Do I just use dread game?

legitshitonly · 2017-04-30T22:54:15+00:00

She dread you

BH40 · 2017-04-30T22:58:14+00:00

Well played. She can still be a occasional plate if she behaves but nothing more. You gave her (the rope)permission to go have fun and she (hung herself) abused it. NEXT.

walawalawa · 2017-05-01T01:11:30+00:00

Her: are you breaking up with me??

I had a similar situation where I caught out the girl I was banging in a photo dancing with another guy after we had been in no contact for a week after she acted out.

Basically I called her out on it. She of course swore up and down nothing happened.

I texted the next day that basically I enjoyed fucking her but didn't really like her as a person. So we could continue to fuck.

She took me up on this. The dread worked. We fucked solid for another 3 months before her acting out escalated again and I had to ghost her.

I must be honest. It hit me hard. The emotional investment I had made was higher than I had realized and when I learned she had gone out and thrown herself at a "Friend" of mine....it was validation I had done the right thing.

It fucked my head up that I should have left her much sooner.

Dude...this kind of drama is clearly having an impact on you.

Tactically---yes your message is solid and she's freaking out.

Longer term...do you really want to be with someone who acts out like this. Who's a joke to other guys because she's sloppy drunk hanging off them? Is that the kind of girl you want to be with?

You are freaking out here because you feel powerless. You are powerless because you don't have any options.

Get some options and next time be smarter about the types of girls you invest so much time with. That is the purpose of spinning plates.

thathillbilly · 2017-04-30T22:47:57+00:00

next her my man

AcidMal · 2017-05-01T03:42:41+00:00

Just respond bye hoe

tttsss123 · 2017-05-01T05:03:32+00:00

give her no drama, just let her go

oldredder · 2017-05-01T08:05:05+00:00

actual dread game is when women hit on YOU, she sees it, and she improves her obedience, is better in bed, sex more often, because she doesn't want to lose you but IF she really meant the text MAYBE it's close.

Unfortunately because you're responding and she's with some other dude she actually used dread game on YOU

EinReichEinVolk · 2017-05-01T23:12:24+00:00

Delete, block, ghost

josh_gropin · 2017-05-01T00:10:38+00:00

listen here miss im drunk, you can snug up to all the little red riding hoods in town but your life is gonna be full of regret and sexual frustration

you have a way with words

Title	Do I just use dread game?
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Upvotes	4
Comments	9
Date	April 30, 2017 10:27 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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