experience that really made you swallow the pill?Do guys ride the carousel too? Cuz I definitely feel I missed out on good ltr's for running around. Now the worlds gone nuts and too many women are getting insane behaviors validated by 4th wave feminism. At this point I don't see how its much different than people who support trumps insane behaviors. Where did objectivity go. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Are all of you really fucking around this much or are some of you exaggerating just how much sex you’re having?I get laid a lot but its not often what many guys would consider a 7-10. Anyone banging 8-10s regularly probably has about it all and in a densely populated area. The midwest is very different than large cities. Its mostly factors of various kinds. Maybe work on every edge that would help you get laid if its what you want. Personally good sex is fairly hit or miss beyond the looks. Sometimes a fairly nerdy overweight chick is an absolute freak and a model has a saggy ass and boring as hell. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 04:58 PM |
| 1 | How to garner respect from coworkers?Look it bothers you it bothers you. Selecting a proper response or behavior is just acting. If youre angry like a little baby be angry like a little baby. Probably the weakest shit you could do is tell yourself not to feel emotion. Ignore it, speak up, do a michael jackson spin and kick it doesnt matter because at the end of the day youre bothered by what other people are doing in regards to you. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Something is not Making any Fucking Sense: 2 Questions and a RantNeediness, desire, attachment can come in all forms and not be present even in beta behavior. Dudes at the gym acting tough and maybe are but then freak out if they cant drink their post workout shake. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 03:11 PM |
| 1 | What's the deal with Los Angeles women?Makes sense. I came to NYC as a trial period and due to many circumstances have hated the hell out of it. The one thing I'll miss most of all is the countless attractive single women every time you turn your head. I'm gonna kick myself so much leaving to the midwest again. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 04:05 PM |
| 7 | What's the beta habit you had the hardest time giving up?Yes! Thats what I do. Analogies for people period is a great way to separate their investment they have in fixed ideas. Then you gotta fight "yeah but thats different..." All I get is "yeah... i guess I can see that" Im the lady whisperer. The issue is though only in the power dynamic, well reasoning is not the hallmark of primal bonding surely. The only girl Ive kept wanting bad over the years pissed me off to high heaven and was stupid as hell half the time. A terrible mate choice but best sex… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 01:11 AM |
| 1 | What's the beta habit you had the hardest time giving up?Dude we should be friends. I cant make life decisions for shit because they're all good, all bit bad, and im smart enough to know ill adapt to any situation so it really doesnt matter but maybe I should shoot higher but I dont because that higher is kind of shallow and giving my life to serve others for a higher order would be better but im not ready to do that yet so.... my life is one of great potentials but little use because im caught in analysis paralysis. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Broke down crying after meditation. I don’t know what to make of what happenedHappened to me one night after work. I was working on being present and focusing on love, and when I got back to my place and sat down I started crying and crying. I actually rubbed my stomach like I was finally taking care of myself and loving myself. From that moment Ive had ups and downs but my ego mind is much much lower, im more present and happy around people and surprisingly things have only gotten better, especially with women if you have concerns there. Its a good thing man. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls agree to dates if they’re just gonna flake?I dont like that better option came along thing, it doesnt mean it was another dude. I flake on dates a lot as a dude because when it comes down to it my drive when asking out was a number of reasons thats rarely super into it. Usually its "she could be a fun date/bang" and honestly im willing to bet thats most girls. Not a lot of them young ones are looking to settle, likely the settle comes from an alpha type not giving them what they want driving them nuts. Girls today at least like getting l… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 02:18 AM |
| 2 | NoFap is becoming a problem.Ive moved on, and I cant fully explain this. Im not sure there is any approach beyond experience and understanding. You may not fap but you need to get laid id say. Have sex with all kinds of women of many types. Hear the queefs, see the poo they missed or you broke loose, watch the period blood stain your good sheets, this is all part of a woman and realities. Hell maybe watch a ton of porn. I watched so much that the reproductive parts don't much do it anymore in regards to arousal. And if you… | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Found gf of colleague on tinder, do I tell him?A lot of girls delete the app thinking it deletes their profile; you sure its not that? | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 01:33 PM |
| 1 | I went on 2 dates with a girl over the weekend. I fucking suck at this shit. Can you all critique me and give me advice for future dates?You've helped remind me why I might be struggling lately. Im a very go with the flow person, to very zen like mentality, but women internally must see this as completely passive. And likely this trait is only attractive to women looking to use you. It sucks in the age of feminism, I agree with what they argue for often its just they dont actually biologically respond to it. That must drive them insane. You gotta give some "no's" is my short answer. Long answer you're doing fine, youre just gonna… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 12:52 PM |
| 1 | The TRP fallacy - why don't most men need TRP?I gotta say majority of my life is failure to get good response from girls I wanna date, and failure to get into girls who want me. And its not because they want me, theyre usually less attractive. Its a real mental complex, and when I assume very attractive girls aren't into me. Ultimately at 30, all id like is a girl I'm attracted to to agree to a date. Dated "ehh" girls for too long. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 04:32 AM |
| 1 | The TRP fallacy - why don't most men need TRP?I think my issue is trouble enjoying a reality where I feel im the man behind the curtain. Doing what works for a result, but this is much of life. Most people cling to everything being magic and chance. If you know how the trick is performed getting excited about the show is difficult. In a sense Id have probably been better off in the illusion, as in tune with my thoughts on reality thats all it is anyway. A relationship/life is like going to the movies, you just have to decide how much you ca… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Feminism is not a shit test. Feminism is a macro level compliance test, and we're all failing it.Within the proper state of mind working intuitively actions are natural not able to be inhibited by emotions. Maybe were on different pages but I can say I fear going bald to a girl and that would make me strong, weaker to repress and pretend otherwise. I embrace a lot of feminism because its right, not to win favor with women. And besides for the parts off base it will all work itself out. Nothing has changed, just different expressions of feelings of inadequacy; to the point at which so much i… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/18 04:36 AM |
| 2 | Feminism is not a shit test. Feminism is a macro level compliance test, and we're all failing it.Great post but I think this is overdoing it and missing one important aspect. Feminism isnt entirely bad, in fact points about men not being able to express their emotions in this culture is important for men who could eventually become more alpha like. Truth is alpha men will never have anything to fear. The alpha male like female stems at its original core from a kind of primal zen. This is acceptance of death, this is abundance mentality. Of all my red pill efforts I never had more success th… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/18 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingVery well put. Well, the world is getting stranger everyday. I'm into simulation theory, not that it needs to be as complicated as what we see with current social media. It's creepily beginning as the online 'avatar' often taking first in priorities over their actual life, just live out the appearance inside the bubble. I wonder how many of these people can then actually deal with reality. When its less heavy to send your nude parts than bring someone flowers. Bring someone flowers now you might… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingI was thinking the other day it might actually be that females are becoming even more insecure and feeling less powerful in this age. It's coming out in expressions of masculinity and challenges, if you shave your head you have an excuse for guys not to want you and maybe feel it must be beyond the body if they do (as many separate this unfortunately). I would think an internally strong woman would be fine with appearing feminine, just as a strong man would. And a strong person would be okay wit… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 11:03 PM |
| 3 | The Paradox of Declining Female HappinessI don't know if it exists. I want a feminine woman who loves doing her hair and looking nice, but also is confident in herself from a deep place and on a place of keeping herself looking good. I want her to have drive and passions of her own, and admire me for mine. I don't want her reminding me of her humanity, I'm aware that she shits and pisses, I don't need it vulgarly displayed. Maybe she even knows how to cook a few things because shes isn't offended by the idea that she might play into a … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingI must say things change depending on location. I'm in a small town with a big college, there are no high quality plates. There are sorority girls, blue haired trans girls, 90% emasculated guys, bros. The closest I find to high quality girls are grad students and they're usually insane. These dynamics play out well in big cities but in smaller places what you see is this story with a bunch of beta males following a low quality plate around calling herself queen and alpha males wondering if they … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingSo what does Chadrock do today? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/18 06:26 PM |
| 0 | The Paradox of Declining Female HappinessAint feelin like that at thirty. My SMV and looks are so high I only see movie star/famous as a viable option, as ridiculous as that sounds. I have nobody to complain to this about because you want to cringe, but I'm highly intelligent to a fault and very attractive. It doesn't suck for my self love, but it sucks for social dynamics. If I was stupid I could be big dumb handsome stupid guy for her to manipulate. But I call women on their shit, and think more than they often do so this makes me a … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/18 06:10 PM |
| 1 | “Women can smell desperation a mile away”. How the hell do you not be desperate when you’re doing NoFap and given up porn?Woah. Double edged sword here. I’m a believer that anyone that can own themselves, feel like they’re sexy as hell, can get laid. You need real confidence. Learn to dress well. Not bad well, like compose an arrangement of understated refined beauty, masculinity. It should be natural but if you gotta fake it do it. Be open, be in the moment, be weary of any drug unless you’re used to them. Overall you gotta put in the work. Sometimes to access certain things you gotta take what seem like detours. … | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 09:22 PM |
| 3 | [Field Report] TRP principles work and it is FUN!I mean you get to a point when pussy just comes to you and this stuff is hilarious by then. Cuz you realize it’s just human interaction. And arguably you could throw all this info away and say “person of depth, intelligence, hard work, consistency, confidence” or no confidence because it comes when you do the others. Someone’s fat and out shape? Badly dressed? Eats like crap? Poor choices, lazy person. Don’t blame it on weight, they didn’t like you because you lacked character. To have character… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/18 03:18 AM |
| 0 | [Field Report] TRP principles work and it is FUN!What it’s weird but if you took what most guys say and changed the sounds to “pussy” we’d be like pigeons looking for food. Just bopping our heads on the hunt for pussy. Until we find that one special pussy, because that pussy is so good we get scared we’ll lose it. So we lock our dreams away. Mm. Pussy. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/18 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Question the QuestionNot sure I follow. However we all live in different context. I get the impression today you’re expected to not be sexually aggressive at all. But rather transition it from a friendly standpoint, that doesn’t allow for tension though. Tension is good, but our society seems to work to avoid it. Women become more heard, more right, but they only drive their insecurities into further madness. Places where men often dominate the women are fairly tough. In college towns like the one I’m in the women d… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/17 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Question the QuestionI mean i just act like I don't understand because I usually don't, and in that case we were all pretty high. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/17 10:47 PM |
| 0 | Question the QuestionI struggle with that, as these things carry similar weight as if someone said "that's racist" to something you said. And saying "yeah and" to that is like wearing the outfit of that hated archetype. I get the theory, agree and amplify but I don't see how it's helpful to a room of people, more than just that girl as a power play. The room doesn't really know that. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/17 02:37 PM |
| 0 | Question the QuestionBut many of these guys do! And I don't know how. I've seen and heard about many a velcro shoe wearer even messing around on his girl. These guys who don't talk of sex, don't ever publicly display their desire. It's like the movies these days. Every dude who gets laid is so surprised and thankful this girl is making the moves on him. Some do. But what happened to sexy dude making moves on girl? Well, I guess that'd be rape. I see a dude with hair covering his eyes, ball cap on. White new balance … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/17 11:48 PM |
| 4 | Question the QuestionYeah, what do we do about that though? Does gaylubeoil mean when some girl tries to shame me for supposed mansplaining at a party I say, "explain to me how that is mansplaining?" Call me a pessimist but we all gotta live with the world were in. If everyone starts being so easily hyper sensitive and triggered (even myself whether I agree or not), taking the high road approach isn't gonna help. You may be right but you'll be alone. I'm hoping the ridiculous of it all gets so out of hand that it st… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/17 11:45 PM |
| 1 | She does not love you, she just thinks you are Ultimate Chad.Last sentence exactly. They need a stable beta, one they can fill with their craziness on monday, and realize on tuesday it was just their craziness. And the dude is like "huh, hah, I don't know man, i'm just high" | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/17 11:33 PM |
| 3 | She does not love you, she just thinks you are Ultimate Chad.Hah, large juicy penis is the one the biggest things that stuck out ;) I think I know where you're trying to go with this.... I have noticed a lot more girls than you'd think are with very weak beta slobs that they seem to be crazy about. From what I've seen these are "chill betas", that is beta males who appear so ready to be bossed around that the girl actually lets him take some control. Chill beta's are kind of like alphas, they just lack the muscle and the drive to dominate anything. They s… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/17 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Be mindful of TRP power you wieldUnlike you I was raised so sheltered I didn't explore sexually til late twenties, which is a bit of a terrible time to do it. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/17 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Be mindful of TRP power you wieldYou're telling me. I did it in grad school, innocently enough as possible.. dated around. Programs got changed, professors don't back me or like me, my thesis was challenged in a context of sexism because people knew I was popular with women. Doesn't matter if you're the nicest dude ever. If you're banging chicks people are going to hate you. Only exception ive seen is dudes who get laid a lot that nobody expected could get laid, then comes defense to the underdog. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/17 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Be mindful of TRP power you wieldTempting a drug addict. Were all addicts to some degree. You tempt that person who was 5 years sober to drink is gonna be pissed. Yeah they of course want to drink in part, but the regular functioning part does not want that at all. Do not do this with women. I repeat. Do Not. Fuck women who want to just fuck. Fuck women who you're seeing. Just don't ever do this. It's how you get accusations of rape, ruin friendships, jobs, and become hated by all the women you've hooked up with. When you have … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/17 04:39 PM |
| 4 | The validation seeking alpaFascinating part about reality is no matter how smart we get, we still react to some behaviors more than others. The most intelligent people still like to look at buttholes. I hate trump so much, but even so when I listen to him speak part of me says "yes, let this man lead you. You'd shoot the shit with this guy and have beers" and the other part says "what a dickwad". | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/17 04:20 PM |
| 1 | 6 blue pilled behaviors, disguised as red pilled, that trap men in blue pilled beta purgatory.Issue is TRP talks so much of women's biology that it comes off like the focus is masked as self improvement with the intention of having better success with women. There are many ways to live a successful life but TRP focuses on life successes that are conveniently attractive to women more for the short term. The reality is you could never lift, eat like shit, and be the best fucking pianist in your area with a cock of the walk attitude and you'd never need to read a scratch of red pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/17 04:13 PM |
| 1 | 6 blue pilled behaviors, disguised as red pilled, that trap men in blue pilled beta purgatory.Is there a sub redpill for top percentage guys who were once skinny fat nice guys? I had more confidence when I was lazy (arguably it doesn't matter where confidence comes from, as long as you have it). Now everyone hates me initially, every skinny beta dude; and I have to be extra nice because I'm also very beta most of the time and understand where they come from and I care, I care so much about people. "Don't steal my girl bro" look in their eyes. If I do have a confident day it's a nightmare… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/17 04:02 PM |
| 1 | RP Whiteknights.Thinking back to any mild RP White knighting i've done i'd say it's because I still couldn't swallow the pill, I wanted to be reassured that's not how it was. From a guy's perspective it's like a woman saying, "You men are predictable, you're programed to want to fuck attractive women" And we could say "no no, that's not always the case" but you know for the large part it is. And there's not much we can do about it, it's our biology. Doesn't make you then reason yourself into banging unattractiv… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/17 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Attractive Women with Ugly dudes.Camp might be right, it's one of those places where everyone in the state is very backwoods so they all find a safe haven hub and go overboard on their ideals. It is my world right now, and it's not great on the mind. I have to work with these people, they even have influence on people I do like. I gotta get out. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/17 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Attractive Women with Ugly dudes.These girls are all shaving their heads here too. If they have nice hair they cut it off because "I want to be seen for more than my superficial beauty". It's easy to forget that areas/places are just those places and not the rest of the world. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/17 03:56 PM |
| 5 | Attractive Women with Ugly dudes.To most people saying something like this sounds misogynistic but it's the truth. I've seen it again and again and again. On further thought I think the issue I deal with is I feel bad for beating them in the game. It's a war everytime to get your needs filled, and they're biologically wired to respond to your advances if done right, they just don't want to be wired that way, lose their control. That part would make it frustrating to be a woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/17 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Attractive Women with Ugly dudes.Just said all that but thanks for the reiteration. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/17 10:14 PM |
| 0 | No fap, dopamine dulling..and it's effectsThe problem with this is it's still so much attached to ego. Do what you like, you have to make mistakes and learn; but who really cares how unshakeable your confidence is? People are always looking for the problem or the thing that will help them through problems but there is no thing. You will only continue to steadily learn more, come to more conclusions, and grow a greater perspective only over time and experience if this is an area you want to have it. I'm not knocking you for the step. But… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/17 04:11 PM |
| 2 | I suck ass at the bar/club, need advice.The world is often far more complicated than we think. When I was younger I was disheartened by this idea that women would want to fuck that dumb gross affliction shirt wearing asshole over somebody who wasn't a cartoon character. But now I get it because I've done it with women. It could very well be your friend might give off the vibe/look of a guy they could mess with no strings attached, or they don't care to even fuck over. If I'm looking to get laid I don't go throw down some dirty innuend… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/17 03:54 PM |
| 1 | What was the worst Blue Pill thing you did in your lifetime for a girl?A lot of this is just learned behavior one uses as a vehicle to express feels. Musicians do it all the time, even famous sex gods. The problem was in trying to win her over with these things, not the things themselves. It shouts massive shortcomings or detachment from reality which scares people, not necessarily that you like her so much. If you've seen a girl for 8 months and she digs you and is angry about you being gone or fucking up, a portrait or love letter is a great conduit. 30 pages tho… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/17 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Is getting heartbroken considered bluepill?I'll say it once again, the problem with TRP quite often is this overly simplistic way of thinking. It's like insecurity about masculinity. Do wherever the hell you want, but know where it's coming from. Don't use TRP masks and bandaids. There are different types of rejections and negative feels to be had when dealing with women. Hurt over rejection in cases where you both seemed emotionally invested is far different than building a girl up in your head as though she's the only answer to life, t… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/16 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Which would have been the best course of action in this case? (Advice needed)You could have probably done everything better. You fall into her frame every message. Too many emojis. Get rid of the "lols", she's not afraid of you being serious. You don't really need to give girls I hard time like this, just be better. Her exchange suggests she thinks you're good for emotional support and doesn't respect you enough not to talk to you like you're a young horny clueless dude...but you probably are. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/16 04:58 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop being so needy?You can't, well not in the way you probably wish. You can find distractions possibly. Until you can see that she's a human like you, with flaws like you, and that she isn't that much different than so many wonderful women out there you have no power over this. The problem rests at you making her into such a huge deal in your life, which makes you afraid. Which means your fear of losing her bothers you so much when she's not as responsive and you feel larger than life when she is. And the only wo… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/16 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Experience and Introspection is KeyFor sure. I work in a coffee shop where I make more in tips per hour than the min wage, and more when I work the register and handle customers well. That's an art in itself, but largely you concern yourself with what you would want. I don't want an annoying fake ass person asking me about my day when they don't give a fuck. I ask them how their day is and stop everything i'm doing and look them in the eye. That alone can be enough. We all just want to be treated like were here. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/16 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Experience and Introspection is KeyNo, I really don't see the difference. If I was good looking that changes why this or that might have been successful in my personal story. This needs a direct example. I don't see how a single story or example is a good illustration of a point. You would need many multiple illustrations, and even then what if they weren't true? I'm trying to get RedPillers to think mostly, and that doesn't require me to be anything but effective. It is somewhat out of no where stream of consciousness. I persona… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/16 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Experience and Introspection is KeySure. This is honestly what I want anyway, direct questions, not boring everybody with long stories. I've worked in a lot of various locally owned coffee shops. Starbucks aint the place for talking really. But locally owned, and in a college town, you get a lot of students who go to study or pick something up before, after, during school. Now you can just sit and not engage, but if you choose to engage you will grow to become better at thinking on your feet and dealing with people. But for vario… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/16 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Experience and Introspection is KeyBut I don't see it as a contradiction. I can admit to being part of what is rather ridiculous, and claim it was a stepping stone, without believing it's what people really need in order to progress. It got me into getting out there. And if that's what people need then great. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/16 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Experience and Introspection is KeyMy grandfather was a pastor. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/16 06:59 PM |
| 5 | Never compare your sex life with a girl's sex lifeI don't exactly feel better about myself for banging a bunch of women. It's also really easy for me, which is like most women. Consider that perspective and know those girls with low counts who are worth a damn will be turned off by you having slept with so many. Quality of the girls does factor in. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/16 03:42 PM |
| 2 | NEWSFLASH: 45% of white women with COLLEGE DEGREES voted for Trump.Yes! I've finally found an example I can go wow the TRP guys with! Don't even need lube, I'm gonna force this shit in somehow! | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/16 01:37 PM |
| 1 | How did you get out of the loop of instant gratification ?It will get better. It's not easy but when you live a life you can be proud of you feel better and you'll have more confidence. I'm working more on being someone I'd respect. Would I respect someone who's apartment looks like mine? If the answer is no I change it. It also helps to practice doing without. Indulgences are well and good until you become reliant. Then they sort of control you and you become used to being controlled. Vices are like pacifiers. I'd also advise that while good advice gi… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/16 03:51 PM |
| 11 | How did you get out of the loop of instant gratification ?I'm gonna give you straight up real advice here. I was masturbating at 7, thinking about screwing my babysitters in mud when I didn't even know what parts they carried. I saw my parents have sex and I vividly remember my first legit porn at around 12 that came from the parent's closet. This shit has been with me since then all the way to nearly 30. I worked on my looks, dress, gym, social skills, etc. until I was someone women wanted. I watched porn until it was like watching two people having a… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/16 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here get rejected by 5's 6's and 7's?I think it's high but it's unlikely it'd be this way with 10's and many younger girls. Girls who are 25 and up are usually cool with casual sex or at least don't see it as a big deal. Maybe they've become jaded, maybe life offers more bang when you're younger. This stuff is too complex to say it's one way or another. But I would suggest giving it a shot to approach a date sometime like a man who has sex and it's not a big deal. They will often find that combination refreshing because only high S… | /r/askTRP | 01/11/16 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here get rejected by 5's 6's and 7's?I didn't think I said anything about getting girls, just referring to you saying if you don't escalate you don't get laid. Like I said I somewhat remember doing this at particular times in my life but eventually either my smv got high enough or I understood girls are far more experienced in game then guys who aren't getting laid regularly. They've been with old guys, hot guys, the most charming guys since they were young. A nice guy who has to escalate is probably enduring and a bit of a sweet i… | /r/askTRP | 31/10/16 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here get rejected by 5's 6's and 7's?Ahhh... well I can't say much on this liminal state. I know it must exist but I can't comment on it anymore. Friend zone stuff really changes with your attractiveness, age, and smv. I'm nearing my 30's and built; I can't get mistaken for a boy anymore even if I wanted to. Friendzone is not an issue at all, I can't even get girls to be my friend because they usually feel rejected if I want that and I'm pretty much invisible to young girls unless they have dad issues. That said I don't think I can… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/16 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here get rejected by 5's 6's and 7's?I'm saying we should drop the word escalation and the steps that usually go along with the term. The point is women are very good at reading body language and picking up on this. Not being comfortable with exuding sexuality but having a list of steps to escalate with isn't going to do much good. Women can know a sexual male by seeing him walk and the way he looks at her without ever having to touch her. Yes touching is effective but it's going to come off forced for a beta male who's afraid of b… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/16 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Anyone here get rejected by 5's 6's and 7's?I think escalate is a ruse. Don't escalate, be sexual. Women are sexual and are under the impression that men are always thinking about sex. So nice evening pleasant dude seems like a creep, afraid of his sexuality. There are a lot of ways to project it, but a lot of unsuccessful men feel they should be ashamed of it and it becomes a cycle. Be sexual and set the right context, imagine it all as foreplay and ease into everything. I just foresee this dude looking up how to escalate and I get to he… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/16 01:53 PM |
| 3 | Anyone here get rejected by 5's 6's and 7's?Haven't seen this said but top 20%. I get told of my looks all the time and 5-6's think they match up. Women are often over inflated simply due to male attention from all levels of life. Hot younger girls aren't looking to settle yet. They want to screw finest dudes and have them as boyfriends. Either be attractive enough that when you see yourself you could say "yeah I'd fuck me" or have a character about you that gives tingles and makes them feel strong and protected while you're with them. Be… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/16 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Shouldn't a high SMV guy actually have to try to be a loner in regards to friends and social life?I hear you. I definitely keep in touch mostly with older male friends who can provide life experience or they are successful/talented. I tend to concern myself with the ability to grow and achieve, and usually having beers with people who have taken the typical steps through life and want to complain on donald trump while the fat nerdy guy tries to be masculine and edgy by playing devils advocate is a time i'm tired of having. And I really only started engaging in that time because I felt I was … | /r/askTRP | 29/10/16 10:53 PM |
| 3 | Shouldn't a high SMV guy actually have to try to be a loner in regards to friends and social life?Usually people are alone because they choose to, so yes. I personally deal with being alone a lot. But a lot of girls I just don't get excited about, a lot of people are just uninteresting and lack backbone and passion. Most friend groups I see appear to be friends as some mutual agreement so they aren't lonely. I prefer friends I want to be around, unfortunately that's very slim. I think this is most people. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/16 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Are the women on OkCupid just more stuck up and snobby than other dating sites and apps?Never had good experiences on okcupid. I would say this mostly comes down to several issues. One is girls inboxes are over flowing with messages so she won't see yours or it's not worth the effort. Secondly the site, as free, makes you look creepy. You show up in a large format along with a bunch of weird motherfuckers like you're all lonely unsuccessful dudes. If you check their profile out it tells them, do it 3 times and they know. I checked out okcupid from the perspective of a female and ho… | /r/askTRP | 29/10/16 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Is there an equivalent to the 1000 cock stare but for men but for heartbreak?Trp has a lot of dumbasses on it so expect the ignorant answers you're getting to deeper questions. I think yes it exist. And women pick up on it. A lot of it is picked up during how the date unfolds. I was naive for a long time and now I don't see the point to half the beautiful and rich things I used to do. I'm not sure women care either way. I've met a naive girl recently who is a nerd who takes things very slowly. It's almost cute enough to make me want to continue even though she's not sexy… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/16 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Just Leave the RoomMaybe I lack the nutsack, not wanting to high risk my life and health for mo money. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/16 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Just Leave the RoomI have no problems getting laid, making 6 figures though I would love to know how one does that. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/16 02:32 PM |
| 6 | She's not yours, it's just your turnAny man getting into marriage should be prepared to be divorce raped. If you don't want to don't marry. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/16 07:48 PM |
| 0 | She's not yours, it's just your turnWow never heard this one before. I can honestly say I do not understand this idea. And if anything it seems like a cognitive device to band-aid other issues. You date, maybe she becomes your gf. You stay loyal, maybe she stays loyal. If her cheating bothers you, you leave her and find another. Poor people make a big deal about things rich people have regularly. If you're a male rich with women this is not an issue. If good women are scarce, and you see them as scarce it will always bother you. I… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/16 05:26 PM |
| 0 | The Shit TestI think a lot of shit testing is often for younger guys and questionable guys. If you're 6'7 and strong at 21 you likely you won't be a beta or perceived as such. I think that's why height is asked on tinder. It's for masculinity purposes. Women trying to gain control, just like saying no hook ups. Late twenties and lifting, can't remember the last shit test. If I do it's from a very young girl who is usually a shit head. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/16 06:36 PM |
| 2 | The Wisdom of being Poor when Marrying a Good GirlHow about understanding what marriage is and not marrying a girl you haven't properly vetted. Way too many god damn factors to work off these assumptions. You should be reluctant. You should have been with her for a while. You should see how she behaves on a daily basis, her actions. What kind of person she is. And yeah. Trying to find a smoking hot lady who has great values and fits into many of your wants is gonna be really hard to find. Maybe near impossible. If you're gonna get married go in… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/16 05:52 PM |
| 1 | You don't need to be a 1% man to just get laid.I fucked a girl a couple weeks ago who talked about sometimes just fucking really stupid guys with lots of tattoos. The dumber the better. If you're masculine, not overly high in energy, not pretending and have some muscle; it's not gonna be that difficult. If you're not the best looking dude you'll have to approach more in real life or find ways to meet girls. Tattoo artists are constantly exposed to women. Bartenders and even coffee baristas are exposed to many women a day. From personal exper… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/16 04:12 PM |
| 1 | What drives your sexuality? And what keeps it in a relationship.Man, I wish I had that. I'm anxious about her knowing I'm not into it which happens more than I'd like. Or I'm trying to get off by thinking about the situation and how the scenario played out. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/16 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Where do i meet girls?I don't think he means anything. I guess you'd know, hope you have it to him good. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/16 07:07 PM |
| 0 | Where do i meet girls?It can be near impossible if you're in a shit town. But best thing to do is do a lot of group involved activities. Also you can try to tinder if you got the looks. If you have interests pursue those to events, specialized meet ups for girls like you. Bars, clubs, be aggressive. You have to put yourself in a lot of moments where there is potential for opportunities. Best best if you don't seek those out purely for women, you won't know how obvious you might come off. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/16 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Going for girls in social circle?Some places it's all shit where you eat. It won't be easy to change the awkward dynamic but it's possible. I've had to do it countless times, I work a job where I see on average 2-3 women I've hooked up with a day. I just act polite and ask them how it's going. Just focus on being the influencer of the reality you want. But with this girl, if she's not flirting or already showing you interest it's probably not a great idea. At best she tries it out because she's lonely and comes to see she does … | /r/askTRP | 16/09/16 02:45 PM |
| – | In an LTR, with a "great" chick, but I still want to sleep with other girlsWell you sound like a robot so I imagine you might function differently. That was an analogy, an example illustrating a difference in what wanting might mean. Analogies are often used to illustrate a point in a different way that might be better understood. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/16 02:26 PM |
| – | In an LTR, with a "great" chick, but I still want to sleep with other girlsI think it all depends on how it manifests too. I've never liked the feeling of being wanted so bad because that puts a pressure on me that leads to anxiety. And from a males perspective there is a difference in desperately wanting to be with a girl and have sex with her versus thinking she's what completes you and you can't live without her. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/16 03:32 AM |
| – | In an LTR, with a "great" chick, but I still want to sleep with other girlsGood points, I definitely agree. Just hard to know how much time to give something, and if they could heal while with you. I've waited a really long time to find a girl that matched up in the way she does, and ironically somehow it's my sexual appetite this time that isn't enough for her. But of course that's probably not it, it's the feeling of being wanted. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/16 03:24 AM |
| 1 | In an LTR, with a "great" chick, but I still want to sleep with other girlsThat sounds really difficult. I appreciate your input. I know that I'm for the most part pretty damn happy other than the sex as it currently is and seeing her get upset and nervous all the time. But I have a feeling it's just a well that can't be filled with her and the validation, that even if things got more intense sexually and however she perceives it as better, she still wouldn't think it would be enough. Id like to believe she could heal while being with me but I don't think that's usuall… | /r/askTRP | 01/09/16 03:13 AM |
| – | In an LTR, with a "great" chick, but I still want to sleep with other girlsI hope you're wrong. She's already got a past of body image issues, depression, and anxiety I've only found out about recently. She's pretty much the nicest person I've ever met, and when she does get upset she apologizes. She's willing to do whatever I want. So the mess of it all really sucks. She will be absolutely crushed if I leave her, like more than most people. She'll blame herself and it's hard thinking I'm gonna add to that, someone already dealing with major self esteem issues. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/16 12:53 AM |
| – | In an LTR, with a "great" chick, but I still want to sleep with other girlsI'm in a similar situation as OP, and where I'm at and my SMV I could be with attractive women almost every night. The biggest problem I face in the LTR is that she wants sex so much, and tries to initiate it a lot which in turn has become an anxiety filled situation of which she thinks I'm not sexually attracted to her like the guys she's dated casually before. That's what's so difficult, trying to ease her worries with faking it at times while her not giving me a chance to come around and init… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/16 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on cheating on LTRsI think the cheating part is cheating when two people make a commitment to each other. That is very difficult. So while yeah it is natural, and so is the females to branch swing/side af, the idea is cheating when commitment. Lots of people have open relationships but a girl who can't handle her BF fucking other women will not want an open. My current Gf is extremely loyal and filled with a lot of dread that I could drop her and take a female at any time that she is very willing to be nothing but… | /r/askTRP | 08/08/16 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on cheating on LTRsThat thinking is flawed as cheating might simply come from sex addiction which has nothing to do with SMV but kinks and highs. A problem I can see with LTR is that if you're always improving yourself and they aren't, you might feel like you've settled later on. I'm with a girl who is going to the gym with me and even though she looks good I know that in time she'll look really good. So all this stuff doesn't make it so simple. If you're locked in with someone you don't want to be with then yeah … | /r/askTRP | 08/08/16 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Estrogen from fucking?Dude seriously, you guys are comical. The issue is a surge, that is more. Of course we all produce it. Ask trp and get shitty advice, lesson learned. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/16 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Estrogen from fucking?"2- Another study showed that men experience a surge of the female hormone Estrogen (beta) in anticipation of an off-spring. This allows for them to become a more caring father." https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4uxqne/testosterone_cortisol_and_the_alpha_male/ The thought was if in my head she could get pregnant or i'm okay with it then maybe i'm being affected. That's it. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/16 05:59 PM |
| -1 | Estrogen from fucking?Soft in demeanor, I guess i didn't specify. My boner is fine. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/16 05:54 PM |
| 1 | 23, no friends, no gf, no life but just work.Your last line sounds really ignorant to me because you have never had those things and so how do you know you want them? Being fulfilled is a tricky pokemon to catch. I'm nearing the body I've always wanted with rock hard abs, a back that looks like a greek sculpture and a butt that I almost get turned on looking at. Yet, I feel no different in regards to being fulfilled. I'd just save up your cash, get the fuck out of dodge and go explore the world a bit. It sounds like you have a lot of exper… | /r/askTRP | 07/08/16 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Split up with GF, What now?I'm gonna tell a little depressing story for you. Since early childhood for me I was prone to anger and feels, and thinking a lot. Not much changed until I found TRP. Then I started lifting, eating much better, and I got to the point where I became the top of my college town for pulling women and being wanted. Things were great, but something was missing. I thought I was over my past and now mostly an alpha after a couple years. I really did have the mindset and no reason to not have abundance. … | /r/askTRP | 07/08/16 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleWe weren't ever together, I had 2-3 dates with her. The alpha thing was the best description of the behavior I could find, especially for red pillers. But I think the idea still stands luck has a big part to play, or luck in timing. A lot more room for give a a relationship has time, but the first few dates for us all id imagine are like walking on egg shells or a job interview. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/16 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleThis is so weird, this post is so old. By this time now this girl I know is emotionally unintelligent and we haven't spoke in months. I currently have a great gf who will do anything for me. Talk about irrelevant. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/16 05:22 PM |
| 0 | Losing interest in actual girls because of pornI get so tired of shit comments like this. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/16 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Treatment of women in relationships.You do whatever you want to do. It depends on what kind of relationship you have or want to have. If you could have any woman you wanted you could go full beta with one for a while just to try it out. Or you could center the relationship around sex. You could make it one about indulgences of eating great food together and going on trips. I currently spend about as much time with my gf as I want. Actually whenever were both free were spending it together. We play old video games, eat healthy and … | /r/askTRP | 07/07/16 05:02 PM |
| -6 | Went to Wedding with LTR and witnessed first hand the APEX of female sexual strategyThis was written poorly and just sounded like a long judgmental rant. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/16 02:08 PM |
| 8 | How to get your girl to love anal sex.Some women have anxiety about you seeing their shit come out of their shit hole. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/16 02:17 PM |
| 14 | How to get your girl to love anal sex.In the past I could comfortably eat a girl out from behind and her ass. Lately I've had occurrences with two girls who must of recently finished pooping. I avoided the first, but the other I ended up with shit smell on my nose. "That's it?" I was like "yeah you'll get more later" as I ran to the bathroom. It's made it an uncomfortable zone finally, I don't know how to get over this mild trauma. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/16 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Ex-GF texts me after breaking up to ''talk about us''Next, because she'd probably do it again. Oneitis will happen again and again. Most people aren't immune unless you lack empathy, emotion, sensitivity. Even if you think you've become an alpha you can still get it....being a person with emotional sensitivity doesn't go away. No amount of red pill, lifting, life success will change this I'm sorry to say. It's a good trait to have though, you just need to find the right type of girl and this one doesn't sound like it. I dated 20 girls this year in… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/16 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Now, I will no longer waste my gift.Yeah this didn't sound right to me either. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/16 05:05 PM |
| 2 | The projection of being tough, and doing without.It's hard to achieve because setting goals to get a lot of pussy is not much different than setting any other goals for yourself. The problem is that pussy is attached to a person, and it's more than just the pussy guys are after whether or not they know it. There needs to be an understanding of these things for progress to occur. TRP currently lacks that in my opinion. There should be more posts about the why's and the distinctions of what is "for ones self" really. Too easy to lose sight of th… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/16 09:45 PM |
| 1 | The projection of being tough, and doing without.That's exactly what I'm saying. While some women want their men submissive, I doubt that's the majority of red pillers. The problem is when red pill gives off the idea that this self improvement is for women. Most guys are here for women. It's going to be difficult to make these hairy distinctions. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/16 07:13 PM |
| 2 | The projection of being tough, and doing without.I don't know if we often stop and think about how much guys do to impress girls. Man buns became a thing and all kinds of guys started getting them. Beards the same way. If I was in marketing I'd just market what the ladies love now then make bank off that thing. I don't know why this post didn't format the spacing as I had it. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/16 06:54 PM |
| 2 | My first LTR/marriage was a petite, intelligent HB8 blonde. Now that I am single again, I cant even get ugly chubby girls on tinder, what gives?Okcupid is a bad platform for men. The best way you can use it is half naked pictures. It sets you up to look desperate and weird from the start. They think we're all looking for sex and they expect a guy to be that. Romance novels aren't about the guy they have things in common with. Okcupid not only makes you look dishonest then but creepy and lonely. Scroll the men sometime and see the impression you get. The girls also are very slow to reply. It's rigged against you if you're not paying for … | /r/askTRP | 22/06/16 02:00 PM |
| – | My first LTR/marriage was a petite, intelligent HB8 blonde. Now that I am single again, I cant even get ugly chubby girls on tinder, what gives?Yes, I'm 511 and remember that I was not considered a man in the eyes of women at 162. And some friends started calling me little guy. I thought I was looking good and hard having dropped my fat. That's for certain as well. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/16 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Great LTR, how do I deal with the temptation of not sleeping with other women?So how are you dealing with it? You just constantly remind yourself of the great quality woman you have to keep you from asking that girl out? | /r/askTRP | 21/06/16 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Great LTR, how do I deal with the temptation of not sleeping with other women?I figure that comes in to play. But what methods make it easier? | /r/askTRP | 21/06/16 11:31 PM |
| 1 | My first LTR/marriage was a petite, intelligent HB8 blonde. Now that I am single again, I cant even get ugly chubby girls on tinder, what gives?I used to get the aww as well back in the day. You're exactly right, you can't trigger that perception of you. How could they imagine a sweet dude who wants to buy them flowers also ramming them from behind? | /r/askTRP | 21/06/16 01:52 PM |
| 3 | My first LTR/marriage was a petite, intelligent HB8 blonde. Now that I am single again, I cant even get ugly chubby girls on tinder, what gives?There are always more factors than just one. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/16 01:49 PM |
| – | My first LTR/marriage was a petite, intelligent HB8 blonde. Now that I am single again, I cant even get ugly chubby girls on tinder, what gives?Just keep eating, get fat if you need to. It's not easy but it is possible. Keep working at it and in time you'll reap benefits. I was terribly nice to a fault, and over thought...tried to reason and talk to girls sincerely into attraction. You really just set yourself up for failure and hurt. Now I'm the guy girls want to have sex with across the board and I know the truth of it all. A good body matters, style and projection matters, abundance matters, confidence matters. Then you find a girl w… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/16 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Catching oneitis for first time in forever, what to do?She's probably hung up on her ex. She's not ready until she's over him completely. I'd say next, she'll hit you up in some weeks and try again. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/16 04:45 AM |
| 1 | How do I get girls to not want to be my girlfriend?Man you guys are always talking about this, I've never had this issue. I think where things are getting tricky is plating many at once. Girls are slow, you date them steady over months they'll be pissed you're not getting into a LTR. I normally fuck it up with something after a couple weeks, or tell them I'm busy and busy. You can kind of drag them out for a decent amount of time before it dies. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/16 04:42 AM |
| – | My first LTR/marriage was a petite, intelligent HB8 blonde. Now that I am single again, I cant even get ugly chubby girls on tinder, what gives?Your 6 foot and 160, you're too small. Unless you have tats and look edgy that's not a sexy size. Remember it's the top percentile of guys who get laid. If you're not one you'll get laid by random scenarios. If these girls thought you were attractive it'd be going smoother and you need to come off more playful I'd imagine. In most cases you will not be rewarded by being the guy that wants more than to get in their pants. That does not work, it comes off as beta/creepy/dishonest. When you go out … | /r/askTRP | 21/06/16 04:29 AM |
| 2 | Why you should look as attractive as possible.I forget and give less, all depends on whether you're trying to brag and want a high number or prefer to have a lower one. Even when I humblebragged to my brother I forgot a couple. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/16 11:01 PM |
| 1 | This is what it's come to.But it is her day, she gets you...the prize. You're so with it its more like its her day. Preciate Yo | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/16 04:35 AM |
| 1 | I'm a dick for doing this but I can't be the only one.This seems like too much; revenge for being rejected. You sound like you're coming at this from a place of bitterness. I remember not too long ago I wanted to make sure girls knew I was a guy with not only looks, but talent, manners, etc. The worst is when you don't get a chance to disprove their image of you. What you're doing might work but it isn't healthy nor is it helping you become a better you. Men with options and ladies really don't care what some chick thinks of them or if they're stuc… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/16 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Condoms...I'm doing them wrong. How can I use them more effectively?I recently bought magnum bareskin and it's a big difference. Most condoms seem to choke my dick. I'm a grower, my dick uses grows 4-5x when hard so I need that blood flow, not a little bag trying to suffocate my penis. Those Trojans are also lubed inside. I swear I thought the condom had broke. So much better than burning latex and sore vaginas. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/16 02:58 AM |
| 4 | Is it that wrong to want to be with someone and stay with them?I gave up on the idea of falling in love, but then I finally met someone at the peak of my game. But I worked as hard as I can and still working. I found a partner who ended up growing up as uniquely as myself and so from the first date we already knew each other very well. I'd argue having a great connection/attraction changes a lot of things. When I knew it wasn't what I wanted I'd always test girls which led to them being upset and nobody having fun. Kissing isn't empty, sex isn't just feels … | /r/askTRP | 03/06/16 04:16 PM |
| 1 | [FR] There's a reason we keep saying itWhoosh, over the head. If Ryan Gosling got as jacked as the Rock I guarantee you he'd be less attractive to women. There is a difference in aesthetics and form for primal reasons. You can't look suave if you look dumb in a suit and bodybuilders definitely look stupid in a suit. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/16 02:08 AM |
| 2 | [FR] There's a reason we keep saying itMaybe he's too lean. You've seen the guys that glow, they have muscles and look very healthy. You know they're getting loads of pussy. Then you see the guys that lift all the time. It's not "oh genetics and they stay fit!" it's "oh this guy spends all his time lifting and eating properly". Gym can't look like a profession or it's a turn off. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/16 09:33 PM |
| 1 | [FR] There's a reason we keep saying itDo you look bigger and or more vascular than any of the guys in magic mike? If so that's the problem, not height. It is real. Girls will start to find you gross at a certain point. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/16 09:29 PM |
| 1 | How to succeed on a dateI think likely it wouldn't. My world is, at least, is like Larry David's. It feels beta to drive another path home so you don't follow her through all the same streets. It feels very beta to not go to the bathroom when you have to piss because that girl you just spoke with is in line. Feels beta to avoid going places however you choose. But if you don't avoid you'll look like a desperate worthless piece of shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/16 12:32 PM |
| 4 | How to succeed on a dateI think this is a lot of great advice. The idea is to remember that you either create a situation that gives you the reigns (like socializing and charming) or you leave. Nice people, as i'm sure many of us are, tend to go along with scenarios that diminish our value. But men of power do not 3rd wheel, they go home. If women really find you attractive you could go knit scarves for an hour. The problem is when you're unsure, you need to be polarizing to she's not just agreeing to plans to have you… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/16 05:06 AM |
| 2 | The Stranger Test -- Be more like a stranger to herI like the part about women who don't shit test being like a dog. I was with a girl who would perk up and nod her head at suggestions, like a dog. It got so uncomfortable to talk about anything serious because she seemed fine about everything. I got bored, and it felt stupid being with someone who seemed to lack a mind of their own. She never had a concern or a frustration. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/16 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Why some cities and places suck in regards to women/dating and others don't.This is all kind of depressing. Sounds like NYC is the only city with good women. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/16 07:50 PM |
| 0 | Women who want relationships, alpha/beta malesBut they do give a fuck. They care a lot about looking like they don't. Maybe that is where the success lies. We may laugh at the Mystery pickup artist type but that shit still works. We may not be deceived but women are. Ultimately power and credibility are illusions anyway. The whole game is illusion. I'm probably working to succeed in a world of redpill awareness as I assume people know what we know, but we don't live in that world. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/16 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Women who want relationships, alpha/beta malesIn a world of overstimulation. Reminds me of greenes book on seduction and the professor type. It could be a girl who's getting her doctorate in lit needs immaturity as a seductive escape from her own mind or lack of being interesting herself. I could see the opposite with a girl who is the drama desiring a stable rock like man. That's a mistake I've made too many times. I go for woman who works out, reads, is responsible only to find that she's not attracted to a man of similar ways. That's tou… | /r/askTRP | 16/05/16 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Women who want relationships, alpha/beta malesI just keep wondering if being a big baby actually comes off as alpha to women. Being jealous and insecure seems very beta but if you put some aggressive action behind it maybe it appears not to be. Guys who beat their gfs for instance. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/16 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Women who want relationships, alpha/beta malesWell they're acting like little bitches and it works. I find that aggravating after 2 years of redpill sure. Not about chads cheating. It's about not knowing of any girls who would allow this, yet it's spoken of on Trp like it's common. Man I've read so many response post like this, we've all read the sidebar and rehashed post countless times. You aren't offering anything I don't already know. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/16 06:37 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys approach at bars? What signs do you look for?Nightlife is nightlife. You have to openly wear why you're there. Don't even try to pretend you're just a guy out for fun. Maybe you are but they won't believe it, so let them do that romantic stuff. Be sexy, be calm. Approach like a human, make conversation but be bold. Bold. Bold. Bold. But not needy and desperate. In a dark dance club you can kiss a girl you barely know if you're grinding and intoxicated. Saying she looks hot is weak sauce. Go for the bang. You don't get their number and try … | /r/askTRP | 14/05/16 01:59 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys approach at bars? What signs do you look for?How was this downvoted? | /r/askTRP | 14/05/16 01:54 AM |
| 8 | Women over 30 of this generation ?I think men will be trained to be more and more beta to the point of which no alpha male will even have the option of marriage or ltr overall. As I see it now when you have your own wants you're seen as selfish and uncontrollable. A less mature, impetuous, spoiled girl might chase you for a while but inevitably no woman wants to be with a guy she feel could leave her at any moment. Want something to own or they wouldn't care about commitment in this unnatural way. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/16 11:12 PM |
| 3 | A reminder of why the red pill is so importantThose who are considered minorities or oppressed in society today are allowed to get away with less pc things I've noticed. Black men are largely able to still operate as men without being shamed as much as white males. I find hope in that. I'd be fine with being proven wrong here. But it is the white male who is "privileged" therefore under scrutiny. I don't think a white male could sing about bustin nuts up in walls. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/16 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Question on how to fuck MILFsThese are ego related. I'd say lust is more serotonin and dopamine related while these examples are more oxytocin related. That said oneitis I think is more about fulfilling emotional needs and not stimulation. You don't have oneitis when you're drunk at 2am and that 6 looks like rotisserie chicken. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/16 02:38 AM |
| 3 | Question on how to fuck MILFsFind a comfy location that's private. Stroke your cock with your favorite lube while imagining doing this woman in every position you desire, every way you desire. Cum hard. The moment after ask yourself if it's worth it, imaging you actually fucked. If the answer is no then don't. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/16 05:21 AM |
| 3 | Question on how to fuck MILFsI disagree. Oneitis and sexual lust are different impulses. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/16 05:16 AM |
| 2 | Stop trying to be someone women need; Be someone they wantWhy the hell go through all this process then. Why not talk of a lot of this as how to fuck girls and keep them coming back for more. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/16 12:44 AM |
| 3 | Stop trying to be someone women need; Be someone they wantI'm glad i read this post. Lately I've been dealing with rejection, or at least the appearance thereof. Its strange to me because all I ever hear about is my looks, how i'm a man whore, etc. Girls rarely make eye contact and some act weird around me. I usually take it to be negative even though it isn't in every case. I quit spinning plates, thought about LTR but the girl I was into only broke up with her beta bf to have sex with me for a few weeks before going back to him because he lets her co… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/16 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Make her feel special. (In other words, lie.)I'm saying some of us have slept with a lot of women. Doesn't seem right I expect her to have slept with 2-3 people at most and shun the ones who've done what I have. It's tough, you try a lot of people and few work out. We're all about not having double standards so I don't see why we make this one. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/16 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Make her feel special. (In other words, lie.)I agree with most of the post. I don't however understand why many of you insist on shaming women for giving it up so easily when we're advancing our ability to get laid everyday. You itch to fuck and wouldn't give a shit about her partner count or virginity for a one nighter. We should have more dignity than to set double standards, and at a point you guys start hamstering too. "Don't want a girl who won't fuck you first night" "don't want a girl who fucks me first night". You want a girl who's… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/16 04:49 AM |
| 1 | You are a sexist despite your philanthropy. You are what you think and not what you do.Pretty much every girl I know is on board with radical feminism. Most men are too. Seems strange this is an example of something. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/16 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Avoiding the Tradcon TrapThey shouldnt take it on as an identity. As what makes them valuable. Easier said than done, but men can't help pedestalizing them and rare they think they deserve less than everything they want. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/16 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Avoiding the Tradcon TrapGuys the fucked, exaggerated sense of self worth due to beauty | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/16 05:59 AM |
| 7 | Wife resents beta husband for being more attracted to her after she loses weightThere is such a thing. It just pertains to a woman composed of muscle and attractive amount of fat. If you've ever seen a woman who looks like a figure out of a Titian painting you'll know what I'm talking about. This type is pretty rare. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/16 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Avoiding the Tradcon TrapIt's funny but God damnit I'm depressed. This post was who I was becoming. I will say there is some exception. In old small conversation towns where they gossip a lot, you may find a stable marriage. Especially if she never lived anywhere else and her family has generations there. I know I'm scared shitless to do anything less than positive in my hometown. Of course how many of us are gonna come into a small city hunting for a wife. But yeah it's all fucked. I think this is the end guys. Every g… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/16 04:42 AM |
| 22 | Women Do Not Want Your LoveI have a nice example of that. This plate I was with, I started dating her friend who lives out of town. She seemed upset but played it cool. One night we were hanging out at a bar and she ends up coming back home with me. We fuck and she quickly leaves the next morning with too many thank you's. She doesn't bite to hangout again and I ask her what's wrong, "well I forgot you were dating so and so" which was a lie. I told her we had quit dating and just as you'd suspect she lost all interest. Sh… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/16 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Litmus Test for dating: Would she try anal?Good point, I'm just seeing it from the point of if she's willing to do more extreme sex acts for you then it might be the best you can get freedom wise. They always start off seeming to not care about what movie you watch, activities you do, or your bad habits. I don't really trust those as indications. But yes, always a loss of freedom. Perhaps that's the real unicorn. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/16 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Litmus Test for dating: Would she try anal?I really don't know how guys do it. I think it often comes down to them not having options. A man with high SMV must surely be unfaithful or have found a spectacular woman for sanity's sake. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/16 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Litmus Test for dating: Would she try anal?Call it controlling but you if you're gonna trade in your freedom you should do it with a woman who's open to suggestion and cares about what you want. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/16 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Litmus Test for dating: Would she try anal?I'm trying to think of a better question. I might be a selfish dick but I never want to be one of those men in a relationship who's wife is scolding them and has them on lockdown. If a girl doesn't like getting head or being sexually adventurous, screw it. I'll be miserable living a life of being tempted by women that are. I'd rather be alone than be burdened with someone controlling my life. Yet, how many of us really want to be alone. And plating grew old very fast for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/16 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Litmus Test for dating: Would she try anal?Something like that. It's just an idea that I was hoping some mind find useful. I can think of many girls I know or characters from movies, and bring them into that hypothetical situation. Take Michelle Williams in blue valentine, not gonna work. Sharon stone in basic instinct? My gut still says no. Renee Zellweger in Jerry maguire, decent chance. I think it all comes down to whether or not they're gonna let you take the lead. This idea is mostly problematic because sometimes they let you do tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/16 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Litmus Test for dating: Would she try anal?Haha you guys must think I'm trolling or you really lack in mental processing. This isn't about having a anal sex or not, I said that in the post. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/16 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Litmus Test for dating: Would she try anal?You should try and read. The idea is this. In your head you form a situation often met with strong resistance. Then you put her in that situation and imagine how it would go down. It's pretty damn simple, like you maybe. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/16 03:50 PM |
| -8 | Litmus Test for dating: Would she try anal?I'd equate myself as a feminist too. Just not all the bull that comes with the new wave. But this isn't my point. Most of these girls I was with actively talk about it and react to it even with fictional television. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/16 04:25 AM |
| -12 | Litmus Test for dating: Would she try anal?No, find out if she's flexible, open to being directed some. Not about picking, it's testing. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/16 03:02 AM |
| 1 | I cheated on my girlfriend with a friend of hers, now she's threatening me that she's going to tell everything to my girlfriend.I mean the girl who cheats usually acts like it was the guys fault. Pressuring, rape, I didn't know what was going on until it started happening and I was afraid of trying to stop it. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/16 10:40 PM |
| 2 | I cheated on my girlfriend with a friend of hers, now she's threatening me that she's going to tell everything to my girlfriend.Sorry it happened man. I've never been able to sustain a girl because I don't want to cheat, and rarely do I find one where they're enough to be the only one you have sex with. Especially if your a man of high desirability. Girls come on to me about everyday, but there is no sympathy from people who don't have that cursed blessing. How the hell do people remain sexually exclusive. I'm sure the friend will blame it all on you. That's what girls do. They don't want to take responsibility. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/16 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with exclusivityHaha, funny. I don't feel ill ever know. This dumb blonde I was with who frustrated me to no end somehow seems just as good if not better looking back. The sex was usually really good at least. But I don't think a good relationship can work off that alone. I often think there are people who are relationship people and then there are those that aren't. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/16 04:46 AM |
| 2 | How do you respond to "Do you have a girlfriend"?I have lots of girlfriends. Smile, she smiles. She doesn't give a shit. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/16 03:55 AM |
| 1 | I need my tinder profile critiquedMight just be me but your pictures are too yellowed giving me the feeling of an elderly couples 70s style basement. I feel like if I we're a girl I wouldn't expect you to have a lot of friends, know good music, know what an indie film is, or have a clue about contemporary living. The impression I get is that you work out, eat well, play ping pong, went skydiving once, probably have seen some Will Ferrell movies, and that you're boring. So I'm suggesting something unique or something that gives y… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/16 07:44 PM |
| 1 | A Little Mistake That Cost My Best Friend 5 Years of His Life.I don't have a brother, I ate the pudding, I ate shit pudding! | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/16 06:42 PM |
| 1 | How Jason Sudeikis Won Olivia Wilde's Heart: A RedPill Success StoryMore often than not if you get to the sex too quickly it might even kill the attraction for you. For all people it's often the wanting something you can't have that makes things attractive. If you let her linger for a bit, but show clear dominance and that it's not you're afraid to fuck her but want her to prove herself you're going to become much more attractive. She'll probably focus on you with more serious consideration. If you do have full on sex so soon it will often happen that she'll bec… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/16 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Need some advice with this...Just remember to remain sexual. The fear many guys have in falling into the friend zone isn't to be feared when you maintain frame. What happens is a lot of guys start to suppress it for "loves" sake, "you're more than just someone I want to fuck" or some white knight crap. You can actually build things with her without escalating if you maintain who you are and you're needs. Want to kiss her? Just stop the conversation, start at her, and do it. Easy as that. Likely if she likes you she wants to… | /r/askTRP | 24/03/16 05:27 AM |
| 3 | How Jason Sudeikis Won Olivia Wilde's Heart: A RedPill Success StoryIt's true as far as I see. I've been in the same position, I'm not the guy for the real stuff. Slowing it down has changed things. If we recall that post about women's cycles they will often go for alpha males during ovulation but that doesn't mean they want to be with you. You don't have to beta either to have a partnership. But don't make the mistake of thinking they're not just as quick to use us as we may use them. You need beta traits and alpha traits, the difference is you fake beta versus… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/16 02:38 AM |
| 22 | How Jason Sudeikis Won Olivia Wilde's Heart: A RedPill Success StoryNo rush to kiss or have sex. I made a post about this tactic for LTR but it was met with criticism and called blue pill. Maybe someone else should write about it. Understandably guys who can't get laid aren't going to take that advice. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/16 09:07 PM |
| 1 | You can't amass great depth in a rushI'm saying you make her wait. What is this not letting him wait business? I would hope the woman I'm with isn't so quick to give it up either. My advice is more alpha. A mans urgency and lack of self control suggests more weakness than one who can withhold. This is far less to do with the girl but of a man who wants the connection to be richer. My willingness to let things develop and see a girl again greatly drops after banging them the first night. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/16 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Are muscles an essential in attracting women if you have high facial aesthetics?Both help. But even with both if you feel down, walk with your shoulders hunched, none of that stuff matters. Your presence always matters more than looks. If you reach a good level in all things you will get a lot of attention and it might get annoying. I can't tell if compliments from women anymore are merit based or attraction based. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/16 06:54 PM |
| 4 | Family still treats me like a loserI don't know what these young Cubs in here are trying to prove with their unnecessary tough love, but these things will take time. People form opinions and it remains in the mind until cognitive dissonance can't take care of it. They're family, of course you care what they think. Probably the best way you can get them to respect you is to become more successful, better educated, and have your shit more together than them. It would also help to do things out of old character. When I started chang… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/16 05:45 PM |
| 0 | You can't amass great depth in a rushWe are wired for it, were also wired for sex but you can eventually come to a point when it's not worth it in many circumstances. You don't get to the good stuff by protecting yourself. If oneitis starts to set in it's better to remind yourself there is a lot more out there, and to focus on you living the best life for you. One door closes, crap okay, but there are more. The only way to overcome the thought that someone is the only one for you is to discover how many times you've felt that way a… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/16 09:11 PM |
| 3 | You can't amass great depth in a rushExpress your feelings if you must, no need to apologize. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/16 07:23 PM |
| 0 | You can't amass great depth in a rushDid I suggest a woman who wouldn't stay out of your way? Eventually you graduate TRP. That is the point if you actually get the red pill. Spinning plates, lifting, eating clean, keeping social, all these things will better you until they're naturally components in your life. I've been laid several times over, I don't need to run from my insecurities by masking it with several interested women. I don't need to get laid to fulfill some issue lacking in my life. Eventually you get to the point wher… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/16 06:57 PM |
| 1 | You can't amass great depth in a rushClearly there are differences between bad women and great women, and they all fall under AWALT in some manner. I'm arguing that there is more to it than this. We can find people attractive and still hate them, that is an important component to be considered. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/16 06:40 PM |
| 2 | You can't amass great depth in a rushYou shouldn't feel like you've won the lottery, just that the chances are more like winning. The ambition shouldn't be to make a woman feel regret or respect you. But in the sense of paying it forward perhaps she'd be a better woman for the next man. A lot of what men and woman do to each other leaves marks psychologically. I know I've left a few and many of the women I've dated are screwed up from past guys they've been with. Personally I'd like to see the standards I desire in the world, so I'… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/16 01:45 AM |
| 2 | The day my blue-pill mind finally snapped due to anger. Be aware, MANY blue-pill beta's only need one moment; not gradual learningThis reminds me of the idea to do what works. Not necessarily what's true. While I was very blue pill I also still struggle with wanting to be sincere. I like being legitimate but it is mostly going to be detrimental, same as telling a girl how you feel about her. Same as a job interview where you admit to not enjoying what the job entails. Girls don't want to hear about your problems even if those problems were out of your control. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/16 11:11 PM |
| 3 | When did you stop giving a fuck?I stopped giving a fuck when everything was going well. When I had tons of pussy and countless girls wanted to fuck me. Then that wore off. Then I started thinking about if I really did want a LTR born out of something other than sex or my social appeal. Things started to go south and this was/is all giving a fuck. Not giving a fuck is not healthy. You do on some level give a fuck. The idea is life hits really hard and you realize it's going to kick your ass up and down the street but you will m… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/16 05:08 AM |
| 3 | Listen to her actions, not her wordsAnd I've been on dates where the conversation is so good and civil there is no attraction from either of us. I think in those situations it's best to find a way to get friction or tension moving or its toast. An issue for me that largely occurs with very professional and impressive women past 26 who take control of everything. I think Robert greenes advice on the professor is relevant here. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/16 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleI'm not sure how I would have turned these situations into positive things. I haven't had a problem spinning plates, it's not spinning plates and trying to think about a LTR that screws my head up. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/16 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleVery true, I should have focused on exerting effort to make me look positive rather than try and just avoid the negative. Being proactive isn't a strong suit of mine. Part of that is because when I am I'm odd, hedonistic, too risky. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/16 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Since taking the redpill, whens the last time you cried?I never really respected her from day one. When I first met her she was a dancer with a very nice behind. She would do standing splits and what not. Then one day I went with her and her girlfriends out to the lake where they went topless and she got her bikini panties stuck in her car key ring. When we went back to her place she came out of her room with nothing but a t-shirt on in front of her friends and I. I figured it wouldn't be very difficult to start having sex with her. We fucked for a w… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/16 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Since taking the redpill, whens the last time you cried?It was for me dropping a plate/FWB. We had spent so much time together and she was actually the first person I was completely myself around. There's no way for us to be friends. Even though we tried to separate I always want that ass and her my dick. She finally moved away and we blocked each other from every device. But mostly after watching my first dog get ran over by a semi nothing really elicits crying. Just weird complex shit. I think I cried pre red pill at a part in Pineapple Express whe… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/16 03:24 PM |
| 3 | Ok, what the fuck?I think sometimes they may like the excitement of your forwardness but may not actually like you. She was clearly interested in the dialogue. You should have probably ignored her after she said she couldn't see you. Ignoring emasculates practically everyone. So doing it to a girl often makes her feel more submissive. Overall I think holidays/bdays are the worst times for anything like this. If you leave her feeling pressured like you're gonna be upset if she doesn't put out on your bday then she… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/16 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleWell I made an attempt to set up plans and she opened up about not feeling chemistry. Not surprising. Too much of a negative start too. From friends hooking us up, to our first date being on vday weekend and her bday weekend...hanging with her friends and me. I should have just canceled. Oh and she's newly friends with a girl I was having sex with who likes me. It was pretty hilarious. Scenarios kept putting me in negative light. And our second date I drove an hour to her city, thinking it'd be … | /r/askTRP | 03/03/16 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleSeems like some work but I might give it a try if we happen to get together again. I think you can tell by the way a woman walks and acts that she's sexually interesting or not. And if I just judged by her presentation I'd say she's boring as hell. Just today there was a girl taking to me, smiling with that hungry look. That's how it should be. So when you get back to your place two people can fuck each other like wild animals. With her it feels like it would be a decision. She also goes to a lo… | /r/askTRP | 02/03/16 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleNo fuck yet. We were making out and she went limp fish. She seemed totally into making out but nothing else. The date was actually going well until we went back to her place and smoked a bit. Perhaps it was the smoking but she's just not responsive to my touch which suggest to me she's not into it. I honestly can't even entertain the thought of her losing control for even a moment so thinking of how she'd have sex is impossible. I think we're both kind of done with it, oh well. I wish I could fi… | /r/askTRP | 02/03/16 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleYeah I have no idea. Part of me thinks the young red pillers who are still working through things are quick to see asktrp as a way to bash what they think they're not anymore: beta males. For me asktrp is a place to question and discuss. Learning is not weakness. Anyway to hell with it. This girl is a gem but I'm reminded that most of my interactions with women Involve sexual tension and chemistry, I'd rather have that than a level headed woman. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/16 09:02 PM |
| 5 | Brother-In-Law Preparing To Black-Knight His Radical Feminist BossReminds me of a bar I was at this weekend. I watched a woman with a crowd of friends obnoxiously shout to everyone how happy she was to be divorced several times over. Then she asked me not to judge her. Then she got a picture made with a framed divorce paper held between her panty-less thighs. Yeah she was real happy with that divorce. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/16 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleThe last 5 girls I've sexually grinded with, kissed, made-out with, and about to have sex with all at some point mentioned they had a boyfriend or were trying to see someone so they shouldn't be "doing this". "I've wanted to fuck you for the longest time but now I have a boyfriend, I still want to fuck you but I can't" So I don't of course. "I want to wait to have sex, it complicates things. You could have fucked me five minutes ago but you stopped touching that area". "I never gave you permissi… | /r/askTRP | 01/03/16 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleYou might consider this is TRP and it's set within the context of a framework and terminology. Without that basis I wouldn't think any of it would make any sense. I believe I tossed that idea out as a possibility, some people don't know their sexual self until later in life. Wasn't meant as an insult. I thought that was common in gay communities, a butch and more submissive partner. It's often that way with gay males that one is more dominant. As long as it isn't rape? What kind of statement is … | /r/askTRP | 01/03/16 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleI think you got downvoted because this was shared with a feminist forum somewhere. The person who got upvoted the most for degrading me has admitted to being a sexist woman. I thought something strange was happening... That's interesting. My issue with that dynamic is that it's hard to believe she would find him attractive and I often think girls like this are unfortunately cursed in a way. If they do get off on being in charge than great for them and their SO. This situation has been so weird t… | /r/askTRP | 01/03/16 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleHallelujah. Okay, this is relevantly helpful to my situation now. And she did say said she thought she was an extroverted introvert. Maybe a relationship isn't good here then. I of course certainly admire how she is. I really have no desire to put her in her place. But it would almost seem she sort of wants a boyfriend so that this base is covered and people don't think she's failing in an area of her life. I got this message after my last one so my criticisms certainly feel more harsh than need… | /r/askTRP | 01/03/16 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleYou are really having trouble following what is implied here. I mentioned her acting like an alpha is a quick way to explain her traits to fellow users. Who suggested any of what your second paragraph says? Just for your information not wanting to be dominated and not wanting to be submissive are the same thing. I have every intention of treating her like a human being. But you know people do have sex. I don't see the point of further discussing with you, you're fighting with ghosts, some projec… | /r/askTRP | 01/03/16 02:59 AM |
| 3 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleShe is like me and I admire it. I would like to see her open up and be able to read her emotions, that'd be a start. Well that does add some context. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/16 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleI considered that. She said she's come along way from her days when people couldn't read her emotions. I'm very perceptive and I haven't a clue. So yeah maybe I could try insulting her I guess, but that seems silly considering she's incredibly diplomatic. I think I've failed in this post by not saying she's strange to me as a person. Forget that she's female. Ive met very few people that are like this. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/16 02:32 AM |
| 0 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleNow that you mention it she did have a book on emotional intelligence... | /r/askTRP | 01/03/16 02:16 AM |
| 0 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleYou're not actually giving advice. Telling me she sounds like a quality woman who wants a diplomatic relationship is shit I already know. I'm looking to understand what's happening and if anyone has experienced a woman like this. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/16 02:14 AM |
| 0 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleI don't know how my thread managed to get a stick up your ass but it's unfortunate. I don't care if alpha/alpha males concerns you, it's a question about two similar types living with each other as romantic partners. I'm interested in her as far as what she has to offer. I respect her traits because they are my traits. I'm telling you that since she acts like an alpha male i'm physically not feeling it. The act of fucking is an aggressive one, or do you prefer a man and a woman to bump genitals … | /r/askTRP | 01/03/16 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleThose descriptions are on point. Yes I believe you're right. Someone suggested she could have her guard up but I don't think I believe that. If that was the case she wouldn't be so self assured and independent. I've looked for the smallest bit of usual female tendencies and haven't found one yet. I made this post mostly out of curiosity and it being so strange to me. Thanks for actually contributing. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/16 01:56 AM |
| 0 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleContext is everything. Someone laying on a bed looking like and saying they want to fall asleep, doesn't seem so weird to take their shoes off. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/16 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleThe question is how does one be even more alpha? I don't think it works like that. Competing to always direct the bus, make the plans first, get drinks, etc seems pretty beta. Yet if I sit back and let her do all that it will paint me as a beta in her mind. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/16 12:50 AM |
| -5 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleYou do realize she operates like an alpha male right. Did I not make that clear? Do you imagine two alpha males having a relationship? You realize trp is based on awalt? | /r/askTRP | 01/03/16 12:46 AM |
| -1 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleThanks, this is much better advice and much more helpful. | /r/askTRP | 29/02/16 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleThe article discusses only dropping lower than SMV because the girl is really great. I was saying in my circumstance the girl has a very high SMV, but that even then it works the same way. He shouldn't have even given examples like he did. It should be attractiveness isn't negotiable period. Fat, skinny, big nose, none of that matters. Because in my situation most guys would see this girl as a 10. I wanted her really bad before getting to know her. Body language and hormones I think play very si… | /r/askTRP | 29/02/16 05:04 AM |
| -2 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleI can believe it it's just shocking and more so since it's not just in one or two areas but across the board. I've known independent women who work very hard but will still want comfort or be passive aggressive/emotional. Something that is usually seen in women. But this girl doesn't seem to have any differentiating qualities besides the physical. She wouldn't even let me take her shoes off for her. | /r/askTRP | 29/02/16 01:12 AM |
| -5 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleSaying I'm trolling only makes my dilemma sound more unbelievable than you just argued. She is like an alpha male in a woman's suit. Whatever the reason I don't know. I just thought it was really strange and was open to suggestions more than open to some of you projecting and arguing with what you think I said. | /r/askTRP | 29/02/16 12:49 AM |
| -25 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleYeah I never suggested that. Edit: I referenced the guard up. Then I suggested that as an unrelated alternative. That is, never implying having a guard up makes one a butch, that's ignorant. Half joke suggestion in my scrambling to understand. | /r/askTRP | 29/02/16 12:46 AM |
| -1 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleIt did. Very good post. I'm not sure I agree with attractiveness versus being attracted though. This girl is probably the most attractive I've ever dated but she's not exactly getting me going and I believe it's due to how she handles herself. If I can't imagine pounding her from behind then there's a problem. | /r/askTRP | 29/02/16 12:38 AM |
| -22 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleGuard up is sufficient. She's different than most women I've met period so maybe she's a lipstick butch lesbian idk. | /r/askTRP | 29/02/16 12:16 AM |
| -14 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleI think I enjoy her clear thinking and all she has going for her...but I can't say I'm having fun. She's a quality woman, maybe because she isn't much of a woman. | /r/askTRP | 29/02/16 12:14 AM |
| -1 | Dating a girl who acts like a red pill maleShe's incredibly attractive but honestly I'm not feeling any sexual attraction to her. My biology says great genes for a mom but my dick says something is wrong. | /r/askTRP | 29/02/16 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Girl with bf, thoughts and advice?If not this way I suppose you gotta have very fortunate timing. Timing has been the biggest issue i've had with quality girls. But I still have my flaws, it's difficult thinking about giving up my freedom and be monogamous, a girl has to be very worthwhile and how many can guys in general say that about? Funny enough those girls are not just attractive to certain types of guys but usually all guys. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/16 01:09 AM |
| 0 | Girl with bf, thoughts and advice?That's how it's feeling. I'm was really against it for so long. I know a lot of great girls but none of them are single and their bfs always try to force friendship with me to ease the threat I guess. I'm naturally kind hearted but I'm tired of backing off. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/16 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Avoid the Victim TrapThis is helpful to my weekend. I had cold date with a girl who just became friends with a girl I was just hooking up with. This weekend was her bday weekend and Valentine's Day. She makes more money than me, and is the first real challenge I've had lately. We also met through friends who want to double date. She also lives out of town. Basically everything about this situation feels stacked against me. But none of it matters. Being handicapped doesn't matter one bit to her and I should not make … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/16 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Disparaging SituationsHah that's a good point. If anything good practice. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/16 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Disparaging SituationsIm up for it sure, but this is too big of a fish for long term. She seems like she prefers to be in control and I'm not down for that if it's the case anyway. But when she beats me to "I'll text you" and "what do you want to drink" I can't grasp opportunities to be assertive. I did on the dance floor but she would mildly respond, grab me, then slowly cool down. We kissed some too but considering alcohol was involved I probably should have called it an early night. That's the problem with limited… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/16 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Should you fuck any hot girl?No it's not unrealistic. But do what you wanna do, that's the whole idea. Take control of your own life and go after what you want. Why in the world are you considering having sex with a girl who most likely has forms of hpv and god knows what else, and you don't even want to? | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Some questionsAsk yourself why you care? For now it is a threat. But I think you should work on getting to the place where it isn't. I think what your asking is how to tell between shit test and being rude. First comment sounds like a shit test, that's all it is. A simple "good for him" or laugh. The best thing you can do when people rag on you is agree in amplify. I'll say it and so will many others. Some girls were making a joke about my penis the other day and I knew it'd be better to pretend it was small … | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 03:04 PM |
| 2 | The fallacy of the 'Natural Alpha'I like theory too but this makes me cringe a bit. I don't know what reason there is to care so much about being 'alpha'. I guess i'm a lone wolf, whatever that is. I don't like being mixed in with big groups of guys. If they want to follow me great, but they usually don't and I often wouldn't want them to. I think if there is a guy who is more alpha than me or whatever I usually just leave. But you know if you have the entire package you will almost always been seen as superior. For instance if … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/16 06:15 AM |
| 1 | How can an ugly guy not come off as a creep?No, there is a difference. Fear is being afraid of things, avoiding them. Respect may include fear, but it mostly pertains to admiration. Physically engage? That would be touching. You mean visually through body language? Those are all things that can come by way of respect, but not particularly by fear. I fear the way 16 year-old drives, I fear snakes in my room, I fear someones dark info they have on me, and I could fear that dumb kid who knows how to spin kick. But none of these get my respec… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/16 02:43 AM |
| 2 | How can an ugly guy not come off as a creep?People generally don't mess around with bad hygiene. Maybe you're so nice that people are uncomfortable so they mess with you to bring it down to earth. Are you sure it's bullying and not playing? You can usually tell, not that it's easy to. On that note guys like giving other guys shit. Just all depends on how it's done. You didn't list any examples. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/16 02:33 AM |
| 1 | I dyed my hair blonde , I really like how it looks. My natural hair colour is black. How do should I react when ppl say "omg what did you do to my hair" or " it looked better before"At a certain point you're not making progress. This helping you answer individual life problem crap isn't going to get you anywhere. It's okay to be bothered. Get balls deep into it and feel it. The beta problem is acting butthurt. And the beta problem is also retorting with a masked display of still being butthurt. I'd be like, "shit man, is it that bad?" And if you weren't feeling particularly bothered you could exaggerate the hell out of it. "God damnit man, I keep trying to do this hair shit… | /r/askTRP | 10/02/16 10:43 PM |
| 1 | How can an ugly guy not come off as a creep?And obese people could smother people to death by sitting on them. In no way does it gain respect. You speak of fear not of respectable value. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/16 10:32 PM |
| 3 | How can an ugly guy not come off as a creep?I'm still trying to understand the getting bullied part. 5'8 ain't really short and I bench 160 and girls think I'm ripped. Maybe he looks like a marshmallow and nobody knows what he's packing. Maybe he sounds like cartman and smells of cheese balls. We may never know. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/16 10:22 PM |
| 1 | How can an ugly guy not come off as a creep?First off style isn't about expense. Everything you wear projects who you are. Ask yourself what you would be comfortable in or not. If all you feel good wearing is hoodies and baggy jeans then people will probably assume you play games and smoke a lot of pot. Just look sharp, don't look like a creep. Look like someone people would be proud to know. I don't get the bullying part. Being 5'8 and deadlifting 500 doesn't beg for bullying unless you're acting like a soft dancing monkey. Find what you… | /r/askTRP | 10/02/16 04:42 PM |
| 5 | How can an ugly guy not come off as a creep?Dude he can bench 300, I don't think getting bigger is gonna change much. Probably make it worse. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/16 04:33 PM |
| 4 | Hey Guys I Just Wanna Get GirlzTell them that mouth breathing down a girls neck is a primal mating ritual. Follow this with a clever neg like, "you smell like frozen tator tots" and "you project high position, but you are merely a squire". | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/16 04:20 PM |
| 1 | I need help. Seriously.It's amazing what the mind is capable of. A guy can think up entire realities and futures based off desperation and fear. I remember thinking of so many movie scenarios. This guy sounds like he has it really really bad though. Same way forrest loves Jenny... That's depressing. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/16 03:11 PM |
| 1 | How to get Beta orbiters to fuck off?I would attempt to avoid that by isolating her in some way. Isolation is great for a confident male, and even better if its you and many of her girlfriends. But her and males, a bad situation. I've done it with 3-4 orbiters before, I remember them driving away staring at us like "man, you think he's gonna get to fuck her" and I didn't all the way at least. Most glorious hip to waist ratio I've ever seen, ideally a perfect woman to me physically. It really sucks, but ain't gonna happen. These gir… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/16 06:54 AM |
| 3 | I need help. Seriously.Man this almost reads as trolling. But as someone who has been there you need to know there will be others. And after reading your other comments you are in the stages of infancy. This is not how this shit works. It sucks, it really sucks, but you have to get a grip on reality. Women who absolutely love and adore their man are susceptible to cheating if things occur just right, do you know this? They like male assertiveness for a reason. You think it's hard for men to say no to some fine lady of… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/16 06:27 AM |
| 9 | How to get Beta orbiters to fuck off?Chill. Remember to be open and sexual, honest. If you think of yourself as a schemer you'll amass many inner conflicts that manifest outwardly. You shouldn't feel shame, but if you do because you're deceptively trying to get laid that comes with the territory. And probably why that dudes orbiting. If you wanna be a deceiver and have a clean conscious you'll have to learn to do mental backflips. In this situation you could easily just say right in front of this dude, "let's get a drink sometime".… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/16 06:01 AM |
| 1 | I will leave right now. I will go!However, if you want a marriage with an alpha widow chase. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/16 12:00 AM |
| 15 | [FR] Don't wait for approval - Escalate, Escalate, EscalateI had a girl ask "did I give you permission to touch me there" I said no. "You should ask" She proceeds to suck on my ears and I say "did I say you could do that". Clearly it hit her immediately. "It's not hot is it?" "No, you're right". Just simply another way a woman's insecurities manifest themselves, attempts to gain control over you so you're no longer attractive. The shit test. The "I'm gonna act fucking crazy and wave my hair back in forth, what you gonna do!" We should all run, but penis… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/16 10:56 PM |
| 2 | How do you get the woman to split the bill?Duh hell, say your splitting the bill. A kiss? Totally wrong approach. Gotta drop the nice guy fedora stuff man. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/15 11:49 PM |
| 5 | How do you cum on a girl's face?This. I had a girl into it until I did it. Her first time. She got really angry afterwards and called me an asshole and it went on forever. It's really unnerving to watch a really pissed off girl with jizz on her face. Hard not to feel a little shitty about doing it. I found it wasn't worth it and not that exciting. Honestly the hottest thing I did with her was put a plug in one hole and fuck the other. Highly recommend that. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/15 09:40 PM |
| 0 | What's the best compliment from a woman there is?This doesn't make a lot of sense. You just need it to look like other girls have interest, doesn't need to be best compliment. Yeah some of the jerk stuff will work if done playfully. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/15 05:08 AM |
| 1 | After this story, how can you support LTRs?Man my biggest fear is being committed to one sexual partner and not being free to date or bang who I want. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/15 04:52 AM |
| 1 | I feel the BB sneaking up...looking for advice.Good deal then, yeah don't get in there too much or you'll turn it into your reality. Done it too many times. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/15 02:46 PM |
| 2 | I feel the BB sneaking up...looking for advice.It's a goof up but no worries. It's normal for anyone to be excited about what they really want, the fear of losing such a great thing. Don't delay your texts, do not send another when she doesn't respond. Not when things are fine. You can text for something other than logistics. The idea is you never text a girl for seduction or attention. Anytime you're texting her for your specific insecure purposes you're on the wrong road. I really hate to say this but if she's responding with that she's pr… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/15 05:38 AM |
| 2 | How do I handle this guy?Just say, "damn dude you use a lot of handshake force, you trying to make up for something" laugh and give him a good smile. A beta problem is not calling shit out. It's not exactly the most conflict free way to live but I go about my days saying what's on my mind as much as possible. "You seem upset, something bothering you?" And if you do that enough it won't just be when you're emotional it will be like putting your socks on. Don't pretend like the stuff you see isn't happening or you're not … | /r/askTRP | 06/11/15 06:07 PM |
| 1 | I think I found a Unicorn, is keeping an LDR worth it?To me the only real unicorns, but not actually unicorns, are girls who have been in committed relationships faithfully. You can get them when some strange thing occurs where it doesn't work out and they're single for a short time. They're often going to be boring and not exactly thrill seekers but as a partner they'd be the best bet. So I understand your frustration. I say do what you want, there are no unicorns there are just great girls that are rare. I see a great difference between girls in … | /r/askTRP | 06/11/15 06:00 PM |
| 0 | Why are women so rude, stuck up, and have a stand offish attitude?I find they need to notice you first, otherwise they think you're creepy and desperate. No matter your smv if the context is bad you're going to be put in a bad category. For instance out at bars or clubs, they will mostly think you want to get laid unless your approach happens for a reason which doesn't appear phony. If an ugly girl smiled at you and said hey at a bar you'd probably think she wants to fuck you and she probably would. Women get that everyday, they have built a fuck off complex f… | /r/askTRP | 05/11/15 04:53 AM |
| 1 | I'm in fucking tears right now. A woman used the justice system to ruin my life.I think the one big aspect to remember is that once a girl becomes a mom her kid is her top priority, a man in her life then will most often be for support or something to mine. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/15 04:43 AM |
| 1 | (18m) Trying to get an upper body.Man, just start reading and thinking about it. I'll give you one for free. Do pull-ups/find the 50 pull-ups program, bench, and deadlift and eat a lot of protein and food. That's oversimplified but you'll get some upper body. You may not be balanced or in great shape but I'll put on size if you eat enough. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/15 07:51 PM |
| 1 | How can I be a good tease mentally? also, how do I be mysterious?There is no problem with that, it's not beta behavior unless you're avoiding making your intentions known, and by that I mean your wants and needs. It's all common sense. Trp just offers advice that generally puts you in a more favorable position, you'll be refreshing to women if you can understand what they want as well. Doesn't sound like you need any advice. Sometimes it just won't work out. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/15 07:03 PM |
| 2 | How can I be a good tease mentally? also, how do I be mysterious?Yeah, a lot of TRP advice is great but take it with a grain of salt. A beta nice guy should avoid trying to get a girl to like and trust him by being the best listener and most caring person she knows. Most of the time this isn't sincere anyway, he's doing it all for the p-tang. Then gets angry when he doesn't get it and calls her a bitch. I can offer a lot of advice but the most helpful advice I think you'll ever find is to remember what you want to do. Sitting in a big group of people but you … | /r/askTRP | 30/10/15 04:41 PM |
| 2 | How do you take the pussy off the pedestal when you've never had any?You really can't, you gotta get laid. I would recommend working on becoming a guy who can have sex easily. I'm not gonna beat around it like trp usually does, make it a priority and base your life around it if its something you need to get out of the way. For some guys it's not a big deal, for others it is. It was for me and I did exactly what i'm telling you for the most part. A change of pants and shoes can make a difference in getting laid or feeling like a guy who has sex. Be a guy who is go… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/15 04:31 PM |
| 0 | What to talk about with a girl ?Man this shit is thoroughly fucked up. Stop worrying about this crap. Have you ever had a conversation with anyone before in your life? If so do it with women. They're people. They all prefer men who aren't losers because why get seed from a loser, and they prefer men who treat them like they are; and thats that they are people just like us with different hormones and parts. Shit, ask them how they feel. Just don't go on and on about it like you're her best friend, who wants to fuck the person t… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/15 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on Video GamesI would say most games are fine if you don't play them too much. I think you need to avoid rpgs and mmorpgs though, people play those when they're life sucks and they want to forget about it and suspend themselves in an alternate one. I wouldn't say it's helping your SMV and waste of time is a consideration for all of lives endeavors. What do you care about? If you want to get laid then focus on that. Play some games, w/e but your main job should be becoming a guy who gets laid. Then you can see… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/15 03:31 PM |
| 2 | How can I be a good tease mentally? also, how do I be mysterious?A cool redditor? Most women are built for a quality male, that's it. If you're not one then its all trying to be tall when you're actually just short. Men who have options and can have sex whenever have no problem doing whatever they want with their life and saying how they feel about things. Become a quality male. Lift, socialize, read, think, eat well. It does make a difference. If you're good looking and you have these other things going it's a walk in the park. Forget this mysterious crap, g… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/15 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Female preferences and a preference for ignorant choices.I would be cool with a LTR as long as it could be someone who satisfied enough. Perhaps for many men who wouldn't get oneitis easily would finally get it and call that the one they wanted to marry. Could just be psychology at work. I partly wonder if this chick just left me alone if I'd start to find myself more attracted to her. It's really weird, she is like a beta male in her behavior. Yesterday she told me she had trouble watching the movie because there was this distraction in the room, a b… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/15 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Took the pill to young?It depends on your situation. The idea is that it is still sex. How many of men have experienced a sort of 'sexual disruption' during sex or prior to it. "I'm not in the mood" They really have to be in the mood and so much can deter them from that mood. Whatever happens, if you have them there you have to find a way of getting them into the mood like stepping into a warm bath. Building sexual tension can also be good for this, you know just be playfully mean. If you're body language gives off wh… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/15 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Can someone be both alpha and beta?We all have different upbringings and different genes and circumstances that affect us. A lot of guys aren't very alpha but are naturally very stable when it comes to interacting with women, they don't get too excited about it or exhibit beta behaviors but then again they may not have much courage at all. And I know guys who come off alpha who are really struggling inside. I wouldn't say alpha and beta is a spectrum but more of a clusterfucked ball of variety. Perhaps it does lean toward alpha, … | /r/askTRP | 30/08/15 03:58 PM |
| 4 | Cold Shoulder from Plate.I never feel good about anything involving texting. But there is not enough info here to give advice on anything really. Maybe she is seeing someone but isn't sure its gonna work and doesn't want to cut you off or ruin things with the new guy either. Any number of possibilities. Just don't reach out again, let her make the next move. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/15 03:51 PM |
| 3 | conversation to avoid friendzoneThose are good things to remember but let me ask you how you would behave if you were 250lbs and a master boxer? How would you eat breakfast as a master boxer? How would you drive a car? Talk to people who gave you shit? You can ask and request all day long about how the boxer acts from when he wakes to takes a shit, etc. But you are not the boxer. No doubt learning is important, you should fill your head with knowledge. But, more importantly is to change your core being, then you'll have balanc… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/15 03:45 PM |
| 3 | How can I make reasoned conclusions and trust my gut instinct?As one user said 'experience'. It will apply in the way experience with all things applies. Ever notice how you ignored all those parts about a bike, shoe, car, clothing, art, etc. until you actually have spent time with it and gotten to know it? This is the same with women and the more experience you get the more you'll have a sixth sense about whats going on. I would add to this though that its' also helpful to be a very wanted man. If you're in high demand and you eventually really know this,… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/15 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Great fear over a girl who seems strange.Yes I've considered that. We'll i've met some weirdos, and I'm a bit weird myself. I spent more time around her last night and a lot of my fears seemed to ease. She was socially very good around my friends, and girls I know really like her. She hasn't gotten emotionally crazy over anything yet. She admits her past and problems and says she tells herself she's being stupid whenever her insecurities start to come back and she'll go workout or something. She's not invasive to my space, she does wha… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/15 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Great fear over a girl who seems strange.Just when I find one with a big ass and can cook. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/15 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Great fear over a girl who seems strange.Yeah good point. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/15 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Great fear over a girl who seems strange.You sound like a sidekick, but i'll admit it is funny. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/15 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Great fear over a girl who seems strange.I knew it didnt' seem good, I just didn't know if it was something to fear regarding my livelihood. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/15 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Great fear over a girl who seems strange.I know the insecurities could be from the abusive ex, but you think she's damaged goods because of that? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/15 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Blue Valentine, Story about a Beta?I had a feeling someone might have haha. Gonna read it now, thanks. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/15 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Raised by clueless parents, raised on romanticism.The other extreme I consider is going hog wild. I have a cousin who was still being parented by her crazy parents at 25, she ran away and ended up as gang property somehow until they found her again. The cops said she wasn't mentally mature enough to live in the world because they sheltered her so much and continue to. I just like to go against the grain of what society says we should all do, and when it comes to indulgences I indulge a little too much without taking proper precautions usually. … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/15 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Raised by clueless parents, raised on romanticism.Yeah I hear you there. Not a lot of people have what my parents have so being raised in it and it's all I know family to be, I might be doomed to be unhappy. I think it's caused my standards to shoot through the roof. I know, I do know many cases where two really great people have found each other. But I live/lived in the midwest. You have a lot of southern good girls who are brought up strict and then rebel against religion but keep to being classy.. and the setup is rare but beautiful when you… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/15 12:21 AM |
| 0 | Raised by clueless parents, raised on romanticism.It's a big part of it for sure. The other problem is it makes us go toward the other extreme which is also dangerous.. deprived of something then over indulge. Will do. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/15 11:59 PM |
| – | Took the pill to young?Girls and plans? It's like the start of a joke. Hope it happens for ya. Something that 'big', unless they're nymphos, is likely to give them cold feet around the time it is to happen. I'd invite them over for birthday cake and tell them to forget about the sex, then use whatever happens at your place to slowly make it happen. "Ooops, look like I just got cake all over your shirt, ooops i got a little more. Here come to my room and I'll get you another shirt." Then you can start kissing and licki… | /r/askTRP | |
| – | A high SMV crazy girl. If youre a TRP guru.. take a look.I think I've bought her one meal on one serious date we went on. Probably 5 bucks in gas total. And time would just consist of reading her text messages once in a while. I come in contact with her once in a while throughout the weeks/months.. school thing. She tends to act like my gf, almost a territorial thing.. many people I know think were together because she does this. | /r/askTRP |
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