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Introvert vs extrovert is a typical binary thinking trap. The truth is, most of the self-proclaimed introverts on the internet are bad extroverts, and are rationalizing their poor, and borderline pathological, social skills. For example, go to the introvert subreddit, you can feel the vibe that any quality or positive behavior an introvert can have (like reading a book alone), is exclusive to them, and in opposition, extroverts are incapable of such qualities.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/22 02:09 PM
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The writing will tend to be mildly erotic, as it's a field report. The point is that it contains all the relevant parts : How he spotted the IOI How he reacted to it How he managed to escalate How he handled logistics He's telling us simple, concrete steps he took, rather than just "being good with women", which is useless in itself. I agree however that he should have highlighted those points, because not everyone has the right mindset to filter through the information.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/22 08:26 AM
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Lots of guys in the comments missing the point of a field report. Did I miss something?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/22 08:38 AM
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Frame defines the structure and the boundaries of the interaction. It is that simple. Whisper talked about it : Many of you don't know what "Frame" is The "Frame" we speak of when we say "frame control" is not the frame of you, it's the frame of the interaction. The frame of an interaction is its structure and boundaries. What is being talked about. Who is talking. What the goal of the interaction is. What the context is. All of the aspects of the interaction that determine what is and isn't app…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/22 08:59 AM
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I recommend purging every piece of social media about her. Leave the past in the past.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/22 10:07 PM
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Being less wealthy than her doesn't mean you have to be broke, or dependent. Outcome independance principles still stand.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/21 09:13 AM
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She found someone better.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 04:36 PM
8

No.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 02:24 PM
1

Yes, Tinder is a meat market for hookups. What did you expect?
/r/askTRP20/06/21 02:24 PM
1

Doesn't matter as she's a FWB. Keep fucking her.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 12:28 PM
1

She's becoming complacent because you are. Take a look at yourself.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 12:23 PM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP09/06/21 10:58 AM
3

"Nevermind"
/r/askTRP09/06/21 10:57 AM
32

She expected to be exclusive, until proven otherwise. Let her rest for some time, if she's okay to share she'll come back herself.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 05:30 PM
7

There's a market for lost young men who need a surrogate internet daddy because they can't try and figure things out by themselves.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 05:26 PM
7

Supermarket game lmao. Autism is flaring up today.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 10:29 AM
1

Why not both?
/r/askTRP23/04/21 10:27 AM
4

Holy shit, why do you need to turn yourself into a jizz filled pressure cooker? I'm not against nofap, but if it affects you that much you're missing a crucial point. About your jealousy of women, you can think about how your penis isn't bleeding every month. Pretty good trade imo.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 10:26 AM
1

Men are not women.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/21 10:17 AM
3

You're being put aside slowly. This is what happens in corporate worlds, where firing you can be difficult. You'll be given shittier and shittier tasks until you are completely irrelevant, a "cost of doing business". You put yourself in this situation. Get yourself out of it.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 09:56 AM
2

College LTR is an oxymoron.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 09:47 AM
1

The bit about earning respect is a vagina drier. Make your move, she should make a fine plate, nothing more.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 08:40 AM
1

People don't care. They just see some guy posting shit on other people that could be them.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 09:47 PM
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They're shooting the messenger.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 08:47 PM
1

Soreness can happen sometimes, it's not a big thing, get blowjobs for a couple days. Use lube next time.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 08:33 PM
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The "what a fucking loser" mentality is a beta trap. You're still in the anger phase. Don't let people validate your anger, especially in here. Accept that people, men and women, are human beings that are fucking up like you were.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 08:24 PM
13

The rules are here as conclusions based on empirical evidence and common sense. Breaking the rules implies mastering them in the first place. Once you do, you will be able to make calculated risks.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 02:02 PM
4

Don't be a frame warrior sperg. Setting boundaries outside of sexual times is very common in bdsm communities. That being said, those boundaries mostly concern health and safety issues, or individual limits within the scene. If you're a Dom you should either discipline your brat, or discard sexually incompatible subs.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 12:01 PM
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It is my job. It is also my side hustle since I'm 14. And I've been tinkering on shit since way before that. It is not mandatory of course, and not a guarantee of success, but it helps a lot. Even though STEM fields are widely popular in our time, it is still a vocational profession in my opinion. I just play my strengths.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 09:46 PM
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R&D mostly, it includes, but isn't limited to, building and testing prototypes for complex systems specified by the client, maintenance on site, investigating technical issues, managing subcontractors, etc. As I work in corporate world, clients are multiple and can be internal or external to the company, and you have the opportunity to move around and interact with a lot of people from many fields. Of course, YMMV from one company to the other. To get back to my first point, the fact that I do t…
/r/askTRP13/11/20 04:14 PM
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Can't go into specifics, but I really enjoy it personnaly. I'm kind of a natural at this. I'm more hardware oriented which is a less saturated job market than software engineers, for example, so pay is easily above average even at entry level. It is also more concrete than software, I spend more time on the field, which is much better to develop professional relationships all around you, it is also less nerdy. Being an extrovert is obviously a strength. As a drawback, I'll tend to be very depend…
/r/askTRP13/11/20 02:33 PM
3

I'm an electrical engineer.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 12:34 PM
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STEM is a trap if you're not really into it. It looks promising and lucrative at a first glance until you realize you're competing with people that do this shit for fun. Best case, you'll be stuck in a corporate job you won't enjoy.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 11:44 AM
2

This is what happens when men give up all their sexual power and leverage by entering an exclusive relationship. Of course when you're that empowered as a female you'll tend to have some fun with it.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 06:25 PM
3

Not challenging your newfound knowledge, putting in the work required to adjust yourself will leave you rehashing the same material endlessly. There is a comfort in it that will entrap you. The only result is your ability to think for yourself will be replaced by a list of talking points other people made for you. Actual change requires action.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 05:54 PM
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With all these books I decided to go on a reading journey. I need to know about the game before I can apply the concepts mentioned in TRM. Wrong. TRP is empirical knowledge, meaning you'll have to test it and figure out what really works by yourself. Read some core books and learn about the core principles, sure, but be careful with RP porn. It will consume you if you do not put it immediately into practice.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 02:12 PM
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Don't try to fix women. If she doesn't share, or doesn't want to share the same set of values as you, you either accept it to an extent, or you leave. You should also note that you're asking advice likely because you're exclusive. This wouldn't be much of an issue otherwise, because after all you seem to value her company.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 09:14 AM
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It texting doesn't make you progress towards setting up a meet, it's likely useless, at best. Most texting is useless anyway. OP is a good example, playing the dancing monkey is a rabbit hole you don't want to enter. Throw some banter to show you're not autistic, spin the hamster a bit, then set up a meet.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 04:55 PM
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"I'll let you'll figure that out." Then set up a meet.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:20 AM
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It's not unusual to fuck only on second or third date, nothing to worry about. One thing I noticed is that they will be much more comfortable if you escalate at their place. It is much easier to close in my experience.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:17 AM
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Wrong mindset. You're looking to check boxes because you're unicorn hunting. She won't care, and she shouldn't care. Briffault's law applies. Her asking about what you feel is a shit test, she senses you're somehow losing value and will test you if that happens. Nothing more. There is nothing to call even, as you are not supposed to try and fix her. Read the post I mentioned previously.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 02:02 PM
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No, they don't. You are projecting your own masculine version of "caring", which is "trying to fix things" (and is a problem in itself), onto them.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 01:52 PM
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She doesn't have to, and I don't ask her to. I don't need her to do that as I don't rely on her for emotional stability.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 01:37 PM
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What they care about, consiously and unconsciously, is your emotional stability, so they can anchor themselves on you when they need to express them. They do not actually care about your well being as it is your responsibility, and it will be a burden for them to fully support you emotionally. Women are naturally highly empathetic, which means if you express too much negativity, they will feel it and resent you for it. Whisper made a very good example in one of his posts. Look up "Tears" on the …
/r/askTRP26/10/20 01:34 PM
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Women cannot handle rejection. What is usual for us is terrifying for them. And sometimes the reaction can be very angry.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 09:52 AM
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Men and women don't love each other the same way, or for the same reasons. You need to accept this. Your reasoning fails because you project men's version of love on women. https://www.trp.red/p/whisper/781
/r/askTRP19/10/20 09:38 AM
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She's not a plate if you're not having sex, thus her sex life should not matter to you. Even if you were casually hooking up, it wouldn't matter. But you aren't, so first, stop being her girlfriend.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 02:10 PM
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I didn't say talking to women, I said engaging virtually, meaning being led into her discussion, even if he disagrees. Obviously, it's good to be outcome independant, but that is a bad move if he wants to brush up on his spanking skills.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 12:42 PM
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By engaging a woman on virtual ground you automatically submit as your main advantage, your natural physical dominance is irrelevant.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 11:58 AM
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She's a brat, actively trying to defy you to get punished, meaning recieving that good old spank. But you can't do anything since you're texting, and not actually there to be able to bring her back to the real world. When she starts going bossy "you don't have a say in it", you do not keep on engaging virtually : "We'll see, let's meet in X at Y o'clock".
/r/askTRP15/10/20 11:40 AM
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This is textbook beta bait. Plate level relationship is limited in time, energy, and resources you invest for this particular reason. Any activity with a plate can and should be inexpensive and dropped easily.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 11:33 AM
1

Why do you think you need to commit all the way?
/r/askTRP15/10/20 11:29 AM
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RP is empirical knowledge, meaning it has to be put into practice to be effective in changing your mindset. RP content consumption with no concrete action emerging from it isn't that far from mindless porn consumption, for example.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 11:27 AM
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Women don't want to listen to your problems, even when they ask you to "open up", that's what bros are here for.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 09:37 AM
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A light-hearted approach displays that you're well-adjusted socially and at ease with women. It also helps to not give off serial killer vibes. Believing that casually smiling isn't useful, or is automatically a sign of emotional weakness is autistic.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 09:34 AM
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Women will not fullfill you. You need to enjoy women for what they are, a bonus in your busy life. You're bored because you're not busy. That binary thinking "either one Disney woman or one girl for each day of the week" will poison you. Maintain two or three plates, if you have shared non-sexual interests with one, then make her FWB and keep plating. With time you'll find an equilibrium between every part of your life.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 04:14 PM
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If you had several sexual relationships with multiple women, this would not matter.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 03:23 PM
2

Spend less time and attention with her. The point is to go back to a low maintenance relationship. No need to make announcements. You'll receive heavy amounts of comfort tests as you're pulling back, and the relationship is likely to end completely.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 03:16 PM
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Look up Dicarlo's Escalation Ladder, that is a good start.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 03:12 PM
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She's a plate. Set up a meet, meet, bang. No need to talk in between. Repeat until plate breaks. She understands this, why don't you?
/r/askTRP11/10/20 03:08 PM
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Most guys here, particularly those early in their journey, need to stop projecting their bluepill fantasies on to Thots. We live in the Tutorial Age, especially for young people. Almost everything can be found easily within the stream of information. If there is a problem, there is a tutorial. TRP (and by extension askTRP) is seen as an immediate solution to their current problem, i.e. getting dumped or lacking sex, instead of the long-term strategy that requires a change of mindset. If they can…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/20 04:26 PM
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Marriage is definitely a frequent topic on TRP, let me summarize it for you : Do not get married. Do not use RP tools to achieve BP goals. Lurk more.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 05:59 PM
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A girl being DTF isn't enough. You had shit logistics, and shit logistics will cockblock you as she will lose interest. You miss an opportunity, you find the cause, you fix it, you end up getting better. Repeat. TRP is knowledge based on endless practice. You were unable to have sex because of logistics, now you know that, you can fix that and put yourself in a position where you have logistics planned in advance. Get your place, get to her place, find another place, whatever. Figure it out. Try…
/r/askTRP05/10/20 05:46 PM
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The relationship is best when the girl is a little bit insecure, afraid to lose you. If you are at this point, meaning OLTR (I hope open on your end only), it means you chose to invest some time in someone that is able to communicate her feelings without the need for drama or games. And she will communicate them. You need to stay the course. In my experience, I acknowledged her feelings, and said something along the lines of "I am willing to invest in proportion of your investment". Which covert…
/r/askTRP05/10/20 11:02 AM
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Says who? Women? Ask 10 women what they like, get 1000 opinions, follow them and get no sex. You fail before it even begins by operating in women's frame. I get off on dominating (consenting) women. Whether or not I use my penis at the time is irrelevant, even if I do use it at some point. I do all of it for myself. She gets off because I get off. I think you get my point, so I won't repeat myself. You are at a crossroads. You can either play with the hand that you're dealt, and change your mind…
/r/askTRP05/10/20 08:22 AM
3

Introduce bondage to your activities, if I can make a woman come with a couple fingers, you definitely can too. Tap into their submissive side, and develop your dominant side. Your size only matters because you make it matter.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:52 AM
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People are not switches, and the world is not binary. Take it from a fellow stem bro, and try to avoid theorizing every behavior. It is a trap that will prevent you from actually interacting with people.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:48 AM
3

The sex is never worth the wait. It is known. It also means that the missed sex is not worth the regrets.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:43 AM
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Stop caring about things you cannot change, you will gain nothing from it besides insecurities. You're in the same boat as short or bald guys, it is only a problem if you make it a problem.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:39 AM
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Maintaining a LTR is keeping a balance between dread and comfort. In any case, you need to avoid complacency at all costs, or you will experience the light switch effect. Dread is actively maintaining your sexual attractiveness by constant improvement, and at least gaming other women, which is much harder than just maintaining sexual relationships with multiple women, but I guess you fell into the exclusivity trap. Look up 12 steps of dread in MRP sub. Obviously, you balance that dread with some…
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:36 AM
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Being interested in how to be on the receiving end of branch swinging is not oneitis.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 08:11 PM
0

Lmao look at those moralizing baggots. Plausible deniability is key. Find an excuse to meet, something you have in common or something, to then isolate, and escalate. Don't be explicit in your texting. If Billy looks at your text, she should be able to throw the usual : "he's just a friend lol". The more mate guarding he attempts, the easier she will distance herself from his "oppressive" behavior. If you manage to pull it off, she will be able to either break up with him, or "it just happened",…
/r/askTRP30/09/20 02:04 PM
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Sexual incompatibility is a dealbreaker. Simple as that. Why dropping your plates?
/r/askTRP29/09/20 11:57 AM
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Fuck his bitch to assert dominance.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 06:38 AM
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Girls are innately competitive, in their own, covert way, they will compare themselves with others.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 12:52 PM
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Don't get lost in the future. Having goals is fine, but you'll be better focusing on now rather than theorizing your future self.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 12:48 PM
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If you believe there is a significant gap, this might be an issue with some people.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 12:46 PM
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She's either not a LTR, or you truly are retarded enough to do plate games with her. Don't go all spergy on her, give her some comfort from time to time. Balance.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 12:43 PM
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That is typical narcissistic behavior, and any attempt to call it out will make you the bad guy. The rationalization process will make her the victim and guilt-trip you, like you're the problem, not her. If it didn't happen already, it will. Ask yourself, if you had other reliable sources of sex and companionship, would you put up with that?
/r/askTRP14/09/20 12:10 PM
1

You experienced some mild rejection because of a lack of action, and you're still affected by that a year later, and you even quote Rollo on that issue. See the dissonance? I actually never even kissed her or had sex, but we did all the rest physically. You did nothing, there was nothing coming out of your association, thus Briffault's Law applies. You seem to understand the basic concepts of TRP, but you still need to internalize it. Your religious mindset prevents you from doing that. Even wit…
/r/askTRP13/09/20 05:05 PM
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You have a blackpill mentality, ie you're either top 1% or bust. That type of binary thinking will poison you. If you went out for a bit, you'd see that if you do the basic work to work on your SMV, you can get yourself a decent plate rotation. Apps, cold approach, bar game, social game, you have many opportunites. But realistically, you don't want to put in the effort. I'm far from the Chad archetype, still I get a decent list of regulars, with usually 2-3 active plates on top of my LTR (no pun…
/r/askTRP13/09/20 04:52 PM
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She will start to argue your reasons if you're getting explicit, that is a guaranteed trainwreck where you will be painted as the bad guy. You do not owe her an explanation. "I don't think it's going to work anymore. Take care."
/r/askTRP13/09/20 04:44 PM
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"Green flags" are bullshit that will blindside you. Trying to put good traits vs bad traits into the balance, hoping to tip the scales, is male hamstering. One apparent red flag is a disqualifying trait for any kind of relationship more than plating. That is the point of red flags. Anything else is you rationalizing your inability to find more, or higher quality women.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 05:04 PM
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If she says no, I'm just worried about losing frame because then I'll have to compromise and do what she wants (non nude area). Nope, just move on and enjoy your time at the beach. How is that compromise?
/r/askTRP27/08/20 07:16 AM
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Women tend to like older men, and thus will inevitably test you.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 07:12 AM
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"Green flags" are bullshit that will blindside you. Trying to put good traits vs bad traits into the balance, hoping to tip the scales, is male hamstering. One apparent red flag is a disqualifying trait for any kind of relationship more than plating. That is the point of red flags. Anything else is you rationalizing your inability to find more, or higher quality women.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 07:07 AM
1

Definitely trying to pull off a reverse blowjob.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 06:19 PM
1

The decisions he takes about his family are his own, stay away from this. Keep your focus on him. If you're confident in his ability to lead and elevate you, go ahead, and prove him he made the right decision commiting to you.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 06:17 PM
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Reality will teach him a better lesson than you. Don't get your ego invested in that.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 01:07 PM
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Sleep.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 07:22 AM
3

If your only requirement for work is a functional Internet connection, I'd think much, much larger than the US, like somewhere with low cost of living. Not depending on a specific location to work is a huge benefit which you should fully take advantage of.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 02:24 PM
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If she happens to cross your path, sure, try to have a proper date, what do you have to lose? If it fails, it fails, learn and move on. Your best option will always (always) be to game other girls and maintain sexual relationships with multiple women. Always. Keep that in your head forever.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 02:10 PM
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Be like you would be with anyone else. If you happen to see her, be friendly for a bit, and go back to do your thing. Don't become an orbiter.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 09:11 AM
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Reading a book in order to become socially adjusted is a paradox.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 07:59 AM
4

You did fail to escalate on the first, and isolate on the second. Set up another date. If she doesn't want to, move on.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 07:58 AM
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I value it so much that I'm willing to invest more than necessary to accomodate my schedule around it. I will also put myself in a position where I can afford to occasionally sacrifice my work in order to maintain a healthy state of mind.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 07:54 AM
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You're trying to figure out what she likes in order to adjust yourself to please her, instead of displaying who you are. There's a feeling of inadequacy you need to address in order to get a hold onto your life. Put back the mastery in Amused Mastery.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 07:48 AM
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Girls can't handle rejection. Can your ego handle shit talking ?
/r/askTRP18/08/20 07:33 AM
2

Should I use a belt with my cargo shorts? How tight should it be? Should I loosen it up a bit so I can pull off the Reverse Blowjob easier, even if it won't be useful as a belt? What brand is best?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 06:26 AM
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You're agreeing that he's being gay and dramatic, still you keep rationalizing as somehow healthy and tolerable, his controlling and shitty behavior. If he loses his gf, it's because of his own insecurites, not some unrelated Tinder hookup. Friends do not pull off this shit. It could be his gf's sister, it does not matter. He is a retarded faggot bluepill pussy-ass shithead.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 08:51 PM
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That is some twisted thinking. The faggot starts drama because he doesn't want to lose his gf. If he valued male friendships, he would not do that to his bro. Whoever the hoe, the bros stay the same. He's not a friend.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 08:13 PM
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He's the faggot starting drama. Who you see isn't any of his business.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 01:25 PM
5

She's monkey branching, but waits for you to initiate so she doesn't feel guilty.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 02:16 PM
8

They are people like you, not precious little things that should never be touched. Touch is a natural need, friendly at first to create comfort, then escalate to create sexual tension. You're blinded by the pussy. You barely touched her hand and you go "I wanna see you naked". You didn't put her in the emotional state she needs to escalate, so you get rejected.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 10:27 AM
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No escalation means no penetration.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 10:07 AM
2

Let it simmer for a bit. When she hits you up again, enforce boundaries. "I don't have time for this bullshit, don't give me that shit again." Because you don't. And move on. She will do it again, that shit test is guaranteed, next time she does, you don't let anything out more than a chuckle. If she does not get the message, dump her.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 10:05 AM
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Tiktok girl with followers fo not make it high stakes, just look how ridiculous that sounds. A bitch is a bitch. And you killed the fantasy with your "I'd like to get to know you" bullshit. Stop lying to get bitches until you know how to lie. And don't kill the fantasy.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 09:57 AM
2

Don't try to talk about it. You're trying to handle rationally an emotional problem. Women are not men. Does a child trowing a tantrum would affect you? I hope not. Amused mastery. Girl tries to move you, you won't budge. Do you have time to waste on that drama bullshit? I hope not. Attention withdrawal. Soft nexting. Girl thinks you will not be capable to leave, show her you can.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 09:51 AM
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I post for myself. I write for myself. Putting into words my own assembled knowledge, putting the pieces together, is what helped me fully internalize. Some of them are platitudes, but they are my own way of articulating them.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/20 04:15 PM
2

Good shit. Find yourself some hot musicians when you start lifting and you'll be set for life.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 07:40 AM
1

Not a LTR, dump the bitch. And not even crying to harpsichord works. Do you even lift? Sidebar.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 07:14 AM
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Don't forget the barbell.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 06:54 AM
1

I've been in similar situations in the past, here's what helped me : -Minimize calls, emails, meetings (putting your own phone away should be an obvious one, I'm talking professional calls). In the corporate world, which I guess you're in, 90% of them are useless. It makes you lose focus and time. -Make plans when you finish your day, for what you will do the next. When you begin the next, review what you planned and make changes if needed. I found out that a good night sleep usually gives you s…
/r/askTRP12/08/20 06:57 AM
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Rule Zero.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 06:28 AM
2

Canned lines are unimaginative bullshit. You can't build rapport with that shit, and most girls can shut down that shit directly. She signaled interest, work is half done. When you approach she knows what's this about. I say hi, begin to talk on some detail about her. Talk about her, bitches love to talk about themselves, and let her do the small talk. Then ask for number. If she's tall, I'll be much more direct after building rapport.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 03:51 PM
1

I will talk to girls whether I like them or not, because I do not care about the outcome and like to have fun. However, I will still be on the lookout for IOIs. If I like them, and recieve positive feedback (IOI), I will try to isolate then escalate. If I'm in a setting where I have no desire to approach, I will still be passively on the lookout for IOIs. If I recieve IOIs, I'll approach, isolate and escalate. No conflict. AWALT concerns women, as a reminder of their primal nature, weird vibes c…
/r/askTRP11/08/20 03:15 PM
2

Promote A to FWB and enjoy non sexual activites (while not being too time-consuming) if she's good company. Avoid virtual shit. Keep plating to keep your head straight and avoid oneitis. Trust me.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 02:27 PM
1

Lingo and acronyms are mental shortcuts. If you forget that, you lose all the nuance necessary to understand the underlying concepts, and how they are linked together. This results in throwing around buzzwords with no substance, like this pointless debate. RP knowledge is empirical. If you find some concepts contradictory, it should be because you experienced it. Did you experience this?
/r/askTRP11/08/20 02:16 PM
1

Abundance mentality allows you to not give a fuck when rejected. It's not in conflict, on the contrary, it's liberating.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 01:20 PM
2

Know your audience. Gaming is based on the feedback you recieve from others, whether is verbal or non verbal. And non verbal is by far the most important. What I am trying to say is that it's likely your non-verbal communication is off, which would explain the excessive shit testing. That is what I mean by "weird vibe", or lack of awareness. It's a much simpler concept than whatever amalgam you're trying to create. And as I said, either that or you cannot handle basic banter because you somehow …
/r/askTRP11/08/20 12:33 PM
9

Both traits are necessary to be socially well-adjusted. Stop projecting your binary way of thinking onto us.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 12:21 PM
6

You can bend any rule, because you put them in application and internalized them in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 11:57 AM
1

I'm consuming too much content, do you have some content to consume instead?
/r/askTRP11/08/20 11:54 AM
5

Given your post history, you might also want to put your phone down and breathe for a minute, Mr. Chill.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 11:51 AM
7

You likely are lacking self-awareness. If you're giving off a weird vibe, they are just covertly saying to fuck off. Either that or you cannot handle basic banter.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 11:45 AM
2

You don't have to rely on logical fallacies to say that sexual strategy is amoral.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 08:14 AM
2

Even on a dry spell, fucking someone you're not attracted to is never worth it.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 07:59 AM
2

Change isn't binary. Chances are they're always were like that, you just lacked basic self-awareness.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 07:54 AM
1

Define "doing everything right".
/r/askTRP11/08/20 07:50 AM
2

There's a fairly basic thought process behind my question, but since OP is just an attention whore it'll be a bit difficult to develop.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 07:00 AM
3

Put the word "No" into your vocabulary. If there's something you don't like, or don't want to do, No is very, very powerful tool. Do not explain, or excuse, just No.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 06:49 AM
12

Women are in control of sex, men are in control of commitment. She can manage to secure yours, which is easy since you live on the same roof, she leverages sex as much as possible. What are you gonna do, walk away? As a bonus, here's 10 cc of Patrice O'Neal.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 05:51 PM
1

What do you like?
/r/askTRP10/08/20 11:59 AM
2

You're stepping on your dick by chatting too much. Keep it light and simple, you frame-warrior sperg. Pass the shit test, set up a date.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 11:45 AM
8

It gives you perspective. Over time, it won't make you cynical, only more accepting of female's nature, and how to navigate it for personal gain.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 11:40 AM
2

If you know it works, why are you asking then?
/r/askTRP10/08/20 11:37 AM
0

You sound like a bitch who doesn't read the sidebar, and act like a bitch who doesn't read the sidebar. I told her she makes me feel unimportant and I wanted to break up, she started to brawl her eyes out. She talked it out with me but goes on that same routine all over again. Of course she did. Ultimatums are for cunts and shows inability to walk away, of which you demonstrated at the first sight of a tear. You've locked yourself in a sexless relationship. She seems like she has a lot of issues…
/r/askTRP10/08/20 11:36 AM
3

should I be fine with it? What do you think it says about your own sense of value, your own self-esteem, your own desire to improve? How will you overcome that feeling of inadequacy in the long term?
/r/askTRP10/08/20 11:26 AM
81

GF moved in last year, after first month it went from every day to 3-4 x a week, and at six months we're at once a week. She just complains how tired she is and how annoyed she is during sex about everything. Basic mistake. Don't move in with a women unless you want to have children with her. Attraction is already difficult enough to maintain long term. She is bratty. Farting on me, pretend slapping my face with taps when I'm not expecting it. that makes me mad and I'll tap her back harder and s…
/r/askTRP10/08/20 08:17 AM
18

She sounds fun.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 10:06 AM
31

You don't look for relationships. You spin plates and it happens that this one seems good company and sticks around. No shortcuts. If you think you're the exception, reality will eventually come back around.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 09:56 AM
5

Let's say I want to set up a boundary with a LTR or a plate, something like not going to night clubs without me being there, how exactly do I do this? With a LTR, you don't. Either she should know better, or you should know better than commiting to incompatible girls. With a plate, it doesn't matter, she's a plate. Do I just tell her that I don't tolerate this, or do I use an ultimatum such as "if you ever do this again I will break up with you"? Enforcing boundaries is sometimes necessary, to c…
/r/askTRP09/08/20 09:51 AM
11

Men are not women. Stop projecting your sexuality on women.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 02:26 PM
5

You have relationship goals. That is the reason for your oneitis. Never set relationship goals, when you do that you're basically stating to yourself "my only purpose in life is to get laid", which is actually counterproductive. Set actual goals to elevate yourself and relationships will follow. You already seem to have a solid base to start, develop that. Good for you to vent. But don't come here looking for an internet daddy.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 08:05 AM
1

Don't answer that question if you aren't sure the person can handle a rational discussion. And if they're asking, they likely aren't and are just looking to categorize you. Change the subject or just say you don't like talking about politics.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 08:04 AM
1

People are ego invested in those arguments. They do not debate to share ideas or get some perspective, they do it to win. Which means if their side is wrong somehow, it questions their own ability and judgement in general. This cannot be accepted consciously.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 07:57 AM
1

Why?
/r/askTRP05/08/20 07:45 AM
1

TRP helped me by gathering all the scattered concepts I've observed in life, and linking them all in a comprehensive manner. Finishing the puzzle. Putting words on it. TRP went naturally because I've not been blind to my surroundings. I didn't go through an anger phase. It just made sense and refined concepts I've already experienced. But the fact is in here, many people here will get angry and overzealous with their newfound knowledge, before finding some kind of equilibrium. They think they've…
/r/askTRP05/08/20 07:40 AM
1

Your experience is like a lens though which you see life. This lens is always evolving according to your own previous experiences, knowledge, and beliefs you are exposed to. Thus, two seemingly similar events can be percieved much differently.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 07:30 AM
3

You are binging on RP porn. Realize that and start connecting with real things, in the real world.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 09:36 AM
99

Sexual incompatibility is a dealbreaker at any point in a relationship.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 04:06 PM
48

The Marlboro Man said you need to smoke to be masculine. Listen to the man.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/20 12:30 PM
3

Beta bait. Pointless waste of time. Girls cannot handle rejection. That is why is probing regularly for attention.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 11:14 AM
12

People have lives. If she offers spontaneously to reschedule and it fits your schedule, go ahead.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 11:11 AM
6

Disrespectful is your insecure ego's evalutaion of the situation. Anything inside your frame you have mastery over. Anything outside your frame should at best amuse you. Amused mastery.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 07:42 AM
6

Disrespect happens when one's insecure ego outspaces his frame. Are you really that upset about someone flaking? And after handling it rather decently, you just come back for seconds instead of ghosting? If you wanna use big words with girls, act like it.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 07:36 AM
13

Platitudes and memes aside, it looks redpilled at first by its apparent ruthlesness, but do not be fooled. Trying to emulate the sexual strategies of men is just another form of feminism. Men are not women.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 07:01 AM
1

Passing shit-tests without isolating and escalating is pointless. Don't be the dancing monkey.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 09:28 PM
1

You have motivation, which helps you start going to the gym 6/7d, but you get overzealous or too ambitious on your objectives, which impedes your ability to build yourself some discipline, as your objectives are inadequate to your actual level. This is not "super consistent or really off", it's just not consistent. A typical symptom of this is approximate number days of training/week. "3-4 days". Set yourself a number, and stick to it. If you say 3 days per week, you get to the gym 3 days per we…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 03:58 PM
1

I agree that security is always linked to a reasonable level where you're confident in the surety of your measures (aka your weakest link), that is not the point here. We're talking about doxxing vulnerabilities, in that context trusting entities (companies, people) out of your control to create and maintain your system is a significant issue.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/20 03:12 PM
1

Trust is nuanced and subjective, thus irrelevant from a security standpoint. Someone might be trustworthy, but negligent. Someone might be trustworthy at first because of incentive, then change because of another incentive, government pressure, or legal changes. Your security is as strong as its weakest link. If you trust someone else with your privacy, whether or not that someone acts in good faith, that is a vulnerability. We're not having a nuanced talk about social interactions or sexual str…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/20 02:12 PM
1

Even then, you're still exposed to disgruntled employees and the likes. A server you do not administer is a server people can look into and monitor traffic. VMs, privately owned servers, airgapped computers. Everything should be under your control, encrypted, and accessible by you only.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 06:36 PM
17

The only privacy you can achieve is the privacy that you implement. This is the key point. The VPN shills will tend to make people think otherwise. Do not trust a company, any company, with your data, and your privacy. Learn about the tech, and implement it yourself, if needed. Anonymity is a blessing. If you cannot handle it, do not put your future at risk for a few blogging points.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 04:16 PM
1

This virus is only a temporary setback, think ahead. Compound barbell exercices are really effective at building strength, where bodyweight won't go that far in terms of volume and intensity, you should not dismiss them. The key point is intensity : heavy weights and low volume. Getting the habit of stressing the body (both the muscle and nervous system) is important for your growth. If you enjoy bodyweight exercices, you can easily incorporate them to your routine as accessories. Same for cardi…
/r/askTRP19/07/20 07:23 AM
1

Why not both?
/r/askTRP19/07/20 06:57 AM
5

Looks are the first step. It's 2020, anyone with half a brain can be attractive physically. Work on your game. "Beta guy" is having drink with women, because "beta guy" actually approached her.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 06:51 AM
6

Laugh it off and go fuck his bitch to assert dominance.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 06:49 AM
1

Sluts are fun. You don't have to have aligned interests to fuck, or even respect, that's the point of low maintenance relationships. Fuck, have fun, if she sticks around and is good company, then do more than fucking. It's that simple. And you still put in parallel your sexual relationships with your own improvement. Women are a LAGGING indicator of success. They come after. Meaning if you fail with women, you need to focus on something else first, and that something else isn't in the past.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 02:09 PM
1

Spinning plates is the way to filter out lesser quality women. The more spinning, the more likely you will happen to find quality women that will invest in you, and the longer she will remain attracted. Key point on "happen to find", as in it's not your primary objective. If it happens, good, if it doesn't, women are still useful for rest and relaxation. You don't like sex because you aren't having much, thus your brain rationalizes this lack of a basic human need as "not interesting". The point…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 01:51 PM
2

Women are good at spotting attractive, but emotionally vulnerable men to keep as orbiters or providers. Once they receive enough attention for you to get dependant on her and get your undivided attention, she won't have to invest as much sexually until she branch swings to someone else. Bad deal for you. You're using RP knowledge to achieve BP goals. Unicorn hunting. Which inevitably fails because you don't maintain sexual relationships with multiple women. You were improving yourself not for yo…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 12:53 PM
3

Validation trap. You fell right in. Know that many girls keep a pool of unattractive orbiters to maintain a steady supply of attention. She will stay in touch just enough for you to keep orbiting. As soon as you withdraw, and increase your smv, you flip the script and become attractive to her. Congrats on that.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 12:24 PM
4

Do not use genetics as an excuse not to lift. It's bullshit and you know it.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 12:17 PM
1

You mistake your past and upbringing with being naturally redpilled. Truth is, your frame collapses at the first sight of a girl that knows her way around you. Reality is begining to collide with your delusions, and still you rationalize your inability to take action by having shot your shoot. You haven't even tried to pull the trigger. Take action. Take care of yourself, respect your body, your career, and talk to people.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 12:15 PM
5

Yes
/r/askTRP10/07/20 12:24 PM
13

Every time she leaves though, she’ll put on a sexy white lingerie bra and flaunt it in my face by simply getting dressed in front of me. Undress her, then.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 08:26 PM
1

You don't blame the flame if you burn yourself. You can get angry, to yourself, because you fucked up, were dumb enough, and burned yourself. The anger phase is a projection. You've been broken, lied to, you didn't figure it out soon enough, and the only way to cope is to direct that frustration towards women. But eventually, you come to realize, it's just how they are. It is their nature, conditioned by millenia of evolution, and all it needs is you to use their natural traits, and yours by reg…
/r/askTRP09/07/20 07:00 PM
6

7 years? How much do you bench? How can you still be in the anger phase?
/r/askTRP09/07/20 06:06 PM
1

You can't. Men are competitive by nature.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 06:05 PM
12

Empathy is a natural mechanism that every developed individual should have. Mirror neurons are developed in your childhood. If you don't, you're unable to read social cues and that's what happens with socially retarded GenZ people. You will feel something, the mirror neurons in your brain are wired to work like that. The point is to stay in control of your emotions, not trying to repress them somehow because it's not possible.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 02:55 PM
4

Cooking is seen by feminists as a sign of submission, thus in their thinking, not being able to cook is empowering. When my mother, or grandmother, cooks, she does it because she loves her family and wants to share that love. She puts love and effort into something that makes us live longer. Typical case of awful patriarchal oppression.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 02:47 PM
3

There's enough shit to shovel here without your standup routine practice. If OP is retarded, just say why, be on point. Leave the circlejerk to other subs.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 02:34 PM
2

Good conclusion, wrong premise. You reduct TRP members to be compartmentalized into these three schools, as if those are definitive seperate paths, never crossing. In the Age of Tutorials, people gather knowledge without intelligence. We can learn anything about anything. Even more, we now reversed millennia of given upon empirical legacies, and younger people now teach things to their elders. Following lists and recipes, assembling those bricks of knowledge, without realizing those can be moved…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 06:59 AM
2

Here's some general practical application. Specializing in a very specific skill has one major advantage and drawback : not many people will look for it, as it can be very niche, however those who do will highly value it. Are there people who do? Does having various skills like you describe has a value, is there demand for it? Versatility can be sought for, depending on your context. You're the judge.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 05:14 PM
1

First, did you really send a good morning how are you text to a girl? Second, get off that fucking phone for a minute, and breathe. You're begining to show a posting pattern of someone who's gonna get banned for not reading the sidebar.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 05:04 PM
1

Knowing the truth doesn't really matter, RP is about facts too, what matters is what you're going to do with it. Some will pick up a barbell, some will whine about genetics and save for a new nose.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 04:55 PM
8

RP is a comprehensive strategy to increase SMV through self-improvement, PUA is a recipe of what works with no substance, blackpill is flipping a coin and whining because it landed on the wrong side.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 07:15 AM
3

Get a number. In Instagram you'll be swimming in the same pool or orbiters. And don't let her set up dates. Quickly build rapport, get a number, and set up one shortly after.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 11:31 AM
3

You don't need to be married to raise children, simple as that. Blackdragon made a great article about that, look up "The 12 Steps To Safely Have Kids With A Woman".
/r/askTRP05/07/20 11:29 AM
2

Dread game. You keep showing you can still pull, and demonstrate your ability to walk away if necessary. Look up "12 steps of Dread" on MRP sub. Don't get married. Don't move in wih someone you don't intend to have children with.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 11:25 AM
4

Look up "The Testosterone epidemic" on the main sub.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 11:21 AM
1

Anyone is replaceable, I agree. And anyone can find better elsewhere (although low ranked employees will tend to be less risk-taking). In that given time they have in a company, which one do you think will accumulate the most financial wealth, professional, and social status ? You're creating this abstract entity "the company", as if giving value to a company is the end goal. Companies exist to enrich people, not the other way around. The end goal is to get value from it as individuals, and high…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 10:16 AM
1

CEOs, or executives, are a good example, they extract value from their subordinates, much more than they give. If you've been in the corporate rat race you know what I'm talking about. Employees get something in return, just enough to maintain their productive state. Not to say there isn't risk, or work put in. That isn't the point. Just that the higher you are, the best ROI you will have, and the more value you'll be able to extract. Same applies for the SMP, as it is another form of market. To…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/20 10:48 AM
2

You have a conservative view of parasitism, being a NEET on welfare isn't the only way to achieve that, and is actually one of the worst ROIs you can have. Low investment sure, but very low rewards. Every relationship is transactional, it doesn't have to be mutually beneficial. Does a king produces more than he takes? Likely not, that is why he has more. You can apply that to many high status jobs, many will take disproportionately more than they produce.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/20 08:34 AM
12

Same difference. Meat market.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 12:28 AM
1

What the fuck are those answers. When a girl tells you about her bullshit life, it's a shit test to see if you have the balls to tell her you don't give a fuck about her ex.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 12:27 AM
1

Why are you exclusive in the first place?
/r/askTRP04/07/20 12:24 AM
1

Ignore what they say, fuck them. Literally.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 12:19 AM
4

If it turns you off, why would you even think about LTR?
/r/askTRP04/07/20 12:18 AM
8

Find your audience. It's Tinder.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 12:16 AM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP04/07/20 12:05 AM
2

WTF. IDGAF is frame.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 11:53 PM
3

Instantly dismissed. Get your ego under control.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 09:13 PM
3

Disrespectful is your insecure ego's evalutaion of the situation. Anything inside your frame you have mastery over. Anything outside your frame should at best amuse you. Amused mastery.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 05:49 PM
7

People with weak frames allow their egos to have the upper hand, that is when disrespect happens.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 05:00 PM
1

The providing nature of men will always be exploited in our society. If not by women, then by the market. RP philosophy is parasitic by essence. The point is not to work with purpose for the sake of purpose, or meaning, it is about extracting as much value (any kind of value, material, social, etc) as possible from others, with as little as possible investment from you. MGTOW forget this fact by rationalizing their own inability to be parasitic by "I don't need it anyway". They need to be of ser…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 04:52 PM
17

Because most guys coming here for advice will step on their own dick more often than not. Once you've internalized those rules, you can break them in a controlled manner when the context is appropriate.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 01:03 PM
9

Because semantics. Change girlfriend (in the bluepilled sense of the term) to LTR, and voila, you're RP. Except it's actually just a plate. No real change is applied, no spinning is done.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 06:25 PM
1

Yes, I am.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 01:01 PM
1

Yup. They will evalute whether you're for real, or just a controlling bitch. Treat it accordingly with amused mastery.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 12:55 PM
1

That isn't the point. The point is the more you get laid, the less the notches matter. Evaluating whether X notches is high or not entirely depends on your frame of reference.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 12:48 PM
2

As always, this would not matter if you maintained sexual relationships with multiple women.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 08:47 AM
1

Do you count how many breaths of air you take? How many meals you had this year? Sex is also a basic need. You like collecting notches, because you don't have much of those for now. Your mindset will change over time.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 08:45 AM
6

It will filter out the bossy/annoying ones. The compliant ones will stay and enjoy it. Many are actually relieved not having to make decisions. Turns out equality is not for everyone.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 08:36 AM
2

Don't try to maintain any kind of LDR, just keep her number as a free booty call. It's always nice to have those on hand when you're coming back.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 08:30 AM
3

Did people actually gave a fuck? If yes, say something like "I'm secretly in love with him, don't tell him" and move on. If not, you got your answer.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 08:24 AM
9

Make it practical. Something that can be decomposed into actions. No need to be highly specific, but there's a middle ground between OCD-level planning, and carving your own destiny.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 07:22 PM
9

About 'tagging the OP', you need it in the report's comment section, or directly in response to the thread?
/r/askTRP01/07/20 05:42 PM
1

You can't get in the mindset because you're doing it for somebody else. Do the things you do for YOU. No one else will do things for you if you don't, no one else will respect you if you don't, no one else will care for you if you don't. You and your wellness come first, then your carreer, then your family, then your friends, then women.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 01:04 PM
5

Nothing significant comes to mind. Depending on the side of the implant, the skin will be streched and might be damaged over time if not taken care of regularly, which means saggy tits. Same as naturals.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 12:56 PM
1

Be the change you want to see.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 12:09 PM
7

Are you into it?
/r/askTRP01/07/20 12:05 PM
8

Trying to quantify it is pointless. You'll never know the actual number anyway, it is buried beneath the lies or 'those didn't count'. In any case, n-count has no direct effect on SMV, it is only used as an indicator to disqualify for LTRs.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 12:03 PM
1

People will always try and test you, A&A can be as good a technique as any other. Use them as you see fit.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 11:57 AM
3

get laid
/r/askTRP29/06/20 11:43 PM
17

Thanks mods, you're the reason we're still here.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 11:02 PM
1

Another piece of wisdom from u/VasiliyZaitzev. Tall women tend to be much more responsive to more direct and dominant ways to escalate. Basically, create just enough rapport to not look creepy, and quickly escalate the conversation to sexual fantasies, bondage-related activites, or general rough stuff. You know what you want, and you know what she likes. Word of warning : you'll be tested. Iirc, it's also been discussed briefly in a similar manner by itiswr1tten on a recent youtube podcast. Pers…
/r/askTRP29/06/20 04:41 PM
23

It should not matter to you if a plate or FWB goes on Tinder.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 02:21 PM
35

Some girls, even if you set your relationship as non exclusive, will get upset if they see you hanging out with another. No point in soft nexting, she did nothing wrong. And it makes you look like you're showing some kind of remorse. Proceed as usual. If you were to hit her up sometime, do it.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 02:06 PM
1

5ft10 is the magic height for women.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 01:48 PM
1

FereallyRed answering posts on askTRP. The dude manages to say so much with so few words. I was hoping to see more posts from him, definitely the EC I'm most aligned with.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 10:55 AM
2

TRP is quarantined, not banned like incel subs, because mods here actually make the effort to clean up the shit made daily by refugees from said banned subs. Thank you for your contribution. Edit : nevermind, saw the news, it's time for it to happen anyway.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 06:36 AM
3

"Hey, let's grab that coffee. X at Y pm." If she isn't available, but offers spontaneously to reschedule, do it. If she doesn't, next.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 01:36 PM
9

Don't use genetic potential as an excuse to not lift and eat properly. It's bullshit and you know it.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 01:33 PM
4

Nobody cares.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 01:30 PM
2

Hey, a nuanced point of view on the matter. It's a refreshing change from the cum-filled pressure cookers out there.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 01:28 PM
19

It just happened.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 09:17 PM
2

Her loss definitely triggered some accumulated disrespect towards you. You fucked up somehow long before that.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 06:59 PM
9

Your condoms might be too tight. I've had this issue, and I'm average sized. Try larger ones.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 05:26 PM
6

You handled the interaction poorly. At a time where she's vulnerable emotionally, you tried to argue with logic "rescheduling important time". Always DARE, never DEER. Look it up on the main sub. In my opinion, even in a LTR, handling the loss of others' family isn't your job, she'll have her own family to support her. Your job is to be the rock, emotionally stable so she can anchor herself to you. Edit : I should have added it earlier, maybe it isn't that obvious, but show some comfort from tim…
/r/askTRP24/06/20 05:21 PM
2

Why? As far as you know, your juice stayed in the condom, right?
/r/askTRP24/06/20 04:36 PM
5

Did the condom break ? Likely not. She just had a good time. I assure you, she does not want to have a condom stuck inside her. Change condoms if you want to keep at it after you came.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 12:54 PM
1

Verbal intercourse is optional. If she has an issue, she should state it calmly, whether it is about you or not.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 12:52 PM
6

She is a plate. You care because you do not maintain sexual relationships with enough women.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 12:27 PM
1

Soft next. It is always better to look for new prospects.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 12:25 PM
5

Real recognizes real. Anything else is just you looking to orbit higher SMV people.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 06:53 PM
8

If you want in on something, what are you bringing to the table ?
/r/askTRP23/06/20 04:30 PM
11

Being right doesn't matter, if it did, spergs would be kings.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 04:01 PM
1

Oh, good, you found it. I was incorrect about the author. Thanks.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 01:03 PM
2

It refers to a post on the main sub, made by VasilyVaitzev, look it up.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 12:29 PM
1

Blackpill mentality. When faced with the truth, you can either accept it, use the tools and enjoy women for what they are, or you can stay a bitter loser.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 12:26 PM
3

Don't break the fantasy.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 12:21 PM
5

Bend her over and whip her ass with your belt. If a belt isn't available, good old spanking will work just fine.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 12:17 PM
2

She will care only if you do.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 04:45 PM
1

Well, you have her stuff. Keep it somewhere and stop fixating on some girl.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 02:51 PM
4

That is why you need to get out of your head. You're fixating on 'before', but clinging on the past will only make things worse. You won't rebuild yourself with pussy.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 12:45 PM
3

She's a plate, not a LTR. Plates break.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 12:16 PM
3

You're jaded. You managed to apply RP tools to get laid, but it becomes stale very fast, if you don't build anything else in your life.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 12:14 PM
3

Imposter syndrome. It'll pass. If RP material begins to feel like porn, you need to gtfo back to real life.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 12:12 PM
1

If you can't fuck or spin plates, it is an opportunity to do something else with your time. The girl will reach out to you again anyway, soft next. Set up a date when she does.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 12:01 PM
2

Define 'before'. What changed?
/r/askTRP22/06/20 11:58 AM
1

He put the balding first, which implies that it the thing that affects him the most, as it is permanant. Even his medical condition goes after, and in past tense. If his condition was permanant, it would have appeared much differently. I understand being down, and not being able to excercise properly, I've been there. My point is OP is in a vicious cycle of low self-esteem, and the first actionable advice to recover his mental health is to engage in some sort of physical activity. I do agree wit…
/r/askTRP15/06/20 11:14 AM
4

Every bald guy here will say the same thing : embrace the balding. You lost your aesthetics because you stopped lifting. End of story.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 09:31 AM
3

Give us an example of what you are calculating, for example when you enter a room, or approach somebody. What comes specifically to your mind?
/r/askTRP15/06/20 09:26 AM
1

Nothing, go on with your life, with the knowledge that you cannot increase attraction by text. Hit her up when you want to setup a date.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 09:11 AM
2

You're still emotionally affected, which means you won't be able to keep her only as a plate.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 09:08 AM
6

There are two basic kinds of tests in a relationship as time goes by. Shit tests and comfort tests. If you're getting complacent in your relationship, attraction will decrease, you will get shit tested. On the other hand, if you're too detached, you'll recieve comfort tests, which means she thinks she won't be able to keep you for long, even if she tries. Any kind of long-term relationship will have this kind of balance to maintain.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 09:04 AM
1

How much do you bench?
/r/askTRP15/06/20 08:57 AM
9

I'll do whatever you want "Noted." Then go on with your life. That's the best you can do given your current logistics. You tried to escalate without getting physical. It doesn't work and only makes you look increasingly thirsty as you try to push it further.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 08:54 AM
1

There is no payoff. Texting can at best maintain already created attraction. High risk, no reward.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 12:50 PM
2

Fair enough. Stay focused, maintaining attraction gets increasingly difficult in the long run, it is very rewarding if you can manage.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 11:18 AM
1

Then move on, hit her up when logistics become easier, and set up another. No need to give her attention until then, either by initiating contact, or even by repsonding to her probing for attention. And obviously, find others in the meantime.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 11:08 AM
1

Why are you limiting your pussy supply on purpose, then?
/r/askTRP13/06/20 11:05 AM
1

Have you even tried to set up a date?
/r/askTRP13/06/20 11:04 AM
1

You failed to isolate, and the double date only adds difficulty to do so. You should have split up before going to your friend's girl's place. Always have logistics planned. You need to be able to bring her to your place or hers. Easiest plan is to pick her up with your car, then you both can go to a place while maintaining plausible deniability.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 11:03 AM
1

This. I'd give a ride back too depending on the context, but anything else is a time waster for both of them.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 10:55 AM
7

You're her plan B. She's spinning plates.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 10:50 AM
7

I stay in frame. No, you do not. You're giving away commitment to the first girl that knows her way around you. She locked you down way too fast. Work on your dread game.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 10:47 AM
1

I found out that some girls claim to be 'dominating', until they learn about the term 'brat'. In the end she does want to fight, just never to win. In my experience, I've never found a truly dominating one. Not really looking for it either, but I'm curious about their existence.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 04:59 PM
26

A man in this 30s can begin to display his masculinity not only by his physique, but by his experience and overall maturity, which younger people cannot do, simply because they haven't experienced it yet. It doesn't matter if you look older, if you experienced more, you have better game.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 09:12 AM
21

Reality is always the best teacher. Good for you to vent, what are you going to do now?
/r/askTRP10/06/20 09:05 AM
1

Don't be retarded by maintaining too much dread. If she provides value to your life, give her some comfort from time to time. Positive reinforcement goes a long way to maintain that.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 09:01 AM
6

Really hot girls get heavy attention all the time and will test the shit out of you. Unattractive ones are the target of thirsty desperate guys who think they have at least a shot with them, which inflates massively their ego. I've found out this spot in the SMP, where there are a bigger proportion of girls that are cute enough so desperate guys won't even try, but not that hot to get that much attention, those will tend to respond really well to approaches.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 08:57 AM
1

While witnessing this shit unfolding is painful, especially if you're living it (the Matrix analogy has never been this accurate), I think the few generations emerging from it will contain more and more 'anomalies' like you, maybe just enough to get a counter-culture changing. Maybe in the future, Gen-Z will be seen as the sacrificed generation, an example to understand how bad technology can fuck you up. Or maybe I'm being too optimistic.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 08:21 PM
1

So what if she does? Why do you care so much you need to analyse every possible outcome? Why do you think people mention 'outcome independance' in here? Verbal Intercourse is Optional - If you don't want to engage with her, just don't.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 02:08 PM
6

Rule Zero : TRP's mission is to increase men's sexual power and options. It turns out that that bettering yourself is a viable strategy to increase your sexual power. If in some parallel universe, being the best at knitting gets you in the top 1%, TRP would be all about those nice stitching moves.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 10:57 AM
23

It's a pressure flip. If she does have something interesting to say, it's a win-win, and if she doesn't, she won't bring it up again.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 10:25 AM
1

No. Set up a meet with time. Either she accepts, then it's radio silence until the meet, or she dosen't and offers to reschedule.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 10:14 AM
39

What kind of bullshit is this, lmao. Shit test, unless you really want to play as the dancing monkey, she has to put the effort into the relationship first. Remember the Golden Ratio. "I'm all ears."
/r/askTRP09/06/20 10:03 AM
1

Did you setup a meet with the exact time? Side note : she's not a plate.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 09:59 AM
16

First, she's not a plate if you are not having sex with her. Second, TRP is a toolkit to increase your sexual power, use it as you see fit to do so. Do not try to use RP tools to achieve BP goals. Some women have lower n-counts than others, the point is you'll never know. You still seem to be in the anger phase, learn to accept women's nature or keep repressing yourself into depression.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 08:56 AM
2

Wear a condom, have a proper hygiene, you'll be fine. Avoiding women because of their n-count is basically swearing off them forever, because you'll never know the actual number for sure.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 07:29 AM
1

Sluts are fun. You should try them.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 07:24 AM
1

She will care only if you do. Most girls won't give it a second thought if you can manhandle them properly. Which you can do because you're lifting.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 07:15 AM
1

How much more would you make when you finish university, is it worth the few years without a job? The answers are likely a lot more, and yes, absolutely.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 07:12 AM
3

Poe's Law.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 07:02 PM
3

Using RP tools to achieve BP goals. This is the typical trap for newcomers. Not to say it isn't doable to stay exclusice, but your dread game has to be on point. She has to know you can still pull.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 12:52 PM
19

Boy gets girl. Girl is happy at the moment. Boy somehow fucks it up. Girl is unhappy, and actually always was, because it's her current emotional state. She just didn't realize it before. Girl dumps him. Boy then proceeds to get his shit together, improve his SMV. Girl comes around remembering fondly all those happy moments and how she was truly happy with him.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 12:46 PM
1

Women don't understand or care the plight of manliness what I'm talking about is tastefully and tactfully 'approaching' women if Justin Bieber slid in Sally Slutty's dms All men get lumped into the actual beta males All your rhetoric is centered around victim mentality. Yes, women reject people they find unattractive, because they can, and should. So what? Yes, men shame other men for engaging in 'nice guy' strategies, because it inflates women's ego, distort their sense of self-worth, and in th…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/20 07:34 AM
1

'The plight of manliness', what is that victim mentality? Yes, we have to initate upon seeing IOIs, that is our role, it doesn't mean we can't enjoy it. I genuinely like approching and teasing beautiful women. Simping is just the new way of describing 'nice guys', which is people displaying beta traits in order to get laid. Not only this doesn't work, because you cannot negotiate attraction, but also it really isn't 'classy' at all, this kind of covert contract 'I give you money, so you better s…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/20 07:06 AM
1

Spinal injuries are mostly caused by improper technique, or lack of intra-abdominal pressure. Breathing and bracing properly is critical to protect your back. I'm talking almost shitting your pants breathing. Wearing a lifting belt will help a lot.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 02:16 PM
5

You sabotaged yourself by accepting doing things you do not want, and should not do : Moving in with a girl : routine creates complacency, complacency kills attraction. Giving up on being non-exclusive : you obviously missing it, you purposefully limited your sex supply, which gives her leverage in a relationship. Lying about your plates. If you cannot maintain it, don't lie about it. You overinvested, and the more you go on, the worse it will get. You need to spin plates again.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 01:52 PM
4

Nobody gives a shit about other people in the gym. You are here for yourself.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 01:42 PM
1

You're ego invested in your argument, which means you think you have to 'win' it somehow to save face. If the fuckup is legitimate in YOUR eyes, according to YOUR set of values, own it, apologize, correct it if possible, and move on. If not, imagine yourself facing a 5yo child calling you a doo-doo. Does it affect you? Most of the time, you'll find out that the best way to win is not to play. Verbal Intercourse is Optional
/r/askTRP02/06/20 07:50 AM
9

Never heard of them. Meanwhile, 129,234 Bypassing Quarantine Right Now. Edit : holy shit that's a fun read. The top posts are a crash course in logical fallacies. Most of them are just either blatantly (and unknowingly) agreeing to RP principles, and rationalizing others, projecting, hamstering into outer space. "why the "Red Pill" will kill you inside" "Going to have a stab at defining TRP's PUA subsection at its extreme vs. Punching Morpheus at its best." "The myth behind 'Be Attractive/Don't …
/r/TheRedPill02/06/20 06:46 AM
3

Don't stop. Two reasons : even with the test of your life coming, you definitely can manage a few hours per week, and actually taking the time to take your mind off and decrease stress is actually gonna make you more efficient. Trust me, I've been there. Whatever your field of work, maintaining a balance between work time and everything else is important. Talk to most of the ECs here, they might not have a test coming up, but they surely can find time to exercise while working their asses off.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 06:29 AM
1

How often do you exercise?
/r/askTRP01/06/20 08:00 PM
2

5'9 and up is the magic height for women.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 07:54 PM
1

Try out Starting Strength. It's not the best IMO, but it doesn't matter at your level. You're already counting macros, which is a good thing. 1500 kcals is too low though, if you're training properly. Don't get too much into internet comments, man, 10 people, 50 opinions, people overoptimizing. Build yourself some discipline.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 07:40 PM
28

You know the answers to your questions, and how to fix yourself. This sub isn't here to entertain your humiliation fantasies.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 10:23 AM
3

It'll pass. One day you'll be going on with your day as usual, and realize you haven't thought about her in a long time. Keep focusing on your journey.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 08:36 AM
16

Why would you try to get back together? A dealbreaker is a dealbreaker, you think it'll magically disappear? That is not how dread works. If a girl doesn't give you what you want in a relationship, find one, or more, who will.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 08:32 AM
5

First, you got yourself caught in her uninteresting bullshit, and didn't put a stop to it. Failed shit test. What's worse is that she tried two times (that we know of) to signal her submissiveness, first (not so) covertly by her marriage, then overtly with her sex life, which translates to 'WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU WAITING FOR?' I guessing you probably oversaw more signs of her compliance. You're mechanically applying the escalation recipe, too slow to realize you already lost her attention. You sh…
/r/askTRP31/05/20 08:05 AM
1

Do something else then. Even at a bar, you can just drink less, or not at all.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 05:38 PM
1

Money changes people. You can suggest that you'll never have to work (given your lifestyle, that would show eventually anyway). Never disclose finances to anyone. Even family, as some might feel entitled to it. Be smart with your money, keep on lifting, and enjoy your life.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 04:55 PM
3

You have mastery over your life. That is your frame. Anyone trying to test it is automatically beneath, and of no impact. At best, they can amuse you. Putting the sexual context aside, imagine talking to a 5yo child. Whatever she could be saying, would it affect you, or amuse you?
/r/askTRP30/05/20 04:37 PM
1

Daily routine kills attraction. That is why you don't move in with a girl.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 02:10 PM
7

As a virgin, you'll fuck it up anyway, not because of your dick size, it's just the mandatory first step. Go ahead and enjoy yourself.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 02:02 PM
3

Amused mastery.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 02:00 PM
12

OP answered his own question without knowing it.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 01:45 PM
27

There isn't. Keep it simple and straightforward, don't justify yourself.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 09:41 AM
71

So simple, yet somehow elusive.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 08:30 AM
3

Pick up heavy weights, put them down, repeat.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 09:59 PM
6

Excuses. If you're coming here to find a surrogate internet dad, you're mistaken.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 07:47 PM
6

I dont know how to be a man You do know, you're just too preoccupied being a whiny bitch. You've learned about TRP 4 years ago, 4 YEARS. Do you even lift?
/r/askTRP29/05/20 07:23 PM
4

Most plates break, eventually. Some will stick around, then it's your choice to engage in more than sexual activites.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 03:55 PM
1

Nope
/r/askTRP29/05/20 03:52 PM
2

Gay
/r/askTRP29/05/20 03:45 PM
15

Wildlife documentaries.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 03:44 PM
1

Dicks. Dicks stuffing jizz in her vagina. Stop dancing around with useless metaphors.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 03:14 PM
23

(C) Tell her it's over, gtfo and find a new place.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 02:03 PM
1

If you want to say 'I don't trust sluts', just say it. Don't resort to logical fallacies. I don't trust sluts either. I also do not argue with women, or feminists. The lock and key analogy is useless in the sense that people who are arguing against will just point out that people are not locks and keys, and people who agree can just make the same point without the analogy.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 01:41 PM
0

Thus making his point, people are not objects, and absurd analogies are absurd.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 12:58 PM
2

You allowed your ego to control the interaction. Anything outside your frame should have no impact on you. You let your ego take control, suddenly things turn out to be disrespectful, because you percieve it as offensive, and it leaves you wanting to make a point.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 12:49 PM
6

The lock and key analogy is the faggiest, most overused argument when involved in those discussions. Why ? Anyone now knows the response to this, which is 'Fuck you, I'm not a dumbass lock'. By the way, fuck you, I'm not a dumbass key. Arguing about such matters is pointless, and only means you're operating within women's frame. Your plate is a slut, your sister is a slut, your mom is a slut. Accept women's nature by not trying to mateguard family members.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 07:25 AM
5

Crazy bitches are useful to signal to other girls you can keep your composure easily. Don't try to escalate with her. A wise man once said, no pee pee in cray cray.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 08:54 AM
2

Have sexual relationships with mutliple women.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 08:44 AM
7

The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. If the guy is polarizing, she's likely still into him. He probably rejected her or something.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 08:41 AM
1

How much do you bench?
/r/askTRP26/05/20 04:37 PM
3

Hard no. If one of mine does that she's out of my life. She can try to straighten them, I'm personnaly not a big fan as it will damage them in the long term, but hey, at least they stay on.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 01:58 PM
1

Not really backfire, sometimes you can just fuck it up somehow and she'll lose interest. Or maybe she isn't that interested in the first place. Kino is useful to gradually escalate sexually, but it's not just touching. It's about getting that feedback. If her body language feels awkward or completly unresponsive when you're trying, something is wrong. That being said, go with your gut, and always assume attraction until proven otherwise.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 01:35 PM
2

She's obviously not loyal. What she says and her stories do not matter. Actions matter.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 12:13 PM
2

The first one looks like a typical 'I have a boyfriend' shit test. Look it up on the main sub. But in those two cases, if you can't escalate, it's pretty much pointless.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 11:11 AM
4

Gaming by text is bullshit. At best, you'll be able to maintain sexual tension already created in real life. But you haven't created any.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 09:17 AM
6

That gut feeling is right. Without the capacity to escalate, texting is pointlessly giving attention. You can try and double down on texting game and canned lines, or maybe see the current situation as an opportunity to work on other non-social parts of your life. Your choice.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 09:08 AM
0

Perfect. Now to answer your questions, if you need to define your relationship, read HumanSockPuppet's Guide on the main sub sidebar, if you haven't already. From my perspective, looks like you have a FWB : you also enjoy non-sexual activites, with a moderate level of maintenance. It's simple, it's fun. To give you some more insight, my current LTR took several months to get from plate to regular non-sexual activites, and one more year to get to more time consuming, shared experiences (like goin…
/r/askTRP25/05/20 04:52 PM
1

Good. Her knowing you have options, and the ability to walk away is your greatest strength. It is the foundation of dread game and you should never give up on that, even if you get exclusive (which I do no recommend, on your end). In the long run, complacency is your worst enemy. It just kills attraction. Any successful LTR requires you to keep a balance between dread and comfort, and you'll be better at this (more clear-headed) if you're plating.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 04:37 PM
3

Is she aware you're spinning plates? Remember that she needs to prove herself worthy to be your LTR. She needs to be investing more than cuddles and blowjobs. That level of trust requires much more than 3 months, developing a relationship to a LTR needs patience. A woman's affection can quickly become intoxicating, don't give up on exclusivity so easily, you don't need to. Actually, you never need to. Stay the course, enjoy her company, see how it goes.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 04:25 PM
1

How many plates do you spin ?
/r/askTRP25/05/20 04:11 PM
2

Unfortunately, we do not have the privilege of being able to express our feelings to women, that is if you want to stay attractive. She's the one anchoring her emotional state to you, if you aren't a rock, she will dismiss you. If you need to unload, do it with male friends.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 04:07 PM
1

Of course, by definition you can't have abundance mentality if you only have one woman, even if you keep the mindset, the reality is that you only have one sex supply, so it better be reliable. Some guys can pull it off, it is difficult, but doable with good dread game. Even if you're exclusive, you want her to keep in mind that you can attract women, and she can be replaced easily. However, most guys won't be able to maintain that in the long run.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 11:30 AM
2

Drop the RP porn, and go outside if you want to embrace the pill.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 10:49 AM
1

Oneitis is a consequence of pair bonding within the context of scarcity mentality. Now, about LTRs, HSP's Guide is still the best at describing it. A girl level (plate/FWB/LTR) isn't about the sexual time, which is always implied, but only about the non-sexual time, general investment and maintenance levels. Within that framework, LTRs can be exclusive, or open (preferably on your end).
/r/askTRP25/05/20 10:20 AM
1

Pair bonding isn't oneitis, LTRs do not automatically imply exclusivity, and is not only compatible with plating, but strongly recommended to be combined with.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 09:52 AM
5

It's part of the female dual mating strategy. She locks on reliable, stable resources and make herself his only pussy supply.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 09:49 AM
1

Give him practical advice before just unloading the whole sidebar on him. Make it natural. Going to the gym, going out to game some girls, whatever.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 09:47 AM
3

Shit test. "Damn, maybe I should try it too, give me his number."
/r/askTRP25/05/20 09:45 AM
5

Exactly. Anyway, she could be honest, but as your LTR she should know better than going to a club with sluts, even if she doesn't see them often. I'd demote to FWB.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 07:58 PM
5

Shit test. She's waiting for you to act.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 07:19 PM
4

Why is she telling you now? Smells like trickle truth.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 07:17 PM
3

Do you guys recommend going to trips with your plates ? Plate = sex only. FWB is when you engage in non-sexual, low investment activities. That being said, a plate can last from a few weeks to several months easily, YMMV. Most has already been said about it.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 07:15 PM
1

You're looking for someone to give you the green light to lead her on. It's your choice. "Let's see how it goes." Be careful with birth control.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 07:08 PM
42

So, tell us more about your fat feet fetish.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 07:06 PM
2

How many plates do you spin?
/r/askTRP24/05/20 07:04 PM
1

What do you want in life? What are the tools in your life to achieve that? Can you develop new tools to achieve that?
/r/askTRP24/05/20 07:03 PM
5

First, she didn't believe you in the first place. Second, if you want to lie, be better at maintaining it, or don't do it. Third, salavging is always a bad option, the lost respect isn't coming back. Talking With Women - Always DARE, Never DEER
/r/askTRP24/05/20 03:10 PM
2

You have PTSD. Seek professional help.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 03:05 PM
1

Problem 1 : do something you'd like to do, she can accompany you. What you want is up to you. You want a coffee? Get one. Go on a hike, a museum, a basket weaving class? Do it, as long as you're having fun. That 'too friend like' argument is as dumb as people asking about 'alpha' hobbies. Problem 2 : see problem 1, she's not enjoying you if you can't enjoy yourself in the first place. Stop trying to get pussy, try to have fun, and escalate in the meantime.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 03:02 PM
1

If you want to fuck her, fuck her. If you want to keep fucking her, keep fucking her. You will lose her eventually, you should not care about that. Find others in the meantime.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 09:04 AM
1

Yes. Doesn’t matter, pics more important
/r/askTRP23/05/20 08:38 AM
14

Get laid, your illusions about sex and women will quickly disappear. She's hot, she's into you. Anything else is just you rationalizing your own fear of rejection. If I can reassure you, as a virgin you'll fuck it up anyway, that is the mandatory first step.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 08:37 AM
2

You can try, he likely will not listen to you, and might think you're trying to steal his girl. Be a friend when reality comes back to punch him in the face.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 08:24 AM
1

Try enaging with people you don't wanna bang. Whatever the context is, even for a minute. Pretty soon you'll find yourself just in the flow, talking to people, and within that flow, there are girls giving you their number. There was recently an excellent post about it on the main sub.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 03:09 PM
11

Plate, or next. Nothing more. In the meantime, find others, this wouldn't be an issue if you already had three plates.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 11:06 AM
2

I think that trying to open up an exclusive relationship is doomed to failure. Imagine your boss telling you 'I'm going to keep you, but with a pay cut and benefits removed'. I've always been open about me plating. I have a 'let's see how it goes' approach, which basically translates to 'I'm willing to reward appropriately your investment in me'. It works with girls smart enough to understand that kind of covert contract, and smart enough to look around and see the perpetual BP shitshow, and how…
/r/askTRP21/05/20 08:00 AM
5

Why? Do you want to fuck her, or just feel better about yourself?
/r/askTRP20/05/20 08:08 PM
3

If there is social stigma around your skin color, build some rapport first, create some comfort to show you're not a serial killer or whatever, then try and fail, see what happens, and try again until it works. Banter is a skill that requires time and practice to master. But imo, the worst that can happen is her just leaving, if you set up the right context.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 05:13 PM
1

A girl will always prefer to share someone valuable than settling for less. She cannot resent that because she understands that's the rules of the game we both play. She can have a share proportional to her investment, or she can try to get someone better, with no guarantee of success.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 05:03 PM
1

Chastity cage actually, I'm old school like that. Seriously though, go read the 'top guy' post EC posted right above. It'll explain it better than I will. What I'm going to say (I think) makes sense because I make the conscious exercice to be self-aware, and knowing my own value. From a BP person it would sound awfully deluded. The horror stories shared here will have a tendency to make one quite paranoid. But in the case of my LTR, I can say with confidence that she isn't going around. Because …
/r/askTRP20/05/20 04:45 PM
1

Fair enough.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 04:11 PM
16

Just hold frame bro
/r/askTRP20/05/20 04:05 PM
5

Pretty good analogy, until you try to inject a pill with a syringe.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 04:02 PM
17

They are losers making the conscious choice of staying losers by feeding pessimism into each other.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 03:26 PM
1

Protecting you from what, exactly?
/r/askTRP20/05/20 03:20 PM
0

Hence the one-ended part. It's just shorter than saying 'I have created bonds with someone that I enjoy spending time with, but reject the concept of exclusivity for me, because I'm aware of the male and female mating strategies'.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 03:17 PM
13

If you talk about TRP, besides the self-improvement part, chances are you'll be misunderstood and labeled a misogynist pig, which will damage your reputation forever. I've been able to exchange hints of RP principles with a couple like-minded individuals, but nothing overt. I think they don't know about TRP, but are simply naturals.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 03:11 PM
1

I am in an OLTR (open on my end only), 4 years going. I avoid oneitis by spinning plates. Edit : I'll add that I keep in mind the covert contract that she will stay around as long as I display value, and will Briffault the shit out of me if I fuck it up somehow. OTOH, she knows she has to keep it tight and drama-free to stay in my life.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 02:42 PM
1

Having a well-adjusted life, and spin plates while people enter dysfunctional relationships, in this case LDR.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 09:56 PM
1

TRP promotes improvement, within the framework of sexual strategy. The info you're looking for is specific, business-related practical advice, which the spergs lurking here likely do not have (as you can see by the other dudes' answers). To be honest, some relevant people might answer you if you're lucky, but it is unlikely.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 06:21 PM
0

The issue is moralizing, usually coming from dark triad LARPers when faced with actual use cases for lying. I usually don't lie, because I can't be bothered with maintaining it, and when gaming your social circles, if something goes wrong it can fuck up your reputation. But if it gets you laid, and you can maintain it, why not? It's just sex, do whatever you want.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 11:42 AM
1

Unless she can easily come to your place, you'd be better off just doing something else with your free time.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 11:10 AM
2

Bad lays are never worth the hassle.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 11:08 AM
2

Wrong place.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 11:06 AM
142

You can't redpill people who do not want it. At best it will be ineffective, at worst it will backfire on you. Lead by example, show that what you're doing is effective.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 11:02 AM
1

Gaming by text is bullshit. At best, you'll be able to maintain sexual tension already created in real life. But you haven't created any, so you'll just eventually look like a creep when you try to escalate.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 10:57 AM
2

Or find others, but basically, yes. A plate is only useful if she provides sex, which is fine by itself. If she's the only one however, she can limit your supply and you can't do much about it. Scarcity mentality. If it happens once, you can give her the benefit of the doubt, because people have lives too, when you feel it becomes a pattern, you should have backup plans. Abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 09:29 PM
2

I'm being honest. Get off your phone for a minute and breathe.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 09:16 PM
1

She's begining to use sex as leverage, this wouldn't be a problem if you were spinning three plates.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 05:52 PM
2

If askTRP gets you so emotional, maybe it's time to take a break from your phone.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 05:37 PM
2

LTR threads have been here long before covid, altough it makes sense that weak relationships can't last very long in this context. Don't get mistaken though, this sub always has and always will be swarming with the same autistic questions, and the same simple answers. That's how this sub works, either stay and become a mod or something, or gtfo, nobody needs your rambling. If you have something to say, make a post in the main sub.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 12:51 PM
9

Think of it more like positive reinforcement. When she does something positive, some kind of validation, like a small gift or a compliment, from time to time will motivate her to stay positive. Obviously, when you overdo it, it becomes an entitlement. And never reward negative behavior, or hoping to see good behavior.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 12:09 PM
6

https://heartiste.org/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/ Number 5, Golden Ratio, not Golden rule, actually. Well, it's kind of a Golden Rule too.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 11:17 AM
8

"If you were spinning three plates, none of this would matter." Put it right next to your EC tag, it will save you some time each post.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 08:09 AM
38

Get rid of that "is X beta?" mindset. A single action has only meaning when given a specific context. Remember the Golden Rule, for example. If you want to give her some comfort, you should, it's your LTR after all. As long as you balance it appropriately.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 08:02 AM
6

Life is vast and complex, your goals and desires will evolve. Once you fulfill your goals, maybe you'll redirect your interest to having children. Maybe not, but the point is, you can be honest while not crushing your parents' hopes.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 09:14 AM
1

pretty much life on easy mode Until 30 yo. Even with unlimited pussy pass, this stale life eventually makes people miserable. No thanks.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 09:04 AM
11

Keep it for a later date (or another plate), switch it up to keep things fresh.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 09:01 AM
4

"Green flags" are bullshit that will blindside you. Trying to put good traits vs bad traits into the balance, hoping to tip the scales, is male hamstering. One apparent red flag is a disqualifying trait for any kind of relationship more than plating. That is the point of red flags. Anything else is you rationalizing your inability to find more, or higher quality women.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 08:56 AM
0

It's a plate, used only for sex. We're not talking about hanging around or doing things together. She comes over, they bang, she gets out. I see it more like she gives out her much more limited time, and she gives out her sexuality, with no commitment in exchange.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 09:13 AM
1

Whataver floats your boat, it's really up to personal preference.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 09:07 AM
1

Agreed, the no contact part is obvious, and was already in several of the top comments. I'm commenting on OP's update, and what could be after this period of withdrawal and recovery.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 09:02 AM
1

First, watch her actions, don't listen to her words. Second, who cares who she fucks, she's no longer a LTR, she's a plate. There's no "baiting him into an open relationship" with a plate because plating isn't monogamous by definition.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 09:41 PM
9

I stopped reading at "couples therapy". You haven't swallowed the pill, or interalized any of the material provided here. Using RP lingo like LTR won't make you magically redpilled. Edit : I forced myself to read your bullshit. Holy shit. Do you have any idea of how clingy and needy you are? Literally every sentence has something wrong.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 05:09 PM
21

Get your ass kicked in martial arts, realize you're not made of sugar, get over it, repeat.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 05:04 PM
25

Commenting on your update : Her dumping you is her trying to leverage her position right now by keeping you as a provider. You called her bluff by withdrawing completly, which causes her to backpedal. One thing is sure : the lost respect is never coming back. Demote to plate, find others. If she causes drama, ghost.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 05:01 PM
4

Motivation is what gets you started, discipline is what keeps you going when things get inevitably boring. This behavioral change requires consistent work, that kick in your ass when you feel lazy. In the meantime, I suggest adding some variations to your program, or switching to a program that allows more diversity or accessory work.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 04:53 PM
9

Plate = condoms. No exceptions.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 04:46 PM
3

Being honest isn't being bluepilled, or a "nice guy". If you cannot handle the stress induced by maintaning lies, just don't. Have a "let's see how it goes" approach. The point of plates is to provide relaxation while you tackle the actual challenges you set in your life. Women are a lagging indicator of success, not a leading one.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 04:44 PM
1

On the contrary, it is a goldmine for newbies that would think of lurking for a bit and read all the same dumb questions, instead of asking the dumb questions directly.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 09:41 AM
107

The day you started lifting is the day you became forever small.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 10:23 PM
1

That is my point, the cheating happened before, so he got complacent beforehand. You're saying he's top alpha in public, but he's also getting married, so maybe in private he's not that alpha, and the friend gave her more tingles.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 01:25 PM
1

Assuming your scenario isn't some bullshit hypothetical and happend in real life, it fails at 1. The assumption he's alpha is based on your own perception, and doesn't take into account the reality of their intimate life, and the level of complacency.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 12:36 PM
1

And I guess you'll be paying for the plane ticket?
/r/askTRP12/03/20 10:10 PM
1

I found the Two Knotty Boys books a pretty good resource for bondage-related activites. Covers both decorative and dominance bondage, from basic to quite advanced.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 10:05 PM
53

This. I would add that men will tend to leverage commitment for sex, women will tend to leverage sex for commitment.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 04:55 PM
7

Dude. You're here posting several times a day pointless questions on reddit. Stop overthinking everything, put your phone down for a minute and breathe.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 11:04 AM
2

That is your ego talking. It wants to have the last word, to have its revenge. Believe me, it isn't worth the hassle. Never listen to your ego.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 09:58 AM
3

I was more thinking about a soft drink, but why not, nobody cares.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 09:43 AM
3

You can call a dog a cat, it'll still be a dog. You said so yourself, you ignored the red flags. On how to cut the relationship, the other guy is right. Keep it simple, concise, and don't apologize. Hard nexting is there to avoid time wasting drama.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 09:18 AM
4

She never was a LTR, she's a plate. Treat her accordingly, and pick up others.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 08:32 AM
1

She doesn't have to buy alcohol in a bar.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 08:27 AM
6

You're overthinking way too much something that is as simple as grabbing a grocery bag, and moving your ass to a store.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 10:42 AM
2

Yes. You literally take what's yours.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 10:26 AM
1

No difference. This shouldn't phase you.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 10:20 AM
4

Clean slate. Reboot yourself. Good for you to acknowledge all this. Now is the time to act. Don't try to salvage a relationship, respect is gone for a long time and will not come back. I won't lecture you, you already know what to do.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 10:05 AM
1

This. Basic manhandling. when changing positions, grabbing the girl by the ankle and dragging her across the bed before repositioning her Also when she's about to (literaly) hit the wall, or fall off the bed.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 09:59 AM
7

Unless you're hooking up everyday, which would be weird for a plate, talking this often is already a mistake. Verbal intercourse is optional.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 09:46 AM
1

I agree on this cycle, it is observable from a social or political standpoint, however I'd argue the cycle is the status quo. When you replace it in the context of postmodernism, we're simply a society with a very short attention span. RP will just become another shallow mean of consumption, the same way millenials wallow in PC at the moment.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/20 08:08 AM
0

Is that strategy useful though? Integrating rp into the stream seems logical at first, but as the attention span is diminishing constantly, in the end, any kind of view is systematically replaced and erased. As long as the stream is in place, the mind will continue to wander. Maybe we are still too soon into the acceleration process to really hook zoomers and have a meaningful impact. It's just an hypothesis though, and you surely have more experience on this matter, so I'm still unsure.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/20 06:14 PM
22

It is a manifestation of the 80:20 rule : a majority of women aims for a minority of men. That is why dating apps are so depressing for a majority of men. You have to rely only on looks/pictures to get a match.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 12:30 PM
2

Changing their view is not enough, as they will dissociate soon after, leaving red pill as mere subversion porn to consume some other content. How does one can translate that into actionable (and acted upon) advice?
/r/TheRedPill10/03/20 09:23 AM
9

It's called a shit test. Don't react, or soft next.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 07:08 PM
1

Blocked is blocked, whether it's text or Instagram. You have to maintain that boundary. As said in the post : Maybe not directly, but by qualifying her so she gets the point that you cannot be in a relationship with her if she keeps friends who want to be more than friends and don't respect the boundaries in place. It's just a mess waiting to happen. I'd give the benefit of the doubt on that one, as Instagram is the home of the orbiters (gotta up that follower count). However, it might be an unc…
/r/askTRP09/03/20 06:51 PM
1

The Loyalty Test
/r/askTRP09/03/20 06:27 PM
2

No need to be autistic about this. This is a rule of thumb, because they are too many people talking way too much with their thumbs (no pun intended), trying to game via text, and not enough in the real world.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 01:13 PM
4

Since she's a plate, and you haven't made the mistake of getting exclusive that easily (right?), it shouldn't be an issue to maintain the course. Edit : I misread, she isn't a plate anymore. Advice still stands.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 10:10 AM
1

Exactly. LTR is a marathon, but many guys just start sprinting, thinking they found and vetted the one, like it's the finish line.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 08:25 AM
1

Going from plate to FWB, and FWB to LTR isn't neccesarily a precise point in time. It can be from a precise event, like doing a time consuming activity for the first time. But sometimes, there can be something of a grey area. One thing is for sure, when shit begins to hit the fan after such a low amount of time, something is wrong, either from his estimation of when the LTR started, or how that start changed his mindset or behavior.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 04:26 PM
1

Even with a detailed description of which is which, people would still give biased estimations, based on their own lack of abundance, lack of experience, or some niche features from the girl that will appeal more to specific individuals.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 08:44 AM
2

Not fast enough to pull off a smash and dash.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 10:30 PM
6

LTR for a month I stopped reading.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 10:17 PM
0

Nothing is your fault, right? You haven't evolved enough to have a brain capable of observing, thinking for itself, or seeing that something is wrong and try to find solutions instead of whining? No one cares about your disadvantages and your bitching, there are 20 like you coming each day trying to find their surrogate internet dad. Wrong place, no one will do that for you.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 10:04 PM
1

Either they're trying to get your attention again, or they concluded that you weren't receptive and moved on. Why can't you take a hint?
/r/askTRP07/03/20 04:57 PM
6

Bit socially awkward, top of your game in 5th grade... Do you have any idea of how much of a self-centered bitch you are? Don't you think that's why people do not hang out with you?
/r/askTRP07/03/20 04:53 PM
3

Why do you expect them to approach you?
/r/askTRP07/03/20 04:47 PM
1

It isn't a matter of whether she should drive or not. It's a matter of what was agreed before. If you give in to someone who's bitching, you're signaling that bitching works, and should be used when needed.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 04:11 PM
7

Never reward bad behavior, you're setting a precedent.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 04:02 PM
26

There is nothing to talk about. You set that boundary, stick to it. Go enjoy your friends.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 03:51 PM
2

TRP newbies tend to be a bit overzealous at first, which can cause some burnout as they will try to take on more than they can handle. I'm not preaching laziness, of course. I'm more about building some solid foundations at first, slow and steady. Learning when to take a deserved break is as important as pushing yourself further. Breaking yourself down is part of the process of rebuilding yourself up. Your feet will toughen up, your payday will increase. You seem to have the right mindset for it…
/r/askTRP07/03/20 11:25 AM
1

Isolate, then escalate. Why do you need to overcomplicate things?
/r/askTRP05/03/20 05:11 PM
1

Policies may be negociated, if you can make a decent case to the right people. In any case, it seems that school is the right thing for you, and you should stick to it. I'm giving you some angles, throwing out some ideas, but ultimately, it's on you to find a way to get things done.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 01:12 PM
1

I can't talk specifically about your field ofc, but connections is a good benefit indeed, the better your school's reputation, the more doors opened. See which angle benefits you the most, and work it. Looking for connections? Besides future workers, and managers, if you can, get in touch with alumni, people with experience and shared history. If you find other good students, they might be able to assist you by managing separate places. Is it typical for students to be running a farm/ranch like …
/r/askTRP04/03/20 10:30 PM
4

Unpopular, and long, opinion on schools incoming. If you're bored, get to the TL;DR. Nowadays, in developed countries at least, college/university/graduate school is the default way to go, in the spirit of elitism. As a result, many people are defaulting to a path that isn't theirs, in hope of a "better life", or a "better job", with no real meaning or purpose behind it. This has three effects : Diploma inflation : everyone has one, so it bears less value, it gives you less of an edge than a few…
/r/askTRP04/03/20 06:46 PM
7

She's trying to secure you, while rationalizing the fact that the other guy gives her tingles. The hamster is spinning hard. Ignore her proposal, keep her as a plate.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 12:35 PM
2

She was waiting for you to lead the way. She showed some interest, but girls haven't much game.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 07:56 PM
2

The problem was I couldn't ask for her number since I was gonna leave today. I couldn't just stick to her like an annoying weight hanging around. Always get the number, even if you aren't going to use it. How would you have continued the conversation? (or changed?) Keeping it light, trying to get some banter (with tourists, it's easy, I like to pick some cliché from that country, always keeping it light, obviously), see if she's responsive. And of course some physical escalation (kino). You push…
/r/askTRP03/03/20 07:48 PM
2

Some girls will feel awkward because they will sense some nervousness from you. As you keep approaching, it'll go away naturally. You have the right mindset (approaching abroad is great for that), just need some practice. Bird girl was pretty good, you created some comfort but you failed to escalate and at least get a number, the conversation soon becomes stale and awkward. Another exercice, try to approch other people (understand : people you don't wanna bang) in general. The point is to act na…
/r/askTRP03/03/20 07:16 PM
3

The hints you percieve are her attempts to make you an orbiter. You already got rejected, move on.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 01:16 PM
84

When life sends you a plate, you spin it.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 10:21 AM
1

Cringy solution to pass the oldest, most basic shit test. Fuck off, LARPer.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 10:17 AM
1

What's your question?
/r/askTRP03/03/20 10:15 AM
33

Spot on. The "Is this your boyfriend" works like a charm.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 08:33 AM
6

Bit of a shortcut, I admit, what I've seen are some studies linking excessive prolactin secretion from ejaculation (excessive meaning several times a day, during a few days, similar to masturbation) to a temporary inhibition of testosterone receptors, which is effectively the same as a testosterone level decrease. I can't find the papers again, sorry. I always welcome new knowledge though.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 10:00 PM
1

You can do the same without being exclusive. Imagine yourself in a job interview, your future employer makes a salary proposal, and you reply "nah, that's too much, I'd rather be paid less". You're the one in her frame. Besides, you think she doesn't have the time to see other guys, but with other girls she does? You want to commit, knowing you're moving out? Everything you say is a logical fallacy. Get your head straight.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 05:42 PM
2

You agreed to be exclusive with a FWB. Why?
/r/askTRP01/03/20 05:29 PM
11

Your testosteone levels get back up when you don't masturbate for a few days. Go get laid, champ.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 05:12 PM
-10

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/r/askTRP01/03/20 04:57 PM
-10

Answering a shit test online, and publicly, without the ability to isolate/escalate immediately is useless. You're playing on her turf.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 04:55 PM
20

Careful. You play with fire, you get burnt.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 03:55 PM
8

I'd follow the advice of the other guys. If you're sure it won't leak into your social circles, go full beta.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 03:54 PM
15

The more you wait, the worse the ending will be. I'd worry more about false rape charges.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 03:38 PM
13

Nothing. Don't give attention to girls on social media.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 03:30 PM
4

You'll look like a controlling dick if you try that. She will resent you. You're too young to get that invested, that fast. Keep the relationship casual.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 03:28 PM
2

All your actions brought you where you are. No point in dwelling on the past.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 03:26 PM
16

A 20yo claiming he is mature usually means he's not. She knows this, and knows to handle inexperienced men. She's a 36yo single mother who seeks to secure a provider. She cares about her child. You will always be second in her mind.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 03:22 PM
1

You'll get over it. Keep slaying, brother.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 03:06 PM
77

Women tend to prefer older men because of their experience and generally more masculine behavior. However age doesn't really matter, there are masculine 25 yo, and 40yo manchilds. Ask yourself what are you displaying to women. When they hear your age, they sense a dissonance between what you display and what they expect from a guy your age.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 02:37 PM
1

Depends on the individual. If you inclined to addictive behaviors, can be a while. How often are you on xanax?
/r/askTRP01/03/20 02:14 PM
4

I do agree on those traits, although many people looking for "green flags", or trying to check boxes, will get blindsided from other issues.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 02:01 PM
5

You're experiencing pair bonding. It occurs naturally, although some women are exceptionally good at speeding up the process. Literal good chemistry. You had great sex with your own personal slut. You'll find other bored wives.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 01:50 PM
2

Too long. Strike when the iron is hot. Then again, what do you have to lose?
/r/askTRP28/02/20 10:39 AM
2

Ask them out. "Hey, last night was fun, let's meet again". What do you have to lose? Also, ask for numbers. You don't wanna be a n-th follower.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 10:28 AM
1

She apologizes, you enforce boundaries, and move on. Lingering is only gonna make you look butthurt.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 10:01 AM
2

Blatant disrespect is a dealbreaker for LTRs, but you handled soft nexting properly. She came back and apologized, it's the opportunity to enforce boundaries, because you don't want, or have to put up with that shit. "I hope that's okay" is weak as fuck. Keep her around, as long as there aren't any more incidents, if handled properly she can still make a decent FWB.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 09:51 AM
2

True.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 08:23 AM
3

He's still emotionally invested, he needs to process all this by himself. I personally wouldn't lie for him if I was asked on this matter, as I think this will enable him. However I'd be discreet enough, no need to make a scene. Just accepting and moving on. If you wanna be a bro, be one. You don't cut ties with a bro because of some hoe. Happy birthday.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 08:10 AM
0

I usually don't chill much at home with a plate. I do some outside activity, so when at home, undressing immediately is fairly obvious.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 03:35 PM
5

I personnaly advise against monk mode unless girls are affecting you emotionally. Having a low maintenance girl will provide some rest and relaxation to take on your issues with a clear mind.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 03:30 PM
2

Protein powder is here when trying to ingest the same amount with chicken becomes very annoying, or expensive.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 10:26 PM
5

Fair enough.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 11:06 AM
0

You're asking about medical advice on a sexual strategy subreddit. Even if you want to ask on the internet, there are much more relevant places. Not my fault if your place has shitty docs.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 10:58 AM
3

Don't ask internet strangers for medical advice.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 10:49 AM
4

From her point of view, soft or hard nexting is the same thing. The real question would be how are you able to recieve messages from ghosts, are you some kind of medium?
/r/askTRP26/02/20 10:48 AM
2

Me neither.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 04:38 PM
3

You sound like an accountant.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 04:19 PM
3

If it ended, it was for a reason. And it shows scarcity mentality to go back.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 04:18 PM
3

You STFU
/r/askTRP25/02/20 04:16 PM
7

Never trust what she says about N-count. You'll never know the truth. Her asking you about N-count is a shit test that you failed miserably. Find other girls, not exes.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 04:12 PM
1

There you go. No need to dig deeper, it's always calories in vs calories out. Get your fat ass back to the gym.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 04:16 PM
2

What's your exercise routine ? 1800 seems enough for a cut.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 02:58 PM
3

I meant your caloric intake levels. What you need is pretty simple, maintain exercice while being on a 10-20% caloric deficit.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 02:45 PM
1

What's your current maintenance level ?
/r/askTRP24/02/20 02:36 PM
3

Do not ask internet strangers for medical advice.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 02:23 PM
2

First impressions usually stick for a very long time. Everyone puts everyone into categories. A bad first impression can be very difficult to get rid of, and in the context of the SMP, not worth the effort.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 07:25 PM
1

I'm in need of some more personalized advices. No, snowflake. You're trying to use RP tools to achieve BP dreams. You can sense she has the upper hand because she does, you're losing control at the first woman crossing your path outside your comfort zone. You're not special, you got soft and complacent in your first relationship, and now you're catching feelings for a plate. It wouldn't have happened if you kept on seeing other women, and applying RP principles. You're talking like an addict in …
/r/askTRP22/02/20 02:55 PM
13

No pee pee in cray cray
/r/askTRP22/02/20 12:05 PM
1

Agreed, still the word game by itself is very generic, and loses a lot of the nuance needed to answer properly. Assuming the OP isn't a regular, ofc.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 04:50 PM
1

Much better answer than mine. Fuck that upvote system.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 03:23 PM
11

Unless you're planning to have kids, there's no valid reason to move in together. She just wants to secure you.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 01:31 PM
9

You're lacking game, which is fairly normal at your age. That is why you probably come across as less likeable. Don't preoccupy yourself their opinion, work on improving yourself.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 01:14 PM
12

You're answering yourself. Be attractive.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 01:03 PM
19

Do you think begining something with an ultimatum is a good sign? You're asking yourself how to handle it because you're afraid of losing your only pussy supply. If you had 3 plates, you'd know the answer is "okay, goodbye then".
/r/askTRP20/02/20 01:00 PM
1

She gave you plausible deniability to approach. Don't shit where you eat though.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 12:54 PM
5

The small pause with eye contact is intense enough to go for it directly.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 12:49 PM
4

Emotional rollercoaster is created with balancing dread and comfort. Making up drama is a vaginesque move.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 12:45 PM
4

They mirin brah
/r/askTRP20/02/20 10:04 AM
9

She is plate material, either you fuck her, or you move on.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 03:35 PM
4

Are you having sex with her?
/r/askTRP19/02/20 02:52 PM
7

Exclusivity is a covert negociation point. A guy looking to get exclusive with a girl is pretty much the same thing as an employee negotiating down his salary at a job interview. Girls are better than many men at covert communication, it is an easy win for them. No plates, no leverage.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/20 02:40 PM
9

You're the leader, guide her. If she's really a rookie you have a good opportunity to condition her to what you like. I suggest introducing light bondage.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 08:29 AM
5

You are fucking a porn star who was in a drug fuelled relationship with her ex. The social inability of some people is astounding. That elephant in the room. OP, switching the word girlfriend for LTR doesn't make you redpilled. You're jealous because you're exclusive. Get more plates to spin.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 08:25 AM
1

It means sharing said signs of weakness, underlying trauma, or emotional instability to sexual prospects.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 02:13 PM
3

A codependant individual will look for a partner based on a feeling of inadequacy, or low self-esteem, in the hope that said partner will fix it. That's what happens with OP. They're drawn to each other because of their own fucked up past. The result is usually very destructive for both, as you cannot expect people to fullfill your emotional needs. Fixing yourself comes from within. Bonding is a biological mechanism achieved through sexual relationships, and is a result of sexual attractiveness.…
/r/askTRP18/02/20 02:02 PM
3

"Not your business." Looks like you're trying to redpill people. For your sake, don't.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 12:58 PM
3

You're talking about bonding. This is not the same thing.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 10:41 PM
1

It is doable, especially for new lifters. Some material for you : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M4K0s792wAU Jeff Nippard usually delivers good advice, based on recent scientific discovery. TL;DW : eat at around 10-20% caloric surplus. In any case, while it is very tempting, trying to cut with no muscle will just make you skinny.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 08:05 PM
2

You rely on her for emotional stability.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 07:55 PM
8

You want to because you're codependant. Never open up to a woman. Find some male friends to do that.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 05:46 PM
3

Dear Diary...
/r/askTRP17/02/20 05:43 PM
3

Obviously between the cheeks. Not related to TRP though.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 05:41 PM
27

A codependant relationship based on an ultimatum. Where do you think this is going? Followup question : how much do you bench?
/r/askTRP17/02/20 05:39 PM
2

One is cheaper.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 04:56 PM
2

Or maybe Funsize wants to augment the other because they want bigger ones. Or whatever, who cares. You're thinking too much about hers, and forget to grab them.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 04:52 PM
3

Many girls have a slightly bigger breast. For some it can be quite obvious, hence the surgery.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 04:45 PM
1

This was sarcasm.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 01:48 PM
9

Denying sex for no valid reason is a big no no. That shit has to be killed on the spot. Playfully if possible, while escalating.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 10:45 AM
4

That passive agressive "I'm fine" bullshit makes you sound like a woman. Don't worry, since you're living together, your menstrual cycles should get in sync eventually.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 10:18 AM
1

I've spent years and a lot of money to try to solve this problem. All the money in the world won't solve your autism. You fail because you do not try. Even the simple thought of failing paralyzes you. What's the worst that can happen? Drop the nightclubs for bars, much more casual, day gaming is even better. I'll take checks, bank transfers or paypal, please.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 09:55 AM
55

She might not end it, however be very careful with birth control. She seems ripe for baby trapping.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 08:41 AM
12

That rollercoaster of emotions is maintained by balancing dread and comfort. You don't create drama for the sake of drama.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 10:02 AM
1

Well, he just does it, see what happens. If he's good and subtle enough he can even try to test them if they're comfortable with a threesome.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 01:54 PM
5

It is her job to qualify herself, not the other way around. Positive reinforcement has its limits and cannot be used systematically, especially with a plate.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 01:33 PM
9

Girl Code is a myth, which crumbles very easily when tested. In my experience the bond between men is much stronger.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 01:28 PM
8

You have to acknowledge the fact that your brain is sometimes tricky, because it provides the same amount of satisfaction whether you're fantasizing or actually doing something worth the satisfaction. That is how people can get lost. Learn to recognize it when it happens.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 01:22 PM
2

Because you think within the context of this day being special. Making, or not making, a gesture within that frame is the issue. I don't care about Valentine's day, it is not special to me. Therefore I treat it like any other day. You don't, and it affects your decision making.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 11:10 AM
2

Well, you're not attractive enough, snowflake. The loop is closing, back to the first post now.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 08:56 AM
2

That's my point, meet them. Don't try to make dumb lengthy conversations with your thumbs. Texting is mostly for logistics, and you're not any special.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 08:46 AM
2

You might get some matches, but you are unable to set up a meet quickly, let alone sexually escalate, because you have no game. No one cares if you got laid in college or have money.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 08:34 AM
3

Your technique can break down when pushing to failure as easily as doing 1RM. Besides, you need high intensity, low volume sets in your training to develop strength.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 08:25 AM
15

Spinal injuries are mostly caused by improper technique (rounded back on deadlifts, glutes not squeezed on OHP, etc), and/or lack of intra-abdominal pressure. Breathing and bracing properly is extremely important to relieve the pressure from your spine and lower back. I'm talking almost shitting your pants bracing. Wearing a lifting belt for your heaviest lifts helps a lot.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 08:17 AM
4

If you want to make a gesture, you can do it any day of the year. Doing something on valentine's day is automatically forced.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 01:24 PM
9

He gets salty because he has to learn how to apply dread in general. Banter doesn't come to mind because it's not yet seen as an opportunity.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 10:33 AM
7

Why can't you handle a bit of banter?
/r/askTRP14/02/20 08:50 AM
38

Having a goal is not an issue in itself, it's fantasizing about it without getting anything actually done. Too much focus on the end, not enough on the journey.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 07:06 PM
3

No one cares. Read the rules and lurk more.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/20 03:35 PM
6

You're in her frame. She's leading the interaction. Move on until she hits you up.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 03:32 PM
4

So, that's how First Post Syndrome looks like on Adderall.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/20 03:29 PM
1

Just take the lead. Guide her, show what you like, try different positions, etc. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable, don't make it a 4hr course.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 09:54 PM
11

What do you need from us? Looking for an internet surrogate dad? You seem self-aware enough to understand your situation and what needs to be done to get better. Quit your bitching, get medical attention if you think it'd help your issues, grab a grocery bag and get back to lifting.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 12:46 PM
1

Usually they'll have that 'nobody ever called me like that' look. Followed by tingles.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 04:48 PM
2

Two options : she's either stringing you along for her own validation, or she's too socially retarded to be self-aware. In both cases, you don't have to put up with that shit.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 04:29 PM
3

I found it useful for push-pull when used with a light touch, ironically. With proper setup you can call her basically anything : dude, girl, mate, hey you.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 03:39 PM
3

Access to proper gym equipment has never been that easy. Access to reliable fitness information has ever been that easy. With time, it becomes less of an advantage, and more like the norm. It means that if you want to get ahead of the curve, you'll need something more.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 12:40 PM
2

You got stuck on the words spinning plates and ignored everything else I wrote. Spinning plates, ONS, finding higher value women, whatever, that is yours to figure out. My point is : don't get exclusive when you obviously don't want to.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 07:20 PM
4

You fell into the trap of exclusivity, by focusing on bullet point lists : green and red flags. Green flags are bullshit that will do nothing better than blindside you from actual issues. Red flags are just a tool among others to avoid future problems. Useful, but absence of proof isn't proof of absence. You want to keep her while spinning plates, you can - and should - make the relationship open on your end, and make her your main girl. If you're valuable enough, she will be okay to share you.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 06:01 PM
3

Interesting FR, especially the emphasis on non-verbal and covert communication for the setup.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/20 07:28 PM
2

Don't overthink those things. Like the other guy said : "ok, how about this?"
/r/askTRP06/02/20 02:21 PM
6

Mistakes happen. No one is perfect, with experience, you'll learn to either anticipate or avoid risks. If you make a mistake, own it, fix it, and most important, don't make it twice. If you feel overwhelmed, you need to take the time to prioritize tasks. Even 10 min at the begining or the end of the day will save you a lot of time. Again, with experience you'll have a better grasp of which task prevails.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 02:15 PM
6

She said no but offered to reschedule spontaneously, which shows interest. People have lives. Just give her another date.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 01:58 PM
8

Damn, you got soft.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 01:31 PM
3

What it means by description of reality is the perception of an individual from someone's point of view. Frame is perception. People with DT traits can easily manipulate that perception. Psychopaths can be very charming.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 03:53 PM
1

It is not your responsibility. It's her choice. You have better things to do than orbiting.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 03:49 PM
1

Find things you can do alone, she can accompany you. Don't renounce on that just to ease logistics.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 03:41 PM
2

Don't try to rationalize your waste of time. Unless you do not want to fuck her. Do you?
/r/askTRP05/02/20 03:39 PM
1

Typical teenage attention whore. I lost enough time on it.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 09:59 PM
1

You found your escape, something you like. You built around it, made something from it. That's something you cannot show on the internet.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 09:58 PM
1

Good, do it again for 10 more years.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 09:56 PM
1

Lift, read books, work at school. Crazy, right? Shut the fuck up and stop wasting your time and mine on useless shit.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 09:54 PM
1

Within reason. Please don't go murdering people because internet stranger told you so. Stay legal.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 09:45 PM
1

?
/r/askTRP04/02/20 09:43 PM
1

You cannot make a mental image of something you cannot even concieve, especially when you're young. At best you can have some kind of weird feeling you cannot put words on. You need to actually see what could be for yourself to build that mental image, even if it's just a glimpse. As internet strangers, unfortunately, that is difficult to show.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 09:42 PM
1

First, your records will be confidential, since you're a minor. I told you what I wish I was told at your age. You can't even imagine, kid. You're stuck in your head and your whining, you can hardly see past what you think college is. I've been in your place, I've been in your head. I've known hunger, violence, and in between, nothing. Dirt poor. Set to live, grow up and die on the same shitty, shitty, shitty block of concrete. I've had the thoughts that are in your head. Smart enough, but fuck …
/r/askTRP04/02/20 09:35 PM
3

Lowered testosterone levels will affect your mind, energy, and as the other guy said, the lack of self-discipline won't help.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 08:52 PM
2

Most of what happens in high school won't matter as you get older (within reason). Who's popular, who's not, who's doing good, who's sucessful with girls, etc. The world is much, much larger than what you see at the moment. Work on yourself, build your body, build your knowledge. Keep lurking here. Good luck.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 08:48 PM
3

It means they have access to more (and better) prospects than you. Chatting won't kill you, but if you don't set up a meet in a few minutes it's likely over.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 08:44 PM
5

Username checks out.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 08:36 PM
4

She doesn't have to buy alcohol in a bar.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 04:41 PM
3

You can enforce boundaries or defuse situations in a detached manner. The fact that you didn't allows your anger to rise, because you become overinvested.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 04:01 PM
5

"I understand, but my situation is a totally different and unique thing." No it is not. You failed to put your foot down at some point and people are taking advantage of it.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 03:37 PM
6

Being angry at something or someone takes energy, it means that in a way he cares about that thing. The dgaf attitude promoted here isn't just to look cool. It's also to learn how to spend our time and energy properly, or at least channel it into a punching bag.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 03:08 PM
6

Being angry means you care. Why is that?
/r/askTRP31/01/20 02:46 PM
1

She wants to fight you, but doesn't want to win.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 02:40 PM
2

Verbal intercourse is optional. http://archive.is/2VmqV
/r/askTRP29/01/20 06:14 PM
1

For some, it is an indicator of promiscuity. For others, it is an indicator of easy, regular threesomes.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 06:03 PM
1

No.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 03:47 PM
2

Heavy lifting. No one will care about your skinny ass, go there, work out, get out, repeat. Stop thinking about what people think of you and build yourself some discipline.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 03:44 PM
1

IIRC the only domain allowed is archive.is. Everything else is blocked by the bot.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 02:50 PM
2

Can't post links here. Look up "The Testosterone Epidemic" on the main sub.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 10:07 AM
1

My point is, treat your ex like you would treat anybody else. You're not telling me you want to get back with your ex, right?
/r/askTRP24/01/20 10:05 AM
2

If she's threatening to leave, she's already made up her mind. Plates break, find others.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 10:02 AM
1

If it wasn't your ex sending that text, but a friend or random stranger, what would you do?
/r/askTRP24/01/20 10:00 AM
3

Obviously both at the same time.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 09:45 AM
3

If you have to say you're better, maybe you aren't. Have a good night of sleep, and read your post again.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 10:32 AM
4

I had similar issues for some time. I managed it by reducing commuting to a minimum. It involved moving closer to work (less than 30min away), and having a gym close to work so I can go either during lunch or right after work. If close to work isn't possible, at least close to home. If that isn't possible, do your workouts at home. I also optimized my workout : it was less optimal performance-wise, but I'd rather have a slower, consistent progress than trying to maintain something without enough…
/r/askTRP05/01/20 10:19 PM
2

This. Complacency kills attraction.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 04:52 PM
1

Bonding isn't oneitis. Does it affect negatively your judgement or your actions?
/r/askTRP30/12/19 10:23 PM
3

Most diseases have an incubation period. Just go see a doctor.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 10:19 PM
14

Most of what happens in high school won't matter as you get older (within reason). Who's popular, who's not, who's doing good, who's sucessful with girls, etc. The world is much, much larger than what you see at the moment.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 10:17 PM
0

You should look up God's Loophole.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 02:05 PM
16

Men are naturally competitive. Now that you improved, you're relevant to them. Wanna get better at this? Keep doing what you're doing. Banter abilities come with experience. You'll feel dumb sometimes until you're not.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 02:48 PM
5

Don't moralize, it is pointless. OP, if you want to fuck her, simply do it. If your ex makes drama, remind her you're not together anymore. If it isn't enough, just ghost.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 02:44 PM
5

Her commitment is inversly proportional to the efforts you make. Do not reward bad behavior, ou need to set up proper boundaries. If she's giving you shit, withdraw your attention. As a bonus, not trying to make it up to her will allow you to unload and find some peace of mind. Good luck with your immigration process man.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 05:38 PM
6

I believe in not asking internet strangers what to believe in.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 08:42 AM
2

Failing is learning.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 10:37 AM
3

Did you actually try to bond during those activities you planned?
/r/askTRP17/12/19 03:53 PM
18

Interesting how you're ignoring half of his advice, while also ignoring the other half.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 01:14 PM
26

This. The child is being taken care of. If OP wants a child, he should find a proper woman to make one.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 11:16 AM
2

Plate wants to be a plate. Let her rationalize her choice the way she wants.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 11:12 AM
2

Contrary to the popular belief, being redpilled doesn't forbid you human decency. If you're not sure if someone needs a hand, just offer. For example, if I see begineers struggling on their lifts, I offer to spot them. Some decline, some accept. Those who accept will make that extra rep, good for them, at no cost for me. This can apply outside the gym, just don't be pushy. The rest of you behavior will change progressively while improving, you'll learn to remain in control when interacting. Ther…
/r/askTRP10/12/19 08:15 AM
1

Focus on non verbal communication. Context, body language, facial expressions, tone, rythm, speed of the voice. Words are actually a very small part of a message. In real life we talk with much, much more than our thumbs.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 12:11 PM
4

She's waiting for you to decide for her.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 04:29 PM
16

Like Men's Day, another path to victimhood.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/19 12:36 PM
1

True.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 07:59 PM
1

Not always the case. Many will avoid eye contact out of nervousness. Especially when isolated. Focusing on one body part usually blindsides you.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 05:49 PM
3

You're getting better at detecting social cues (IoIs included), and attractive enough to recieve them.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 03:37 PM
1

You can set up boundaries and safe words with her during non sexy times. In a dom/sub relationship, her safety is your responsibility.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 09:17 AM
1

Agreed, I have the same approach. "I like to keep it simple, see how it goes. Given the perpetual shitshows that many couples are, it just makes sense." You only need to fuck them properly and this opens up for enjoyable FWB, while avoiding exclusivity, which is my personal sweet spot. Even got one OLTR out of it.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 08:48 PM
5

You said it, rejection is better than regret. Stop overthinking.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 11:33 AM
4

Why are you answering yourself?
/r/askTRP04/12/19 10:45 AM
1

TRP isn't that complicated to be honest. What you're looking for comes with experience. Keep absorbing and practicing until it becomes natural.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 04:50 PM
5

Do not talk about TRP. Trying to debate with BP people will not work.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 01:26 PM
5

Soft nexting is the usual way to go.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 08:41 PM
1

Is it so urgent that you cannot wait to talk about it in person?
/r/askTRP02/12/19 06:41 PM
22

"Girl says" is the new "There's this one girl".
/r/askTRP02/12/19 01:59 PM
16

She didn't love you, she doesn't love you, she won't love you. You don't want to commit, eventually she's gonna look elsewhere. Plates break. Find others.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 01:28 PM
185

You made the right move by avoiding mateguarding. Don't overthink it, keep applying dread appropriately. If she keeps pushing it, which is unlikely, enforce boundaries.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 01:15 PM
6

Look up "The Gervais Principle"
/r/askTRP02/12/19 12:57 PM
1

See Briffault's Law.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 08:35 AM
1

If you lurk TRP regularly you'll notice moralizing comments are not allowed, that's for a good reason. Morality is binary thinking in action. This thing is right, this thing is wrong. It is a helpful tool to avoid thinking by yourself and building your own rules.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 08:34 AM
3

What you're having is a gut feeling. Trust it. Keep plating, see what happens.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 08:29 AM
12

Women will always be sluts for the right man.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 10:24 AM
1

Being toxic doesn't necessarily mean that they're actively trying to hinder you. The lack of parenthood is also a problem.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 05:34 PM
3

Family is important. Family that doesn't support you is not. You can and should cut yourself from a toxic family.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 05:13 PM
3

Do this then. Let me know how you're doing in 20 years.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 10:22 AM
6

This.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 09:29 AM
3

If I don't have a stimulating job, I will get quicky depressed, no matter how much I pull. But it's only my point of view.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 09:28 AM
8

Sounds boring.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 09:25 AM
2

It is the usual trap of binary thinking. Why looking to replace one indoctrination with another? Because it's always binary, you're either a soyboy weakling or some convention-attending alpha larper, one brand or the other, forgetting the simple fact that you don't have to choose at all. That's the whole point of TRP. You get to see the third option, while binary thinkers fight pointless battles trying to dictate your way of life. Of course, commercials do work on people that choose to consume l…
/r/askTRP20/11/19 08:43 PM
2

Then don't listen to it. But don't think that listening to "red pill music" will transform you in any way. The music world is vast enough to find anything that you can like and not be depressed about it. Even in mainstream music.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 07:10 PM
6

It's just lyrics. How you choose to behave on it is what matters. Think for yourself a bit.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 05:35 PM
12

Do you mean you would stop listening to music you like because it's not redpilled? How does that contribute in improving yourself?
/r/askTRP20/11/19 04:57 PM
2

Find girls outside your social circle.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 04:48 PM
3

I'd sit next to her, the proximity is more natural, and changing seats isn't practical. You should be able to initiate basic kino (like hand on shoulder) at any time.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 11:19 AM
5

I actually use a coin sometimes. Whichever result it is, I found it very useful in revealing your actual decision.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 11:14 AM
19

"Just be yourself" is really bad advice. If he's faking being high value, it simply means he should work on that.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 11:04 AM
8

Only if you listen to them, or marry them, and I don't intend to do either. Slutty behavior always existed, it's just much better documented now.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/19 07:26 PM
210

I like sluts. They make fun plates.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/19 03:28 PM
1

Well, it's not a binary threshold. It's something between 12 to 18 months, with gradually increased investment on my part rewarding positive behavior. In that period we started doing things more time-consuming, planning long trips for example. You're right however, usually they don't stick around for that much time. Some individual differences, and more experience on my part, I guess. She was a virgin, that probably made things easier.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 10:24 PM
2

Double that and you'll still be short. A year is the minimum to ensure the boundaries you've set are respected. 6 months isn't long term, I've had a semi-regular plate breaking after a year. My main one took almost 18 months to promote.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 08:57 PM
5

Build some muscle first before considering any kind of surgery.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 05:37 PM
30

Long time lurker, in a LTR after 2 months of dating. I stopped reading. Lurk more.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 02:56 PM
2

You already stated your opinion. If he asks again, either he has ADD, or he wishes you'll say something different this time. He needs to take his lessons from experience, so you should let him.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 12:51 PM
10

Stop trying to play the hero, if people don't want your advice, don't push it, it won't work. Reality always comes around on its own.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 12:43 PM
1

Help him focus on his health. Exercice, diet, sleep. When he's got a good grip on those, his mindset will change. Be tough, but fair. It'll be easy at first, but with time it will get boring, motivation will decrease, and has to be replaced with discipline to maintain his drive.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 11:17 PM
1

In his case, of course. I was speaking generally.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 06:07 PM
5

Do I really have to explain? Use your hands, tease her lips, put one or two fingers in her mouth. Or just give me her number and I'll show you.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 01:25 PM
2

Fair enough. Well, you know what to do.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 01:06 PM
1

Depends on the gravity of the offense. For first timers, soft next and enforce boundaries.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 11:38 AM
2

Soft/hard next. Even if you can physically handle her without hurting her, it would backfire. In any case, you do not have to indulge such behavior.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 10:42 AM
5

Try to reschedule once in a few days. If she flakes again, next.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 06:17 PM
2

You should definitely get out sometimes, even for an afternoon. I have this private spot when I need to reset, bit of biking, bit of climbing, then I'm all alone.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 06:14 PM
7

You're not taken seriously not because of what she said, but because you care about it.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 06:08 PM
1

You have hands, right?
/r/askTRP11/11/19 05:52 PM
6

Trying to initiate directly with a blowjob won't work, she will be uncomfortable. You need to tap into her impulsive side, and make her want it in the heat of the moment. It's all about feedback, pretty much the same thing as anal. When fucking, start going around her lips, see how she reacts. Is she into it, does she try to lick it? If yes, then fuck her harder and repeat while escalating. It might take a few fucks to really get her into it, then when she's ripe, just go for it.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 05:50 PM
3

A bit of monk mode might be the thing for you. Most has been said, one thing though : diet is shit, working on it There's nothing to be working on it. You get a bag, put all your shit food in it, give it to someone else. Then you buy a bag of rice, vegetables, chicken and beef. Keep it simple.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 11:02 PM
2

How a girl appears in social media doesn't matter. Stop overthinking, fuck her, and let her bring a friend the next time.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 12:10 PM
2

Lifting or MMA isn't tough. Today, everyone can enter a gym and get their ass kicked safely. It's no replacement for life in my experience.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 12:05 PM
3

A plate can't be high value. It's a plate.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 12:23 AM
12

Ignore and enjoy your free time.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 08:52 AM
7

I can confirm. Tall, educated girls are usually much more submissive. I think because they tend to intimidate more men than average, so they crave dominance accordingly. I like them. And they're much better company than your average thot. My favorite is 6' with heels, most couples put next to us will feel so damn small.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 09:56 AM
3

In my experience, it's better to just be honest about it. If you have enough value she will accept it.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 09:45 AM
2

Social proof is always a good thing. Be the guy that introduces people to each other.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 09:09 AM
2

No, it is a plate, it doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 09:01 AM
1

Well, this question cannot be answered by internet strangers. Introspection is the key.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 10:42 PM
2

Yes.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 08:33 AM
1

Yeah, you may have to ask again after getting rid of the shit test.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 06:42 PM
4

The answer was fine, any clever comeback will do with IHAB. Did you get her number?
/r/askTRP01/11/19 09:22 AM
6

School. It's always difficult to realize it when you're young, highschool is irrelevant in the long term. Keep some close friends around, the rest as a bonus on your free time.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 06:50 PM
4

Everyday I see people around me scrolling endlessly, and they all look dead inside. That fucking dead fish stare has been enough for me to not get overinvested in it. It's still useful though, if used reasonably.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 06:47 PM
4

IHAB is the most basic shit test. Look it up on the main sub.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 06:43 PM
8

Don't half ass soft nexting, it won't be effective. Withdraw attention for the amount of time you see fit, and do not get affected by the shit tests she'll be throwing.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 06:41 PM
1

You're at a table with friends, so you have to find an excuse or opportunity to have the two of you alone, maybe bring her to the bar or something. Then it's all about game and kino.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 10:06 AM
3

It doesn't matter. Isolate and escalate as planned.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 09:27 AM
1

You're giving too much attention to a girl who doesn't reciprocate. If she drops you once or twice, it's fine, but you need to learn when this becomes a pattern. Sex is her currency, yours is attention, and you're at a deficit.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 08:00 AM
9

She's probing for attention. She snaps her fingers, you react.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 06:13 PM
20

You're an orbiter.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 04:35 PM
3

Holding frame isn't about being right. It is about the perception of yourself. Having pointless debates isn't holding frame, or spergs would be kings.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 08:56 PM
3

This. Don't try talking to ghosts.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 09:07 AM
1

Do you want a relationship while in college? If not, don't try to fix what isn't broken. You're in college, just enjoy it, if a girl is interesting enough promote to FWB.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 09:05 AM
3

Don't know about this one, but "12 levels (or steps?) of Dread" on MTRP is a good ressource too.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 09:01 AM
10

If too many people act awkward around you, it's likely because you are.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 08:59 AM
9

If it's a date, leave. If the (grand)kid is yours, your're at fault.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 01:04 PM
7

How is "something came up" dishonest? Just say you can't, reschedule, end of story. Stop being autistic.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 01:19 PM
36

You have herpes. Drop the date and get a treatment.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 12:46 PM
3

Only if you can foam at the mouth.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 10:32 PM
2

Smile.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 10:15 PM
1

I aim for 10 to 15% below maintenance levels. Usually if I eat less, I'll feel really weak afterwards. Edit : to answer your other questions, usually for 6 weeks, to lose 0.5kg per week
/r/askTRP17/09/19 05:39 PM
1

Women cannot handle rejection. The more entilted she feels, the more violent the reaction will be.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 04:19 PM
1

SMV is relative to one's environment. A 9 somewhere might be a 6 elsewhere.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 07:08 AM
3

Money changes people. Some will ask you a bit of help, then another, then become entitled to your money because of your biological link. Same goes for inheritances. Some people usually show their true colors at this moment.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 08:53 PM
10

It's not uncommon for parents to live a bit through their children. It doesn't prevent them to want the best for you. As I said, it depends on your family. My parents went through shit so their children could hope to have a decent life, and even now that I've made more than they ever did, they never asked for anything in return. They did lecture me too the same way, and to be honest they're kinda right. Money is time, and when I'm done with my projects I intend to spend it the best way possible.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:24 PM
1

Verbal intercourse is optional. http://archive.is/2VmqV
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:03 PM
1

She also has other holes available.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 12:58 PM
3

Condom or nothing. Even if you convince her to take the pill, you cannot trust her.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 12:56 PM
10

Whether or not you should disclose your fortune depends heavily on how your family would react. Some will be fine, some will become dependable, which usually makes everything go to shit rapidly. In any case, do not disclose actual numbers. Just say you don't have to worry anymore. I suggest keeping an activity, or at least a profitable hobby to keep being stimulated. Forcing yourself into a job you do not want or like is a bad idea.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 12:28 PM
1

Commuting is a bitch when it comes to social life. If you can reduce it by moving out to a closer location, you'll be much better.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 10:46 AM
15

"I'm busy."
/r/askTRP12/09/19 10:41 AM
5

Why do you care, and why do you think they care? The best benefit to hookup abroad is that you likeky won't see any of these people ever again. Stop overthinking and enjoy it.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 07:48 AM
5

You obviously never have been in an actual confrontation.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 05:14 PM
5

84.779%
/r/askTRP11/09/19 05:11 PM
7

"Am I The Autist?" Yes. Why does a name affect you that much? That's your mom, for god's sake. Be glad to have a loving one. If you or your dad have a feeling of inadequacy or emasculation, it's because of your own actions.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 05:08 PM
3

Don't do it. You just risk damaging your dick only to get a slight ego boost.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 04:08 PM
8

The ability to infantilize younger men is a great perk when you're older. That line is brutal.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 12:14 PM
12

She's an alpha widow.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 12:03 PM
1

Fair enough, coding is kind of a vocation anyway. You found your own mission, and that's better than most. Focus on that.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 10:17 PM
5

Assuming she's with him, it's her role to reject him. Mateguarding like the guy did shows obvious insecurities.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 10:13 PM
3

I know freelance software developers that can work from anywhere in the world as long as they have an internet connection.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 06:54 PM
7

Your condom might be too tight. You should try other brands.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 03:35 PM
21

Ignore white knights. Nod, smile, and keep doing what you were doing.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 02:50 PM
1

FAQs are in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 02:41 PM
1

You know you're talking to a 9yo, right?
/r/askTRP05/09/19 09:47 AM
2

Fair enough.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 04:42 PM
1

You're the one with the binary thinking, assuming I treat every issue the same way. I'm not, read the thread again. Honesty is paramount to a healthy LTR, and should be valued as such. If you think it's not, you're as much of a fool as OP.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 03:19 PM
1

It is. You can access it if you're already subscribed I think, there's only a warning to confirm. You can also use the "reddit is fun" app.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 01:43 PM
2

Depends on how critical is the crossed boundary. While small issues are easily corrected, not lying should be obvious and with no need to "set" boundaries, meaning lying is a serious offense that should not be tolerated. If honesty is not obvious, the LTR should not exist.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 01:19 PM
2

I've had to defend my ideas against people with significantly more experience and earned respect than me at the time. The type of dude with 20+ years behind and a frame of steel.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 12:53 PM
4

The 15hr/week saved adds up to basically 2 typical days of work. With a properly lucrative side project, it's actually a significant raise.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 12:32 PM
27

Do not try to bang coworkers.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 09:59 AM
14

Masturbating once in a while is fine. Better than repressing your needs and bottling up your frustration. Avoid porn though. But the real solution is simple : get laid.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 09:47 AM
8

If she drops it immediatly, it is likely a rejection. If you were chatting for a few minutes already, it is likely a shit test.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 08:16 AM
3

Quitting your job doesn't mean breaking contact. You should try to maintain all your profesionnal relationships if they can be useful in the future. Think long term. Which job will better benefit your goals?
/r/askTRP04/09/19 08:15 AM
21

Do you think she will mention you to the next one? Plate her.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 08:03 AM
9

IHAB is among the most basic shit tests, and is well documented on the main sub.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 07:56 AM
2

Will you make good use of that free time?
/r/askTRP04/09/19 07:53 AM
7

She's attracted to you.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 07:52 AM
1

As weird as it looks, it's ASD. Try to escalate sooner into sex.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 07:27 AM
15

She doesn't owe you sex, you don't owe her attention. http://archive.is/2VmqV Edit : added link.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 07:19 AM
3

When I said "enforced", I meant stopping the relationship the first time it happened, because of course, it will happen again.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 05:56 AM
1

The average gamer isn't passionate about it, it's just another consumer. Consuming content is not a hobby.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 06:57 PM
3

They should not have to ask what you want.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 06:20 PM
28

There's always a price, and it's not always money.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 06:19 PM
3

Why does internet strangers' opinion matter to you? Collect stamps, take up knitting, who cares. Be passionate about what you do.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 06:09 PM
4

Friendzone is a symptom of rejection AND being an orbiter. You'll be rejected sometimes, it's not a big deal. Just don't become an orbiter.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 06:05 PM
92

Y'all gotta stop with this "green flag" bullshit. It's doesn't mean anything, and tends to blindside you. She's got a vagina? Green flag. That is not the point of vetting. That being said, lying is a big no no. You should have enforced boundaries better in the past.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 06:02 PM
3

Nah, the issue is semantics. He takes the pill, and then just replaces the term "girlfriend" (in the BP sense) by "plate", because he's alpha now. But there's no real value applied. What happens next is obvious.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 05:49 PM
3

That is exactly what I said.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 12:56 PM
5

You're complicating things. If you have a lot of money, you're rich. Status and reputation are synonyms. All of those are linked, obviously, and each individual achieve high status/resources/finances his own way.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 12:54 PM
6

Pointless chicken or egg question. Both qualities are linked and feed into each other.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 12:45 PM
11

You're becoming an orbiter.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 12:10 PM
3

Never get into pointless arguments, your attention is valuable and should be spent wisely. http://archive.is/SvxCf
/r/askTRP02/09/19 12:05 PM
11

They want to be high status by associating with high status males, which opens higher status opportunities and so on.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 11:58 AM
7

He wouldn't have any idea. You'd be surprised of the things some people are willing to put up with, just to not be alone. I've lost good friends because of the male hamster.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 09:35 AM
3

Plates can last as long as both parties agree to it.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 07:47 AM
6

Perfectly normal, that is the point of branch swinging. What isn't is the guy's inaction when faced with blatant disrespect.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 07:43 AM
6

By remaining calm and professional. You only need her to keep up your work.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 05:25 PM
14

Those are compliance tests, to see how you react when being commanded.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 05:04 PM
5

"Superior SMV", falling for the most basic shit test.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 05:02 PM
6

Never snap, stay in control. If it affects your job, tell her.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 05:00 PM
18

Life is vast and complex, surprises can happen. TRP focuses on the biggest part of the bell curve.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 04:57 PM
27

Be friendly, like you would be with anybody else. If you can't handle it, ignore her.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 11:44 AM
2

If you are looking to be of service all your life, maybe you don't need a mission after all.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 08:16 PM
7

A man does not need to say he's a man.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 11:16 PM
9

She's mimicking you. Do you want to be dominated? If not, playfully punish this behavior by being dominant again.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 12:46 PM
8

Isolate and escalate.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 12:44 PM
5

Boundaries are there to put a limit on bad behavior. That includes shit tests. Indifference is viable with plates and FWB, in LTRs you need to take control if things get too far. You're the captain. Side note, shit tests are not to be mistaken with comfort tests (see EC's reply).
/r/askTRP22/08/19 03:20 PM
4

Shit tests from a potential LTR shows a lack of proper boundaries.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 01:23 PM
7

You made her come.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 01:21 PM
2

That is why keeping plausible deniability is necessary. It might be college, but if she's overt about this, there's likely a reason. Or maybe she doesn't want to help you.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 06:36 AM
1

Keep logistics simple on first dates. Personally, I like to have several options in hand that I can go, or switch to, on foot. It also leaves room for improvisation. In all cases, the mindset is the same : do what you like, she can accompany if she wants.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 06:26 AM
8

You're being sexual while in a professional environement, and people sense it. Set bounaries for her, and yourself, you're calling them 6s, dammit. What if she was an 8-9 ?
/r/askTRP22/08/19 06:13 AM
2

You are making assumptions based on nothing more than your own perception. Maybe that dude who never fucked a woman just gave up and stopped trying. Maybe the dude with one girl isn't fine with it, maybe he is who cares? As you said, you have sexual needs that are not satisfied. Focus on that. When you fuck your plate, don't leave afterwards. Have a glass of water, wait a few minutes, and fuck her again. Repeat.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 08:37 PM
4

You're not in their heads, you don't know what they actually think. Don't use your perception of other people to set the threshold of what's good enough for you.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 08:22 PM
3

What do you gain by cutting your salary? Better hours? More satisfying job? Better opportunities in the future? How does it serves your mission?
/r/askTRP20/08/19 08:20 PM
3

I usually say that I'm not complicated, have a good time and see what happens. I found out that FWB is a good equilibrium even with (not that much) conservative girls.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 08:14 PM
7

I have had my fair share of fucking. I would say not more than 10 women have fallen on my cock, not a great number for some of you, but it's pretty good for me. You're lying to yourself. It's not enough. Keep fucking until you reach that abundance mentality, you mindset will rapidly shift afterwards.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 08:11 PM
40

As an additional point, make her sous-chef, you get to lead her and cooking is fun when you're both active. Also, if you're not that hungry, you can always fuck her on the kitchen counter.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 07:57 PM
1

Alright, I'll take the bait. Is it bad that as a woman I use my sexual instinct to chose who to date? Do what you see fit, follow those tingles. I'll do the same. So what do you think of girls who go after sweet guys specifically because they are aroused by them? TRP covers the bigger part of the bell curve, but life is vast, complex and full of surprises. That being said, words and actions might differ in the real world. If this is really actually so prevalent (women loving emotionless abusers)…
/r/askTRP13/08/19 10:09 PM
2

Mouth shut, jaw relaxed, with the tip of your teeth slightly touching. Even with a slight smile, with a tight jaw you'll look embarrased. With a relaxed jaw, it'll look much more natural.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 06:53 PM
2

Relax your jaw.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 04:46 PM
5

Motivation gets you started, discipline keeps you working. It's simple, but it is not easy. But hey, if two months of chicken breasts is too much for you, no one is forcing you to do anything, if you want to stop, stop.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 11:04 AM
3

LMR. Withdraw attention and try again later.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 06:26 AM
1

Dancing monkey syndrome.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 06:21 AM
2

Give her some comfort from time to time. Don't make it a predictable habit, your time and attention are valuable.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 06:11 AM
3

Then do what EC said.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 04:30 PM
1

Every fighter got his ass kicked eventually. You can't avoid it. So the logical thing is to get your ass kicked and realize it's not the end of the world. Keep your feet on the ground, keep your mouth shut (I mean it literally, locked so you can take a hit), try to land a good punch. Most street fights wont last more than that. Not everyone is a MMA fighter.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 04:12 PM
6

Social skill subreddit is an oxymoron. It is the refuge for people who cannot go outside. You can't be more social when talking with your thumbs.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 04:03 PM
2

All the tools promoted there are applied within the frame of sexual strategy. Nothing personal, diagnosing what's up with your balls does not apply. Any kind of medical advice or experience given without context over the internet is not reliable, and even if it is, which it is not, there are much more specific subs about any subject. Sometimes the Internet doesn't have all the answers.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 05:52 PM
3

Don't set your life goals based on what women would say.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 05:14 PM
3

He's right though. Why asking for medical advice on your deadlift balls to strangers on a sub dedicated to sexual strategy? What's the point? No one can examine you, go see a doctor.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 05:10 PM
2

Overthinking. Chat a bit, set up a meet, and see what happens. If she's still postponing, it's likely you became an orbiter.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 03:18 PM
13

Seasoned TRPer, literally giving validation on women on social media, not even trying to set up a meet right away. She's right, you're late.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 02:55 PM
7

You cannot create sexual tension by texting, at best you can maintain it.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 08:19 AM
5

Tits or gtfo
/r/askTRP02/08/19 06:30 AM
3

Unless it's one-sided.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 05:45 PM
3

If you aren't already, make sure she's diligent. No skipped days, no stopping behind your back (it can happen). Trusting her on this matter puts you at risk, if she's not responsible that's even more risk. That being said, enjoy blowing your load inside her, it feels definitely better for both of you.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 05:14 PM
1

We all have that primal urge. If you don't wanna have babies though, you might want to look into alternative methods of birth control.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 04:24 PM
1

I didn't, check reddit on a computer. This one is an edited post.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 03:52 PM
152

Sure, women prefer dadbods to provide for them. Congrats on your progress.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 01:56 PM
10

She's probing for attention, stop chasing her. Find other girls to plate.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 11:57 AM
2

You're bad at sex.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 09:53 AM
6

Words are meaningless. Actions matter. She feels like it now, until she doesn't. Let time decide.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 07:40 AM
2

I said bury, stop larping.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 09:21 PM
3

Instead of discussing the statistics on ass thickness versus horniness, why don't you go bury yourself in one?
/r/askTRP31/07/19 07:17 PM
1

I agree, even if you're not really independent, it is a good start. I worked for a summer in a student housing. I've seen people who don't know how to do some basic shit like their laundry, or even cook some pasta. I remember one whose father came literally every day before work to his room to wake him up. Unreal.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 10:52 PM
2

What is ASD and Kino? Sidebar.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 07:52 PM
5

I need more context, but it's likely you were too overt. If you express it literally you'll trigger ASD/shit tests quickly. Kino is important. This one is a basic shit test. She's already thinking about sex. So keep going. "That's not what I want to give"
/r/askTRP30/07/19 07:22 PM
5

When I need to reset, I take a day off, and go back to this lone spot close to the sea near my family's home. Nothing and nobody around, it takes me 15km to reach it with a bike when out of town, and a bit of climbing. Then I just sit there for hours, not even meditating, just doing nothing.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 07:05 PM
5

You failed to escalate properly. Try again later.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 06:50 PM
1

Either joking, or typical lack of accountability. Ignore.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 06:47 PM
1

Rehearsing in your head is only verbal. The words always sound better in your head, until you open your mouth. If you want to be productive, you need to train the non-verbal part.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 06:31 PM
36

TRP promotes independance. While it's a financially sound decision that might be wise for some time, it doesn't prepare you for an independant life. Learning to cook, to manage expenses, to take care of your home is important. It teaches responsibility, and discipline, which you will need in many other aspects of your life.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 09:14 AM
4

Idk about all that. Are you kidding me? Do I need to lay out the pattern for you? You litteraly have one anecdotal piece of evidence, which is obviously biased. You need to be wary of people trying to sell you shit this way. Edit : saw your edit, I understand pour point of view, but it looks like you're advertising on a subreddit full of emotionally vulnerable people, which is the prime demographic of those businesses.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/19 09:49 PM
7

I see much more parallels between LoA and Scientology. Bunch of Free Access, Order Now, and No credit card required. Get your free test today! Fuck that shit. Seriously.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/19 08:52 PM
13

The fact that she's providing comfort and relaxation doesn't mean you owe her any kind of exclusivity. Keep on plating. Do not trust what she says about her n-count. She might have been with 2 guys, maybe the others didn't matter. Do NOT get complacent. You're giving away commitment way too easily. Three weeks? That's nothing.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 12:01 PM
2

How much can you bench?
/r/askTRP29/07/19 11:35 AM
2

The first cure to oneitis is plating. You think you lost interest in other girls because of post-nut bonding, it'll pass. Looks like you got yourself a nice plate when going abroad. What else do you expect, a LDR ? Doesn't work. Have her coming back, if she's far away she's irrelevant in your life.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 09:44 AM
3

You feel like an AMOG, but in reality you're still pedestalizing women because of your lack of interactions with them.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 09:30 AM
2

I used the term of vetting in the context of self-reflection. I'm working on spotting my own behavioral cues that might work against me, same as I would do with someone else. We were talking about rationalizations, which is a good example. Who cares about metrics? It's never been about that. And about chemistry, love is oneitis, it could happen anytime, sure, that is why keeping plates is necessary.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 02:39 PM
3

I'd argue that vetting is among the easiest thing to do, because it seems mostly passive. That is probably why it is heavily promoted. But it does the work, because of the one thing that makes vetting unique, imo, is that it's a disqualifying tool. You can't see the actual benefits, because you eliminated the potential threat to your dignity preemtively. And that judgement, is it experience, or did your pastor tell you? did you require her emotional investment first, or did that laundry list of …
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 10:15 PM
4

All your points are valid, especially about rationalizations, I think this is the most important one because it is related to the man's own ability to introspect, and that goes beyond the tradcon example. My point is that the process is objective, it has a simple purpose, that is indeed way overvalued by people. But it is useful. I'm critiquing the finger because as a opening statement, it has weight on your argument. As I said, you don't blame the hammer if you cannot use it appropriately. I'll…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 06:48 PM
6

I agree with the reasoning, but I disagree that you're associating the process exclusivly with tradcon mentality. If your statement was Vetting doesn't work if you're a tradcuck, I would agree with that, because you make very good points, especially since TRP is typically associated with conservatives. Tatoos are personal preference, and they are only a symptom, typically of someone displaying narcissic or impulsive behavior. Someone using tatoos alone a a criteria to make conclusions is absurd,…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 05:24 PM
2

Got lucky on the timing, I opened reddit right after you posted. Two or three minutes for each part, it's not that fast imo.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 04:53 PM
7

Interesting read, but I think your reasoning is built on quicksand. Vetting is the relationship strategy where a man takes a list of values and qualities he prefers in women and uses it to assess the viability of the woman he is currently dating so that he can know if she is worth committing to over the long term. I would agree with this definition, if it wasn't for the term prefers about the qualities and traits. It implies that the process is built around one's belief system, and while the lat…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 04:45 PM
1

First, train harder. No way around this, work for the body you desire, you fat ass. Motivation gets you started, discipline keeps you going. Have a fixed routine, not 3 or 5 days, set whatever number you want, and stick to it. Log your progress. Sets, weights, reps. Improve your diet. There's enough information nowadays to get a proper diet, with proper macros.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 12:28 PM
1

What's your diet? What's your workout routine? How much do you sleep?
/r/askTRP25/07/19 12:12 PM
4

Apply Dread.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 06:17 PM
26

Men are trapped because they give away their commitment (ie. ability to walk away) too easily. This breaks the balance of power in the relationship, and of course, the leverage she obtains is used to gain more control.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 03:56 PM
14

You can't, creeps are creeps because they are unattractive.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 03:01 PM
7

Sky is blue, water is wet, feelz before realz.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 12:14 PM
1

Check boodie's comment below.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 09:32 AM
2

Withdrawing attention isn't necessarily ignoring.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 08:45 AM
3

Technically, your dick isn't wet. Soft next, withdraw attention.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 08:10 AM
2

She's an ex plate, so anything sexual is off the table. Just treat her like any other person. You can do that, right?
/r/askTRP23/07/19 07:28 AM
1

So what?
/r/askTRP23/07/19 07:25 AM
17

Don't break the fantasy. Shut up.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 06:26 PM
1

Something that forces you to interact with clients. Salesman or bartenter are good examples.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 01:28 PM
1

From your standpoint, an Alpha Widow is the same as a girl coming back/plan B, it implies there was a separation, probably for a reason. Both girls are irrelevant. No point in reliving the past.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 09:48 AM
16

There's a time to catch up with family, and another time to approach. Leave the pussy aside for a moment and enjoy your family.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 09:40 AM
1

Leaving the interaction is more effective than repeating the same word 5 times. You were okay though, if you kept calm.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 07:57 PM
1

Why?
/r/askTRP20/07/19 03:48 PM
6

Gotta earn those red wings sometime, brother.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 03:46 PM
9

LTR is perpetual game. And it doesn't automatically imply exclusivity.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 06:18 PM
13

Nothing, just don't expect to be a sex god.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 05:08 PM
22

Pinch the tip of the condom when you put it, to avoid air bubbles that might make it rip. You'll probably suck. Relax. You'll be fine. Enjoy.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 04:50 PM
3

12 Steps of Dread, while applied in the context of marriage, is still a reference for LTRs. http://archive.is/BEv6l
/r/askTRP19/07/19 12:24 PM
11

It's only the excitement of new pussy. She doesn't bring any real value to you except sex, because clubbing thots are uninteresting by definition. Fuck her until you eventually get bored of her.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 11:32 AM
21

Because sluts are fun. Plate her, never promote.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 11:18 AM
1

If she's starting to use sex as leverage, it's a sign that you are too invested. I'm guessing you are exclusive, which is a mistake on your end. To properly function, a LTR needs some amount of comfort, positive reinforcement, rewarding occasionally good behavior. The reward must come from your own initiative. You're doing the opposite, rewarding bad behavior (denying sex, giving orders). Work on your dread game.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 11:14 AM
5

You're overthinking. If you want to fuck her, set up a meet, and fuck her. If you don't, move on.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 09:22 AM
3

I wasn't aware of LoA, first google page shows me this. Bunch of Free Access, Order Now, and No credit card required. NOPE. Case in point : go to the church of Scientology website, you'll also find the same shit.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 09:42 PM
3

I'm humbled, thanks. You pumped me up right on time for my workout.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 05:40 PM
5

Shit, that one hits close to home. I've been thinking a lot about that too. I've been raised very poor, good family but rough environment. My father is a workaholic too. That's what he does, since he's 14. Always worked for his family around the clock, as a son, then as a father. Always there, but very distant. He took care of things, but not much of a talker. He kept his hardships away from us, and the guidance that comes with it. I didn't care much about it at the time, so I've grown up my way…
/r/askTRP18/07/19 03:39 PM
2

There are lots of positions that doesn't require you or her to be on the knees.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 06:16 AM
2

She came to your work regularly, does some coworkers can attest that she was stalking you?
/r/askTRP17/07/19 06:07 PM
2

You did nothing illegal. You should seek legal advice on how to proceed though. Do other people know about this ?
/r/askTRP17/07/19 05:40 PM
1

I'm assuming you're American, careful, recording her without her consent might be illegal depending on your state. You might end up with something useless as evidence, and can be sued. I suggest ghosting her.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 05:35 PM
4

Seconded. I'm also a younger brother.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 05:27 PM
2

This is not a LTR, this is at best a FWB, and you're adding a LDR on top of that. So yeah, basically, you hooked up. You feel like you're below because you are, you were kept around, in her frame, for as long as a distraction can be. You're still processing the pill, your mindset will slowly change as you improve and realize the the world goes beyond some girl that gave you oneitis. She's most likely not unique, not in the 1%. It's only your perception distorting reality.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 09:52 PM
54

Substract 2 to every rating you read.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 01:14 PM
2

Agreed, it is a risk, it takes time, patience, and lots of plates. But I'm fine with it. Worst case scenario, she's the one wasting her prime years on me, so I can live with that.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 10:51 AM
2

You assume that the objective of a LTR is to last forever, thus removing your main ability that is to walk away. Why?
/r/askTRP15/07/19 10:12 AM
1

Nice strawman.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 10:00 AM
1

Absolutely. That is the point of TRP, becoming the minority.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 09:31 AM
6

LTR doesn't imply exclusivity. Plating is still on the table if you set the proper boundaries, and provide some comfort from time to time. Mine took a long time to find, but now she handles logistics and many things for me that at the end make her relatively low maintenance, and an enjoyable company that I value (because most plates are boring af, let's admit). Going on my 4th year with her (including 12 to 18 months as a plate/FWB). I'm able to maintain attraction by constantly improving SMV, a…
/r/askTRP15/07/19 09:13 AM
8

You're coping. Maintaining attraction over time is hard, of course. However with the right mindset it can be done over extended periods of time. And it is quite satisfying once you've took the time to select and vet a proper woman.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 07:24 AM
5

By that logic, TRP is an autistic subreddit. You're a good example.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 02:40 PM
11

Why do you hang out with people that do not like you?
/r/askTRP12/07/19 02:24 PM
17

Did you know that cooked rice also has a fair amount of dihydrogen monoxide in it?
/r/TheRedPill11/07/19 07:11 PM
4

It's a withdrawal of attention. Just treat her like anybody else.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 09:41 AM
15

First, never trust anything she says about her N-count. You have to live with the fact that you will never, never, know for sure. Leave it be. Second, you do not seem to know what soft next is. If you cannot handle any kind of discussion with her, hard next. Third, don't even consider getting back with her.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 09:34 AM
23

They resent you because you remind them they're stagnating.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 04:09 PM
3

Others might do this, but others might be idiots too.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 11:46 AM
2

Try looking into hyperthrophy cycles. To summarize, you cycle between high intensity (5 to 8 reps @ 75 to 85% of your 1RM) to develop strength, then lower intensity with increased volume (8 to 12 reps @ 60 to 75% of your 1RM) to develop size. As a rule of thumb, the duration of each phase may vary from 3 weeks to 2 months. Don't forget to overload progressively (2.5 to 5 kg each week when you see fit), and to log your progress.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 08:36 AM
1

Increasing the intensity works well. What's your current routine? Also, what's your protein intake?
/r/askTRP09/07/19 08:04 AM
3

Workplace is for work. Don't try to get girls there, especially if they're clients.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 07:55 AM
1

Try adding some load to your workout. Or switch to barbell exercices, eventually if you want to increase muscle mass it's the best way.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 07:53 AM
11

Not everyone comes from a shit family, sometimes familiy members care about each other, you sperg. OP, it's not really relevant to TRP, but I've been in a similar situation. My mother was really stressed from work, doing literally two weeks in one, and started eating really bad, mostly binging, but there was a bit of ignorance about what is healthy and what isn't. I got tough but honest, taught her some things about diet, made her write all she was eating. I'd circle in red the crap when I'd com…
/r/askTRP09/07/19 07:20 AM
1

Makes sense. I'll try that some time, there's no rush anyway. Thanks again.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 05:50 PM
1

Yeah, I was thinking about bringing her to a bar and basically doing the same thing, but getting her to learn game on the spot is gonna be hard, and probably uncomfortable for her. I'm not a big fan of apps (we both have a very low online activity), but it does seem like it makes things easier, at least to figure out her type. Thanks.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 05:22 PM
1

Your girl is probably naturally submissive and is expressing a kink to you. To explore it properly, you should involve her at first. You can reap great rewards when you figure out what her "type" of girl is and explore her gay sexuality. I'm currently in this process right now with my OLTR. She recently expressed a curiosity, she knows I'd be into it, but I didn't push it too much at the moment. I've been in threesomes, and I know how to make a girl comforable in that moment, however I've never …
/r/askTRP08/07/19 04:14 PM
1

The issue is that you're mistaking entering an LTR and being exclusive, which is an issue since you're still young. It would eventually bring yourself to neediness and oneitis. If it isn't broken, dont try to fix it, enjoy your time with her and others.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 12:33 PM
6

It’s gotten to the point where I’ve read men tell other men not to listen to music on here. Autism really has no limits, always a new surprise over here.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 11:45 AM
2

Moving to a higher maintenance relationship won't solve this issue. You sound like those failing couples that decide having a baby is the solution.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 07:46 AM
2

There's this trend that tends to replace the word girlfriend by LTR, same shit, but it sounds more redpilled, I guess.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 07:17 AM
1

Define 'brutally'.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 06:40 PM
2

How is being honest breaking frame? You wanna end the relationship, end it, don't be a dick about it.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 06:19 PM
2

It takes time to judge character, spot red flags, and promote a woman who investing in a relationship. HSP's guide is very concise. There are 4 levels of investment : ONS, plate, FWB, and LTR. It defines your own level of investment and maintenance. For example, I don't hang out much with plates. Some that I find risky, I won't even allow to know where I live. I'd rather complicate logistics. Those who are good company are promoted to FWB a few months after. I'll go out with them, share interest…
/r/askTRP05/07/19 02:08 PM
4

Well, that's the game. Next !
/r/askTRP05/07/19 01:34 PM
2

I guess there wasn't enough to block you, but maybe she just isn't into you.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 01:21 PM
7

She gave you a wrong number.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 01:16 PM
18

No father figure. It also applies to the rest of her family. Growing in a stable household is key.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 12:57 PM
1

88kg, 16% bf, sounds like he's either tall, or big enough so 1450 isn't enough.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 11:49 AM
2

1450 ? That's way too low man. No wonder why you're going insane. What's your maintenance level ? You should aim for 10 to 20% less.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 11:43 AM
9

Lack of proper excercise, diet, or sleep, alcohol, or maybe she isn't hot enough, you name it. Lots of reasons not to get hard. Anyway, there's no real alternative to condoms. Spermicide gel isn't as reliable, and doesn't prevent STDs.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 03:39 PM
9

If you can't stay hard long enough to put a condom, they are not the issue.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 03:14 PM
3

No, I do not care about that.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 09:22 AM
3

Yes.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 08:58 AM
7

TRP isn't a rabbit hole, it is a strategy, a set of tools to use as you see fit. You learn to use a hammer, now you know how to nail things. What will you do with this? What do you see fit?
/r/askTRP03/07/19 08:54 AM
7

The morning-after text is mandatory. "That was fun, let's meet again." Something like that. In your case, you can go for a "let's meet properly next time, how about X?". And hold your liquor man, stay in control.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 07:41 AM
7

Have your gf inititate, that should be easier to break LMR.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 08:15 PM
6

Try anyway, you have nothing to lose.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 06:45 PM
17

Okay, so I found this girl in Tinder and everything was going well. I got some stuff together, we talked for a while, and at the end of the day I got her number. That's it right there. Don't try to have lengthy conversations, she will get bored because she's got 10 texting like you simultaneously. You should be able to get her number and set up a meet in the very first minutes.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 06:24 PM
2

From my experience, the most intimidating or aggressive ones are usually the most submissive in private.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 06:04 PM
1

If you're looking for ng/dL, multiply by 10.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 02:01 PM
1

Which proves my point that you have to be high SMV to afford being nice at times, like providing comfort in a LTR. Otherwise you'll be losing value rapidly.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 10:23 PM
5

Agreed, swimming is the best when recovering.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 08:10 PM
1

Congratulations, your insecurity cost you SMV.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 07:58 PM
1

He's unattractive, therefore a creep. What's there to be analyzed ?
/r/askTRP01/07/19 03:40 PM
2

Being aware of those attractive qualities allows them to try and maximize them to improve SMV. Same as us, basically.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 10:35 AM
12

Nice isn't attractive.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 09:29 AM
3

First, she's a plate, she doesn't owe you exclusivity. Second, even if she was a LTR, it's not your role to mateguard.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 07:41 AM
1

It's called social proof, but that's the idea.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 08:52 PM
1

Only her current emotional state is relevant to her, facts are optional. The light-switch effect can go both ways.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 08:22 PM
32

/s. Goddamn Poe's Law.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 08:20 PM
93

That's misogyinistic and fatphobic.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 08:07 PM
206

It's a mix of being horny and desperate coupled with a pussy pass.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 07:45 PM
3

It does not, it just makes you horny on top of your dopamine hit.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 07:39 PM
1

Her boyfriend does.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 06:11 AM
68

Consent goes both ways, if you don't want to do something, don't.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 09:35 PM
4

Well, if it was that common, we wouldn't need TRP. Don't overthink this. Enjoy her company, and keep plating to avoid oneitis.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 07:23 PM
71

Simple, don't pay for them. Even better, make them pay sometimes.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 11:54 AM
2

It is some kind of second wind effect, when your sleep cycles keep working as they should even when you don't sleep, so you feel like waking up. It has its limits though, ofc. I don't see how it's related to TRP, though.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 11:39 AM
1

I hope you have other male friendships to rely on, those things are kinda rare nowadays, don't trash it if you're not ready for the consequences. Anyway, your choice. That being said, badmouthing is generally a bad thing because those things can be traced back to you, and then you're the dick. Better spend some quality time with people you want to be close to, if you wanna isolate him. Edit : the fact that you still call him a friend is a bit weird imo. Pick a side.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 11:20 AM
6

She sees her ride on the CC begins to end, and she's preparing accordingly for what's next.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 07:46 AM
4

You need to balance dread with positive reinforcement, she needs that whole range of feelings. Sometimes, acknowledge or reward good behavior from her.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 06:48 AM
12

Trying to apply RP knowledge on a previous relationship won't work most of the time. The accumulated amount of disrespect usually doesn't go away, and the longer it has been like that, the harder it is to stabilize a relationship.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 05:17 PM
1

It's way too short. How can you know someone is worth of emotional investment in a month?
/r/askTRP26/06/19 02:12 PM
1

Seems short. How much time as a plate?
/r/askTRP26/06/19 02:07 PM
3

You're playing plate games with a LTR, which is retarded, and probably means you're not in an actual LTR. How long ago since you first fucked ?
/r/askTRP26/06/19 01:59 PM
2

The imposter syndrome kicks in sometimes, it'll pass, don't worry, no need to overthink this. And to answer your second question, I'm leaning left politically, it doesn't magically prevent masculinity.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 12:41 PM
7

It's very hard to find a high-quality woman who'll accept being a mother without being a wife. The higher your value the higher the odds she'll settle for this. That is exactly why you don't put babies in someone until you know their character very well, and it takes time.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 12:36 PM
1

If she consents, sure.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 12:27 PM
6

Comfort leads to complacency, which leads to stagnation and inevitably decline. The flower grows, sure, but eventually it withers and dies rapidly because it cannot deadlift for shit.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 12:22 PM
2

The experience implies a high n-count, which is a red flag for LTRs. As a plate/FWB, it's beneficial as you easily establish boundaries and consent.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 07:46 AM
1

Or maybe I'm looking to trigger a bunch that seem to promote division, which goes against the one simple mission of this sub. Looks like it worked, so much for that maturity, I guess. Next time you intend to do some weak analysis, use more than your feelings.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 06:25 AM
1

I hope you realize the amount of rationalization you're doing in your posts. In this one alone, you're spewing nofap (really?) as a bullshit excuse, then proceed to brag with some weak ass rebound, then admit you fantasized and procrastinated withoout taking any action, while being aware of RP knowledge for a pretty big amount of time. You need to take a good hard look at yourself.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 09:10 PM
0

Respectfully, I've seen over here, and IRL, so many boomer non-answers, that my definition of maturity isn't really related to age anymore. I'd rather see old people calling bullshit on young people and vice-versa than having isolated communities echoing themselves to death.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 05:30 PM
1

So I guess the solution is to bitch about it, and form a geriatric circlejerk.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 05:07 PM
21

You're getting upset over a woman you did nothing more than kino for months? What the fuck have you been doing these last 8 YEARS?? "Redpill oneitis", please. Get your shit together, man.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 03:42 PM
64

30 is old now? Fuuuuck. No, TRP is for all ages.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 03:26 PM
1

It's her responsibility, not yours.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 02:26 PM
3

Nofap is linked with increased testosterone levels. More is better if you can manage the sexual frustration, but 1 or 2 weeks is a solid start. The other important thing is to decorrelate masturbation and porn, no porn is more important imo.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 08:45 AM
8

TRP promotes self-improvement for this precise reason. You obsess about women because you don't have much else in your life. Keeping busy, having a mission, and pushing women aside in your mind for a moment is actually a good way to get laid.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 08:03 AM
5

Nofap is among the most promoted advice after lifting over here. Lurk more.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 07:27 AM
6

Look up Asshole Game, and learn to tap into the submissive side of women, let them feel that whole range of emotions.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 10:34 PM
1

Yes.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 06:39 PM
1

Joke's on you, I was only pretenting to be retarded Thanks for the pasta.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 06:26 PM
1

Try to make it open. It has a chance to fail completely, but te LTR is already over anyway.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 04:31 PM
6

Do that IRL, when texting keep it simple and try to set up a meet quickly.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 04:13 PM
1

Were you explicitly exclusive?
/r/askTRP21/06/19 01:53 PM
2

If it isn't broken don't try to fix it. Text for logistics.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 09:57 PM
1

It's not dread for your LTR, it's preselection for the others.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 09:54 PM
1

Reward positive behavior occasionally. When gaming new girls, use push/pull techniques.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 07:48 PM
4

If she does anything to take the lead, tell her to stop.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 02:47 PM
0

Combined with muscular imbalance, a common knee pain comes from bad knee trajectory, it should move along the same line as your foot. If you deviate, you're stressing the joint unnecessarily. On top of that, since your knee does less work because of a non-optimal position and/or muscular imbalance, the load goes to the hips and lower back. Get a proper warmup routine, check your form. As said before, front squats are a great addition. You should see a medical professional if it persists.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 07:05 AM
2

You aren't fixing yourself, and your ego is letting you know in his own way. Holding frame is fine, but if the criticism is legitimate, you need to act on it.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 05:04 PM
6

It reads like an awfully bad attempt to false-flag.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 10:01 AM
12

Fuck her better.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 08:33 AM
35

Don't try to redpill people that do not want it. The more you try, the less it'll work. Let your actions speak, and let him come to you. If he does, good for him, if he doesn't, you cannot do anything about it.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 07:58 AM
28

What the fuck, you bring your friend to a strip club to get some 'action', and they're fucked up? If you want to be the wingman, just go to a bar and teach him to approach girls that actually might desire him.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 07:45 AM
8

Probably fishing for orbiters. You're likely not the only one.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 05:54 PM
1

Looks like a no-brainer, just invite her back.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 03:54 PM
3

So far, since 3 weeks ago, with a high N-count. Stop rationalizing. Get her a STD test if you want, learn about dread, and keep your SMV up.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 03:39 PM
2

Don't ask for exclusivity, you're removing your options for no reason, especially if you find red flags.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 03:23 PM
9

Keep plating, if she's good company, FWB. It gives you time to judge her character and find red flags.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 03:08 PM
1

You tell me, you're the one with sharp analytical skills.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 02:25 PM
1

Since you're getting outraged because of a TV show, I'd say yes.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 02:20 PM
9

Reading is absorbing ideas, how to speak, how to write, how to put words on your own ideas. It helps building intelligence, linking ideas together. TRP is a good example. You might have had ideas, feelings, experiences in the past that seem scattered, unlinked. Then you discover TRP, read the sidebar, and you manage to put all the pieces together. When reading, whether it's practical, scientific, or even fictional books (I do read some fiction, sometimes), you accumulate knowledge. We need words…
/r/askTRP04/06/19 11:04 AM
27

She's attracted to you, let the hamster run its course before she comes back.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 09:05 AM
2

LMR in a LTR means she lost attraction.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 09:01 AM
11

Have sex outside.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 08:35 AM
10

Then it's not really monk mode, and maybe you don't really need it. People take this path to focus on themselves and remove the pedestal mindset because they're too affected at the moment.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 07:33 AM
10

Stay offline for a while, you'll be fine. In the future don't make threats you cannot maintain.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 07:29 AM
1

Fucking her might relieve the pressure.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 07:27 AM
4

If you don't have a response since sunday, soft next.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 07:03 AM
9

Underrated.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 06:55 AM
13

This is what happens when you talk out of your ass on social media. What the fuck were you thinking? You fucked up, apologize.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 06:53 AM
2

Taste is not the point here, the time spent as a plate and FWB is to evaluate if she's worthy of commitment from you. This vetting process can change based on a personal system of values, but most criteria are not subjective. If you aren't aligned with them, well, it means LTRs are not for you, and that's fine too.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 06:55 PM
2

In my experience, when they're doing something wrong sometimes they'll act a bit childish, like too nervous to admit it at first, but it doesn't last long.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 05:59 PM
3

I'd put all that in the unhealthy lifestyle part.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 05:55 PM
16

On top of my mind : Unhealthy lifestyle (spending/eating/drinking habits) Bad relationship with familiy (especially father) Denies sex for no valid reason Too many shit tests (generally disrespectful) High social media activity Emotionally unstable (high amount of drama) Financially unstable Unable to take responsibility when at fault, or introspect Another one : N-count, but this one is impossible to be sure of, except zero. So not really in the list. Edit : forgot a big one, she lies. Even for…
/r/askTRP03/06/19 04:58 PM
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