Hi, so I am really inexperienced with the whole seduction/relationships thing, and I want to move forward with this girl I like.

We recently met and we really connect, it is obvious that she likes me and likes to spend time with me. But most of the time, she is sort of keeping a distance between us. I try to get more physical by touching her lower back, and such, but it doesn't seem reciprocated.

Our connection is somewhat deeper than that, we've shared some intimate things to each other about our past, it went pretty deep, and we trust each other. Also, after we meet, I started going through some rough internal stuff, said somethings that probably made me seem needy and she pulled back a bit.

She seems reluctant to go forward. I think I need to make her more comfortable with me and make me look less needy. Also, the common approach of being really aggressive won't work based on her past/personality, and to further complicate things, she is a psychiatrist.

Right before I went through the rough stuff, things were going well. She was definitely more open to me and going more physical. And I'm sure things can still go there if I make her more comfortable around me again. The signs are still there for that.

I think my inexperience with girls is throwing her off too. And I think that if I make her feel more appreciated and wanted, it will help. We have this chemistry and connection, but there is tension (the wrong kind) because things aren't going more physical.

Any help? Thank you.