Everytime I go to neighboring states like New Jersey, Pennsylvania, or Connecticut, I get a lot more attention from girls then here in NYC. I am 190 lbs, 5'11 feet, not ugly but not a model either. But, it seems so difficult to compete with so many raw jawline beasts here in NYC. I feel the pressure pile on when I'm at bars or clubs. Does anyone else feel this way ? What are some ways to deal with this? Besides working out, already do that 6 days a week for past 3 years.