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Negs are meant for girls who are pretty attractive. They get their ego and esteem inflated daily by men around them. The woman is then expecting most men to be attracted to her and try and woo her. The neg is meant to throw her off and make her think “every other guy likes me, why doesn’t this one?” And she’ll usually assume that this man is of high value because he isn’t bowing down for him trying to get some pussy because he probably has a lot of other prettier girls. Negging is supposed to sh…
/r/seduction05/03/21 01:09 AM
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Both are necessities, but prioritize inner game. Outer game is the cherry on top that truly makes you a sexual force. Eye contact, tonality, delivery of a compliment, teasing, body language. All of this can be a result of inner game, but a lot of the time this stuff doesn’t come naturally even with inner game. Super super important stuff. Don’t forget push-pull
/r/seduction03/03/21 01:04 AM
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Pull away in a healthy manner. Pick up a new hobby, continue/start lifting, hike, rock climb, snowboard, learn to trade stocks. So much shit that you can get sucked into. This will make you less available and probably not respond to her texts for a couple hours because you’re busy.
/r/seduction03/03/21 12:30 AM
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Smashed after giving “free validation”. Validation works when you haven’t given any for a good period of time and coming from a higher value man.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 07:40 AM
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Ended up smashing after qualifying more. She’s pushing for LTR. Couldn’t agree with you more.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 07:38 AM
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Ended up going for it and smashing. Always assume attraction.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 07:37 AM
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You should pay attention to the post and understand that this is a co-worker. I’ve already stated I have no intentions of closing.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 01:12 AM
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I’ve spent time with her outside of work and she’ll sit right next to me, put legs over me and lean her shoulder on mine. You’d have to be retarded to not see the opportunity to close there.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 01:02 AM
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Completely agree. There’s got to be a balance. I see players that are challenging, in frame and validate which gets them validation in return.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 11:26 PM
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If I wanted to, I could. If you know, you know. You can see it in the eyes. Say whatever you want man. I know wtf is goin on
/r/askTRP21/02/21 10:20 PM
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The point is that the opportunity to close is there if I ever wanted to take it. Validation was apart of the equation in my opinion. Things really picked up and clicked once I threw her some scraps.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 10:16 PM
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I don’t shit where I eat. I don’t intend to ever close. The opportunity is there if I wanted to tho
/r/askTRP21/02/21 10:12 PM
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Free validation? She buys me shit and orbits me. I simply reward with a compliment I feel like it. I feel pretty masculine and in frame if you ask me.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 10:11 PM
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LMAO
/r/askTRP10/02/21 08:15 PM
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Good input. I got a lot of that shit already down. Im aware that it’s not what you say, but how you say it, but I hear how well push-pull works and am trying to work on it
/r/askTRP10/02/21 08:01 PM
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It’s true. Talk about them, not yourself. That’s the point. Always be asking questions about them
/r/seduction06/02/21 08:05 PM
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Dude that’s a complete overreaction. Why can’t she add someone? More orbiters for her which means she’ll annoy you less by not begging for attention all the time. If they’re talkin every day then it’s different. Don’t act like you wouldn’t add a girl on snap while in a relationship.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 01:12 AM
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Fr
/r/askTRP31/01/21 04:49 AM
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Better results
/r/askTRP26/01/21 10:01 PM
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Yes. You’re making a big deal out of something small. You went out of your way to apologize because the situation was weighing on you. A dude with an abundance mentality could care less about missing calls. You have shit to do and a purpose. If you’re not available then that’s not your fault. No apology/effort needed.
/r/seduction11/01/21 11:28 PM
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Fr lmao. 100% friend zoned
/r/seduction08/01/21 08:28 PM
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Facts
/r/askTRP02/01/21 10:00 PM
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Golden. Fucking golden
/r/askTRP02/01/21 03:33 AM
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All of it depends on the balance of your masculinity. If you’re alpha as fuck and super dominant, but wanna talk about some of your struggles, it can be a turn on from my experiences. Just don’t do it every damn day and go out of your way to talk about it. Only if you’re asked and talk about it as if you’re stronger because of it.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 03:29 AM
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Completely agree. This girl became attached to me when I started opening a bit. I’m assuming because it linked a connection, but you can’t talk about it in a “poor me” and seek sympathy. You talk about it as if it made you stronger and better.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 03:26 AM
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Context matters. A 40 year old woman is not shit testing you. A girl that is a couple years older than you telling you that you’re just a baby is definitely a shit test. The whole point of it is to emasculate you and see how you react to her “attacking” your character. I have friends that are girls that have straight up told me they like doing it to get a reaction. You clearly don’t interact with young girls. It works both ways. You can tease a girl telling her she’s just a kid and they’ll laugh…
/r/seduction02/01/21 03:17 AM
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That’s not what OP said. He’s not saying that asking for your age is a shit test. The shit test is “you’re just a kid/baby” or “you look younger than that” in a teasing way. That is most definitely a shit test.
/r/seduction02/01/21 12:31 AM
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This. Also you could try getting her to try new shit. Take her to the gym or get her started with a new hobby. If she loves it, she’ll strongly associate it with you and have a DEEP appreciation for you. Especially with the gym. Don’t put out too much effort to where it wears you out. If it does then dump her.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 12:00 AM
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I’m that fuck boy with “toxic” views. I’m the guy that’ll dominate in group settings and get the girls that are there. I’m that asshole with a kind side and top tier flirting. Always had great relationships and hookups. I think your advice about “toxic views” is dog shit. The man is right. Women are naturally “scared” shitless of men that have their shit together. Granted this guy probably has other skills or qualities that are lacking to result in a woman leaving. My “toxic views” are the cold …
/r/seduction30/12/20 08:31 AM
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Had her on Snapchat, posted all the fun shit I was doing in college. She came down to party and hit me up. I was flirty, not needy in the slightest, and she wanted to stay in my dorm instead of her friends. You just need a somewhat decent gap of time to reinvent your image in her mind. Almost gives you a clean slate.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 09:50 PM
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This is it. I’ve also escaped the friend zone with this same “strategy”.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 10:09 PM
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Cuz there’s nothing wrong with anything you said. If u send that meme, then there will be a problem. You’ll come off as a fuckin goof.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 10:00 PM
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This . Work hard and get plastic surgery. Not terribly expensive if you hustle for a couple years
/r/askTRP27/12/20 09:54 PM
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You’d probably get better answers in a different sub
/r/askTRP27/12/20 09:53 PM
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Pressure flip would be turning the question around (flirty way ideally) like your second question. A pressure flip response would be “that’s funny, I was thinking the same about you”.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 08:08 PM
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I’m leaving the job. It won’t affect me
/r/askTRP25/12/20 11:48 PM
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So true
/r/askTRP25/12/20 07:48 PM
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Some girls shit test because it’s part of their personality. Usually girls that hang around a lot of guys or have brothers. They’ll poke at you the same way guys do with banter among each other
/r/askTRP25/12/20 04:57 AM
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Noted. I’ll work on it.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 04:44 AM
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Nope. I get great reactions, and she’s constantly flirting and asking about all my “other girlfriends” in a teasing fashion. You think that isn’t going well?
/r/askTRP25/12/20 04:26 AM
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I agree with you. I’m working up to outcome independence. Faking it till I make it. I definitely don’t boast about shit or bring stuff up but she’ll say shit like “I think that girl likes you” and I’ll respond with “I don’t blame her”. Another one is responding with “who wouldn’t” with a grin and good eye contact. That’s what I mean by “cocky”. Or if we’re doing a task together and I’m doing it faster/better, I’ll tease her about not being able to keep up with me and “don’t be too hard on yourse…
/r/askTRP25/12/20 04:23 AM
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By push-pull, I mean shit tests. Tons of shit tests. I disagree with most of your comment. If you’re constantly thinking every girl is giving you fake IOI’s then your frame/mindset is fucked. Always assume attraction. You’ll never get anywhere if you think every girl is faking it. I disagree with girls not being able to play “hard to get” with their first choice. She’s literally described her type and then said I possess those qualities. Your advice is dog shit.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 04:14 AM
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Ironically, that was her first time
/r/askTRP25/12/20 03:13 AM
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So true
/r/askTRP24/12/20 01:12 AM
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How would someone be a nice asshole? Just a guy with a strong frame that teases?
/r/askTRP23/12/20 09:54 PM
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I don’t care. I just want to understand.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 10:00 AM
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True. Confuses me when she says she likes guys that are a little bit of assholes yet fucks some nice guy. Usually goes the other way around.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 09:16 AM
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Exactly. Thanks for the input
/r/askTRP21/12/20 07:47 PM
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You’re right. Plates are easy to come by, but ltr material is not though. That’s why I’m bending the rules. Thanks for giving me exactly what I asked for
/r/askTRP21/12/20 08:06 AM
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Will do, thanks.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 07:22 PM
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Gotcha, thanks
/r/askTRP20/12/20 12:09 AM
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True. I’ll learn the hard way I guess. Only true way of understanding
/r/askTRP20/12/20 12:08 AM
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Agreed. Thanks dog
/r/askTRP20/12/20 12:07 AM
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In person where we are required to spend a lot of time together. Got the date set up but not till weekend.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 07:25 AM
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Texting in this sub-reddit? Couldn’t be me. It’s in person. Thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP18/12/20 07:23 AM
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That’s a given. Obviously if I act like this gift means the world to me, then that’s not gonna look good on me. I’m not dating the girl, but she’s making me a gift.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 07:30 AM
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Got it
/r/askTRP16/12/20 11:08 PM
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Great idea
/r/askTRP15/12/20 10:50 PM
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I’m 20 with at least one parent always home.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 10:50 PM
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No lol. My intent is to see if it’ll shake them. My jokes are funny teases like if I’m teasing them about their IQ and they get butt hurt, rather than coming back with something of their own. The goal is to throw shit at each other. If you break down from a tease then it’s funny for all the other guys. It’s just unfortunate that women are there witnessing.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 09:30 AM
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Good response. I would assume the same.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 09:24 AM
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Friends shit test eachother. We are friends. Poking fun and laughing. Everyone is having a good time.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 08:12 AM
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I’m not mean to these guys. These guys are my friends and friends poke each other. The girl just ends up saying “awww ___” to them and not me because I deal with their shit really well.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 08:11 AM
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They are present and we’re in all in a circle shooting the shit. They laugh because they’re my friends.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 08:08 AM
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These guys are my friends. Friends tease each-other like that all of the time. She just stands up for them, and not me because I can handle when somebody else comes at me.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 08:07 AM
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Dude this isn’t on the side bar. Negging is on the side bar but women using negs as a form of flirtation is not.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 08:30 AM
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Begging me? I’m aware of disqualification but why would I qualify her
/r/askTRP13/12/20 01:05 AM
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Definitely agree with that, but a lot of women are insecure and give a much more flirty vibe with compliments. This girls “flirting” is insulting me and laughing about it. Doesn’t bother me, just curious.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 12:30 AM
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If you practice them all, eventually they will be engraved into your personality and then you will just naturally come up with one of the methods. Don’t worry about which one comes up. Your frame is more important, which is not giving a fuck about which one gets you the results.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 12:08 AM
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This ^ TRP applies to both male and female nature. Next
/r/askTRP13/12/20 12:03 AM
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Even if he’s a funny guy and always talking to her? I asked her to hang out and she said she was busy this weekend and countered with a plan of her own next weekend.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 11:50 PM
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Thanks dog. I was thinking the same shit. I games hard yesterday and asked her to hang out. She was busy this weekend and countered with a plan of her own next weekend. I think you were right on the money.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 11:46 PM
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Yeah until you give them that and then wants a “break”
/r/askTRP12/12/20 07:18 AM
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Nah she single. I’m just gonna ask her out. Could’ve been testing to see my response for her own sake.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 09:23 PM
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I’m not tryna force nothin. I’m tryna understand where I’m fucking up so that it doesn’t happen again with the next bitch.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 10:11 PM
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Definitely needed to hear this man. Hard to do when it feels like I’m 3rd wheeling and in the background.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 12:46 PM
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I’m gonna trust the process. Thanks dog
/r/askTRP09/12/20 12:39 PM
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It’s a part of learning. You can’t expect a newbie to implement TRP and have god tier frame. You’re right though.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 12:39 PM
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No, he’s a good lookin dude, but I’m better looking and actually have a good frame.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 12:01 PM
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It’s corny, but I know it’ll crack a laugh and get her smiling. I feel like I can nail the seductive delivery.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 10:03 PM
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What he said. You texting her was a mistake but 1 small text wouldn’t cause her to ghost you. This is on her.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 04:16 AM
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Great advice. Thanks
/r/askTRP05/12/20 07:44 AM
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Do I continue being an asshole long term? Or do I soften up and start being nicer since attraction is established?
/r/askTRP04/12/20 07:41 AM
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Thanks for a clear and encouraging answer man
/r/askTRP04/12/20 07:31 AM
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Lol the other guy has no idea what he’s talking about. You definitely look 170. 130 would be skeleton-like
/r/askTRP03/12/20 07:08 PM
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Seems like the girls weren’t interested much in you in the first place. Your first mistake though is spending money on girls you’re going on dates with. That’s why they’re happy. Sidebar would have told you that.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 02:36 AM
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Fr. Man has it all except for the knowledge of the sidebar.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 02:34 AM
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The RP answer is hard next right away, but I’ve gotten laid from a girl who hard friend zoned me. She used to like me at first, just like your situation. I went to college and posted a lot of the fun shit I was doing like partying and livin that frat boy life. Like 9 months later, she hits me up asking if our mutual friend could stay with me while they visit. I agreed, played the situation right and fucked her on my bunk with 7 people sleeping in my room. Take a long time to work on yourself and…
/r/askTRP25/11/20 12:46 PM
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All about delivery. If you’re a good lookin guy with solid frame, you could get that to work with good eye contact and a smirk
/r/askTRP25/11/20 12:03 PM
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Good advice, thanks man
/r/askTRP24/11/20 11:34 PM
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At least we’ll be driving off a cliff with my hand down her pants.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 10:31 AM
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That’s true. I assumed the job probably had long work hours which can affect your family life or cause to drink every day in order to decompress.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 10:45 PM
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I hear that job has some of the highest suicide rates
/r/askTRP22/08/20 10:06 PM
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Definitely rollin with this
/r/askTRP27/06/20 11:43 PM
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So true.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 11:42 PM
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Yeah cuz I’m gonna rip it out of my friend’s hands and take it right?
/r/askTRP27/06/20 11:40 PM
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5’ 10
/r/askTRP27/06/20 10:21 PM
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Nah you didn’t fail. Could’ve done better with the frame aspect but it’s a minor mistake that has little effects. Like you said, it’s just her trying to come off as high value and thinking she’s the shit. Deep down she knows the power lies within you. I know these type of girls all too well. She’ll try and continue to flip the script and act like you’re chasing or the one that’s more interested but she knows the roles are reversed.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 07:36 PM
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Yes. Social proof
/r/askTRP13/01/20 04:04 AM
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Definitely. You quickly realize that modern day liberalism is composed of beta concepts and beliefs. These democratic politicians crumble beneath alphas like trump. SJW’s are almost never successful and the reason why they’re keyboard warriors is because they have nothing going for themselves. They’re sensitive cunts and just have time to blow.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 08:13 AM
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If risk to reward ratio isn’t worth it, then you have your answer. You said it yourself. If something happened and the husband found out, you just lost value in your life.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 08:09 AM
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^ assume she was ready to slut it up in the bushes.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 12:49 AM
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Lol I agree. The wording makes it cringe but he’s got the right idea.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 12:41 AM
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I’m not the OP. You didn’t ask me nothin. I don’t know how to respond to it, that’s why I’m asking you. I wouldn’t have said anything.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 01:28 AM
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How would you respond to that?
/r/askTRP22/12/19 01:17 AM
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Portland gang
/r/askTRP08/12/19 08:08 PM
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Nah y’all need to understand you gotta show some beta comfort qualities (especially with a clear comfort test) in a LTR. Otherwise you’ll lose her.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 09:53 AM
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Most these guys are overreacting. Just don’t tease girls about things that every woman is insecure about. Girls know that body hair is not feminine, which is why most shave their arm pits and shit. You attacked her femininity. Focus on things like height. Most girls aren’t insecure about height so you’ll probably get a good response. If she says something to you, look over her head as if you were looking for something, and then look down at her and say “oh didn’t see you there” with a smirk. Tha…
/r/askTRP28/11/19 09:26 AM
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I was on board until “made a sticky mess everywhere” Usually that’ll gross a lot of girls out. The idea of cum is not pleasing for most girls.
/r/seduction27/11/19 11:26 PM
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This ^ always a chance she’s looking for a hook up tho. Text her when you get there saying you’re in town and wanna grab drinks.
/r/seduction26/11/19 06:28 PM
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I think you handled it well. If I were you I’d stop contacting her. If she texts you, respond but try and cut the convo as soon as you can. Act is if nothing happened. Wait for her to reach out for an actual date. Judging by your post, my guess is that she’s into you, but not ready yet. Probably doing what girls do best, which is overthinking and grieving over their last relationship. You’ve set the stones, if you continue hanging out with her as friends then you’re going to be overturning those…
/r/seduction26/11/19 06:24 PM
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This
/r/askTRP23/11/19 11:14 PM
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Great statement. Good luck g. Keep up the good work
/r/askTRP23/11/19 10:56 PM
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Join a good frat with close relations to the top sororities. Events will happen almost weekly. Tons of opportunities. Having a lot of friends at these events will draw a lot of girls in. Show high energy, have fun with all of it and your buddies, and practice the sidebar and you’ll be golden.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 10:45 PM
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^ this and only this.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 08:49 PM
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Definitely disagree. You can’t build initial attraction through texting, but once you’ve met in person and established face to face attraction, text game can definitely give you a boost. Like the other guys are saying, it’s very easy to fuck it up and difficult to pull off, but if you’ve mastered it, it’s definitely a nice tool in your arsenal. Texting for logistics is always the safe bet though.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 09:20 PM
3

Unless you’re actually being paid minimum wage, making Chinese sweat shop wages, then yes it is a shit test.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 04:45 AM
1

Great example man.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 06:10 PM
3

Definitely gotta work on that. Played way too much call of duty.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 10:24 PM
2

What do you suggest I use instead?
/r/askTRP07/11/19 10:19 PM
1

Touching her. Whether it’s a high 5, hug, tapping her on the shoulder to show her something, putting your arm on her shoulder when you’re joking, legs together when sitting down, etc. One of the most important things.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 10:17 PM
1

Do what you normally do. Don’t treat it like a date. Remember what you’ve learned, apply it, and see if she’s receptive to light kino. If she makes her self close to you try a little more kino and if she’s receptive, you’ll know what she wants.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 10:08 PM
1

High value women always get complimented tho. It’s nothing special to them until they’ve had to work for it.
/r/seduction07/11/19 08:49 PM
0

That’s going to negatively affect you later on. You do you tho.
/r/seduction07/11/19 08:39 PM
-1

Why did you use “****” to replace “shit”. Say it how it is. That’s your first issue. You’re not going to offend anyone except betas by saying “shit”. That’s already a feminine first impression of you.
/r/seduction07/11/19 08:30 PM
2

For the most part it’s a good idea. Obviously like everyone is saying, you can’t text her all day and about stupid shit. Should be kept short, fun, and flirty. It can work but you have to make all the right moves which is hard. Its just easier in person because body language dominates attraction rather than your words in a text. If you’ve mastered texting, it is a useful tool in your arsenal.
/r/seduction07/11/19 08:24 PM
5

I would hope you don’t text a girl saying “hey gorgeous”. You just automatically gave her validation. She needs to work for compliments.
/r/seduction07/11/19 08:19 PM
1

Great explanation
/r/askTRP04/11/19 09:27 PM
3

Love the first one. Second one is kinda self degrading isn’t it? Even if it’s clearly a joke.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 08:59 PM
1

Appreciate your alternative answers and great response. Definitely an easy strategy to be quick with.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 08:30 PM
1

Perfect explanation. Makes a lot more sense. Couldn’t you also use let me know when you reach me @ 275 It’s not AA but still shows a secure frame and a little playful (because I’m 160 lbs and we both know I can’t bench 275 lmao)
/r/askTRP15/10/19 08:28 PM
1

How am I supposed to know you’re tryna be humorous. We’re not friends and what u said can be taken as an insult or humorous. You’re tryna be humorous with someone you’ve never spoken to before through text which is terrible at expressing emotion.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 08:16 PM
0

Don’t be a little cunt. I didn’t get defensive cuz it’s out of the question who is stronger. Not even in the slightest of my concerns. Don’t be givin me no bullshit response.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 12:48 PM
1

Kind of is. She wanted to see how I was gonna respond. Many guys would get defensive and emotional
/r/askTRP15/10/19 09:24 AM
1

I’m not actually competing with her. I’m clearly way bigger and stronger than her so there’s no competition here. We both know it, I just go along with it cuz it’s playful.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 08:47 AM
1

Love that advice man. Thanks
/r/askTRP14/10/19 12:50 AM
4

Because I put time into thinking about it? This sub reddit is for newbs to get better. Not pros. I’m aware that someone who has mastered RP wouldn’t need to ask if they did it right but I’m obviously not a pro.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 12:50 AM
1

Yeah I met her at a store. I’m not even trying to peruse her in any way. I just wanted to apply RP with her and better my skills.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 12:46 AM
1

What kind of Canadian question is that. College is only Uni. High school is high school
/r/askTRP13/10/19 07:26 PM
3

You know damn well there’s nothing in the sidebar about where to fool around. Do not comment if you’re not going to contribute the conversation
/r/seduction03/10/19 06:17 PM
1

There’s lots of info in the sidebar for how a woman’s mind operates, but if you read the actual story, you’d understand that this is no woman. She doesn’t think like any other woman or posses a similar mindset. Quite frankly she’s showing signs of a psychopath. Which makes the sidebar irrelevant to this situation
/r/askTRP03/10/19 12:39 AM
3

At least we don't have any women in here telling me to "just be nice" and "the secret is to do more for her, and ask for nothing in return". Very true. At least ego “advice” is better than someone leading you in the wrong direction When I try to introduce new people/friends to TRP, they’re quickly turned off by toxicity of these guys though. These guys give people a douchey impression and it hinders the growth of such a great community.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 09:10 PM
1

Completely agree man. A bunch of kids with huge egos that had a little success through RP advice.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 08:58 PM
3

Amazing analogy
/r/askTRP02/10/19 08:54 PM
1

Very true, but it doesn’t take a genius to know that calling someone that is asking a good question, a “beta fag” is useful in any case. It’s straight up not constructive in any scenario or perspective.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 08:53 PM
-11

You’re missing my point. I love when people use that language because it shows intensity. I just hate when it’s used to put down the wrong person. I have no problem with being used to put down the right person (the people who give shitty advice or straight up belittle someone who is trying to learn). It’s about context. That doesn’t mean that just because “faggot”, “inbred” and “cunt” are all negative words, they can’t be used at all. Just use it against the assholes who are on the wrong side. m…
/r/askTRP02/10/19 08:51 PM
2

Good to know. I’ll keep that mind. Wish they’d be more strict on what is “acceptable” cuz man there’s some toxic bullshit that is allowed.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 08:46 PM
2

Couldn’t have said it better
/r/askTRP02/10/19 07:45 PM
1

There’s nothing wrong with the language you choose to express yourself. It’s who you use it against. In my case, I’m on the side with TRP’s best interest. I would love it if everyone used the same language I did AGAINST the people tainting our community. It all depends on which side you are on.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 07:43 PM
1

Why’s that? Teach a young lad such as myself a lesson.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 07:02 PM
25

Definitely agree. There’s very little modding. Such a good community but these inbred cunts put a sour taste in my mouth and potential newbies. Makes it so people associate negativity with TRP.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:59 PM
1

Technically you’re right about him pedalstalizing her which could fuck up OP’s mindset in the long run. It is important tho to acknowledge when you’re interacting with a high value woman with a lot to offer you. Think about it, at some age you’re probably going to get married cuz very few 20-30 year olds want to fuck a 60 year old. Would you rather marry a bitch with a crazy drive and solid career? Or just another bitch that’s a cashier at Walmart? On the other hand, OP answered his own question…
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:46 PM
2

He just admitted to being new to this. Instead of going “beta beta beta” put some useful advice out and answer his question. Next time he won’t have any questions and will be able to not care because he’ll understand how a woman’s mind works.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:30 PM
2

Don’t ask dumb questions. He obviously wants to know because the way she reacted was inhuman. When normal people make mistakes, they should naturally regret it. It’s not like he still wants to be with the bitch. He just wants to know why women are fucking retards sometimes.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:24 PM
1

Love it lmao
/r/askTRP24/09/19 05:27 PM
0

You’re not taking shit too far ^ you’re holding frame for the most part. I wouldn’t invite her over after what she said to you. Shows a little bit of neediness considering the fact that she bailed on the other date. If she’s really into you, she’ll remember you and she knows she put you on hold. Soft next and advertise your trips, and what you’ve been working on through social media. The wedding will be good social proof. Get some good pictures of your trips too.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 05:27 PM
3

Good stuff. What do you suggest by “showing intent”. Curious to know what works best for you to get the momentum flowing in the right direction
/r/askTRP14/09/19 03:02 AM
1

The answer I was looking for. Thank u
/r/askTRP12/09/19 12:28 AM
1

Great advice
/r/askTRP12/09/19 12:27 AM
2

That’s a great way to bring back the control. I’ll make her try and qualify herself as a potential candidate and not respond to her next message. Appreciate the response.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 09:48 PM
2

3 some
/r/askTRP07/09/19 08:49 AM
6

Bro lay down the law. Start cooking the shit out of them back with insults. That’s what friends do. If they don’t like it, they can square up and you can lay their ass out. You hold the power physically. Be funny. Everybody wants to talk to a funny guy.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 08:19 PM
2

Never once mentioned anything about alpha. I’m just tryna better my RP skills. That’s what this subreddit is all about. I expect answers that will help better my understanding and skills. Not someone telling me to just not try it. I’m not a “try hard”. She wasn’t getting the charger no matter what, I just wanted examples of a RP way to answer it
/r/askTRP26/08/19 08:04 PM
1

No. There’s being a fucking faggot that does everything someone asks them and then there’s a king that eats fuckin ass every night because there’s nothing beneficial of handing someone a charger. Either way, she’s not getting the damn charger, I’m just asking the best way to say no. The other dude’s answer was actually constructive.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 07:43 PM
3

Right. 1000 red flags from that alone
/r/askTRP22/08/19 10:29 PM
1

Not caring is exactly what you want. Just try and eliminate the negativity from it. If you think it’s too much then don’t do it. You don’t need empathy to understand what’s negative. I highly recommend you read the side bar for newbies (even tho you’re not really a noob). It spells it out for you how you should conduct the conversations and when to close. Usually you don’t close until a girl is getting all touchy with you and staying super close to you. Then you just go for the kiss and it’ll es…
/r/askTRP08/08/19 09:01 AM
2

If you can’t read it, then your best chance would be following a formula and assuming their mood. For example, if you act like an alpha and get her laughing and smiling, then you can assume attraction. Then you move onto flirting and throw in a compliment and assume that it’s working and keep moving forward.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 08:04 AM
3

Why do you think you need empathy to be successful with women? Are you saying that you can’t read their moods or actions?
/r/askTRP08/08/19 07:55 AM
4

Bro don’t worry about tinder or any of that BS. Focus on getting out there and just having conversations with girls. If you’ve read all the TRP stuff then it tells you step by step how to act and a general idea of what to say. Remember, it’s more about how you say it, rather than what you say.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 07:52 AM
1

If you jerk off with a tight grip, you’ll last way longer too. Pussy isn’t as tight As your own grip
/r/askTRP05/08/19 04:49 PM
1

Porn helped me a shit ton. She couldn’t tell I was a virgin whatsoever. I was choking the bitch, sneaking in kisses in all the right spots. You just gotta look for it in those pornos. Memorize it and use it.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 08:47 PM
1

Great advice for in person, but what about texts?
/r/askTRP15/07/19 11:03 PM
-3

I feel like a fag doing that but I’ll do it lmao
/r/askTRP15/07/19 11:03 PM
1

Why do you think that
/r/askTRP09/07/19 06:19 PM
5

Joe Rogan
/r/askTRP09/07/19 12:03 AM
5

Honestly lmfao.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 12:02 AM
17

Where are you now? Explain how things changed throughout your TRP path
/r/askTRP08/07/19 12:38 AM
1

Who cares what they got. I care about what I got. You’re saying their win was validation but my win was far greater than that. I got the pussy, the power of rejecting their proposition, and knowing my qualities are beyond any of their options. The final say. Their validation was gained from the sex, and then taken away with rejection.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 12:34 AM
2

Look more into Push and Pull. That’s a good flirting technique to gain attraction, keep control, and also make them wonder if they actually like you. So she won’t think you’re throwing yourself at her and she’ll probably gain attraction towards you at the same time. Win/win situation.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 12:30 AM
1

You have a good point, but idc about whether or not they deserve to enjoy the fruit of my labor. I got my nut and told them both no to their relationship proposition. I feel like I won. They got a night with me, but they won’t get years. I got more out of it than they did.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 12:27 AM
1

You do you. In my experience, I’ve nexted a couple girls who friend zoned me in the past while knowing how I felt. Later on they ended up coming to my dorm for a weekend at my college and when they saw how I changed and how I carried myself, they were all over me. Didn’t even think about fucking them, it just happened. I didn’t waste my time or anything. They came down to party and have fun. That’s exactly what happened and look what it got me. I was in full control after that
/r/askTRP07/07/19 10:04 PM
2

If it’s not going anywhere, then you’re right. She misses the conversation and is trying to make you an orbiter. She knows what you want now. Don’t message her again and if while you’re out with friends, and she comes up to you, just flirt with her and if she starts showing actual sexual interest, then escalate. I think you’ve handled it super well so far.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 06:58 PM
3

You’re either an idiot or a troll. These aren’t games. Definitely interested. Don’t shit where you eat tho
/r/seduction07/07/19 06:44 PM
6

People follow rules a little TOO seriously. Nesting a girl doesn’t always necessarily mean never talk to them again. Usually it does but if this girl is expressing sexual interest and you’re able to get something out of it, then you should try and go for that. Make it clear to her that you don’t want friendship and don’t want to talk to her anymore and see what happens. Girls like guys that aren’t desperate, and the ability to ignore a girl shows you aren’t.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 06:41 PM
1

This. Smart guy.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 10:36 PM
1

I’m a white guy and I find you attractive. How do you know being black is the issue for these guys? Are you assuming it? Or have they told u?
/r/askTRP06/07/19 10:31 PM
4

Beer is an acquired taste. Most people start drinking it for the way it makes you feel, and then the taste grows on you and it becomes something more than just alcohol. When you go to a club, just have a good time. If you like to dance, it’s the perfect scene for you. You don’t have to drink if you don’t wanna be it definitely makes dancing a hell of a lot more fun. You can also sit on the sidelines and eat if you wanna talk to someone. Bro you fucked up. She was definitely interested and if you…
/r/seduction06/07/19 10:26 PM
3

My best serious advice would be weeding out the girls that do speak English, or you could always just not talk and “dance the night away” and I’m sure that’ll get you somewhere. The “tango” was known to create extreme intimacy and sexual tension without a single word.
/r/seduction06/07/19 10:20 PM
6

When you’re all drunk enough, English and Spanish start sounding the same and you can’t understand each other regardless the language 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction06/07/19 10:16 PM
1

Thank y’all for the advice. You got any examples for pulling? I obviously suck at it
/r/askTRP06/07/19 08:16 PM
1

Coke
/r/askTRP06/07/19 08:38 AM
3

If they say “I have a boyfriend” ask “do you have a husband?” See where that gets you. It might give you a second shot since your first pick up line was pretty shitty.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 10:08 PM
8

Might sound stupid but go watch comedy specials or things that mass amounts of people find funny. Their humor will grow on you and you’ll develop a liking for it. Eventually you’ll think of your own material that’s based around their same proven ideas.
/r/seduction24/06/19 07:59 AM
1

These are college girls that are probably relatively new to seduction. I doubt most of these girls know what to do.
/r/seduction23/06/19 08:43 AM
1

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=r2MmBVz6yo4&feature=youtu.be&utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ios_share_flow_optimization&utm_term=enabled Solid bantering tips.
/r/seduction17/06/19 05:42 PM
-1

I only Snapchat to advertise my life. I post the fun shit I’m doing because girls then swipe up and ask to be invited or start flirting because they want to be apart of my life. I feel like there’s an age gap in the TRP community. Our eras are so different now. My era was born and raised on social media.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 05:36 AM
-4

Clearly you guys are from a different era where social media isn’t relevant at your age. I’m 19 at a Uni so not having social media is pretty unheard and guys/girls my age see less value in you if you don’t have it.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 05:34 AM
1

How did you come up with that conclusion from what I said
/r/askTRP17/06/19 05:28 AM
2

Ah I see. Assuming that you were needy and pushed her back then I see the only option for recovery would be pulling back and waiting for her to reach out to you. If you reach out first to explain yourself or something, then that’ll just add to the neediness. You don’t need to explain to her that you were going through things and that that’s why you were clingy. Pull back and if she contacts you, don’t let it happen again. As for escalating to get her more physical and comfortable, flirt with her…
/r/seduction17/06/19 03:52 AM
2

My opinion is that you shouldn’t have gotten into the rough deep stuff. You said you recently met her so I’m assuming you’ve only hung out a few times. You should be keeping things light hearted and fun. You might’ve slipped into the friend zone when you started talking about deep stuff. It’s a beta frame to get into that deep shit with someone you don’t know well. She might view you as a guy that she can talk about her issues and problems with.
/r/seduction17/06/19 03:29 AM
1

Is she uncomfortable with flirty behavior in general? Or just when it comes from you?
/r/seduction17/06/19 02:44 AM
4

So glad you said that. I was thinking about asking that as well. Any reason why?
/r/askTRP17/06/19 02:27 AM
2

To me it does. When I come across people’s mind they won’t think “ I wonder what happened to him or if he’s doing okay”. They’ll know I’m living my best life, getting shit done, and fulfilling my purpose. In the future those people might reach out to me and that could result in new opportunities, or if they’re girls I could hook up with them because they know my life has meaning and value. Just the way I see it. Also ppl seeing my stories might be more likely to invite me to events or ask me to …
/r/askTRP16/06/19 11:15 PM
7

Simple alpha mindset. I like it
/r/askTRP16/06/19 11:08 PM
1

Whiskey dick. That’s simply all it is. That and then when you realized you couldn’t get it up, you probably got embarrassed and nervous which stacks up against you. Every single blood cell in your body left your dick and went to your red rosy cheeks when you got embarrassed.
/r/seduction16/06/19 10:51 PM
3

Truly happy for your improvements, and I don’t want to shit on your parade, but the more texting you do, the more likely she’s going to consider you an orbiter. Eventually she’s going to consider you another one of her girlfriends or an orbiter where you’re just a source for attention. Text for logistics. Set up the date, add a few flirty texts in the mix, and wait for the date.
/r/seduction16/06/19 10:42 PM
10

I agree with that too, but I’m not posting everything I do. Just the stuff that’ll catch women’s eye and possibly result in “invite me next time” which does happen.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 10:07 PM
2

Completely agree
/r/askTRP16/06/19 10:05 PM
2

Why is that?
/r/askTRP16/06/19 10:02 PM
2

Most of the time it isn’t used as a derogatory term against gays. It’s used just the same as calling someone bitch or a cunt. “Faggot” just has more of a ring to it because it’s less used lol.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 10:01 PM
9

Anyone that is offended by “faggot” is either soft, a faggot, or both
/r/askTRP16/06/19 09:40 PM
1

Great advice
/r/askTRP16/06/19 07:27 PM
2

You guys are great. Good stuff. Won’t let this mistake happen again.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 07:25 PM
1

Got it. I was tryna be flirtatious.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 07:17 PM
1

Can you explain why so I won’t do this in the future?
/r/askTRP16/06/19 07:10 PM
1

Would that not be considered flirtatious?
/r/askTRP16/06/19 07:09 PM
1

Love it. Golden
/r/askTRP16/06/19 07:07 PM
0

Nah she just has good qualities that would be good in a relationship. Good communication, charming, and positive.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 04:56 AM
1

By ignore, do you mean leaving her on read? Or by responding with a selfie of your own, or commenting on her surroundings?
/r/askTRP04/06/19 05:13 PM
2

Thank you for your great advice brother
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:59 PM
2

It’s possible that your feelings might fade if you come to a realization that it won’t work out or be good in your best interest, but chances are your infatuation with being with her will eat you alive first. Eventually you’ll lose your mind and lose touch with yourself since you have oneitis. You won’t look for anybody else and will have a hopeless dream of only being with her
/r/askTRP02/06/19 07:16 PM
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