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puasd/r/seduction14/04/19 11:57 PM
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puasd/r/seduction02/09/19 08:54 AM
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Don't impress her. Be impressive.
/r/seduction18/03/21 08:10 PM
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I tagged over there but this group is the most level headed
/r/seduction02/05/20 05:44 PM
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Yeah man it's something I didnt expect. The worst is I could never have a good relationship with her. Shes not the kind of girl I'd bring around my group of friends and she has a son with serious behavioral issues and she still has a weird tie to her ex who has manipulated her to not allow her son to meet any guys. Lol I think I wrote this as more of a reminder of why its dumb and should get over ONEitis. Thanks for the insight!
/r/seduction14/12/19 03:43 PM
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Yeah I'm definitely going to slow it down. More for my sanity then anything. It's like the worst case of ONEitis I've had lol. Holiday depression I'm guessing
/r/seduction14/12/19 01:57 AM
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I'm not in her direct chain of command so it isnt fraternization.
/r/seduction14/12/19 12:24 AM
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Lol I mean anything we do is consensual and not at work. And 99% sure things arent gonna work I'm not worried about problems at work. Once I transfer I wont have to see her for like a year if i dont have to
/r/seduction13/12/19 11:50 PM
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This is some of the best advice Corey Wayne said. I read it after I confessed liking a girl and i could immediately see her attraction drop.
/r/seduction13/12/19 11:23 PM
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What's a SHARP class? And definitely lessons learned lol. Shes a good girl to have this learning lesson with. Shes not gonna tell the command we hooked up and I think I can let her down easy and she wont get butthurt.
/r/seduction13/12/19 11:22 PM
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Yeah, that's what I've been doing. I've given up tv and video games and I'm doing martial arts and rock climbing in my free time. Focusing on becoming a better person. It's not the worst thing in the world, it could be a way worse woman and I'm sure it will resolve when I transfer in a few months but still lol. A lot of emotions and situations I didn't expect. The biggest was writing her sailor of the quarter package because I'm a pay grade higher and I'm a mentor, and then having to find an exc…
/r/seduction13/12/19 11:21 PM
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Haha its definitely a hard pill to swallow. I tend to be neurotic which maybe a thing but I try to live in absolute honesty for myself.
/r/seduction06/12/19 08:54 PM
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For real. I mean it is what it is. They arent going to understand what I mean about over investing if they've never heard it shouted out them or read it 1000 times. I just hope someone reading this will look at my story and understand what I mean instead of having the "what are we" talk with a girl and then posting here asking why she ghosted him.
/r/seduction02/09/19 05:51 PM
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I like how this entire comment section is full of randoms who completely missed the point of the post Its probably a lot of casuals who haven't had a chance to really read into PUA material. If they had read Models or 3% Man or just existed in this realm long term they would know how much I would turn this girl off if I started asking "what are we?" After a week of dating.
/r/seduction02/09/19 04:24 PM
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YOU FUCKED UP. She wouldn’t have overly invested or been fucking you if she knew it wouldn’t lead to where she wanted it to. So you have to realize how silly this sounds. I didnt fuck up. I'm not the one who went home crying last night. Look, I liked this girl but 4 dates and exclusivity? That's insane to me. I feel most people would think that is insane. If she had ever told me that she turned down guys for me, especially while I was out of town I would have gladly told her not to do that. I ho…
/r/seduction02/09/19 04:21 PM
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Yeah but you have to realize from a guys POV that in most cases if a guy starts talking too soon about "what are we?" It will freak girls out. In my experience, no level headed woman would even consider this talk this soon and she would be extremely turned off if I had even mentioned it.
/r/seduction02/09/19 04:17 PM
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I don't have my head up my ass. We are adults in our late 20s and 30s. Honestly, how can you even know if someone is worthy of a LTR after four dates. As far as I was concerned we were a couple of people having fun getting to know eachother. I didnt have the "what are we" chat because it's not even close to time to have it.
/r/seduction02/09/19 04:15 PM
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I didnt coldly dismiss her by any means. She found out I was dating other girls and coldly dismissed me.
/r/seduction02/09/19 04:12 PM
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It's weird that im getting downvoted. I expected more of "I feel bad for the girl. But this makes sense" Literally all I was trying to say is that over investing can get a person hurt. 4 dates in my mind doesn't even come close to exclusivity. I know I messed up telling her about other girls but she seemed unstable after the whole thing and honestly I'm better off without her and happy it happened at date 4 and not date 10 when I would even take her serious.
/r/seduction02/09/19 04:12 PM
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I mean I dont think she isnt interested but its more of something I really dont like. It's still new so she can do what she wants but I turned down other things because I dont like cancelling.
/r/seduction30/08/19 10:38 PM
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Yeah I'm lining up another date now lol
/r/seduction30/08/19 10:31 PM
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Yeah totally understandable. It's not so much a "her" thing as it is a "in the future" thing. I think I'll just default with a no reply. That's about all I think it warrants
/r/seduction30/08/19 10:29 PM
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It's more of a boundary setting than it is a butthurt thing. I'm a busy dude and I have other options. I turned down a bunch of things because we had made plans on tuesday and now I have to plan shit out day of. It's not some "you've been a bad girl" type shit. Its just something I dont like. Some people are okay with flakes but I dont deal with it.
/r/seduction30/08/19 09:55 PM
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I kinda feel that I should have just ignored her and waited for a response later. I told her I didnt like last minute cancellations cuz I could have made other plans. I mean if she doesnt feel bad then i dont want to date that. You know what I mean?
/r/seduction30/08/19 09:52 PM
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In my mind its childish. Obviously I'm not going to tell her that lol. But I'm not asking her to go climbing or hiking just grab a beer and chat. I get everyone gets tired after work but I think it's a turnoff if you cant make simple plans.
/r/seduction30/08/19 09:35 PM
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She said shes tired from work. I'm not trying to teach her a lesson by any means.
/r/seduction30/08/19 09:28 PM
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Yeah but I'm not gonna let a girl think it's fine to do.
/r/seduction30/08/19 09:24 PM
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I don't like the "see if we could be something more" part though. Because I honestly dont know if that's what I want. I'm still feeling her out
/r/seduction28/08/19 07:13 PM
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I've noticed almost all girls like a finger in the butt.
/r/seduction22/08/19 09:36 PM
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I remember a post where a guy took "vulnerability" in the Mark Manson book completely the wrong way and started telling a girl all his fucked up issues in life and was confused why she freaked out.
/r/seduction29/06/19 03:31 PM
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The typical "nice guy" has an agenda. He is fake and acts a certain way to impress a girl. He lacks authenticity. Being a good person is different. Girls dont want just a "bad boy" they want a man. Dont get hung up on girls who arent attracted to you or disrespect you. And a frame I like to maintain when doing something for someone is if I would be upset if I did this and never saw them again. It helps you learn what "over investment" is. For example if a girl walks up and says "Will you buy me …
/r/seduction29/06/19 03:26 PM
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Just say Thank You.
/r/seduction29/06/19 03:17 PM
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3% man by Corey Wayne has a lot of great advice. Also not a dating book but 6 Pillars of self esteem is a phenomenal book that has really relaxed who I am as a human.
/r/seduction29/06/19 03:16 PM
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Asking "is it wrong" isnt the right question. There is no right or wrong in making personal choices. There are only "is this what I want/should be doing" vs "is this what I dont want/shouldn't be doing" If you are introverted in nature and need the time to relax and get away from people, that is fine. The only time it becomes an issue is if you are being lazy but wishing you were more productive. As far as "fake ass friends" dont just cut them off. Just do your own thing and let them cut themsel…
/r/seduction29/06/19 03:15 PM
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No. I try to at a minimum kiss on a date.
/r/seduction29/06/19 03:09 PM
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Lol good try
/r/seduction29/06/19 03:09 PM
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I think it depends man. If I've already decided I'm interested in a girl, if I'm ordering a drink I'll most likely get her one. Just out of efficiency.
/r/seduction29/06/19 05:40 AM
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Dude read 3% Man by Corey Wayne. You're too available my guy....Attraction for women isnt logical. It's a mixture of giving her emotions and being the prize. You have shown yourself to be overly available and needy and now that she knows you're super into her, she gets turned off. I know it's not logical, but women when they get turned off get the same feeling as get when you know you need to take a shit. It's stupid but that's why there is a whole subreddit and tons of literature teaching us ho…
/r/seduction29/06/19 05:26 AM
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My buddy is what I would consider a natural and definitely a fuck boy, but hes a hopeless romantic and always gets flaked on by chicks he likes. I've tried starting him off with Models and check out this reddit page but he always ignores me. I wish he could see the light. He told me that he already admitted he liked her on the first date and wont kiss her...I told him that he should do the eye contact/lips think and see if she wants it...I'm hoping for the best.
/r/seduction29/06/19 05:17 AM
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Just smile and say "thanks" and move on. If a girl says that to you, it's a good sign. It means she sees you as a guy who gets girls.
/r/seduction24/06/19 06:28 AM
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This is awful. Dont shame them or embarrass them. People get busy and get distracted. Just wait. Women shouldn't be this important in your life. You dont just act like you have an abundant life to them, you actually live it.
/r/seduction24/06/19 06:26 AM
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Wait a couple days and ask "did you get kidnapped?" If she replies act like normal if she doesn't then move on. 9/10 she will text back whenever, but sometimes people are busy.
/r/seduction24/06/19 06:25 AM
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I usually dont add girls on social media in the first place but I'm probably an outlier. I choose to not add them due to the fact that I dont like when it shows I'm online or vice versa. I choose to be more selective when I reply. But I do believe that the only time you should remove a girl is if it negatively affects you to see them online or their stories. Social media is already pretty awful to self esteem and imho it's best to remove anything that lowers it.
/r/seduction24/06/19 06:20 AM
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Sitting next to someone for hours without talking to them is a turn off. Go do something else.
/r/seduction17/06/19 08:52 PM
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What do you mean "less of a buzz"? Girls like men who are a mystery and arent super into them. Girls want a man they know has a life. All that's gonna happen is her wondering "Why isnt he texting me?" "Does he like me?" "Who is this guy?" And then when she gets the text shes excited ....all of this assuming she even likes you in the first place. Trust me a little lag time is always best.
/r/seduction17/06/19 08:17 PM
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DO NOT TELL HER ITS A DATE. You'll probably freak her out. Girls are weird about labels. Get her out and escalate like normal. It's better for a hangout to turn into a date instead of vice versa. Edit: so for clarification I say to not label it as a date on the fact that I dont believe in calling anything a date with someone I'm not already romantically involved with for a sustained period. Anything up to that point is getting to know eachother
/r/seduction17/06/19 07:51 PM
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Get her in an armbar and dont let her tap until you get her digis
/r/seduction17/06/19 07:48 PM
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So always wait a couple days and then just say you enjoyed your time and that you should meet up. Seriously I think chatting over social media or text is the worst. At best its mindless entertainment at worst you're going to say something stupid or have something misinterpreted and fuck things up.
/r/seduction17/06/19 07:45 PM
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Assuming you arent young at 28 is silly. You should be excited for your 30s and 40s. If your 20s were the best years of your life you're fucking up bud. Literally the only thing you can do is go with your gut instinct. Your mantra should be to do what you enjoy. If you're in a 5 year relationship and love it, if you guys break up it's not a waste. Fuck I was in a hell relationship from 22 to 27 and I just keep looking at the present and the future. Mistakes are only stupid if you do them again. …
/r/seduction17/06/19 07:33 PM
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What? No man. You have some negative view on "the chase" the whole point is to do and get the things you want. Not doing something because it may not fulfill you is a bullshit excuse. You dont know until you try. Life is all about trials and error. I fucking love the romantic shit that goes with dating. That's why I do it. I'd rather chase then sit at home wondering what might have been. Get over paralysis from analysis and live my guy.
/r/seduction17/06/19 07:28 PM
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I just tell them you think it's difficult to get to know people over text and to grab a beer to really get to know eachother.
/r/seduction17/06/19 07:10 PM
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Never text the next morning. Its clingy as fuck. Seriously you'd be suprised how much it will kill a womans attraction for you. Just keep working on meeting up and dont flirt in text, it's so difficult.
/r/seduction17/06/19 06:59 PM
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Dont be an asshole to her. It's called screening. If she doesn't want to fuck right away and you do then move on. Or go on a date with her and win her over. But seriously, dont be a dick.
/r/seduction17/06/19 06:58 PM
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You have a huge hangup dude. That was obviously not an insult. She went "hehe" you need to figure out a canned line to say about it. Either agree with her, ignore it or over state it. Be like "I love it. I'm gonna look 30 when I'm 60"
/r/seduction17/06/19 06:56 PM
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No he has a point. You're humble bragging.
/r/seduction17/06/19 06:53 PM
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Just move on bud. Dont over think it and dont try to figure out what went wrong. Chalk it to part of the game.
/r/seduction17/06/19 06:51 PM
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Move on buddy. The ball is in her court. Stay friends if you can manage it, if not tell her that you are unable to continue the friendship. She will respect you for it. Under no circumstances should you take the "nice guy" role and do nice shit and be overly available in hope it wins her back.
/r/seduction17/06/19 06:49 PM
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Why is the date scheduled so far out?
/r/seduction17/06/19 06:47 PM
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So the big thing is you arent changing yourself per se. You are making changes to improve and become the person you want to be. Its 100% fine to want the things that a relationship brings, but if you are trying to find a girl better then your ex you need to make yourself the person that the next girl wants. Pickup is teaching the art of manliness and becoming assertive and realizing that you need to take action, because the perfect girl isnt going to fall in your lap.
/r/seduction17/06/19 06:45 PM
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What are you talking about? There needs to be a story.
/r/seduction17/06/19 06:42 PM
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Yeah its tricky. Once you become friends it can be difficult to switch to seduction. Women look for consistencies in men and it may throw her off. Bit honestly whatever if you fuck it up. Everything is a learning lesson
/r/seduction17/06/19 05:10 PM
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Happens bud. It took me awhile to realize that.
/r/seduction17/06/19 08:05 AM
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Bro its pretty simple. She wanted dick and you didn't give it to her. Learn next time. Also only text or snap for logistics. Game irl.
/r/seduction17/06/19 05:47 AM
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So when it comes to online dating, use the first meetup as the "get to know eachother" portion for girls who you are unclear their intentions. Meet for a beer or coffee. If she wants to just hookup fucking invite her over and take her to pound town bud.
/r/seduction17/06/19 05:45 AM
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If you're at least mildly attractive and not annoying he likes you, but at the same time if your friend is mildly attractive and not annoying he likes her too. Ask him out and see what happens.
/r/seduction17/06/19 05:41 AM
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Dont leave your number. Just tell her you want to grab a beer with her. If she says yes, fuckin a, of she says no then move on. If you see her regularly realize that as long as you arent awkward she wont be
/r/seduction17/06/19 05:32 AM
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This stuff isnt "perfect person" its basically things you want to be good at. Being a perfect person is continuing to work on yourself and your goals and being a caring nurturing person.
/r/seduction17/06/19 05:31 AM
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You gotta let her come to you bro. Spiritual retreat or not, you gotta keep your cards close to your hands. Any setting for how she sees you is already set and all you can do is sit back and wait. Either she comes or she doesnt. I really recommend 3% man by Corey Wayne. He talks about this a lot. Feels bad man but just keep learning and keep trying and success will be in your favor
/r/seduction17/06/19 05:29 AM
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Can you ask her in person? If not DM her. Realize it's only weird if she rejects you, and you act weird about it. Remember frame control is always in your favor. If you understand that rejection is part of the game and dont take it as a big deal it's all good.
/r/seduction17/06/19 05:20 AM
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Yeah man. It sucks but I needed to. I have another girl coming over tonight so that's chill
/r/seduction25/05/19 12:52 AM
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Broke up today. My dick is sad lol
/r/seduction24/05/19 11:17 PM
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Look up Todd valentine's texting game video
/r/seduction24/05/19 11:16 PM
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That seems to be the case. I guess this is a part of seduction I never realized I would enter. Fuck what a learning process lol.
/r/seduction24/05/19 04:53 AM
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We're perverts, not scumbags I fucking love you.
/r/seduction24/05/19 03:14 AM
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Make sure to find a coffee spot that has other shit to do nearby. Even if it's just a park If you move spots more often in her mind you have spent more time together. Make sure it's near her place or your place so it's easy to come back and smash. You dont have to wait for her outside. Just sit down and when she comes in give her a hug and usually I buy the coffee only cuz it's a couple bucks. If shes weird about you buying dont force it. When you sit down, dont sit directly across from eachothe…
/r/seduction24/05/19 03:13 AM
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Just text her and say you're not interested in getting a car but if she wants to grab a beer sometime. I really dont ever use the term date
/r/seduction24/05/19 02:30 AM
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I'm starting to think maybe it's not platonic women are boring. I'm boring and hanging with boring women. I dont have a white knight complex as I do have a bunch of free time and genuinely like helping people. It still could be toxic though I guess. I'll look at therapy. Appreciate ya!
/r/seduction22/05/19 09:42 PM
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Yeah I'm honestly not sure. I know the standard advice and info on neglect and abandonment, but I'm not specialized in it. I know enough to see a therapist. I have a problem where I have no interest in seeing girls I'm not sleeping with. I find platonic relationships with females to be super boring.
/r/seduction22/05/19 07:43 PM
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Do you think or fantasize about saving her, or helping her through her shit and when she comes out at the other she will be forever grateful you were the one that did it? I may have some white knight complex. I would say I enjoy helping people to a fault. As far as her being grateful it's not so much that. I'm definitely not an r/niceguys. I actually despise those guys. I am actually interested in the logic of why I do it. I'm sure therapy would help How is the relationship with your mother? Clo…
/r/seduction22/05/19 07:01 PM
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That's why first dates should be cheap. I'm not gonna pay a lot of money for someone I dont mesh with
/r/seduction22/05/19 06:18 PM
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Its pretty sad. I used to tell my ex wife that she was a chaos chaser, and now I realize what a projection that is. I'm just wondering how to let her down. I know shes falling for me. But still. Shes not okay.
/r/seduction22/05/19 06:12 PM
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I think most marriages and relationships are ONEitis. 100% People stay with people they arent compatible with all the time.
/r/seduction22/05/19 05:39 PM
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I'm dealing with this right now. It started off as just fun, but started catching feels. There are so many red flags I've over looked because we have fun and the sex is great. When I realized I am prioritizing her over myself and my goals is when I realize I need to take a step back. Having the balls to do it is the hardest part. Last night was the big moment when I realized she isnt a good person. She is considering letting an AFC who's head over heels for her take her to Europe on vacation and…
/r/seduction22/05/19 05:36 PM
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Obviously you need to let him finger your sister back.
/r/seduction21/05/19 07:51 PM
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Dont ever be a dick cuz you got turned down. Keep your frame control and composure. Its only awkward if you let it be. If shes awkward towards you, you dont feed off of it. A constant reminder to respect yourself. Just find the humor in it and it will be fine. An abundant man wouldnt give a shit. Rejection is part of the game. Repeat....REJECTION IS PART OF THE GAME. It's a non issue.
/r/seduction21/05/19 06:06 PM
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Realize there are 1,000,000 reasons a girl doesn't want to stick around and chat. She could have a boyfriend, or shes in a bad mood, or you remind her of a Chad who cheated on her. Hell she could need to take a massive dump and needs to leave. Dont reflect on why she didn't stick around. Just keep studying the arts and reflect on what you can do to get better. Never wrap your self esteem in this.
/r/seduction21/05/19 06:02 PM
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Watch everything you can about escalating kino. Build some sort of attraction up front and find a reason to get her back to your place. I use a really good beer that we should try or that letterkenny is the funniest show ever. It works bud.
/r/seduction21/05/19 05:46 PM
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Dude, get the idea of "taking it slow as a sign of respect" and throw it in the trash. The only time when making a move isnt ideal is if you haven't built up the sexual attraction first. Escalate kino always. Realize that if you make a move after escalating kino, she will realize that you did this because it worked in the past. Even if she rejects you she will still respect you. On top of that. It fucks with women when you dont make a move. They question their attractiveness and their self estee…
/r/seduction21/05/19 05:44 PM
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It sounds like a "point of no return" thing. You escalated almost to sex but didn't follow through. Now she has to justify in her mind why you 2 didn't have sex and its usually not going to be a good outcome for you. I'll see if I can find Todd V's video on it. I also don't recommend pushing and pulling during heavy foreplay. This is a very intimate and vulnerable state for a woman and pushing and pulling is going to fuck with her emotions.
/r/seduction21/05/19 05:40 PM
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Yeah she knows I see girls. We are pretty serious but we have stated we are not exclusive.
/r/seduction19/05/19 10:23 PM
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Honestly shes the one who's trying to take it slow and not commit. I mean it's only been a month. I still don't think the flaking part is cool at all.
/r/seduction19/05/19 07:42 PM
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It's not that you're too "masculine" I'm sure you're in super good shape and attractive. Its probably more that you dont seem attainable. Motivated and attractive women are put on pedestals and guys are so afraid of rejection they wont try. Honestly you should try to talk to boys you like and 100% do not ever let your self esteem drop from doing the things you like to do. Its not that you're intimidating. They are intimidated. Keep that mindset and find it cute more than a flaw in yourself.
/r/seduction19/05/19 03:43 PM
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I'd say you bumped into her in the library
/r/seduction19/05/19 03:37 PM
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So the big issue with this is it goes against the fundamentals of being overly invested. Being overly invested isnt something you convey to women it's a way of life.
/r/seduction18/05/19 07:05 AM
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Dude you have to realize that there are a million reasons girls wont want to see you. You were 1% of their week. Just keep practicing and studying the fundamentals.
/r/seduction18/05/19 07:01 AM
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Just keep doing what you're doing bro. Remember being overly invested isn't just something you project, it's something you do. Overthinking is going to fuck you over. Enjoy the fact you guys fucked and keep going like you normally do. She fucked you once acting how you do, keep congruent and chances are it will happen again.
/r/seduction08/05/19 06:38 PM
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I recommend the book "How to win friends and influence people" People will remember more of you liking them and that's what they will like about you.
/r/seduction08/05/19 06:31 PM
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Go with what you want to do. Totally over thinking it.
/r/seduction08/05/19 05:23 PM
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You shouldn't even be considering a relationship until few months in.
/r/seduction06/05/19 06:16 AM
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Have you checked out skincare addicts reddit group?
/r/seduction06/05/19 06:15 AM
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Realize that seduction should be pretty subtle. Let attraction happen. Stigma is bullshit. If you like a dude or think hes attractive go for it
/r/seduction29/04/19 03:56 PM
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You left cuz she asked you to grab her phone? That's the most petty thing I've ever heard.
/r/seduction29/04/19 03:39 PM
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Pics or it didn't happen
/r/seduction29/04/19 03:11 PM
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Check out Todd V's texting videos.
/r/seduction29/04/19 02:55 PM
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Yeah man I think a different girl would enjoy it but she seemed super overwhelmed. Good tips though!
/r/seduction27/04/19 02:00 AM
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I thought she was local. Trust me I feel bad lol.
/r/seduction27/04/19 01:59 AM
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Start with 3 books How to win friends and influence people 6 pillars of self esteem Models by mark Manson
/r/seduction26/04/19 11:54 PM
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It's only awkward if you act awkward. If she declines, just move on like it's not a big deal. It's literally not a big deal.
/r/seduction26/04/19 09:05 PM
1

For real. Sucks too. She was a little cutie.
/r/seduction26/04/19 02:50 PM
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The push pull part was what really sealed her attraction when we first me. It was such an obstacle to do with climbing. I definitely made it more us being new to climbing and having fun but we did all the beginner climbs in like 20 mins and she was already tired and over it. I'm sure her being up since 5 am definitely didn't help. Live and learn.
/r/seduction26/04/19 02:33 PM
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One thing that helps me is how shitty my my memory(and I assume most people's memory is) I got rejected a handful of times over the last few weeks and if I had to point out any of the girls in a police lineup I probably couldn't.
/r/seduction23/04/19 07:46 PM
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Just have her come over, you both can decide on a show to watch. Just kinda make small talk about whatever. Try to make sure she sits on the couch with you. If you have another chair put something on it like it looks it was left there. You can bring her in to cuddle and just slowly escalate. Try to be receptive to her. If she is resisting, take it back 20% if she likes it, keep it up. The worst thing you can do is not make a move in my opinion. Show her you're a man, but do your best to be aware…
/r/seduction23/04/19 07:39 PM
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Dude dont drag her by the heart strings. If it's long distance and you've never met and shes "in love" you need to let her down. Dont let her spend hours traveling to meet you, and all the nerves and anxiety to find out you dont care about her. Leave people the same or better than you found them.
/r/seduction23/04/19 05:53 PM
1

Try having your testosterone checked. I had low t in my early 20s and got on HRT. Also quitting porn helps a ton too
/r/seduction20/04/19 08:13 PM
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This is a really interesting perspective. Analyzing my game I think I realize a lot of it could be due to day gaming where I'm only chatting up girls for 5 minutes and getting a number close. I should start looking at more adult bars to meet girls. I definitely dont really enjoy the club scene at all. Super loud music and hitting on super drunk chicks isnt my favorite at all. Thanks!
/r/seduction20/04/19 04:39 PM
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I usually try to talk into their good ear
/r/seduction16/04/19 05:30 PM
2

Check out angrypicnic and thatwasepic on YouTube. They literally approach on campus and you can learn a lot about vibing with chicks super well.
/r/seduction16/04/19 04:35 PM
1

I try to be a mix of Todd Valentine and Jim Halpert.
/r/seduction15/04/19 09:35 PM
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Dude dont game in text. Logistics only. Idk how many girls I've fucked up with either playing off being charming or funny in text. It will never come across how you think it will. Save it for in face buddy
/r/seduction15/04/19 09:32 PM
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Did she apologize for bailing on you?
/r/seduction15/04/19 03:56 PM
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If you want to bang her, bang her. If you want a relationship dont bang her. But be very careful of making a move under the influence of drugs. Both of you doing acid for the first time together is really iffy. There are going to be a lot of strong emotions that take place, a lot of revelations that happen and the last thing you want to do is cause a bad trip because you want to confess to her or sleep with her. If you have any questions about lsd I'm pretty well versed and you can PM me.
/r/seduction15/04/19 03:54 PM
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Being congruent to yourself portrays a higher status. Its super obvious and super cringy when you can tell someone is laying it on. I am a super mellow dude and it would come off strange and try hard if I acted higher energy than I was feeling. Sometimes I do bump it up a notch and add some passion and some energy, but its 100% congruent to the conversation at hand.
/r/seduction15/04/19 03:49 PM
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You should take her if you want the date but stay emotionally cool. Dont fall into any traps of "getting back together" she fucked up and she needs to prove her worth. Dont be a boyfriend of convenience for her. Just focus on having a good night.
/r/seduction15/04/19 03:42 PM
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You definitely summed it up very well. Not so much a shit test as it is playful banter. Btw peanutbutter whiskey is amazing lol
/r/seduction15/04/19 01:44 AM
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See I do understand that point. But its just should I assume if sex doesn't happen quick that it's a no go? Like is it 3 dates or 5? Obviously every chick is different, I just dont know what a solid cutoff point is
/r/seduction11/04/19 06:52 AM
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Yeah I definitely agree. If I have the cashflow I'll look for a coach, right now knowing my personality and my skillset I really believe I can pull pretty hot girls, it's just breaking the approach anxiety and getting out of my head. Appreciate the feedback
/r/seduction09/04/19 06:52 AM
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