I’m in unchartered territory and would like your thoughts. I’m always trying to improve as a man like we all are.

Spinning EX as a plate. Earlier today I texted her to come over tonight (expectation set for quite some time now). She said no, and then proceeded to disrespect me. Saying she couldn’t stand me and blah blah (she’s said plenty of it before and it’s all bullshit)

Anyways, I decided to do something different today. Instead of ignore, redirect, etc. I simply told her that she was never enough for me. She tried to flip it back on me saying she assumed that’s why I cheated on her. I told her she just doesn’t get it and that’s fine and then blocked her #. She reached out on FB asking what she doesn’t get and I blocked her on there. Her roommate then reached out to me (didn’t have my # before today) and started spewing all kinds of disrespectful shit. I ignored.

To me I handled myself just fine but am curious to hear your thoughts. I’m always interested in the power dynamic of relationships.