I hear alot that women must do most of the talking, but what if the conversation is boring? Should I try to steer conversations to be sexual? or is it too try hard? Also it doesn't sound realistic that all conversations can always be sexual and nothing else.

I learned to be present in conversations and a good listener but women seem to want someone to speak to about their worries, and anxiety and generally tell their life story. How does a strong frame play into this? Ignore her, change the subject, or adjust to sexual body language and kino while shes blabbing about grocery shopping? How much does context matter? I usually listen for a bit and offer clear straight forward advice and then change the subject or I just leave. if am too bored.

Is it okay to listen and offer advice or do I become an emotional tampon for her to talk to? But I can't avoid these subjects from being brought up if I ask them how was your day going and they start a boring conversation, I asked for it, interrupting them right away seems odd, and I can't always make it sexual when she is talking about something boring.

And if I could I suppose it would be a transition to a sexual subject than "dropping a bomb" on her out of nowhere.

This is my observation regarding conversation with women in general, not necessarily just women am "gaming".