Do you take plates on dates?

boy_named_su · 2018-07-25T00:08:23+00:00

You can take her out for drinks the first couple times, but generally a plate just means meet at your place n fuck

in fact a plate got mad at me for taking her out once. She was all "why are we wasting time getting drinks when we could be fucking?". So I don't take them out for drinks anymore

JaYogi · 2018-07-25T00:47:11+00:00

Curious as well. What if you want to do fun things with her? A plate is inviting me to some surprise outing.

FromTheCaveIntoLight · 2018-07-25T04:05:35+00:00

Do whatever the fuck you want. Just don’t over invest or give off the impression you want them to be something you actually don’t. The key is to make your intentions clear from the start. I take my plates out with me if I want company. Sometimes I want to go out for a nice dinner. I’ll take a plate and she’ll pay her half and then we fuck. They both don’t expect anything more than what we have. Sure they may stop seeing me bc I don’t commit or ask for commitment at some point, but plates break. Always be gaming.

mrHappyPotatoe · 2018-07-25T03:34:44+00:00

No. Plate is for fucking. You dont want her catch feelings. In 2 months she will pressure for ltr. Quality time is for ltr.

Title	Do you take plates on dates?
Author	Lunchabel97
Upvotes	4
Comments	12
Date	July 24, 2018 11:56 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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