This is not a oneitis post. I don't really care about this chick that much, but I would love to learn from this example, because if the situation will be same with a HB9, I'd know what to do.

So, matched with this girl on Tinder. Went out on a quick date, during the day. We clicked pretty well, a lot of flirting and all. Only thing I fucked up was, I didn't do escalation ladder and I just surprised her with a kiss. We made out.

She had plans after the date, which she mentioned earlier. So while making out she says "Well I guess I ain't going for shopping today" speaking about her plans after.

I said "Yeah, you aren't. I got some nice coffee to offer you, over at my place". She said "No no, I aint that type to come to your home on the first date" This was pretty weird, cause she implied that we are going to bang, but backed off right away and still went for her shopping."

Next day, evening, I give her a call. She picks up and says that is busy and will be free later. I said sure holla at me. Later that night she texts me "I'm free now". I was busy at work to tell her to come over, so I just gave her a call and offered to go out tomorrow. She said she has to see, cause it's a crazy time of the year bla bla. I said fine, text me tomorrow, if i'll be free also we can hangout.

So she didn;'t holla at me but she did post a IG story a meme something about "wanna bang? - well yes, but wait after the holidays".

I didn't text or call her anymore. She keeps on posting IG stories, I aint seeing those.

and I think she is kinda waiting for me to holla at her again, which I think would be a bit of a beta, but at the same time, I think she won't take initiative.

Give me feedback on my actions and also why do you think should be the next step?

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I am gaming other chicks meanwhile. Tinder game, day game.