Thoughts on chasing after men?

urmyheartBeatStopR · 2019-04-28T14:25:44+00:00

Like... a guy seducing another guy?

Or are you talking about a girl seducing another guy?

caesarfecit · 2019-04-28T18:02:54+00:00

Depends on what you mean by "chase".

If you mean flirt with and seduce a guy, it's not only normal, it's to be encouraged. Love makes the world go around.

If you mean chase a little more literally, think of it this way. Do women have any respect or real attraction for a guy that is always available, trying too hard, showering them with attention and affection, or generally thirsty? Even if a girl will hang out with such a guy, they'll usually never feel attracted.

Guys are the same way. They'll sleep with a girl if she's physically attractive and makes herself available. But they aren't impressed by girls that chase them or fall into their laps.

There's nothing inherently wrong with a girl opening a guy, or leading an interaction, or even making the first move physically. Sometimes it's even necessary if you're gonna get somewhere a guy. Shy guys won't make the first move on a hot girl unless she basically makes it obvious she wants it.

But you've gotta make them work for it a little or it just doesn't feel earned. One of the few rules of seduction that applies equally to both genders.

puasd · 2019-04-29T15:56:28+00:00

Realize that seduction should be pretty subtle. Let attraction happen. Stigma is bullshit. If you like a dude or think hes attractive go for it

Title	Thoughts on chasing after men?
Author	squirrelinginthecity
Upvotes	5
Comments	7
Date	April 28, 2019 2:23 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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