I'm going on my first ever date soon. One of my date's friends started shittesting the fuck out of me. One of her questions was, "do you really like her? what do you like about her?". Of course, I didn't answer this because I knew anything I'd have said would've revolved back to my date. I know you're never supposed to think twice about a shit test. But, it truly made me think. I thought to myself, "Have I ever really liked a girl?". Honestly, not once have I gotten home from school and said to myself, "Dang, I wish I had X's number so we could talk. I wish I was hanging out with X right now". With guys, I think it all the time, but not once have I thought that with a girl. And then I got to thinking, "I enjoy my conversations with my date, but I don't think she's pretty to my standards". HOWEVER, in regards to bragging rights, she's the pinnacle. Basically, she's not my type physically, but she's a great trophy. She's someone who's achievements I could brag about for days. Do you guys ever date someone just for the trophy status? Does it make you feel bad if you do? How often do you find someone who has the combination of physical and mental traits you like? Because I'm feeling a sort of way about my first ever date just being in the hopes that something develops so I can brag.