most people on TRP say "no way, you don't owe women shit" or "if she doesn't want to pay drop her, find someone who will", but with some individual thinking I'm kinda going the other way. irrespective of tradition and what men are "supposed to do" etc., would an abundance mentality not be "I have so much money, who cares if you walk away after this date." overall, im 50/50 on this wanted to hear you guys thoughts.