Background: currently have 3 plates. 2 I usually see once a week, the 3rd once a month. My question concerns my favorite one (was beginning to feel oneitis coming on and got some good advice a while back and was back on the right track). Right now I’m kind of stuck on what my next move should be. I haven’t seen her in 2 weeks because of our work schedules or whatever else (I always assume my plates are banging other guys) and have had limited correspondence with her. Trying to keep her around but I know all plates break eventually. Below is the most recent text convo.

Me (last thursday): come over Saturday just got the hot tub back running.

Her: unfortunately I work Saturday but I’m off next Saturday (this Saturday)

Me: do you have any other days off before then you’d want to get together? newbies this was me breaking frame, don’t do this. My oneitis showed its head again.

Her: I only have two days off but already have plans with family and friends 😭

Me (last Friday): ok maybe next Saturday

I havent reached out and haven’t heard from her since. I know when you start falling for a plate it’s best to pull back for a while, but this is the longest we’ve gone without contact. My question is, should I reach out and try to meet up with her Saturday or continue the “soft next” and wait for her to reach out to me? She’s a great plate but for the past month I’m the one who is usually initiating but she has always come though if logistics work out. But I feel like her interest may be lessening so would it be better to just forget her for a bit and see if she reaches out or shoot her a text to see if she wants to meet up Saturday? I’ve been giving more attention to plate number 2, who’s a great girl but sex with plate 1 is better. Thanks in advance.