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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP02/02/18 04:05 PM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP07/12/19 05:24 PM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP20/11/20 04:56 PM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP29/03/19 04:31 PM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP10/07/17 11:32 PM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP09/07/20 03:58 PM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP15/01/20 02:36 AM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP13/06/17 04:05 PM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP07/07/18 06:38 PM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP07/08/20 09:48 PM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP08/08/18 05:00 AM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP16/03/18 01:39 AM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP31/08/18 05:27 PM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP18/10/17 11:13 PM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP22/06/17 02:43 AM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP04/04/19 06:20 PM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP05/10/19 05:06 PM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP13/10/16 04:18 AM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP18/10/17 04:02 AM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP31/07/17 08:05 PM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP14/08/19 10:42 PM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP14/11/19 05:46 PM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP05/08/17 12:13 AM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP19/04/19 05:15 PM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP23/02/18 02:04 AM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP27/06/17 09:42 PM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP14/10/19 04:56 PM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP27/09/20 06:49 PM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP26/05/20 02:17 AM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP29/08/17 10:23 PM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP25/03/19 05:05 PM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP15/10/16 06:00 PM
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FromTheCaveIntoLight/r/askTRP07/06/18 07:42 PM
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Sounds like a typical coke induced hookup. It’s going to be a bit awkward for one or both parties that took part. As you said you were gone. She may not feel the same as what was spoken of that night. Chalk it up as a fun adventure and move on. What happens happens.
/r/seduction19/04/26 06:58 PM
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At least you posted a decent question with it I guess.
/r/seduction12/04/26 10:35 PM
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There’s def things you can do to help you even if you’re not really attractive. I get where you’re coming from but it’s better to criticize some of the “tools” ppl post about than just saying it’s easy if you’re attractive. Yea no shit. That opens the door but even good looking ppl can’t be socially inept if they want to maximize what they can get. Just a very low level, low energy post imo.
/r/seduction12/04/26 10:31 PM
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Why make this point? It’s not like it’s a revelation. Sounds like jealousy and self pity.
/r/seduction12/04/26 10:13 PM
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Ok… and if you were born wealthy you wouldn’t have to work… What’s your point beyond sounding like a bitch? There’s always someone better looking, richer, more charismatic, better at all aspects of life than you… now what? Are you better than you were yesterday?
/r/seduction12/04/26 10:12 PM
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AI bullshit lol.
/r/seduction24/03/26 01:02 PM
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This is the move. It’s either a yes, no or no response. But it does something far more important: shows you’re not fucking around. Girls respect this even if she doesn’t do it right away. This is also very polarizing. No games. Straight to the chase. Will get rid of your neediness so either you get ass or can move on to other ass. Good luck.
/r/seduction09/03/26 11:54 PM
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You learned theory that can happen is this everytime, and it’s not that bad. Good job. Do it 200 more times and you’ll have your pick.
/r/seduction07/03/26 07:29 PM
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If every guy could fuck every hoe, it wouldn’t be called “game.” This whole post smells of insecurity and broken frame. My balls dried up when you told her you’re broke for fuck sake. You work at a club. That’s dope. That’s social status. You should be plowing girls from the club on the regular. Something is seriously wrong if you’re not. You can talk to 200 girls a weekend at a club and calibrate your game but you sound like a newbie.
/r/seduction21/02/26 06:21 PM
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AI bullshit. If it works for you, great. But most of the guys here will have to do the 3 dates to close. It’s just statistics. If any of what you have ChatGPT generate is true, you’re an outlier. Not setting a new method or standard.
/r/seduction16/02/26 05:36 PM
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You don’t get play on the reg. You even asking this question shows you don’t have the metal down to do it.
/r/seduction15/02/26 07:27 PM
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3 and it was almost too much. 2 is great while still being active bc one will drop off and you need to be ready to fill that spot. You’ll always have a main one though that is funner, more responsive or just awesome in bed. Just remember, its just your turn. Enjoy it.
/r/seduction09/02/26 02:03 PM
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Fucking AI
/r/seduction30/01/26 12:11 PM
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This. Was a mild shit test. If you wanted to smash and dash, who gives a fuckkkkkkk. Been with enough woman to know this exact situation and if you ignored it, probably would have got ass for a night or maybe a few weeks/months. Cant be holding a girl to high standards when you arent looking to lock her down. She wasn’t yours and you may have missed your turn.
/r/seduction27/01/26 10:38 PM
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Talk to 10 new girls. Maybe this one sees and actually thinks you have a penis. For now, she sees you as a gf. Move on.
/r/seduction25/01/26 03:25 PM
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Just don’t fuck up and do anything creepy or say anything weird. So long as this is a real girl and you don’t get robbed and jumped by 3 dudes, her inviting you over is 80% boner time guaranteed. Just be interesting and escalate regularly. Light touching turns to a playful grab or tickle turns into dogging her out on the couch. Simple.
/r/seduction15/01/26 01:40 AM
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You missed a layup Move in or move on immediately but probably already a missed opp
/r/seduction14/01/26 11:23 PM
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S&P
/r/TheRedPill13/01/26 06:18 PM
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Nailed it
/r/seduction12/01/26 02:25 PM
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Listen. The magic is in the details you can retain and recall.
/r/seduction12/01/26 03:02 AM
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During peak it was 4. Which was too much. More than that is impossible for any stretch of time. 2-3 is the magic number bc one is always going to be the best out of the rest. 3rd is always the one with the least interest and the one you rotate the most. 2 is the one you see once a week. 1 is the most committed and enthusiastic. Keep your 1 for as long as possible. Try to make your 2 a 1, and rotate your 3 until she’s a 2 or 1.
/r/seduction17/08/25 07:06 PM
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This means you’re not polarizing enough. Not taking enough risks or bold actions/comments. Not hitting them in the feels.
/r/seduction26/06/25 03:04 PM
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Congrats, you now know what true rejection feels like. Keep doing it and get better at irl game. Level up.
/r/seduction19/06/25 03:54 PM
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To the man, the outcome is the same. Shy and not spoken too isn’t different than rejection without the explanation.
/r/seduction05/05/25 12:39 AM
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Great write up and parallel
/r/TheRedPill15/04/25 11:13 PM
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Embrace rejection. It’s the learning curve.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/25 06:23 PM
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Biggest turning points for me was, don’t hesitate, always assume attraction until hard no, and be bold. Even if you fail, doing all those makes for a good story at the least, epic story at best.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/25 06:48 PM
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You hesitate you masturbate.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/25 04:36 PM
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This is already proven. Yes.
/r/seduction03/03/25 06:05 PM
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Great job. Love how you connected the studying of shit tests to that of an exam. It is a numbers game and learning to calibrate and once you have a good foundation, it’s like knowing the answer when you get them. You smile on the inside bc you already have the “script.” Nice pull, nice write up.
/r/seduction22/02/25 08:05 PM
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Friend zone brotha. Move along.
/r/seduction20/02/25 01:38 AM
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This is so pathetic on your part it’s hilarious haha. Thanks for the laugh. You did everything wrong. Like everything. Any opposite decision from what you did should have led to a better outcome.
/r/seduction15/02/25 11:18 PM
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Hoeflation on the rise and been speedrunning for the better part of a decade.
/r/seduction13/02/25 03:34 PM
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Gotta give some rocks to get the gold
/r/seduction08/02/25 05:17 PM
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But did you take action? Reading alone is mundane. You can’t fix a car problem by reading what the owners manual says. You have to implement and do.
/r/seduction30/01/25 05:01 PM
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Game and luck don’t belong in the same sentence. If you can’t game where you’re at, your game won’t make a difference in a different city
/r/seduction22/01/25 09:40 PM
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K
/r/seduction07/01/25 11:11 PM
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Bold and unique. Both 2 traits that immediately spark woman’s interest! Great job OP.
/r/seduction07/01/25 10:42 PM
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This post is fucking wack. Learn to be a man and how to take rejections, learn from them, adjust your craft. This shit is like cheat codes in a video game, might help but you’ll never beat the truly good players. And if they do help you get a date, the girl will immediately sense your underlying true identity
/r/seduction03/01/25 02:40 PM
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Who gives a fuck! Women don’t even know what they want the majority of the time. Be awesome, look awesome, lean in your strengths and work on your weaknesses and there will always be woman that will fuck you and brag to their gf about. Trying to be something your not, or change into what you think women want, is a sure fire way to not actually create your own frame, which is the true equilibrium in the market place.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/25 04:22 PM
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Well written with great examples and explanations. Good shit! I always did well with online and it wasn’t bc I was tall and devilishly handsome. It mostly had to do with exactly what you cover here. Keep it simple, abundance, flirt, meet, escalate, close.
/r/seduction24/10/24 07:50 PM
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It was always the hunt that was the peak. Never the act of sex or the follow up. Loved meeting a lot of woman, learned a lot, had great experiences that will always stay with me, but it is something you really need to consider if you want it indefinitely. But the real benefit of it comes when or if you do decide to settle down. You know exactly how to vet properly. You know quickly if it’s worth more of your time. And as you mentioned, you have a checklist of how to attract. Most don’t even comp…
/r/seduction22/10/24 07:08 PM
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You can ask. Good luck getting a yes. Go be the pioneer
/r/seduction04/09/24 05:40 PM
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Crushed more in my late 20’s to mid 30’s than I ever thought possible. It was extremely fun. While my buddies were settling down, I was racking it up. Get in shape, have a decent job, wear cloths that fit and have good hygiene. Don’t say stupid shit and you should, at the least, have your shot at every average girl out there.
/r/seduction08/08/24 02:48 PM
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Here’s the thing with this question, it could be you. It could be the girls themselves. Doesn’t matter. The way around this is to not let them around your friends quickly or without qualifying they earned it. I great my friends almost like family and I don’t introduce just any girl to my family. I’ve always made it a point to let them introduce me to their friends first. And I act accordingly and then they get glowing reviews from their friends, further validating their decision to date you. Onc…
/r/seduction22/07/24 04:23 PM
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You don’t have to do anything. But if you want more success, at least touch (hand, arm, shoulder, thigh) and see how she responds. Tell you a lot of how she feels about you. So in my mind, it’s a must.
/r/seduction15/06/24 03:48 PM
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This is a great post very reminiscent of the golden age of this sub.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/24 04:58 PM
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Assume she is until she says otherwise. Even then, you can be bold and continue until you ge laid or she says fuck off. Always assume attraction until hard no. This is rookie stuff.
/r/seduction10/06/24 06:20 PM
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This is exactly it.
/r/seduction08/06/24 02:28 PM
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Plausible deniability. “It just happened.”
/r/seduction31/05/24 02:58 AM
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Finally, a quality post. Good shit.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/24 02:38 PM
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Downvote this shit to oblivion. You clearly have no clue what this sub is/was about. You missed the golden years where the ogs would dissect the shit out of this and show how unhinged you really are. I just don’t give a fuck too but anyone that’s not OP reading this garbage, move on.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/24 10:17 PM
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Noise!!!
/r/seduction03/07/23 03:41 AM
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The hunt, to me, is usually far more fun than the act itself. The “game” part of it is what I miss sometimes but with all the bodies, what I truly learned is true attraction matters. Your ideal woman matters. Learning what you will not tolerate matters. And learning how all females are more similar than not, matters.
/r/seduction11/06/23 04:39 PM
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This is a great fucking summary of the true path to manhood utilizing trp. Well written. Short and concise. I have done the same as you 2017 up until 2021. Currently 35. Solely focused now on more money, more side hustles and property investments than I am woman. Have a ltr of 2 years and that’s it’s own battle but she’s good to me for the most part. I do miss the hunt though and when I’m out of town, I pick right back up with gaming to keep my blade sharp.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/23 07:15 PM
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Always assume attraction until you get a hard no. Very easy to say, hard to implement but one of the most important steps in trp growth of an individual.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/23 03:33 PM
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This is just a false statement lol.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/23 10:05 PM
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It’s Reddit lol. My dog just loves me and wants to chill lol. What I find funny and interesting is the girls never said a word about her being in the room lol. Not one. Ever.
/r/seduction28/09/22 10:39 PM
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I too use my dog as a wing. Use the tools you have. My dog likes watching too. It’s hilarious.
/r/seduction28/09/22 10:07 PM
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Tough titty!!!
/r/PussyPassDenied01/08/22 06:38 PM
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Thank you very much for the reply! Solid advise.
/r/askTRP27/06/21 02:52 PM
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Gym, finances, career, passion, hobbies, gym, bang new girls when you feel up to it.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 10:41 PM
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Wish I had at least one fwb. Working on it but I tend to have cycles of 2-3 plates and one will leave, I pick up another one, but 4-6 months later, they are all gone within like 2 weeks then I have a dry spell for a month or so and back to at least 2 plates. Lost both my plates recently and haven’t been able to find anything new. Money, fitness and hobbies on my plate for the immediate future and hopefully something easy falls into my lap at some point.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 09:41 PM
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Lol rookie numbers
/r/askTRP20/11/20 10:42 PM
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This
/r/askTRP20/11/20 10:41 PM
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This seems to be the move to make. Focus more on fitness, look at advancing career try and find new hobbies and be ready to slay in the spring (hopefully). Girls have been extra flakey here in ny as well and it’s not worth it when we can focus on other things. Just happy I’m not the only one going through it.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 10:41 PM
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Yup sucks but will try and make the best of it or just go monk for a while
/r/askTRP20/11/20 09:01 PM
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It’s a girl that posts in fda
/r/askTRP20/11/20 09:00 PM
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Yup! Wanna fuck? You seem like a real good time
/r/askTRP20/11/20 05:59 PM
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You clearly haven’t read one thing on the mains sidebar. Stop fucking your ex and go talk to 10 new girls. Obv she is trash. Stop sticking your dick in trash
/r/askTRP20/11/20 04:47 PM
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Let it go and move on. Take that anger to the gym and get bigger. Anything else is a distraction to you and your live/mission. Fuck em as they say
/r/askTRP30/10/20 01:17 AM
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Hoes be ya friends, hoes be ya enemies
/r/PussyPassDenied18/10/20 11:25 PM
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Wow you’ve nailed my experience over the past 4 years using dating apps to a T. Have 3 dates set up this week from apps but think it is time to hang it up and do it the old fashion way. Just a little tough with covid.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/20 01:40 AM
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Who gives a fuck lol
/r/askTRP15/10/20 12:50 AM
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She’s still interested but next day probably too soon. Wait too long and that poor performance may cause her to lose interest. Tough situation honestly. But if you need an answer and one I’d give to my buddies is yes you’d like to do it again and you’ll let her know what your schedule is for next week. Monday hit her with a day and time.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 12:12 AM
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Quality troll I’ll give you that
/r/askTRP30/09/20 06:35 AM
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Not too long ago I posted a similar post. I got pretty much the same response from everyone tht I’ll give you. Today women are fickle and have more options than ever. Sometimes we go on hot streaks and sometimes we all have cold streaks. It’s part of the game and all you can do is move on and keep trying. It’s a numbers game. If you go 0-5, try another 5, then another. After I got this advise I was able to finally kick a long cold streak (1.5 months) and now have 2 new plates.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 05:22 AM
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Good reality check and you are right. Def overthinking. Just never had a girl not reach out at some point after sex has happened. But I’m probably just one of many of her plates so shouldn’t really care unless she starts flaking or we stop banging. Thanks.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 07:34 PM
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Talk to everyone. That’s how you play it. Doesn’t have to be just girls. Increase your circle and don’t be gender specific with hobbies. Dudes have friends that are girls and girls love a man that can open up their entire social circle. Be curious in everything you try and don’t be scared to ask people for tips or whatever
/r/askTRP10/09/20 07:40 PM
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Did you socialize or attempt too?
/r/askTRP10/09/20 04:49 AM
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End of month is quite generous
/r/PussyPassDenied29/07/20 12:46 PM
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Solid reminder of fuck yes or it’s a no
/r/askTRP10/07/20 02:49 AM
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Damn my genetics. No excuses but 6 foot or even 5’11 would add so many more notches lol
/r/askTRP10/07/20 02:48 AM
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I like this strategy. Ganna change it up. Thank you.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 02:46 AM
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No response guaranteed
/r/PussyPassDenied03/07/20 05:26 PM
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Probably 32+ years old, still think she has the looks and attention of a girl a decade younger and couldn’t find a man in her prime to fit the bill and hasn’t compromised since. Say hello to all your new cats soon enough
/r/PussyPassDenied03/07/20 05:25 PM
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Wtf lol
/r/PussyPassDenied18/06/20 03:00 PM
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I agree that as a man, you should lead. Do an activity you’d do anyway with our without a date. If she wants to tag along, great. If not, I’m still doing me. As far as pay for everything, never. I don’t owe a stranger a dime. Woman work now and can pay for their own stuff.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/06/20 02:51 PM
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You’ll never know unless you polarize and make a move. No other person will know if she actually likes you. Hell, she may not even know. But she’s interested. Make a move. Be a man. Lead. Slay. Repeat.
/r/seduction06/06/20 07:28 PM
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Don’t respond to her last text. Give it some time and see if she reaches out. If she doesn’t, won’t hurt to throw her a text with plans to meet mid week. If no response or flake again, next.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 06:22 PM
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Never kick with the same side leg you just threw a punch with
/r/PussyPassDenied04/06/20 03:26 PM
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Weak troll
/r/PussyPassDenied02/06/20 07:33 PM
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Stop looking at others and look at yourself. Improve. There
/r/askTRP02/06/20 07:29 PM
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I was you almost 5 years ago. Read sidebar. Read top on this and the main sub, lift, mediate, journal, create, do something you’ve wanted to do, but haven’t. Then repeat until all this becomes habit. See you on the other side. It’s a lot brighter over here. Hoes like this become a Thursday night fun time, not a year and a half waste of time.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 05:59 AM
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Should have casted her from the beginning.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/05/20 10:11 PM
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Thank you this worked perfectly
/r/askTRP26/05/20 03:45 PM
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Perfect answer and it worked thank you
/r/askTRP26/05/20 03:45 PM
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Bail
/r/askTRP26/05/20 02:26 AM
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Without fuck ups, you can’t learn. Learn from this and go find 2-3 more plates. You sound like you’ll learn from this, unlike most men out there.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/20 05:24 PM
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Needed to see this today. Well written op.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/20 03:55 PM
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I did that to a hot 30’s plate I had a while back but she was getting wayyy to attached and non stop texting. One day I just texted her we should just be friends. Her response was priceless: “ummm... so do I delete your number? No one ever rejected me like that before.” I told her do what you want with my number. She threw a couple more texts at me to try and flip the situation and asking what she did to make me not want her. At that moment I realized just how little girls actually get rejected …
/r/askTRP14/05/20 08:55 PM
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I’m in the best shape of my life but I’ve never and still don’t have a six pack. Flat stomach with the v shape, yes, but have never had an actual six pack. I’ve been upping cardio but any recommendations on how to get to the final level of a 6 pack?
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 05:41 PM
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Jawline does not equal jaw muscles...
/r/askTRP18/02/20 05:54 AM
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We’re all playing checkers op playing chess hahaha
/r/askTRP21/01/20 07:27 PM
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This
/r/askTRP17/01/20 04:11 PM
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You did you’re future self a big favor. Be proud. I know it sucks now but new opportunities are in front of you. Focus on you for a while and don’t over analyze too much. You did great.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 02:18 PM
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I like this. Her friend did match with me right before I met this girl so I do have one in mind. It is a ballsy move.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 01:44 PM
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Damn that’s a good one. Already sent a text though wish this was commented earlier. I agree it wouldn’t of hurt. Either I hang more or I’m in the same position. Will keep this for the future though. Thanks for the feedback.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 01:42 PM
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Yet here you are, analyzing me lol. That’s cute.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 01:14 PM
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Thanks man. As much as it stings right now, I do feel a sense of motivation to crush the gym tomorrow, and the next day and the day after that. To work on my money and find a better one. Just have to get over this momentary “slump.”
/r/askTRP15/01/20 05:41 AM
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Thanks for the positive outlook but we are in NY if she leaves probably never see her again. Just coming to terms with losing a great plate and making sure I handled it the best I can.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 05:09 AM
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I don’t think you replied to the right message lol
/r/askTRP15/01/20 05:08 AM
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Thanks for the honestly. You’re right never mine just my turn. Still trying to get over the “last of my turn part.” Funny how some plates can still bring you down a peg or two. I have no regrets and we had an amazing time together. Sucks that it’s ending, but have to appreciate the good, take the bad and move on I guess.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 03:59 AM
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As much as I’ve made progress and keep my emotions at bay with most of my plates, tough when a good one breaks. Shit does happen. Life goes on.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 03:56 AM
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Thanks for the advice man, much appreciated.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 03:55 AM
5

Thanks brotha
/r/askTRP15/01/20 03:51 AM
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Saved can’t wait to watch this.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/20 01:18 AM
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You love a woman who cheats? Bold strategy...
/r/askTRP21/12/19 06:42 PM
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This
/r/askTRP21/12/19 06:10 AM
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So you know trp principles and your form of punishment to a plate is spanking? All my plates love that and is no way to punish. Without knowing exactly what she did, I too, would recommend withdraw attention.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 08:53 PM
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Also recommend ego is the enemy by Ryan holiday
/r/askTRP11/12/19 08:28 PM
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Standard fare. Although I forgot to include that I did turn her down for a round two. My grandma isn’t doing to well and my family will likely have to make a decision in the coming days so my mind has been occupied with that so I just wasn’t feeling more sex. She is aware of my grandmas situation but wondering if even with that, she got upset bc we didn’t have sex again...
/r/askTRP07/12/19 09:23 PM
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So ignore and wait
/r/askTRP07/12/19 06:33 PM
7

I like this plan
/r/askTRP07/12/19 06:32 PM
3

Figure she’s a big girl and if she wanted to tell me something she could herself.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 05:37 PM
1

Thanks
/r/askTRP07/12/19 05:36 PM
1

“You let them down” She’s projecting her feelings of the baby daddy that bailed bc she is probably crazy
/r/PussyPassDenied07/12/19 03:30 AM
2

No one mentioning the dude on the bottom right is shaving her legs....
/r/PussyPassDenied06/12/19 03:59 PM
2

It is and it isn’t. If the homeless person isn’t actively looking for a job, hustling to make money, then yes, it’s not going to happen. You want to get to the finish line without running the race. Today, don’t open your browser and jerk off. Do something else. Read, write, go workout. Keep doing it say after day and you’ll get back on track. It’s will power. You know when you are taking the easy road. I have recently fallen victim to this too. I stopped reading and writing the past 5 days out o…
/r/askTRP03/12/19 05:05 PM
1

Do the opposite of what you have been doing. Start now.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 04:48 PM
1

LTR crushed me, was alone and had no idea who i was or how to make it better, googling some stuff which got me to reddit then kind of just stumbled here somehow. One of my better findings in life.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 03:52 AM
1

You my friend, are wise. Thanks again.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 11:55 PM
1

My man. Appreciate you.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 08:31 PM
1

Learned to never say more than you need. Short, to the point texts. Exact text: “hey I’m busy Saturday how about Tuesday?”
/r/askTRP15/11/19 08:27 PM
1

I’m busy
/r/askTRP15/11/19 08:26 PM
1

Update: texted I was busy Saturday offered a different day and got no response. Just let it ride right?
/r/askTRP15/11/19 08:22 PM
1

Man this is sidebar material. Much appreciated and update, she just texted me this: Hey boo 😘still okay for Saturday? I love this forum and all of us helping each other out. The only me would have texted her days ago... actually the old me wouldn’t have even met her to begin with. Think I’ll take your advice and not see her Saturday and propose another time. Thanks again.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 10:17 PM
1

Follow up question: if she does reach out and wants to hang Saturday should I meet or do something else and not see her to Kim if pull away as you say?
/r/askTRP14/11/19 09:27 PM
1

Fucking brilliant. Thank you.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 07:47 PM
1

Thanks for the reminder brother
/r/askTRP14/11/19 07:05 PM
1

Great advice. Will keep ignoring and plan on going on the hunt this weekend. Thanks brother.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 06:05 PM
1

Great advice thank you, and I def plan on going on the hunt this weekend. 2 plates is usually all I can manage at one time with work and other activities. 3 at most but I knew the advice you gave was the way to go just always nice to confirm here so I stick to it. Plus going out this weekend takes care of 2 problems: finding new plate, and getting plate 1 out of my thoughts. Def right about the ones that show less interest getting to you more. Funny how that works but I’m getting better at it. T…
/r/askTRP14/11/19 06:03 PM
2

Who’s this is always a good one. She may just be fishing for you to respond. If you do you may not get a response back. So who’s this kind of throws them off and may make her interested again. That or just set up a meet. No need for anything witty or overthought.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 11:07 PM
1

Read sidebar
/r/askTRP02/11/19 04:57 PM
1

Bold strategy cotton, let’s see if it pays off for him
/r/askTRP23/10/19 03:10 AM
9

Wtf lol
/r/askTRP16/10/19 08:06 PM
2

Thanks for the advice and response brother. Won’t reach out to her this week and work on other options.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 02:50 AM
1

I think we are already at the fwb stage so I should ease off and stop initiating contact for a while and hang with other plate? Work on finding more Plates? Thanks.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 09:15 PM
1

Exactly she’s a good plate and I feel the same I’m not that selfish with good plates where even if I get off, I don’t care if they don’t. I do have plates that I don’t care about but she isn’t one of them. Thanks for the info will def check it out and try your recommendation. Much appreciated man. Thank you.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 11:31 PM
1

I have not asked her outright yet and was considering this. Def not going to do it over text but will plan to have her over soon and when things get going I will try some old and new techniques and ask is she likes this or that. That’s really why I came here with this question. I figure if she told me this she still somewhat interested and wants to make it work otherwise she could have just let me leave and ghosted so I just want to have some type of gameplan for next time and I think what you m…
/r/askTRP05/10/19 10:09 PM
1

Possibly.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 07:18 PM
2

Thanks for the reply brother
/r/askTRP05/10/19 07:18 PM
2

Thanks brother
/r/askTRP05/10/19 07:17 PM
2

Lol
/r/askTRP05/10/19 06:13 PM
4

Will check out the video but I don’t buy into the don’t eat pussy thing. I do it bc I like it. Thanks for the response
/r/askTRP05/10/19 05:37 PM
2

Thanks for the reply and she loves sucking my dick so I’ll take that as a good sign and she still wants to hang out so I guess it can’t be all bad. You’re right I’ve def analyzed this to the end. I would just prefer to cam her cum lol. And I eat pussy bc I like to and I’m good at it, or so I’ve been told. I don’t listen to the “eating pussy is beta shit.” I do what I want and if I want to munch, I munch. Thanks again for easing the blow my ego took. As always it’s just my turn so I’ll ride out w…
/r/askTRP05/10/19 05:36 PM
2

Solid rp truth brother happy hunting
/r/askTRP05/10/19 03:37 AM
2

I needed to read this today. like op I’ve been doing well. Have 2 really solid awesome plates and 1 that is literally just for sex that I don’t care at all about. I’ve recently found myself like one of my mains more. A lot more. Came here looking for how to keep myself in check, and you provided what I needed. Thank you.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 02:06 PM
3

It happens. A girls attitude can change on a dime for an infinite number of reasons. I too went through something similar. Parking lot of bar after a great first date she was on top of me in my backseat I get her too off making out aggressively and every time I try to go further I’m met with a no. Try 3 times, same reaction. Cut it short so I didn’t get in a bad position of not listening to her request even though she was dry humping my clock and liked what I was doing. Two days later I try to s…
/r/askTRP06/07/19 04:20 AM
0

Perfect play. Next date smash so long as you don’t fuck up
/r/seduction04/07/19 09:18 PM
1

Always
/r/askTRP20/04/19 03:15 AM
1

Thanks for the response and reassurance
/r/askTRP19/04/19 08:54 PM
1

Good point. Time to smash.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 08:02 PM
1

Giving my address to a girl (hopefully) that I’ve never met. Cautionary but as someone stated I’ll give her intersections to make sure it’s actually her. Not trying to get robbed but trying to smash obviously.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 07:20 PM
1

Smart thinking. Thank you
/r/askTRP19/04/19 06:01 PM
1

Will do
/r/askTRP19/04/19 06:01 PM
1

Or show up and be some dudes that rob me. Hence why I have always met a girl first. But also never had a match just say they wanted to come over immediately either. New territory.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 05:23 PM
1

Not about that. More about giving my address to a girl I’ve never met.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 05:18 PM
1

Done and done. And that’s the explanation I was looking for.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 09:04 PM
1

Well said. Thank you.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 06:25 PM
8

Notice the 23 messages. Women have abundance. Just a reminder when you think a girl is special, she’s talking to 20 other dudes trying to get the same thing.
/r/seduction03/04/19 10:05 PM
1

I think I’m ganna go out with some buddies and run thi exact plan next week.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 07:14 PM
2

Will do mate. Thanks again and have a good weekend.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 05:32 PM
1

I’m not that desperate for pussy to where I can’t make her wait a week. But I am currently down to once plate, which is never good. So yea there’s that but I do have a coffee date with a cute Latina on Sunday so I have other options
/r/askTRP29/03/19 05:31 PM
2

Again, I appreciate the feedback and I think me withdrawing some attention at this point is a good thing. Hell she could be banging other guys rn and just making me wait to see if I’m that kind of guy. Fuck that noise.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 05:28 PM
1

I appreciate the response and advise
/r/askTRP29/03/19 05:23 PM
1

This would be her last chance. She already has 2
/r/askTRP29/03/19 05:22 PM
4

This is the route I’m thinking is best. Thank you.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 05:21 PM
1

This is a solid answer. FYI last night was date #4 so that’s why I’m hesitant going forward. Also, I def didn’t give up to early the first time. I pushed until it was a solid no. She even thanked me the next day for “respecting her decision.” Last night I could have tried a bit harder I guess but figured last night was a def. I guess now it’s just a matter of is the juice worth the squeeze. I think I’ll take your advise and say I’m busy tonight and try one last time next week. Thanks brother.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 05:20 PM
1

That’s exactly how I’ve played it the past two times. So I think I’m at my ropes end. I could have her come over tonight and try one last time I guess. But then again, don’t want to look desperate and I just saw her last night with no good results. She’s getting my attention and I’m not getting the pussy. I guess I just have to decide if it’s worth one more shot or maybe a soft next for this weekend is in order for her to “get it.”
/r/askTRP29/03/19 05:11 PM
1

I’ve dealt with LMR and usually the pull away and return works. Never had it happen twice before that’s all. Don’t want to keep trying if she’s just going to keep teasing. Could be spending that time with other prospects.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 05:09 PM
2

Pushed too much and rejected. She came over had her in bed hand on my cock and my hand down pants, pushed me away, I cooled off went to kitchen came back repeat made it same distance before she stopped. At this point I told her I had to go to sleep bc if work and had her leave.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 06:16 PM
0

It’s def concerning
/r/askTRP25/03/19 05:53 PM
1

Couldn’t get by LRM at my place so I had her leave that night. Didn’t want to push it too hard. Seemed to work bc she was texting me non stop the days following and I was sick this past weekend so didn’t ya g out but that brings me to the conversation last night. She is 24 I’m 31. Met at a coffee shop.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 05:50 PM
2

This!
/r/askTRP13/02/19 03:08 PM
0

Is she breathing? Then 99% she did
/r/askTRP17/12/18 08:09 PM
3

Sounds psychotic
/r/askTRP14/11/18 09:27 PM
1

Sure
/r/seduction08/10/18 09:33 PM
1

Exactly what I said in my post. If you can’t keep your mouth shut, don’t do it. It’s risky. But it has its benefits (ironically some of the same benefits as riding a motorcycle).
/r/seduction08/10/18 09:29 PM
1

Your advise is similar to someone asking how to ride a motorcycle and if they should. You don’t know how to ride, never have and think they are unsafe so OP shouldn’t do it. You aren’t speaking from experience. It’s risky sure, could fuck up future schooling, could have her end up in jail, could make math class a bit awkward. That’s OPs choice. You’ve given your advice and I’ve given mine. It’s over lol.
/r/seduction08/10/18 09:14 PM
1

So how is this different than Fuckin any other girl? Once you fuck any girl, there’s ganna be drama. Yes, they all act irrationally. You act like you’re the first to discover this. Again, OP asked if anyone has fucked a teacher and how to go about it. I have and told him if he chooses to do it, don’t fucking tell a soul. You on the other hand, have no experience with what OP is asking. You’re just arguing with me to argue so I’m done. Have a good one mate.
/r/seduction08/10/18 09:02 PM
1

I didn’t say that. If she acts irrationally, she gets in trouble more so than him. Jesus you need to chill. I’ve had sexual with a teacher. I’ve seen how it goes and yes it’s risky. I simply gave first hand advice to someone who asked. You on the other hand have 0 experience and are theorizing.
/r/seduction08/10/18 08:56 PM
1

That’s her problem. He has the leverage. She’s in the position of authority and the one making a poor choice.
/r/seduction08/10/18 08:36 PM
1

He ain’t trying to date the broad (if he is than I highly urge against any relationship) he’s trying to get his dick wet. I’m merely advising the best way to go about it.
/r/seduction08/10/18 08:20 PM
1

She’s exposing herself to far more drama then OP. She’s not going to go around bragging. She wants a young guy to fuck in secret. If he can keep it that way, it’s awesome and is beneficial to both parties.
/r/seduction08/10/18 08:03 PM
1

Every girl you sleep with brings drama lol
/r/seduction08/10/18 08:00 PM
1

Reason? Have you ever done it? Any experience with it?
/r/seduction08/10/18 07:54 PM
17

Yes, be discreet as fuck. Never tell a soul. That’s the toughest part bc you’ll want to tell everyone but once it’s out, she gets in trouble and your the reason why. If you can’t do it without talking, don’t.
/r/seduction08/10/18 07:41 PM
2

Stop thinking about what others think and do what you want. Older women are fun when your younger. They teach you some shit. Should have pulled the trigger
/r/askTRP08/10/18 06:17 PM
1

Sounds like my ex who was BPD and it fucked me up something bad. The only good I got out of that relationship was my dog and finding trp. Get out now and save yourself. Bpd girls are like heroin, it’s best to never try it, but if you do the next best thing is to never try it again.
/r/askTRP29/09/18 02:03 AM
2

Fuckin epic writing skills to really bring home a key concept of TRP. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 02:56 AM
1

Thanks for the response. I’m just ganna tell her I like it how it is now. If she’s doesn’t, all well. Like you said, plates break.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 06:22 PM
2

Thanks for the response
/r/askTRP31/08/18 06:20 PM
2

Love your response. She’s 27 I’m 30 been smashing for 3.5 months. She’s a hb8 fit, smart and we have a lot on common but I’m not looking for a relationship and even if I was, way to early to know if she would make a great gf. I’ve been on trp for 2 years, current plate count, including her, is 3 but I’m losing one at the end of the week to college so it will only be 2 by Monday. She a great plate, slits bills, sex every meeting, cooks for me, doesn’t bug me with small talk. Obviously she is near…
/r/askTRP31/08/18 05:50 PM
3

One of the best posts I’ve seen in a while. This is ow it’s done!
/r/askTRP16/08/18 01:56 AM
10

youre on social media right now...
/r/askTRP14/08/18 05:52 AM
3

shit post
/r/askTRP14/08/18 05:51 AM
1

I edited the OP. She answered but I didn’t get he answer I wanted lol.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 01:17 PM
1

i dont understand what youre asking. Every date i set up is one on one. I dont say, "hey, you and your friends meet me at x at y."
/r/askTRP09/08/18 02:53 AM
2

dont smoke so much weed. hit the gym religiously. start investing money at 18. Play literally half the amount of video games you do now and pick up a martial art or other hobby with the new time. Go to the library and just pick out books that interest you and read.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 12:35 AM
1

Wrong. It works most times. No where do I mention anything about friends. I’m going whether she joins or not.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 11:19 PM
1

Def won’t be dong that
/r/askTRP08/08/18 07:58 PM
2

Lesson learned.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 07:57 PM
1

Perfect answer. Thank you
/r/askTRP08/08/18 07:56 PM
1

listen to the dude above but change the last part of your text to "see you there."
/r/askTRP03/08/18 10:11 PM
3

If you read the sidebar and recommended books you wouldn’t be asking this question. There are girls that go out with the intention of just getting attention and free drinks that end up getting dicked down. There are girls who go out looking for dick who end up getting attention and free drinks from beta billy. Girls minds change as quickly and as often as they blink. It’s up to you to make them want to be dicked down. It isn’t something you can do to every girl, but you should never be buying dr…
/r/askTRP26/07/18 02:00 AM
3

by talking to as many as possible and vetting them. jesus does anyone read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 12:58 AM
1

Jesus read sidebar. Should have plowed her in the bathroom after busting some sick dance moves.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 04:15 AM
2

Block her. Fuck your fake id excuse bullshit.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 04:09 AM
3

Do whatever the fuck you want. Just don’t over invest or give off the impression you want them to be something you actually don’t. The key is to make your intentions clear from the start. I take my plates out with me if I want company. Sometimes I want to go out for a nice dinner. I’ll take a plate and she’ll pay her half and then we fuck. They both don’t expect anything more than what we have. Sure they may stop seeing me bc I don’t commit or ask for commitment at some point, but plates break. …
/r/askTRP25/07/18 04:05 AM
3

Go out bring up ex girlfriend and how much she hurt you and how much you still love her and then cry. Didn’t stop fake crying or lift your head up until she has walked out.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 03:59 AM
20

Keep them, get two new plates that fuck.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 03:48 AM
1

Usually a “hi, I’m _____ “ is my go to. Works pretty well. Keep reading side bar. It’s not about a line or some all working routine. Trp is about much more than that. Once you figure that out, you’ll realize that a 31 yr old is primed to fuck 18-24 year olds. They already want it. They may just not you right now. Work on yourself and that will change.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 03:42 AM
2

No doubt brotha. And remember, when in doubt err on the side of boldness.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 03:39 AM
2

Keep lifting, you should be a stud, fuck cute. You’re a perfect height just add muscle. You should be around 185-190. let your charisma flow, but you’re right, never self deprecate. Make sure your cloths fit and walk around like you have a 12 inch dick. Being taller, you’re already presumed to be more alpha than someone my height (5’7), so you’re starting ahead. The key is to not let yourself be your own worst enemy.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 01:32 AM
2

This is better worded then your op. Are you naturally funny or witty? If so, use that. How old are you? How do you dress now? Are you charismatic or are you shy? How tall are you? Weight and age?
/r/askTRP25/07/18 01:01 AM
2

And I’m saying if a girl calls you cute, try and fuck her...
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:10 AM
3

In person: don’t be butthurt, but also don’t be Mr. Nice guy. Be indifferent.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:09 AM
2

You’re overthinking. If you’re getting called cute, great. Work on your game and escalation. I get called an ass, a jerk, an idiot, a piece of shit - but I fuck those same girls sometimes. If you’re concerned about being called cute or how to game bc you’re the “cute guy” you’re operating in women’s frames, not your own.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:06 AM
0

Shut the fuck up and provide more value, a better figure or more social proof if you want better options. You’re taking about becoming a better Honda Civic. I’m telling you to say fuck the civic and work towards a better car. You do that through self improvement.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:04 AM
0

Sell the civil and work hard enough to buy a Ferrari. If you fall short, you can always buy a corvette.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 11:50 PM
5

You need to read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 11:45 PM
3

God damn this is gold.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 11:39 PM
4

Solid fucking list
/r/askTRP24/07/18 11:16 PM
18

No exception. Don’t do it. You two are in business together for fuck sake. This is exactly don’t shit where you eat. Make money with her. Fuck other girls.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 06:07 AM
1

You are. Keep doing you. Get better in bed and have fun.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 05:57 AM
1

“Ok, blow on it.” point to your dick
/r/askTRP23/07/18 05:57 AM
1

Jesus does anyone read the side bar and books anymore
/r/askTRP23/07/18 05:54 AM
1

“Today? You’ll make lucky number 7.”
/r/askTRP23/07/18 05:52 AM
1

Yes and ups the sex drive. Helps you take more chances. More horny, more action. More action, more possibilities. More possibilities, more experience. More experience, more confidence.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 05:42 AM
2

Nope and I have basically two bars I use for first dates. I can see the servers pour my drinks and I usually have good convos with the servers before my dates arrive. Be more social and make friends or at least be cordial with them. If you think the servers think you’re an asshole for going out with multiple girls, your social strategy needs work. But again, you definitely care far too much about others opinions. You need to fix that pronto. Oh, and tip well if you get good service. I walk in an…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 05:39 AM
2

Im the same height as you. Ducked more girls since I found trp two years ago then the rest of my life. You’re scared to actually try and that’s a boys mindset, not a mans. Grab your nuts and get the fuck out there and make something happen. Or dont. No one really cares. One less guy to compete against. Making it easier for the rest of us.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 05:29 AM
1

Not fully swallowed just anger phase. Keep reading and learning. Women are women. Men are men. Deal with the truth or be crushed by it. Your choice.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 05:25 AM
6

It’s usually pretty clear when a girl is open to a kiss, heavy eye contact, assuming you’ve kinod well, the eyes get wide and they look at you more... deeply. Lean in and stop about 80% of the way in. If they don’t immediately pull away. Close the extra 20% boom!
/r/askTRP23/07/18 05:11 AM
2

Looks and confidence to a girl make you sexy and exciting. Ugly and awkward makes you a creep.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 05:09 AM
3

Never too soon man. You’re just not used to it. I’ve learned from here and experience that it’s far better to err on the side of boldness. It’s all how you do it. If you do it in a fun playful way, she’ll love it. If you’re nervous and do it half ass, it’s creepy. But if you don’t want to do it, don’t. But def escalate and get that kiss at least.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 04:59 AM
2

Say you’re busy at that time and tell her to meet you for a coffee ASAP. Get the first meeting out of the way and make her want to hang again.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 04:56 AM
3

Why would a server spit in your beer? And what does a no overnight policy have to do with fucking good enough to keep them coming back?
/r/askTRP23/07/18 04:54 AM
1

Flip a coin. Heads, you do A. Tails, you do b. You’ll know what you should do when the coin is in the air.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 04:52 AM
2

Weak dude. Real weak. And pathetic. Move on and fuck other girls... if you truly can. You sound like a bpd girl for Christ sake.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 04:49 AM
2

If you get the kids pull away and give a grin, smack her on the ass and tell her it’s her turn to putt or some shit. Don’t overthink it. If at any point you think you can kiss her or ask yourself if you should, it means you probably can and you should go for it. Sounds like you haven’t done any of the recommended reading so get in that shit ASAP.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 04:46 AM
13

If you think you can get away without texting a girl for a whole week until your date you’re an idiot. Ou have to give her something to make sure she doesn’t flake. Doesn’t mean you need to respond right away or text like you’re a couple but you need to keep her on the line otherwise a guy that can meet her in two days will lay pipe before ou even see her.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 04:40 AM
1

You care too much about servers. You may also not be fucking the girls well enough or providing high value.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 04:37 AM
2

Ehhh I asked a similar question a while back. Told the girl to meet me at bar x for first date. She countered with bar y (a bar I’d never been) asked the question if that was a power play on here and I was told I was overthinking. I was told if I wanted to check out the bar that it’d be fine. I did so I responded: “that’s a good idea, I’ve never been.” Met her and fucked her by date 3. She’s one of my best plates. Do what you want but if she invited you to a dance class and you don’t want to dan…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 04:36 AM
1

this is spot on. You need to provide value for people to reach out to you. But you can also be the one that brings people together with set plans of action. If you do that you will be a leader.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 04:22 AM
1

You might be retarded
/r/askTRP08/07/18 04:16 AM
2

Do: try to put your dick in her.. Don’t: talk about feminism or trp Gf she brings points up job your head and change the subject.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 04:14 AM
2

You could be 6’20 but you’ll never be too male with that mentality lol
/r/askTRP08/07/18 04:10 AM
1

Scarcity mentality and no balls. Read sidebar, lift, go monk mode
/r/askTRP08/07/18 04:10 AM
4

You’re fucked
/r/askTRP08/07/18 04:07 AM
1

Look at it not as helping your gf but as an investment. On paper it’s probably a shitty investment and you shouldn’t do it. She’s an adult and needs to be able to take care of herself. You give a bitch a penny they try to take your bank account.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 04:06 AM
-1

Did you get any of these repulsive girls numbers? I’d so dm them to me and I’ll get to the bottom of why they act so aweso... slutty lol
/r/askTRP08/07/18 04:03 AM
8

I’d say 45 minutes and keep the response short. Don’t come across too excited or say some dumb shit.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 04:01 AM
1

Just from this question i don’t thing you would be able to get laid no matter what you do.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 03:59 AM
3

Do more shit that scares you
/r/askTRP08/07/18 03:53 AM
1

Sometimes even after a year of trp overthinking still fucks with you. Thank god for this forum and the lessons I’ve learned from others here. Old me would have canceled over the fear of not being able to perform. After meditating and just saying fuck it, it worked. Be confident, don’t give a fuck and stick Ethan the game plan. TRP reigns supreme again. Thanks brother.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 12:37 AM
13

Shorts, sweet and to the point. Great post and well done!
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 12:35 AM
1

Worked out fine was overthinking too much
/r/askTRP07/07/18 09:56 PM
1

haha on the first part. already worked out this am. fuck it though, ill try and power through.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 06:46 PM
3

have better game. be better looking than you are. offer more value than you probably currently do.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 05:13 AM
7

pure poetry. Youre like the plato of TRP.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 04:20 AM
1

Simple, solid advice. I want to go there so I will. Thanks brother.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 07:57 PM
2

Yea after writing the question out this was what I was thinking. Always good to get feedback here though. Thanks brother.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 07:49 PM
1

Who cares when she hits the wall or how many dicks she takes. All the time you’re spending thinking about it would be better spent doing anything else.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 05:40 PM
1

sounds like you need to inject some meditation inot your life and pick up some books on stoicism. ive been where you are. you need to understand how you can take corntol back of your thoughts and emotions, then aim them towards a mission, a goal. pussy, gfs, plates, wives, whatever arent going to make you feel better. thats your bruised ego talking. go monk mode and get back to neutral.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 03:39 AM
1

be more like your friend
/r/askTRP30/05/18 03:32 AM
3

thank you. then keep escalating.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 03:29 AM
5

not enough options in your life and you do still care. just bc you type you dont give a fuck, you still do. maybe its your ego bc you havent gotten with as many girls as youd like. maybe its nostalgia but either way the trick is to talk (and bang) more girls. when you find yourself constantly thinking of one girl, it means you need to be talking to more girls.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 03:28 AM
4

Well written post. Procrastination was a huge problem for me in the past (I’m still improving) but like you said, you need to make those small changes right now! And you constantly have to have a dialogue with yourself to check your old voice (habits) that tells you “it can wait.” Fight that voice with action. Just do something and build off that everyday.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 02:07 PM
1

If you have this much time to hang out and not get laid with one girl, you have time to TRY and spin plates. But I’m waging you haven’t read the sidebar yet, so get to reading, this post stinks of BP.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 01:15 AM
1

screen shot and then delete and blco
/r/askTRP19/03/18 04:34 PM
1

I think you are spot on. She def wants a relationship but knowns that what we have is not anything more than what it is at the moment. But as they say, it’s only my turn so we will see what happens. But I suspect you are right and this was a “test” bc the friend stopped messaging me and the plate turned down an invite to hang tonight. All well.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 12:27 AM
2

This is why I come here. Solid! Thanks.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 01:05 PM
1

That’s why I love this place
/r/askTRP16/03/18 01:03 PM
1

Thanks for the solid response. And your right, most things in life don’t warrant concern for the most part.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 03:32 AM
3

You just saying that first sentence put me back in check. You’re right if she cares that much fuck her, always other girls. Thanks for the alpha guy Check. Will proceed to not give a fuck.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 02:01 AM
1

thanks for the advice. Shes definitely a good plate but way to soon for me to figure out or even think of something more. Could there be backlash just from her friend telling plate we matched? If so how do I handle that?
/r/askTRP16/03/18 01:54 AM
1

so go for it? how do i handle the possible (likely) backlash from the plate?
/r/askTRP16/03/18 01:46 AM
5

talk, escalate, get number, set up meeting, escalate more.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 08:02 PM
2

ignore both of them and move on
/r/askTRP14/03/18 07:15 PM
2

the best time to plant a tree was 100 years ago. the second best time is today. or something like that. I found this place at 28 and my life has drastically improved. Im still learning, because really you are never suppose to stop, but no its not too late. Just start already.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 03:07 PM
2

its over. leave her.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 08:03 PM
4

so youre not an MD. go to doctor. i mean really how can you be in med school and be so naive. Get tested, know what it is, tell the girl, take the medicine, problem fixed, go about your life.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 07:06 PM
4

idk what you mean by "You'll study it" but if you are trying to self diagnose, dont. Unless your an MD just go get tested and stop wasting time.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 05:15 PM
7

go to doctors and figure out what it is. But yea i think youre going to have to bring it up to her bc you cant keep sleeping with her raw, which will raise her suspicions. But you gotta figure out what it is before anything.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 04:12 PM
1

whatever works brother. Ive just learned not to care all that much. Even if i make a "date" with a girl to grab some drinks and she declines or flakes or whatever, ill still go solo to grab a drink and talk to strangers and maybe meet a new girl there. Outcome independence is really what im getting at. That, and you should concern yourself too much with a girls schedule. ALways think, if brad Pitt asked her out, what would her response be? Im no brad pitt but its a good way to gauge their intere…
/r/seduction28/02/18 06:12 PM
1

youre whole post is basically agreeing with my point. As a man, the woman usually expects you to be assertive and decides on the place and time to meet, so it definitely helps to be direct and clear on your invitation. thats exactly what i said was wrong with OP post. I do things regardless of if a girl chooses to tag along or not. Ill go to a museum alone but invite a girl along. If she shows, cool. If not, im still going and doing something i like doing. She can join or she can decline. Polari…
/r/seduction28/02/18 05:42 PM
0

who said anything about being inconsiderate to her schedule? I simply stated that leaving anything up to the girl is not in your best interest. They prefer a man to take charge, not play the mans role and have to suggest a time, place and day to meet. And who's worried? Im not. its just the truth, if you have all the time in the world to wait for her to tell you when shes available... it means you havbe way to much time on your hands and youre not filling that time with other activities, which d…
/r/seduction28/02/18 05:24 PM
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id just change the asking for her schedule bit. WHo cares about her schedule. You are the prize. I keep it real simple. "Hey, im going to x at y time, join me." Dont leave anything up to the girl. They need to be lead. If they cant make the proposed time, they should offer a reschedule. If they dont, assume they arent that interested. If you pander to when she is available, it shows you dont really have a lot going on in oyur life aka Low value male.
/r/seduction28/02/18 04:44 PM
1

no ones perfect 100% of the time. This shit will happen. Move on and act like it never happened. But heres your lesson yo need to take from it... I tried to explain dont DEER
/r/askTRP27/02/18 10:19 PM
1

Def saving this response if it happens again. Thanks. So just forget about her or should I try again in like a week?
/r/askTRP23/02/18 03:02 AM
1

Thanks for the response. So give it a while hit her up again at some point and see if she’s down to meet up one on one would be cool? Not a bad idea but yea, figure if this is her initial response she’s probably just not that interested and would rather not waste time but a text in a week or so can never hurt.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 02:25 AM
1

manipulate her and win her back. you cant manipulate desire. plus, she already proved to you that she is not LTR material. Leave the trash at the curb and move on.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 08:45 PM
2

yup
/r/askTRP21/02/18 07:11 PM
1

no way. if you text her at all just go about it like its any other day... because it is.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 08:50 PM
1

great response.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 08:43 PM
1

reading
/r/askTRP09/02/18 09:17 PM
1

sounds like a good plate. Your ego is hurt which is a sign of weakness. Shes offering threesomes and your calling her trash because she started doing to you what youve been doing to her i.e sleeping with other people. Drop the ego and either realize this is how it goes and its just your turn and get the most out of it. or hard next bc this can possibly turn into oneitis
/r/askTRP06/02/18 08:00 PM
1

My gut feeling is saying to drop her or at least not start an LTR with her because of this. trust your gut.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 07:50 PM
2

i just read your title and and i already want to block you...
/r/askTRP06/02/18 06:14 PM
1

used to have the same problem. stopped smoking weed (still do it occasionally) and saw a significant difference, in a good way. other than that, try to meditate before you meet up and just think of her like you think of any other 5. if the problem persists, go see a doc and maybe xanax will help. But most likely its a mental thing that can be improved without pharmaceuticals.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 08:27 PM
1

Thanks for the response. This seems to be the way to go about it
/r/askTRP03/02/18 05:30 AM
2

Preferably
/r/askTRP03/02/18 05:29 AM
7

That’s what I used to do before discovering trp
/r/askTRP03/02/18 05:28 AM
1

winner winner chicken dinner right here.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 09:39 PM
1

shut up baby dick
/r/askTRP02/02/18 08:21 PM
2

this seems to be the consensus. thanks for the response.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 07:58 PM
3

well said. thanks.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 07:58 PM
1

you must be new here...
/r/askTRP02/02/18 07:09 PM
0

Country music about losing the love of your life and shit....
/r/askTRP02/02/18 06:12 PM
12

thank you.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 06:09 PM
4

My condolensces. Well figure something out. Id stop there. and let them contact you in the future. in the mean time, game other girls. to the girl who is sick, "ok, fell better." is all you need. dont tell them youll get in touch with them, see if they initiate to gauge their interest.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 05:55 PM
15

Thanks for this!
/r/askTRP02/02/18 05:41 PM
29

No, i do lol. Just giving an equal quality response to the comment above.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 05:40 PM
15

i dont have tear ducts so i cant cry. So just take a nap it is...
/r/askTRP02/02/18 04:51 PM
1

listent to /u/chachaChad, seriously. its over. whatever future you thought was going to happen is an illusion. save yourself.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 11:18 PM
1

She probably has BPD. My ex was the same. Fits of rage and crazy mood swings. yelling, screaming, abusive. Would throw my cloths all over the place, throw my phone ect. The end of that relationship was what brought me here. So many red flags i ignored or overlooked for the purpose of "love." the pathetic part, she left me. No woman is worth this amount of bullshit. If you think youre going to "fix" her or it will get better, im begging you to reconsider. It will get worse. Boundaries have alread…
/r/askTRP01/02/18 11:16 PM
2

This!
/r/askTRP31/01/18 05:04 PM
1

Jesus, if youre smashing and she gives you her attention and time, she is interested lol. not rocket science.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 06:12 PM
1

sounds like you got a good plate? Whats tiring about what you are doing? Most men would give their left nut to have it this easy. Youre blinded by your perception.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 06:11 PM
3

hopefully worth your job
/r/askTRP30/01/18 04:07 PM
26

thats really holding frame... /s
/r/askTRP30/01/18 04:06 PM
22

its the mystery and challenge they crave. One you give all the answers theres no reason for them to study to pass the test (i.e. keep seeing you in hopes of figuring you out). I found that unless i am sure what im about to say is TRP approved, its better to just keep your mouth shut. You cant do too much damage if youre quiet but it only takes one off putting sentence to send them running.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 07:30 PM
1

All things end man.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 06:18 PM
2

come check out my dog want to see the painting/portrait i told you about lets get out of here and go back to my place
/r/askTRP29/01/18 04:58 PM
1

No shortcuts man. Start with reading the Sidebar and recommended books. It will take time but start now and do your future self a favor.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 04:56 PM
2

Sidebar -->
/r/askTRP29/01/18 04:52 PM
1

The movie is good but I think Alex places way to much attention on girls and needs them for validation and he also doesn’t work hard at anything. Thad in the other hand gets laid, has no problem calling a girl a slewt to her face and sticking up for himself when disrespected. He also is the hardest worker on the team, team captain and a first round first pick in NFL draft (his dream). He completely focuses on his mission and does whatever he wants along the way, never chasing tail or letting wom…
/r/askTRP26/01/18 02:25 PM
1

Law 38: Think as you like, but behave like others
/r/askTRP25/01/18 09:31 PM
-4

clearly you havent met our good friend Mr. Sidebar -->
/r/askTRP25/01/18 05:46 AM
2

Thad
/r/askTRP23/01/18 06:35 PM
2

you can do whatever you want but if you think this has a happy ending, youre mistaken. You want a better life, an alpha life, ect.? you dont do that by keeping your ex around.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 09:13 PM
1

not entirely. online dating is showing she is attracted to you but until you meet in real life, you really dont exists.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 07:21 PM
2

laser tag is the shit and out of the 3 dates ive taken to laser tag, ive f closed 2 of them right after. Action dates and shit you like to do FTW
/r/askTRP17/01/18 07:19 PM
1

i get more poon now compared to when i was in college (im 29). I still live in the city i went to school in and it has a ton of colleges and i have hooked up with more college age girls now than i did while in college. Its not all bad. I actually love it. But if i could go back i def. would take more advantage of being in college.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 07:58 PM
1

“Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you.”
/r/askTRP11/01/18 07:02 PM
1

smoothie with greek yogurt
/r/askTRP11/01/18 06:59 PM
1

I agree
/r/askTRP29/12/17 11:35 PM
1

thats up to you. I have one but dont use it to much. I dont game girls on it but if you have a lot of followers and a sick profile im sure you can leverage it to get girls.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 09:47 PM
7

it gives girls the creeps. If you try and game on insta, the ONLY time i would say its even close to acceptable is if you know/ have met the girl and real life and for whatever reason, didnt get her number then.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 08:48 PM
2

You can make fun of other fat girls but never tell your girl she’s fat. That’s where you made the mistake. At this point she is getting into better shape, that’s good for you. Don’t stop that. But always remember it’s only your turn. Enjoy it while it lasts but maintain frame and the idgaf attitude of you sense she is flirting or talking to other guys. You should be talking to other girls in the meantime as well.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 08:00 PM
3

Why would you tell her that If she got fat you’d stop seeing her? When a girl you are fucking starts doing something you don’t agree with, withdraw your attention. Use actions, never words. Now she could be going to the gym for the exact reasons you listed.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 07:39 PM
2

Keep n mind that book came out years ago when the art of pickups foundations were based on tactics and gimmicks. He went through various stages of change but the end, in my opinion, shows the evolution of his frame. I think he came to understand that “game” should never be your primary goal. It’s important to have, but e relishes the experiences his actions gave him while undergoing massive change and he ended up finding a girl he wanted, not the other way around. He has also sold a shit ton of …
/r/askTRP24/12/17 07:37 PM
3

youre situation is not unique or special. You have cold feet. Approach is the answer.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 06:00 PM
5

correct.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 08:53 PM
2

talk to a lawyer...
/r/askTRP08/12/17 05:52 PM
6

disrespect comes from breaking your boundaries. Shit test is to test your frame.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 05:40 PM
3

"I have four men available for me as my next partner that I get along with. One of them is you. But I dont know who to choose yet, I'm picking none of you just want to be single for a bit" You: "No, you have 3 options."
/r/askTRP01/12/17 09:14 PM
1

We started holding hands and holding each other a lot. I wanted to kiss her then, but didn't want to get rejected in case it wasn't a good place and I wouldn't have an awkward ride back home. should have made the mood. If she rejected, you wouldnt have had that awkward car ride situation happen. If she kissed back, you wouldnt have had to leave her house that night. Always be escalating.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 03:47 PM
2

you pretty much got it. Women cannot love in the way men perceive or wish women to love.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 07:02 PM
1

Sidebar -->
/r/askTRP06/11/17 09:56 PM
1

They are already gone.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 07:13 PM
1

in
/r/askTRP31/10/17 06:50 PM
4

Although she’s not trying to get me back or I’d be happier than I am now. thats the wrong attitude to have. even if she was trying to get you backl, you should be indifferent/ not interested. Shes an ex for a reason. Leave the trash by the curb and look elsewhere.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 06:21 PM
2

Oh i know. But she obviously sent it to me for a reason. She knows she didnt respond to my text and if she wants to move on, im fine with that. Just wondering how to play it. But the more i think about it and read the responses the more i just dont give a fuck. one pussy gone, another will come along. If she wants see me again she has my number. if not, life goes on.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 01:56 AM
1

i appreciate you taking the time to respond. thank you. i get it.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 01:33 AM
2

havent I already soft nexted if i havent reached out? The last communication was her snap to me on sunday. If i can keep her around i would but not worried if she has moved on. I assumed what you wrote to be the case but am not sure if i should text her this weekend to come over (if i dont get a response hard next) or wait for her to actually text me.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 01:14 AM
2

thats the thing, she never responded to my text just sent me a snap this past sunday. So shes trying to get my attention but since she ignored my last message i decided to not respond to anything she sends until she texts me. is that the way to go or could i reach out over text this weekend and tell her to come over?
/r/askTRP19/10/17 01:12 AM
1

physique is good but obviously always trying to improve, clothing is great, body language i think i need to keep working on and eye contact can be improved too. thanks for the suggestions.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 11:17 PM
1

thanks for the response. youre right need more IDGAF attitude. Cheers brother.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 11:16 PM
1

im pretty god looking. not the tallest 5'8 but i dont let that bother me and i cant help that. im in the best shape of my life and girls generally think im good looking so its game related. but thanks.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 11:15 PM
2

Thanks for the response and advice brother. I think I just had a good streak going and came to expect to be able to do it with every girl but I have to remember that’s not the case. Sometimes it doesn’t work out. But I agree and will listen to you and pursue if they both reach out.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 04:24 AM
1

IF she wanted you back it would be bc of the new and improved you. The best thing about the position you are in (I was in your shoes a year ago) is that by the time, if ever, she comes back around, youll have experiences with other girls, girls who may make you feel like you should have never dated your ex in the first place. You probably will look at her different down the raod and say to yourself, "I can do way better than that." The more you work on becoming better, the more value you see in …
/r/askTRP06/10/17 08:04 PM
7

so why ask for advice from said sociopaths? The truth is there is nothing you can say or do to make her change her mind about wanting to be with you. Thats the truth. The only thing you can do is improve. Learn what you did wrong and apply those new lessons. You never know what the future holds but chasing after someone who has made a clear decision they dont wnat you in their lives isnt going to make you happier or a better person.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 07:15 PM
2

block her and delete her from your reality. Like heroin, you need to completely get that shit out of your life. Cut all ties, lose her number and never talk to her again.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 07:02 PM
3

I feel like that's going way too fast and they might not expect it at all, and what if the date didn't go super well, still go for it? That not expecting it part is what makes them all wet in the pants. Always go for the kiss, presuming you are escalating from the beginning to the end of the date (meaning applying kino throughout). If she doesnt brush your hand away or pull back, think of that as checkpoints. You hit one, escalate more. But yes, always go for the kiss. You have to polarize and m…
/r/askTRP06/10/17 07:00 PM
1

Responded to the wrong post my bad
/r/askTRP06/10/17 04:30 AM
1

So creeped out that the only out she gave you was to join her surrounded by her friends. And even that was probably going to turn into a flake. Recalibrate your game.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 01:44 AM
1

Yup deal wth it
/r/askTRP06/10/17 01:43 AM
1

there is no redemption. shes not interested and probably has you categorized as a creep. avoid her from now on and game outside of work.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 08:05 PM
2

soft next. If you see her and she doesnt respond just act cordial and indifferent.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 04:44 PM
3

When in south, err on the side of boldness. Get out of your comfort zone and make moves you normally wouldn't make.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 09:14 PM
2

anytime and congrats! Now go slay 10 more new girls.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 08:11 PM
3

have you read the sidebar? ---> Ill help you here but read the sidebar. To many people stumble on the community and ask a single question and think they actually learned something. Do your future self a favor and read it. digest it and then implement it. back to your question: Start with a hand on the elbow or light touch of her thigh when youre talking/telling a story. If she doenst brush it away thats a green light to move on. Next time you touch her move your hand to the inside of her thigh. …
/r/askTRP22/09/17 08:09 PM
2

just be cordial and civil. You dont need to be "friendly." Because you came across to clingy, you need to let her figure out where she will catagorize you from now on. Currently, she doesnt want you in her life so just say hey when you see her and do your job. No more contact with her unless she reaches out first. Again, do not shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 06:46 PM
2

aim for her mouth
/r/askTRP22/09/17 06:31 PM
2

escalate. Always be escalating.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 06:25 PM
1

At least a lot of people will know who you are now. Any free publicity is good publicity. If anything it makes for a good story I guess. But lesson learned. Don't want to be known as the guy who kissed a tranny, don't kiss a tranny in public. Simple.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 06:48 PM
1

You kissed a tranny... own it.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 05:57 PM
1

--> sidebar
/r/askTRP09/09/17 05:55 PM
1

Sounds like you live in a bad area. Have fun with that.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 05:04 PM
1

Watch out for this guy, can't make up his mind himself because he's indecisive and a pussy and thinks it's "gross" to kiss a girl in public and gives way to many fucks about irrelevant shit. Sorry brah you're so classy and weak. You heard him right
/r/askTRP09/09/17 05:03 PM
1

Save your breadth. Don't like PDA then take her behind a building or something. But you sound like a man that has no power over himself.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 05:00 PM
1

You found the guy who kisses girls wherever he wants and doesn't give a fuck about what other people think. I found the insecure bitch who is to scared to make a move lol
/r/askTRP09/09/17 04:58 PM
0

Whys it matter? And romantic bullshit? Lol it's you who sounds like the helpless romantic. "Where do I kiss the special unicorn? I have to find a magical garden filled with butterflies and rainbows so the kiss is perfect..." lol gtfooh
/r/askTRP09/09/17 04:57 PM
0

Then don't post here asking for advice. Grow some balls. No one cares if you kiss a girl in the street. You're not that important lol. Sound like a pussy.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 04:55 PM
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If you can't take power over yourself then no one here is going to be able to help you. Seek professional help or get your shit together and stay disciplined and work at it everyday.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 04:31 PM
0

Overthinking. When you feel you can kiss her, just do it.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 04:29 PM
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Treat them the same as you do 5's. Looks don't mean you have to change your game. Just play it cool and have fun. If you want to pregame go for it but don't get to drunk. Talk to everyone, not just the girls. Get rejected and get used to it. It doesn't matter how many times you get rejected once you land something.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 04:28 PM
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Focus on getting a job and forget about girls. Also --> sidebar. Start there and go into monk mode. Girls aren't why you feel like shit. Work on yourself for a couple months and learn. The pua shit doesn't make you happier. It's mostly all an act to get girls. Getting girls shouldn't be the point of self improvement, just a side benefit.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 04:26 PM
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go nofap.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 08:51 PM
1

Sidebar bro....Sidebar.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 08:50 PM
1

Truth. Thanks for the reminder. On to the next one.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 01:16 PM
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Solid advice. Thanks brother. I'm still sometimes shocked at the fickleness and sudden 180 women will pull sometimes. I'm learning though. Luckily I planned 2 more dates for tomorrow and Friday.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 11:07 PM
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I'm not her chad, only hung out twice never f closed though. But the chore part of her text was her saying it felt like I make it seem like a chore to hang with her bc I only ever text for logistics. Either way you're right and whatever fickle reason she has to not want to hang I am ignoring her and nexting her. Probably crazy anyway from begging to see me to giving me this bs reason on why she doesn't want to now.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 11:06 PM
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2-3 days just send a hey. but i doubt it will lead anywhere if she turned down a kiss. Make sure to keep gaming other girls and lining up other dates. How'd you meet her? day game? night game? Tinder/bumble?
/r/askTRP15/08/17 03:12 PM
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"shes implicitly saying move in with her or shes gonna break up." ultimatums usually mean the "relationship" is already doomed. dont move in and be prepared to dump her. shes crazy.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 04:15 PM
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I got nothing for you then. Sounds Like you got a pretty good life. Maybe it's just your game. Keep mixing up what you do when trying to game chicks bc whatever you're currently doing isn't working.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 07:51 PM
1

what hobbies do you have and why do you think youre awesome. something isnt matching up.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 06:32 PM
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then wtf is your post about. You just listed numberous things you want but find yourself incapable of doing then reply to my comment that you dont want anything. Bullshit. Your mind is weak and you are your own worst enemy at this point. If you have no dreams or motivations, sit back and stop complaining about your inability to create a better life for yourself and watch the real doers accheive what you cant, or dont want to achieve. But dont pretend to be miserable about it or act like theres a…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 01:17 PM
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I'm gaming them usually on the internet thats your problem. and while its good to have a female wingwomen, dont rely to heavily on her. rely solely on yourself to get laid and talk to girls in real life.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 02:09 AM
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That's an excuse. They aren't attracted. Girls fresh out of relationships are normally rebounding and almost easier to hook up with than ones that have been single for a while. Where are you gaming them? How are your interactions? Are you coming off too needy? Why are they even bringing up their past relationship?
/r/askTRP08/08/17 01:48 AM
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Everyone WANTS something, few actually work to get it. That's the only difference. There is no magic piece of advice that anyone here can give you. You want to learn something, learn it. Make a schedule and dedicate 30 minutes, an hour or hell 7 hours to doing it every day. You need to make it a habit. Habit stems from discipline. Discipline is doing something over and over again no matter what. It's simple. But not easy.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 01:32 AM
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Stick your penis in their vag
/r/askTRP08/08/17 01:29 AM
2

Thats your frame and self awareness. You dojnt consider yourself worthy so you arent. Try mediation or a therapist.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 03:49 PM
3

“You see this goblet?” asks Achaan Chaa, the Thai meditation master. “For me this glass is already broken. I enjoy it; I drink out of it. It holds my water admirably, sometimes even reflecting the sun in beautiful patterns. If I should tap it, it has a lovely ring to it. But when I put this glass on the shelf and the wind knocks it over or my elbow brushes it off the table and it falls to the ground and shatters, I say, ‘Of course.’ When I understand that the glass is already broken, every momen…
/r/askTRP07/08/17 01:36 PM
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crushed after my ex of 3 years left me. stumbled upon this community and it has made me a much better man in the last 10 months. ive learned a lot and will not make the same mistakes i have in the past.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 05:21 PM
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did it a couple times with the ex. it was fun and although she left me because i reverted to beta ways before i was aware of TRP, id do it again. just play it right.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 01:33 AM
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Bc they quit after they don't get what they expected after 1 week, 3 months a year, whatever. Like in life, most people stop at the first failure. Go for it, or don't. No one really cares and you have to live with your choices. Either live miserable and pretend you can't do anything, or make drastic changes and see what happens.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 06:41 AM
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That makes it tough not burning a bridge. Maybe do what girls do to guys all the time and play the "let's just be friends card." I'm assuming there will be some backlash from a female regardless of how you do this and whether it's a hard or soft next. Tough one man. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 01:03 AM
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I think a hard next is needed and you just ghost her. Sure it will suck for her, but what's a soft next really going to accomplish? She got an STD once, she can do it again. It's almost like cheating to me. Never put yourself in a position for it to happen again. Just one mans opinion.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 12:51 AM
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True story. So Fuckin weird though but whatever. Suck it up and Move on indeed.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 12:30 AM
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Well said. Lessons learned thanks for the response brother
/r/askTRP31/07/17 09:08 PM
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Lesson learned and I guess something I just have to forget about and just onto the next one. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 08:55 PM
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Thanks brother
/r/askTRP31/07/17 08:54 PM
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You're right always be escalating should have been more agrssove second date. Lessons learned. Thanks brother
/r/askTRP31/07/17 08:52 PM
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Thanks brother
/r/askTRP31/07/17 08:51 PM
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play or get played. its been this way forever and will never change. the moral highground doesnt always lead to the top ofthe mountain. it actually rarely does. one bad egg ruins the bunch. once the world had its first lying cheating female and asshole alpha, the game was forever made unfair. live with it.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 03:34 AM
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ive asked myself this question and came to the conclusion, as i started going on more and more dates, that its probably better left not posted at all, unless the girl takes a pic and does what she will with it. enjoy the moment for what it is. live your life and dont focus on social media. it could have a positive effect on some girls and also a negative on others. but what is less riskier and maybe even preferred is less posts on social media and just living an awesome life going on dates with …
/r/askTRP27/07/17 03:30 AM
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he probably doesnt label shit and is the best version of himself, which, by the looks of it is much better than whatever you are bringing to the table. a lot of being alpa is attitude and belief in yourself. that comes with confidence. confidence is built by wining small victories that turn dividends down the road. the OP needs to stop focusing on being short (im the same height). sure, it plays a part, just like everything else does, but you cant change it. get over it and focus on everything e…
/r/askTRP27/07/17 03:11 AM
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You haven't swallowed shit. Read side bar, go monk mode, lift, read, apply.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 04:30 AM
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I suggest reading models by mark Manson. Helped me with the same kind of questioning you are asking and provides some clarity in a much more eloquent way than I could do it justice.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 05:43 PM
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I'll answer your last question first. It comes down to "is the juice worth the squeeze." Nothing is free and something in life require us to do what we don't want, in order to get them. So by all means, don't partake and keep banging hookers if it suites you. But no one is going to be able or even try to convince you to do what needs to be done to get pussy. That's your decision. As far as context: say your a botanist or biologist. Take the girl on a hike and you can squeeze in some science fact…
/r/askTRP25/07/17 05:35 PM
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There ya go. Forge forward brother. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 05:27 PM
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You can filter your intellect in, just do it in the right context and the girl may see you as higher SMV. But if you're talking like a professor to a college student and expect her to get wet, it's not going to work. Your intelligence is yours and yours alone. Leave them intellectual convos for work or a meetup around your area on interest but dates and girls should be fun and fun doesn't necessarily mean you can't have intelligent conversations.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 05:25 PM
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This isn't broken frame. This is a life event that is deserving of emotion. She's showing support and that's good. Where it can break frame is if you let the negative emotion consume you and your daily dehavior I.e. Moping around, depression and an extended period of just not being strong. Vulnerability is alpha. Being able to be strong enough to show who you are takes courage. More so than acting like everything is fine. Just don't let it effect your work, your relationship or your overall emot…
/r/askTRP25/07/17 05:11 PM
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Find higher quality women. If all your me finding is basix girls, search elsewhere. Sure, most girls are going to be somewhat the same and "basic" and/or annoying but if you find one while perusing a passion or hobby, you'll tend to be more compatible. Have you read models yet by mark Manson?
/r/askTRP25/07/17 05:07 PM
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Just look up putin videos
/r/askTRP24/07/17 03:04 PM
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The problem is you. Besides that I don't see one. You have goals (good). If you're happy paying for a hooker every week and that's fine by you, do it. If you want to pull the trigger and man up and ask out a real girl who isn't a professional, do it. If the girl starts interrupting your work and focus, move on. Do what you want. You owe the girls nothing but yourself whatever you want. So make a choice and do it.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 03:03 PM
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There's different ways to do it but it's really all about frame. You have to portray that what you are doing is normal and you have to do it nonchalantly. For example ice cream: tell her to order first, they give her the cone, in my experience, they pay no problem. Depending how the first part of the date went, sometimes if I see them pull their wallet out I'll just pay. For me, knowing they would pay for themselves is good enough if they've been good company up to that point so sometimes I pay …
/r/askTRP22/07/17 02:47 AM
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Park and then some ice cream or something is good. I've had success with it and it cost nothing. Things to remember, be cool, be calm, ask her questions and get her talking about herself. Don't put to much pressure on yourself either. Make sure to use good eye contact and find ways to touch her. GO FOR THE KISS. And have fun.
/r/askTRP21/07/17 11:29 PM
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after you get the contact info, dont bother with the small talk. just a hey, let her respond and say lets do x on x day at x time. if she agrees and the date is 2-3 days away, touch base the day before or the morning of to make sure its still a go. but flakes happen a lot. just keep getting girls numbers and try out different variations of what youve been doing. What works for me, may not work for you. but dont keep doing the same thing and expect different results.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 08:36 PM
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Do things that don't cost money or simply tell the waiter or whatever to split the bill when it comes time to pay. I know it probably makes you feel uncomfortable but once you do it once and realize the girl is usually ok with it, its easy to keep doing. If she had a problem, it's a red flag anyway.
/r/askTRP15/07/17 06:09 PM
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some people are just comfortable naked. There are things called nude beaches and some people can hang in their bday suites around a crowd of strangers and feel completely normal. Youre focusing on the wrong thing. If she sucks in bed and you cant direct her to please you, move on.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 03:02 PM
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you said you were having the exact same problem. Was just wondering if you ever received a response from the girl? or did i misinterpret your post?
/r/askTRP12/07/17 02:20 AM
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oh definitely. after they see the grass is not only less greener, but brown, they always try and come back. Hope OP shuts that bitch down when she does bc thats really the only form of closure you ever get. it feels pretty good. especially if you have a couple brand new notches on the belt.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 02:01 AM
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you ever get a response?
/r/askTRP12/07/17 01:53 AM
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Find a girl that already does them or doesnt have a loose vag...
/r/askTRP12/07/17 01:35 AM
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Learn to stop comparing yourself (and your happiness) to anyone else. I suggest reading some books on stoicism and the subtle art of not giving a fuck by mark manson. You are not jealous of your friend. Youre just not happy with yourself and your life. the good news is, you can change both!
/r/askTRP12/07/17 01:31 AM
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/u/WhaleMilker is spot on. i found this community because of a similar situation. LTR of 3 years decides she needs to "find herself" but like it was already stated, their reason, or lack of, is irrelevant. This is going to be one of the hardest times of your life, i wont lie. Its going to suck for some time but you can really use it to come out better and stronger than you ever imagined. My ex let me 10 months ago and id be lying if i said i ever thought id make it through the shit, let alone co…
/r/askTRP12/07/17 01:26 AM
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Youre right man. Im over it and will continue on my path. thanks brother.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 06:20 PM
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Well said and yea im over it. I've been rejected and most times they made sense or didnt bother me at all. this one, for some reason just threw me off. Appreciate the advice and i should probably get off tinder. But i just got out of monk mode a couple months ago and really have been using it to just get out there and practice on as many women as possible. Its convenient, but i know convenient isnt always a good thing.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 06:19 PM
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have read sidebar. have read books and posts and still do. Went monk mode for a bit but have been taking action and applying techniques and principles. I have 2 other plates if you read my post, but youre right, i should have more and keep on searching for more.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 04:17 PM
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Thanks brother. I will definitely have lower expectations from now on. I actually kind of did going into this date but like i said, we naturally just clicked pretty well (apparently not as well as i thought) so i was feeling good. But not going to dwell. Ill learn and keep forging ahead. thanks for the reply.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 04:16 PM
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Noted.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 04:03 PM
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thanks brother.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 03:44 PM
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"I hope you replied back 'k' or nothing at all." I replied back with "k" "However, if you're posting on asktrp about feeling antsy after not getting a response from a girl after a first date you probably came off to her worse than you think." Possible. Still learning. I guess it was just the feeling that it felt like the best date ive had in a while and the shock of receiving the message that she doesnt think she felt a connection that made me post here. Im nowhere near where i want to be, but i…
/r/askTRP11/07/17 03:41 PM
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Noted. I had a lot of comments that k was the way to go and just move on. Don't really see the benefit of having a girl go insane after she's not interested. Did you end up banging her?
/r/askTRP11/07/17 03:06 AM
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Thanks brother, I appreciate that and appreciate this community. Without it, I'd still be moping over a hoe who didn't ever deserve me. Going to stay disciplined and continue to grow.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 03:05 AM
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Could you provide some more info on how I could have escalated more. Just like a different perspective. Thanks.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 02:26 AM
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thanks bro
/r/askTRP11/07/17 02:22 AM
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yea i was still pretty buzzed when i got home and she texted me. i should maybe have just said k. goodnight and left it at that. The more texting the worse off you usually are. What pisses me off is i knew that and have been religious with the logistics only text game. But the high and general happiness of meeting a pretty cool chick all around got the best of me and i let my fingers get the best of me. Took away the built up sexual tension maybe? But i did learn from this experiece and have 2 m…
/r/askTRP11/07/17 01:40 AM
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also another possibility. should have kept escalating. I just realized the date was good. but i stopped short. I should have made a move at the car or told her "lets get out of here" after the first or second initial kiss at the bar. So from this i learned i need to work on maintaining my frame better, pushing a bit more, realizing you wont score every girl, and keep going when i hit an escalation checkpoint i.e. kino -> kiss -> makeout -> lets get back to my place or yours and plow.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 01:36 AM
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That's why I'm here and to even be posting about getting feedback from a girl like this one is a testament to TRP. I've come a long ways. I'm 5'7 and weighed 212 pounds after my LTR of 3 years left me. I came across this sub and have been digesting as much as possible while taking action. I'm down to 165 and upgraded my wardrobe, took on new hobbies and have been saying yes to things I'd otherwise usually say no too. Staying in frame is definitely something I need to keep working on though. Than…
/r/askTRP11/07/17 01:06 AM
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Thanks for the response. Thinking this is more or less what it is. Gotta do more day game. I've been working at it but I'm just recently getting used to being in really good shape and my tinder has been going crazy so I've taken Ehat I can from that and have been doing alright. Still learning though and still getting used to the fickleness of females I guess. Cheers.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 12:46 AM
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I was feeling her but I dont think I came across thirsty. It was a way more natural date. I teased her and she was teasing me. Maybe I let her get away with to much teasing and wasn't cocky funny enough? But at no point did I feel like I was playing it wrong. The kino, eye contact pretty much everything else seemed flawless. Felt like natural attraction. She was commenting on my fitness, my outfit and giving me the fuck me eyes. I was bold and kissed her mid sentance and it really seemed to open…
/r/askTRP11/07/17 12:43 AM
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I already texted back "k" Rejection is good. It means I'm not going to waste anymore time on her. At least that's what I have to tell myself. But damn I really didn't expect that text at all. If I had the whole date on video, there's no way anyone could anticipate that text coming through. All well. Gotta just put it behind and move on to the next one.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 12:09 AM
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The things that scare us or that we are afraid of are usually the things we should be doing.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 10:37 PM
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No. And if he's hurt or offended, he sucks.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 10:21 PM
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Just watch porn that mirrors what you want done and tell him to do it like what they are doing in that porn. Watch it and get very sexual and turned on and make it happen.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 10:17 PM
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Change your game. That's the only answer I got for you. Read the books, come back and report.
/r/askTRP01/07/17 11:04 PM
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Both books are by him but yes
/r/askTRP01/07/17 10:05 PM
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Like anything it just takes practice and failure. You will fail, but it's not as bad as you're imagining. If you can speak in front of a room with 300 ppl, you can say whatever you want to a girl. You're the man. A man does what he wants. Girls are attracted to that. Better to be bold then boring. I suggest reading models and the subtle art of not giving a fuck. It will def help with your problems.
/r/askTRP01/07/17 09:58 PM
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Doesn't sound like any of your interactions leave them attracted to you. Follow the 6 message rule. I get pretty decent returns af all I do is say hi, mention something about their bio, outfit something interesting in pics, whatever, they send a couple messages, I say solething witty, sarcastic, funny and they laugh. Then tell them to give me their number and set up a meeting. Never ask, always demand.
/r/askTRP01/07/17 09:43 PM
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That's the biggest part of changing and doing all the recommended stuff on here. Change your perspective and your life will change. Think positive, you're the prize. Say whatever you want and have fun no matter what. That confidence you gain from doing that is 10x more attractive to girls (and people in general) than anything else. Don't hold back.
/r/askTRP01/07/17 09:35 PM
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But you're still here after that happened and does it matter anymore? No.
/r/askTRP01/07/17 09:24 PM
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You get past it by doing it anyway and proving that your beliefs are wrong. I know it sucks and you can get into your own head but what you're thinking ismt going to happen. And it will only prove that you have the idgaf attitude and you'll build off that. I was horrible at approaching bc I feared failure but I just went for it and got rejected, still do, but doesn't hurt as much as regret. You got this.
/r/askTRP01/07/17 08:23 PM
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Don't tell them, just approach and try different responses. It's a science. What you're doing isn't working so tweak it.
/r/askTRP01/07/17 08:04 PM
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It does but it's more example based of how stoics used the philosophy on real life. Def a great read. I recommend the audio book though.
/r/askTRP01/07/17 07:53 PM
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The obstacle is the way.
/r/askTRP01/07/17 04:13 PM
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Impulse wasn't the best word. I responded out of anger, which was a mistake. But I know what you mean. Need to not take something like this so seriously and have fun with it like you did with the other ways I could have responded.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 11:25 PM
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Fuck. Those are better responses. Should have stayed calm and waiting a couple more minutes to calm myself before responding. It just pissed me off that she wouldn't tell me she had to go home first before meeting. We agreed right after work to meet so I was a little ticked. But that's what happens when I let my emotions get the better of me. And I have her the place and time to reschedule, not her. So I don't think it's about abusing my time. I guess I'll just wait and see what happens. Thanks …
/r/askTRP27/06/17 11:21 PM
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Ok that's the plan. Thanks brother.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 10:13 PM
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you should be though. its a numbers game and by you generalizing ones you think dont want you based off the BS height thing, is only hurting your chances.
/r/MGTOW26/06/17 03:02 PM
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looksmax myself? what the hell is that?
/r/MGTOW26/06/17 02:58 PM
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ok, and there are some women who wont like even the tallest manly of men, DUDE. so stop with this bs.
/r/MGTOW26/06/17 02:58 PM
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not by typing on reddit. Go run and lift. Get off this thing. Remember. Im watchi9ng your every move on here.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 02:52 PM
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You wont try anything in real life. You havent up until now. All you do is post shit about height. No discuipline, no real action to change. Seek professional help.
/r/MGTOW26/06/17 02:50 PM
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No, to all. It smells like shit scented cologne.
/r/MGTOW26/06/17 02:49 PM
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and youre generalizing all women, which is just as cruel. Women are attracted to confidence and you being comfortable with yourself. Youre just as judgemental, even more so, than most women.
/r/MGTOW26/06/17 02:38 PM
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pathetic. Shift your focus. your insecurity is more unattractive to a woman than your height.
/r/MGTOW26/06/17 02:35 PM
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No, youre not. You post 5-10 posts a day about the same topic: how much being short is a disadvatage. Get off reddit, call a doctor, go work out, go find a mission, dont tell me youre working on it when you clearly arent. Youre going to feel this way forever and at the end of your life, when your all alone and filled with regret, theres nothing youll be able to do about it and youll realize that feeling sorry for yourself and wasting time posting and crying about it was all for nothing. Im going…
/r/askTRP26/06/17 02:34 PM
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so why cry like a little bitch about height constantly? Its bc you have a mental health issue. Cant fix anything until you work on that. and youre not a 7-8. You havent gymed up, you say your face is puffy and your short with what sounds like little social skills. Youre realistically probably a 4-5. now after 6 months of taking care of your mental issues and lifting religiously, maybe you can get to a 7. But your weakness is your own mind.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 01:21 PM
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He's not much taller. You're missing the point though. It doesn't matter. You give it more power than it deserves. So you probably won't be dating a runway model, but even if you were 6'5 you probably couldn't pull one either way. So you'd be in the same boat. Seek help.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 01:14 PM
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Society won't change, you won't change, so stop Fuckin posting about it. You can't get girls bc you wreak if insecurity, not bc you're short. I'm not even a girl and I find you painfully insecure and annoying. Imagine how you make girls feel. I bet they want to kill you or themselves just bc they probably never met such a victim card playing, self loathing pitifully excuse of a man. I mean damn dude, I seriously think you have extreme mental issues. You're posts read out like you think the world…
/r/askTRP26/06/17 12:13 PM
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Dude, your height isn't your problem. I looked over your post history and it's so indicative of depression and self victimization. No one cares about your height, except you. You need professional help. You are addicted to feeling like your height is making your life suck when really it's your mental state and attitude. "Oh, poor me, I'm 5'5 and no girl will ever go for me. I'm the shortest man in the world. Feel bad for me. I'll post all day everyday about this and get tons of advice but change…
/r/askTRP26/06/17 04:25 AM
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Don't try.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 02:24 AM
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Dumb her and never look back. Trust me. The longer you let this play out the harder and worse this will be. I hate to say it but she's hanging/ banging other guys. It's time to man up and leave her. Probably not what you wanted to hear but the truth rarely is the Sunday with a cherry on top we all wish for. Fuck her. She doesn't value you. The relationship is done. Go out on your terms, not hers. Bang one of her friends if you can.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 01:39 AM
1

The benefits part of fwb
/r/askTRP25/06/17 01:18 AM
1

Also very plausible and another way of thinking i overlooked. Thanks for the insight.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 02:02 PM
1

thank you.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 02:00 PM
1

this happened 2 years ago. she already had the kid and they just got the paternity test. His.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 01:25 PM
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Don't do anything. Who cares? It's good for you. Fuck the other person. Let them think about how they can stop being compared to you. E
/r/askTRP22/06/17 05:40 AM
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Just happened to my buddy. Didn't even cum but got a ons pregos. Don't know the stats behind it but from his experience, it can happen.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 05:07 AM
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I think you need to go serious no contact with the ex before anything. The contact is what's keeping you in this state of mind. Block her on social. Delete her from everything block her number. Get over her. You just keep picking the scab and that's why you feel the way you do. I don't think monk mode is necessary but that's your call. You sound pretty grounded and on point but maybe some time out of the game and nc will kind of "reset" you internally. Either way my Advice is to do the one thing…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 04:57 AM
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Why'd she leave you?
/r/askTRP22/06/17 04:42 AM
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Exactly what I was looking for. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:16 AM
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Solid advice and plan. Thank you. As of right now hiking is my plan for Saturday but she just texted me she wants to do something tomorrow. I had plans to ride my motorcycle with some buddies but she doesn't know that. Idk what we would do tomorrow. Should I make plans for tomorrow or just stick to having her wait until Saturday to hike?
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:09 AM
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Fuck. And yea lmr isn't the right term I should have used. Basically just need advice on the whole "get to know you better." And yeah, you're probably right. I should be less timid. Just reading that makes me think back and see where I didn't escalate as much as I probably should have. But we do get along well and shes def. interested. She initiates most of the texts now and I keep them short and about logistics, for the most part.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 02:53 AM
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If you're still surprised by anything written on this sub, you haven't fully swallowed the pill. Keep reading and learning. Some girls get wet for shorter quality men.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 07:52 PM
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I'll go for women between 5-5'9 I find that some girls who may be taller than you really don't care so long as you're not insecure about it. And man it's 2 inches. What would you be saying if you were only 5 ft tall? It could always be worse and no one is going to feel bad for you accept you. Sure it sucks we both aren't 6'+ but again, can't change that. Change your beliefs and actions will follow.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 07:48 PM
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No problem. I was in your shoes 10 months ago. Best thing I ever did was blocked my ex and started lifting and taking advice from this sub. You'll forget about her completely after 2-3 other women are under your belt. Good luck.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 07:40 PM
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Dude I'm 5'7 on a good day and am in no way an expert trper but since I've been lifting for 8 months and got really toned up (dropped 60 pounds) girls that never gave me a single blink are now open to me taking them out and shit. Don't limit yourself bc you feel self pity. Can't change your height, but you can change your body and attitude. Those count much more than height to a girl anyway.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 07:38 PM
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dont plate her until youve been with a couple other girls. If you havent been with another girl since her, then you are just missing the chemical feel good that she gave you and youre basically going through withdrawals. Ignore the whore.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 07:34 PM
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You need to read some books on stoicism before going any further down the rabbit hole. If this is all it takes for you to feel shitty, youre heading for a real shit storm you wont survive.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 07:30 PM
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only if you think there is. But if you want to take yourself out of the game, thats one less dude to compete with for the rest of us.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 07:28 PM
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the subtle art of not giving a fuck, models, the obstacle is the way, on the shortness of life. and if you want to get real scientific with it, the selfish gene.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 07:19 PM
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Solid advice. thanks and best of luck OP!
/r/askTRP15/06/17 06:54 PM
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lol that's probably exactly how it would go. And that may be the case. Which is annoying and I won't put up with that. So I'll go out with this new girl and see how that goes. If I get another text from her though I don't really know what my next move should be. Any advice?
/r/askTRP15/06/17 06:05 PM
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Going through something very similar at the moment and will learn from your lesson. This girl is in to me but flaked on a date the other day. agreed to meet then never texted me. I posted about it and got solid feedback. I just waited like i was told by the sub. Heard from her the following day and she apologized for flaking. I didnt get that text until the next day bc i was sleeping so i responded and told her to meet up today or friday (this was on wed.). Again, no response all day. Today i ge…
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:31 PM
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Keeping the abundance mentality. Dont care if she responds or not. Actively talking to other prospects. No oneitis, no girl is that special. Thanks again for the reply. Cheers brother.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 04:42 PM
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I heard back from her and took your advice. I told her we should meet up tomorrow or Friday so I'll see what she says. I'm talking to other girls, this one is just the top prospect and the one I'm intrigued with the most. Thanks for the breakdown and response.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 02:56 PM
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Got a text an hour ago. Said work was crazy and she had a really bad day and she was sorry. Second chance, Second chance.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 01:54 AM
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I think that's what I'm going to do. No text from her yet so I'll forget about her until the weekend and give her one more shot. I have 2 other girls I just started talking to so I guess we will see what happens. Thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 09:34 PM
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Thanks for the response. Cheers.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 08:26 PM
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No im not that ignorant. I honestly thought I was fucked just bc of the timing I knew I was going away and didn't even plan on having an opportunity but bc she kept texting me while I was gone I thought I'd at least have one more shot when I got back. Thought process was if she was actively trying to stay in touch with me, I must have done some things right.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 08:18 PM
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I usually would have but trying to fu k a girl on a lunch break isn't something I can pull off as cool as that would be. Don't know how I wasted her time if she enjoyed herself. Should have just finger banged her in the parking lot. Live and learn I guess.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 07:50 PM
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I've got other girls. This one is just the best out of the lot at the moment. But I hear ya, I won't let her disinterest stop my progress. I knew going away for a while would be tough to keep her interest but felt confident bc she texted me throughout the vacation. All well, it is what it is. Thanks for the response.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 04:41 PM
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Ok that's what I'm doing, but I shouldn't text her right? And if I don't hear from her, next?
/r/askTRP13/06/17 04:12 PM
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Show up to parties and make friends
/r/seduction24/03/17 02:03 PM
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its not about being or "acting" like an asshole. SUre, it can get you laid sometimes, but what really counts is owning up to your true self and being that person, just in confident manner. If youre acting or faking, it may work sometimes, but wont actually fix your bigger problems. I recommend reading models by mark mason.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 01:43 PM
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sounds like your making all the right moves. Just keep going. Most people quit without realizing how close to success they are. DOnt let this one instance get you down. Keep working on yo0urself, keep geting rejected (its how you learn) but sstay positive and approach approach approach.
/r/seduction27/01/17 07:18 PM
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Idk but someone may need the advice.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 01:37 AM
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Fuck a hotter girl than she is and don't give a fuck about her. They always tend to come back when they find out you're fucking a badder bitch and seem to have forgotten they exist.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 12:55 AM
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Spell out the alphabet with your tongue and finger blast her until she cums. Once your fingers are about 2 inches inside her pussy, make a "hook" shape and focus on finding a kind of rough patch of skin. That's her g spot. Rub that then stick your dick in and bust on her tits.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 12:53 AM
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I didn't say that. Only a moron does things without thinking about consequence.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 08:53 PM
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So what you want to do. That's what alphas do.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 07:09 PM
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Solid. Will have to wait until she's back in town. Gone until Monday for a wedding.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 07:50 PM
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Bro knight lol. My values are shit. You came here asking if you should cheat. Either you're to indecisive to pull the trigger and just do it, like an alpha would, or you are just scared bc you don't know exactly how you should move forward with this and you think that too, makes you beta. Do whatever you want, cheat, leave her ass, fuck her sister. But from the sounds of if, she's. Or a terrible person and talking to her may just teach you a little bit about yourself and you may grow and improve…
/r/askTRP14/10/16 05:26 PM
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weak men cheat. Alphas arent afraid of being honest. Either grow the balls and have an honest conversation and drop the Im so mocho i cant even express how I truly feel bc im scared she will think im weak and leave act or; say you dont want to go out with her anymore because she obviously has a life that she is trying to make for herself through work. Hell its hard enough to find a girl willing to work 1 job. 3 I have to give the girl credit. but dont cheat. talk to her. its not beta. A man does…
/r/askTRP14/10/16 04:20 AM
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That's what I was thinking about a possible freebie. Thanks for the insight.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 01:17 PM
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thanks brother! will follow up
/r/askTRP13/10/16 04:50 AM
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