do you go for getting rejected or NEXT?

SirKolbath · 2019-12-25T16:45:47+00:00

Not giving you anything to work with is a rejection. Women who are interested build bridges, open doors, make excuses, and bend over backwards for the man in which they're interested.

If she isn't doing that she is not interested and you are being rejected, albeit subtly.

ThatCanReallyHappen · 2019-12-25T16:51:37+00:00

This is a great question, something that I go back and forth on. Sometimes I keep going until the hard rejection, because anything before that we're just "rejecting ourselves" with our perception of being rejected. The other time I don't want to give the woman the comfort power of rejecting, especially if she's attractive.

That said, once you get in that zen state of pickup, none of this matters. You'll nice on naturally. It's a nice state to get in, doesn't happen every time, but it does happen with momentum from my warm up or previous sets that day.

vondoom900 · 2019-12-25T17:05:27+00:00

This is dependant on the girl and ' the game.' I've literally withdrawn completely thinking I've been nexted only to fuck later or pushed on and been rejected out right.

Now I just go talk to someone else with them on the outside. Timing is everything etc... Old saying but ultimately true. I know 100% I've had hookups which have had zero to do with effort and everything to do with timing.

Massap24 · 2019-12-25T17:17:20+00:00

It’s a soft next for me and then maybe give her another chance to see if her attitude has changed or if she realized being a bitch will get her no where. But I refuse to keep giving them attention they aren’t earning.

mrbasic- · 2019-12-25T17:37:17+00:00

The Medium is The Message, young blood.

FinancialThanks1 · 2019-12-25T17:41:26+00:00

Any girl that’s a plate or below you should be able to soft next at the drop of a hat. Any inconvenience and you focus your attention elsewhere

Title	do you go for getting rejected or NEXT?
Author	runningwily
Upvotes	5
Comments	9
Date	December 25, 2019 4:36 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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