I (32 M) have been having problems with my girlfriend (22 F) getting angry at me for making her feel insecure by showing that I’ve got a higher SMV than her.

I’ve been a long time lurker on TRP, have read the rational male plus watched countless videos of red pill content.

I have a problem though, my girlfriend has been getting angry and insecure because I’ve tricked her into believing I’m too good for her. I know that women always want to date/marry up and I have done my best to maximize my SMV so it will be more than hers... Although this has only led to problems with her being insecure and neurotic about me potentially being unfaithful or even looking at other girls.

Is there a point where there can be too much of a SMV difference in relationships that it becomes a negative thing or am I doing it right? It’s really draining for me to have her constantly being so insecure and paranoid about me cheating.