Hey all, I've been lurking trp the past couple of days and the posts really intrigued me. It gave me a realisation of the many mistakes I've done in the past and it was comforting knowing that people have came over these problems with everyone's advice across these sub reddits. But anyways on to the story...

I'm not too familiar with all the concepts you guys use but I'm sure I'm a 'beta orbiter' and a general nice guy who always helps everyone out, this obviously leads to me being a pushover. So there's the girl, she's a solid 8 and all the guys in work give her lots of attention as expected since she's very flirty. So when we were in a club one night with other colleagues I didn't bother giving her all the attention and doing stuff she asked since I thought I had no chance competing with the other guys, turns out that plan had the opposite effect and we ended up making out.

By this point everyone's wasted, I lose control and let the alcohol takeover. For some reason I was getting angry when she was talking to other guys, even angry at my colleagues for doing it so I stupidly kept flipping out when she spoke to them and man now I feel like an ass. I've read a few rules you guys mention on texting so I've refrained myself from texting her sorry or my colleagues aswell. My question is what shall my next move be when I see her? My instinct says to take her aside and say sorry but I know that'd be awkward.

Would appreciate the help, thank you.