Do you guys believe that it's possible to be emotionally attached to a woman whilst still maintaining a successful LTR?

Red-Zen · 2015-05-09T20:11:33+00:00

Sure it is. Keep treating her like your little sister (western), or your daughter (roman), or your retarded cat. Whatever works for you. You can still love your retarded cat without letting it run your life.

Sepean · 2015-05-09T10:58:33+00:00

It works for me. But you REALLY have to grasp the fact that emotions or not, you still have to play her and be willing to next her. If you're weak, if you can't break up or be a dick to her because of feelings, then stay clear of LTRs. It's like leg day, it sucks and it hurts but men still do it.

OverdoseOfRedPill · 2015-05-09T09:29:40+00:00

You become vulnerable the moment you become emotionally attached. Success then means her not exploiting this vulnerability.

abdada · 2015-05-09T13:47:19+00:00

I reward an LTRs good behavior with signs of emotional connection but never lose frame or give it freely.

An LTR should be a balance of bonding and dread from the start. Don't dismiss the oxytocin bond but don't let it wipe away your testosterone foundation.

A woman desires to earn rewards and never get them freely. If she fulfills your needs well (not just sexual needs) you can give her some displays of your bond. If she withholds your needs or does them poorly or without enthusiasm, withhold.

Title	Do you guys believe that it's possible to be emotionally attached to a woman whilst still maintaining a successful LTR?
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Date	May 9, 2015 9:27 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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