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Johnnybeachboy/r/seduction03/08/17 06:58 AM
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DISCUSSIONJohnnybeachboy/r/RedPillWomen15/12/18 06:57 AM
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Johnnybeachboy/r/askTRP12/11/18 08:03 AM
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Blue Pill ExampleJohnnybeachboy/r/askMRP24/08/20 02:34 AM
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Johnnybeachboy/r/askTRP15/08/18 02:37 AM
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Johnnybeachboy/r/askTRP14/01/19 10:50 PM
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Feedback. Can a friendship foster healthily from a rejection? She seems to fancy me, just not turned on by online stuff. I'm cool with seeing how things are in person, was hoping someone could share an experience.
/r/seduction24/01/21 08:52 PM
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I'd respect a woman's hussle for not falling for the easy money.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 03:20 AM
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Doesn't matter my age mate. None of you bring up the implications of prostitution. It's a disgusting practice when you look past girls who are OnlyFans waiting on desperate men to pay for photos. There's other ways to devalue sex, get into BDSM, go out put and work on your game, have some discipline, etc etc.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 06:15 PM
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I would never stoop so low to pay for sex. If you're dating a girl who cares about spending a ton of money on a date you are doing it incorrectly. It's even worse if you're going on these dates and not enjoying them! Much more fun knowing a girl actively wants to fuck you who isn't doing it based off rather shady implications. Sex slavery is everywhere and prostitution supports it.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 05:55 PM
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I'm sorry, I didn't consider that. I didn't want her recognized with one of my comments as it contained details that could indentify her. I messaged a few of the guys here that write responses to remove them as I didn't think it is fair for me to delete my post and have their experiences up.
/r/askMRP24/08/20 04:58 AM
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I felt satisfied with the responses I got, I haven't deleted the threads that had them. It's a sensitive topic I didn't want up overnight due to the personal details within.
/r/askMRP24/08/20 04:51 AM
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I only have so much time to respond to every comment here. If I leave the post up I literally won't have the time. I'd feel it be a diservice to have people write me responses unanswered. I'd imagine this would get more responses as I sleep.
/r/askMRP24/08/20 04:41 AM
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I'm making sure I respond to everyone, if I wanted to hear my own ego being fed I'd not post on the redpill. I'm taking this as tough love. In the end I'll do one decision or the other. I'm uncertain and want to figure out how I feel after internalizing this. I'm not trying to whitewash anything, I wouldn't have brought up the cheating if that was true. It's a big reason why I wanted to post here. Because I don't want the oxycoton of my genuine feelings to make my calls 100%. I'm being serious i…
/r/askMRP24/08/20 04:37 AM
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I am, the whole point is now I'm trying to convince her to make her own decisions for herself. She was forced into alot of predicaments and it shows in her being afraid to be honest. I haven't made a decision whether she's worth the trouble yet as I spent time with her before all this happened. She's had multiple relationships, she's actually slept with less people than me.... I even drilled her on it. She hasn't been on the cock carousel as people think here. I'm trying to take it easy with her…
/r/askMRP24/08/20 04:28 AM
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Thats why I posted here mate, to get some opinions and think of everything I have in my noggin. I've thought about a fair bit of this. Another 16 minutes before I feel I got enoigh responses.
/r/askMRP24/08/20 04:04 AM
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The first thing I told her, when we both felt it could be more than just a fun hookup, was that this would be a very difficult, costly relationship (this was before her breakdown, our affair, her recovery). She has to truly want it, as do I. She speaks 6 languages and her English is good enough to be close to my comprehension for me to not be worried about communication issues. The issues were in her being open, she bottles things up and doesn't know how to process her feelings well. I struggle …
/r/askMRP24/08/20 04:02 AM
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This is enough, a healthy amount of responses to get some perspective from the outside. I will add, she doesn't drink often.... her vices are few besides what happened in this post.
/r/askMRP24/08/20 03:37 AM
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I'm going to review the responses for another hour, delete the post, and reflect on them and what I'm reminded by the sidebar, thank you for the response.
/r/askMRP24/08/20 03:36 AM
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Thank for the laugh, I'd rather have a response that'd make me laugh than shit on me. Don't worry, I don't believe in unicorns. I see problems with everyone.
/r/askMRP24/08/20 03:14 AM
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I do, I've worked on myself these oast 8 months. I totally accept there's a negative outcome. Doesn't everything have one? Just because I want something doesn't mean I should have it. Leave? no where, I'm fucking girls in the US. It's a longstanding friendship even before things got messed up. I'd remove her completely from my life at that point, blocked on every conceivable way. Emotional tampon? She's never complained aboit her issues to me, the priblem was she bottled them up. I saw her nude …
/r/askMRP24/08/20 03:12 AM
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All of this is ridiculous to me to be quite fair.
/r/askMRP24/08/20 03:07 AM
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That possibility has been on my mind alot, if I decide to end it, what would be the best way as I do truly care about her? She's always been kind to me and I want to be firm and not vause any uncessary drama or harm. I wish I didn't sound like a terrible movie. Her life story is even worse. She gets my more understanding side as I know she has had an extremely difficult life alot of people wouldn't understand.
/r/askMRP24/08/20 03:05 AM
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I have other options, the sole reason why I am giving her a chance in my life is to see if she has actually changed. She was fine before her breakdown. I didn't go into detail, but her life has been incredibly tough, traumatic, and unfair. On the same note, mine has also. I don't believe in happy endings honestly. I'd like the best, but I'm also not ignoring her flags. She's been making changes to her life since everything happened. I'm just trying to figure out if it's worth the risk to go agai…
/r/askMRP24/08/20 03:02 AM
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That is what I am trying to figure out. I'm not denying the possibility, it is a huge red flag for me also.
/r/askMRP24/08/20 02:59 AM
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A year or two? Most girls aren't going to wait that long mate. Be different if she was a friend. Even the best girls could get angry they aren't promoted within 6 months.
/r/askMRP24/08/20 02:50 AM
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Sometimes I wish, being gay would be so much easier. Instead I have girls that want me to be their daddy but I'm caught on one. Even she wants to have FMF threesomes together.
/r/askMRP24/08/20 02:44 AM
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Thank you!
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/20 02:35 AM
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Thank you!
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/20 02:35 AM
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I agree, I think embracing one's emotions is the best thing someone can do. Having control and following the ebb and flow is more natural
/r/askTRP16/07/20 03:20 PM
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Been there, emotional and physical cheating hurts both sides, especially if feelings were involved. It made me question what type of person I wanted to be.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/20 06:31 PM
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Yeah, Boeing is definitely gping to rise back one day, even if the market was overvalued.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 10:07 AM
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My hair thinned out alot between 24 and 25 (I turn 25 in a few months) I didn't see much of a change in person but even using my old pictureson apps I'm getting repeat match recommendations. I entirely think it's the algorithms as my age isn't much higher than 22 or 23, the largest demographic.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 10:05 PM
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I actually didnt use tinder until 21ish. Tinder didnt come around until I was 19. I actually did a semester abroad in Eirope and never used it. At 21 was I was getting a ton of matches a day even thoigh I was fatter. Around 23 it started getting redundant. I understand people want to meet the best looking people but god, I remember how much fun it was talking to people. Still a pain in the ass at times but I got atleadt a few hundred numbers and dozens of dates
/r/askTRP02/02/20 09:20 PM
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I'm 24, so not far off.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 09:07 PM
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I agree, I remember when girls would engage me in conversation about anything and even if it was just a fling I had fun knowing she was actually into me. No nobody responds to me, meanwhile my friend who is higher SMV (his personality is shit thoigh) still gets hit up. I remember when it was so much easier for me to get a convo going, even a date. Perhaps its because I buzzed my hair but even then I was fatter than I am now.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 05:32 AM
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Honestly, it surprises me how people here wouldn't think this. People always complain about dead bedrooms and there's a girl who's putting on her absolute best, unasked. Ideally I'd like that in a partner.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 04:57 AM
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Don't take her to dinner yet, go out and do something you'd both enjoy. Keep it casual but also give her the idea you do give a shit about her without directly saying it.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 04:27 AM
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Are you trying to date her?
/r/askTRP27/01/20 04:13 AM
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Not every girl is going to be on her A game. Honestly she sounds like a nice girl to invite you to the waterpark and then even toughed it out to come over after getting sunburn. Ever have sunburn? It hurts. Should've just taken the bullet and spent some time with her doing something else. I literally took a break from sex to go get McDonalds with an ex. We had alot of fun and the mood was back on.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 04:03 AM
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Stop trying to find another girl like her, instead of thinking "There's only one" think about it like "there's someONE that's probably more compatible". I think individual people should be see as such it's too easy to break people down into core attributes. My ex and I were friends for 4 years, we didn't see eachother as romantic options until a conversation happened that highlighted how compatible we were. We spoke every day until 3 months later she had a family crisis and had a breakdown and t…
/r/askTRP12/01/20 05:47 AM
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Take some time off. When I broke things off with my ex I just felt a bit numb, I wasn't that I was hung up on her but the emotional toll was a bit high and just making some platonic connections. I still had a little bit of emotional attachment because I did love her but I also understood it wasn't the healthiest relationship and that it would have been best to be solo for awhile Don't go looking for girls for as long as you need, let things come naturally. Honestly the best way to really handle …
/r/askTRP12/01/20 05:06 AM
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I have an elaborate image of everyone.... I could write alot about anyone I know. I don't believe everything she says, but I know alot from what I knew before this even started. I mean, I'm fucking other girls.... I don't take it personal if she does, everyone has sex. We're not in a relationship. She and I both want to see how we are in person again since it's been so long. She always wants to Skype me... for hours.... I turn her down often.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 02:11 AM
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Yeah, it's a fantasy. It most likely won't work out, but it's nice to think about it. How am I putting her on a pedestal? I understand there's red flags, but isn't there ALWAYS red flags with women?
/r/askTRP05/06/19 01:53 AM
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It's a very nuanced situation. I want a serious answer for a serious question.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 01:09 AM
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I'm watching her reaction to certain things very closely. We were friends for four years.... I don't think she's actively try to mislead me. She's pretty perceptive and is consistent of what she says to me.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 01:24 AM
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She's coming in a few months (aiming at october) and she wants to pay her own way. I started new job and told her I can help her out since she is barteding in Naples (they make $7/hour there as lawyer, it's bad).
/r/askTRP22/04/19 01:21 AM
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I'll be honest. 90% of the women in my life have been bi. I have no idea why, they like me for some reason? I would say about 70% have been crazy, two girls were dating material but didn't pan out. I'm still vetting my friend, I knew how outside the context of sex until recently. She didn't seem like the girls who had issues to me. I'd normally notice something. My only red flag so far is she seeks alot of validation from me. Ofcourse, most Italian girls would. She's had several years long relat…
/r/askTRP18/04/19 09:10 PM
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I'm just looking to maintain attraction and keep my frame from when she met me until now. I've changed alot in 4 years. I already have her asking about the girl I'm language tutoring. She wants to visit. I already made it clear I'd like to see her too. I didn't asl her to come, she told me she wants to.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 09:06 PM
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Proof https://imgur.com/a/pXS1AEd I am not ugly per say, my hair isn't completely gone, but it definitely is visible now in the front. This story is 100% true.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:56 PM
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Like, I'm not used to such sweetness and I want to maintain frame. I want to be careful so I don't close myself off completely but am able to still be somewhat nice. I had to be a little mean to some girls here in the States since when I'd be naturally nice they'd walk on me.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 06:31 PM
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Third.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 01:18 AM
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I want to let her reach out again as I believe the entire reasoning for her saying the above is she feels nervous about going out and having sex aince her bf. I've had girls completely act like we never had sex because their hamster runs so deep (I obviously nexted, that's not healthy mental behavior/can't be unlearned). I don't know the nature of her prior relationship, so I'm just assuming she pulled the "I don't remember" because she feels nervous. She wanted to reschedule badly when she had …
/r/askTRP09/04/19 03:20 AM
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I agree on the points brought up. Her saying she forgot is enough to make me next her for a bit personally. She said something similar about the first time that made me take a step back. You highlighting that definitely gives creedence to the next category. She could be drama down the line and her thinking about things post date is a good sign before we have even spent some time together in person.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 03:09 AM
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She's been texting me first sans today and yesterday. She had the flu all weekend and at her request I texted her while I was recovering from surgery myselg. If she was fine I would've ignored and kept things to a minimum. I had four teeth ripped out of my head. Phone sex is certainly a thing that I have utilised and have successfully pulled off.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 02:55 AM
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That's what I'm feeling. I told her how I felt and what I wanted. I have 0 intention of chasing. Did that done that. I've det up dates for Sunday and Tuesday of next week. She impressed me, that's all I intend to tell on that.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 02:46 AM
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There's been a balance up until this point. She's sent me paragraphs over the past week. I haven't doubled texted her the entire time. I just space some thoughts in text. I even ignored her until she reached out. She actually hasn't brought up her ex until she sent me the second round of nudes. We were on the phone too. I didn't mind her opening up alittle. I have to show her a tinge of comfort or I wouldn't have gotten alot of what I've seen already. I'm 23.... shes 25.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 02:42 AM
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Point out something humourous and go from them, slight pinch of negging
/r/askTRP04/04/19 09:47 PM
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Yeah, I think it's too far to save. I fucked up saying that last bit. I didn't want her to tampon me about her sex life. Once I'm turned down I lose interest
/r/askTRP15/03/19 11:27 PM
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I deleted her number and took her off snap, fun date, but to be honest the part about not saying no turned me off a little from considering friends.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 11:26 PM
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That's what I've been doing brotha, i'm just asking if I can turn this around and make it work for me in a different way. Female friends are a good tool. I have other people that want to fuck me, no worries.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 11:18 PM
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She seems like someone I could snoke a blunt and relax with, I don't agree with some of the things she believes, but we have alot in common especially with our life experiences. Yeah, it'd be nice to fuck her, but I wouldn't care if I didn't.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 11:04 PM
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Lol. Thank you for putting it in a kindergarden level. It was either she accepts my terms or I just never text her again.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 11:02 PM
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The red pill option just seems to leave. She'd be a useful friend.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 10:57 PM
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Fuck no, she's going to be getting 1/4th of the intention I was giving her previously. She's in a poly relationship, I wasnt trying to date her.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 10:56 PM
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Thank you, I usually got girst date lays or ghosts. I want to focus on making stronger relationships with people that I feel fit my life. I'll invite her out to the local boardwalk sometime next week. She'll enjoy it.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 04:41 PM
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You know the answer son.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 03:31 PM
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Exactly, don't do things because she's a toaster to warm your dick, do it because you like her. It's her fault if she takes it for granted or otherwise.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 11:51 AM
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I would like to add. You CAN be the guy that fucks them hard and proper AND be the guy that reads them poetry.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 08:28 AM
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That last line made me laugh so much. I'm looking forward to the day when I'm old and grey, but have one of those evenings where I think "I still got it".
/r/askTRP08/02/19 08:11 AM
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I remember when I was walking to a bar from another bar on a Saturday night and this gorgeous woman walked by me and asked me if she had anything in her teeth. I made a joke about myself having an anterior open bite and being unable to eat spahgetti easily. She told me she had one of those huge retainers attached to her gead when she was younger. Even pretty woman have flaws, anyone that tries to convince you otherwise is a waste of your time. Speaking of, should've got her number, but the memor…
/r/askTRP08/02/19 08:08 AM
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Thank you so much for putting the time in to explain things and break them down. I definitely get a vibe of complacency with some people I've had experiences with. I'll most likely be less caring the first few times around and just fuck and end it until we have a proper basis of attraction. I can definitely see differences with I'm properly going full dom vs compassionate normal self. I've been told slow down, but have never been denied sex. Perhaps if I hold back a tinge I can have plates in ro…
/r/askTRP02/02/19 08:23 PM
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I meant respectful in accepting some boundaries, not all of them. Like, if they disliked something I did in sex such as leaving marks, I'll apologise, but I won't immediately listen when they say they want to take things slow even though they're hungerly going to suck me off. For example on girl cried as I was the first who she had sex woth after a divorce. I wiped up the tears off her face, kissed her, and carried on with fucking her. I am always on the prowl for plates because of thos situatio…
/r/askTRP02/02/19 06:55 AM
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I hate that. Leads to sooo much miscommunication. Just be blunt.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 11:44 PM
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Lol. I usually use my sense of humour to weed peiple out. If they can pick up and play around a bit it's much more fun to be with them.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 11:38 PM
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A three course meal with dessert. Say exactly that.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 11:26 PM
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Her husband apparently had issues. I didn't notice any from her. I've dealt with my fair share of damaged women. I'm still cautious, but I'm putting some faith in her story. She seems like a fun fuck I can be natural around.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 10:57 PM
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I agree with this, i'd be fruitless to continue having a plate while morally compromised. It pretty much removes the whole point of having a consistent partner.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 01:01 AM
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I don't care if you do, the matter is if I can score decent looking girls and hot bartenders there's something wrong with the profile at it's core. I feel like you're putting all your cards into tall, jacked, and handsome which works for dumb thots, but you gotta back it up with neat and bones and not just skin, ya got me?
/r/askTRP31/12/18 12:01 AM
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Its a serious offer. I'm balding and average and I get matches on Tinder. It could be the type of photos and your bio. Women that are actually interesting to fuck WILL read them.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 11:45 PM
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I really need to read American Psycho, that eas written like butter.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 11:43 PM
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I havent written in ages but if you want to swap, I have some from late highschool early to mid college. I hate people say it's blue pill but having a grander idea if beyond things as game and such.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 09:24 AM
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I'm not bothering with it as I have a fear of sides due to hormone issues with my mother. I've accepted my fate. I'd rarher wait until my hair could be cloned.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 09:23 AM
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Hey man, if you want send me screenshots of your profile and maybe I could help. I'd also need to know what area you are in.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 09:21 AM
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God you're one piece of work.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 08:59 AM
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You got me there. I was speaking more in an in your face, bipolar, cluster B sense. I should've clarified that more.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 11:37 AM
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I never said zero, The prior addiction, even though they were lower level psychedelics. Scars on her arms. Coming from an extremely restrictive household, bad relationship with parents. She's living in a sober home to clean herself up and remove herself from bad environments. She brougt up her ex, a big no no for me. Positives She's clarified all this to me and was not shy of answering questions. In past situations where I felt someone was damaged there was a TON of denial and shifting blame to …
/r/askTRP29/12/18 09:42 AM
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I've dealt with some truly broken women, but the difference here is she's not in denial about anything. That's what i think is the crucial difference for things that didn't go as I wanted. The women that had issues (none ever took it out on me) often hamstered them away. She actually feels responsible and hasn't blamed others. Granted, she's 19 and I am 23. She has shown more self awareness than people who have been older than me. I am conpletely ready to bail if things go wrong. She has my alte…
/r/askTRP29/12/18 04:43 AM
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I would say 15. A lot of girls have long term bfs and don't cheat, but even average guys have a few ONs. Granted, if she was sexually active from 16 - 25. I feel the red pill overestimates the number of partners. There are girls who have had sex with 20+ but don't remember half due to being drunk etc.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 01:36 AM
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Hey man, atleast it's just venting and you have no malicious feelings. You jusy gotta hold frame. Very simple answer, but that's all we could do as men.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 04:59 AM
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Paul Newman, class act, moral, flawed, elegant but grounded. I always felt he was a man's man moreso than what most people idolize.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 09:36 PM
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Exactly this.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 06:27 PM
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Talk about politics, money, etc. You'll know someone is open minded if they listen and don't judge you. My best friend and I are opposites on everything, but there's a mutual respect. Ofcourse it was earned over time. Everyone always says avoid, is that a true friend if they can't reconcile petty differences in opinion?
/r/askTRP15/12/18 09:58 AM
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Send her a short, but proper text. Nothing more, nothing less. She'll be in a bad mental state and unless you were still emotionally close, I wouldn't risk having her confuse any emotions she has at the moment.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 09:52 AM
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The first time I ever felt I could truly let my guard down was with some of the women I met when I was traveling. This one in particular was a Czech girl with deep green-blue eyes. I fell in love with her the moment I saw her. We met up three months later... in Prague, had dinner, she laughed at me playing with prawns at the dinner table, and we went out drinking afterwards with a friend of hers. After he left, I stole a kiss from her and as the tram took us back to her place she spoke about my …
/r/ExRedPill15/12/18 09:08 AM
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I like the redpill for some things that are positive but yeah, I agree with this. Every relationship that has fallen apart in my life where I got ghosted or lied to, the woman had some major issue be it anxiety, depression, or something else. The people that haven't had any issues have been more than reasonable with working with me. I ofcourse am very grateful for them as that is rare in general. A good example was when I was mentally out of it. A decent woman never judged me for having my own i…
/r/ExRedPill15/12/18 08:45 AM
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Man, be this man's Qui-Gon Jin before you Obi-Wan this and he goes to the darkpill.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 08:12 AM
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Yeah, I could and will read the side bar, but isn't it equally important to understand how people interpet the male red pills mission and how it relates between these two subreddits from a community standpoint? I'm a guy, I just wanted to have an idea of what the people feel about the other gender as this question was asked on the male subreddit.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/18 07:29 AM
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I wouldn't say i'm polling. Is it not important to acknowledge the shared mission of theredpill and it'a values?
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/18 07:18 AM
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To the first part, people are welcome to PM me and tell me. Or we could speak about it constructively here. I wouldn't say that's negative, is it? I often feel the male red pill attracts some people who only intend to use it for dark triad traits that don't really build a heathly, balanced relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/18 07:11 AM
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Her second text doesn't make very much sense. But I'm getting the idea she is either nervous or might not be too into you [a game is a commitment, usually its a fuck yes from girls] I'd do either this; Tell her you're going to the game anyway, she's welcome to come. Don't fret if she doesn't and wait a few days and invite her for ice cream or a drink Suggest something else, if she doesn't bite. Tell her you're going to the game then radio silence.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 06:40 AM
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What were the texts beforehand?
/r/askTRP15/12/18 06:33 AM
2

Shouldn't you be asking this on another subreddit? Back, face, wherever she pleases
/r/askTRP12/12/18 04:59 AM
0

Okay, so I'd weigh how much trouble she'd be if you solely want that. I've turned down plenty of women as I'd know they'd be worse off as my intentions didn't line up with theirs. The question I'd ask myself is would I be better off if I fucked her? OR would she be annoying after that. I never fuck annoying girls, only chill ones becayse I like someone I can relate to.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 07:54 AM
0

I mean... we live different lifestyles. I have disabled siblings I need to protect so I only let a few people into my personal life. I'll ask you, what do you value in a person?
/r/askTRP11/12/18 07:24 AM
8

I wouldn't even bother going out with her in the first place. I don't need women like that in my life.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 07:20 AM
1

I wouldn't say Bumble is much different at least where I am. I feel like the goal of bumble is to really get to know someone a bit better. Yesterday I accidentally came off the wrong way to a girl and she blocked me. Felt terrible because she seemed legitimately excited to get to know me. You have to remember a lot of women go on Bumble to actually meet someone so they're expectations are higher. I text her from my other number and apologize to her explain it was a misconception I didn't expect …
/r/askTRP10/12/18 12:17 AM
2

I wish I had the problem you're having, but the best thing you could do is just wait it out. Let her come to you.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 11:14 PM
2

I edited my prior response with some possibilities. You gotta be blunt with her or otherwise she will talk shit about you. One of the things men don't do is correct a woman proper. Alot of people think it's myognistic but truthfully we all know a girl that was pampered in life and her family never made her take responsibility. Be that guy and let her go firmly.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 07:38 AM
3

Just go with it, I had a date earlier today and wondered the same thing. You'll zone yourself out from being yourself if you overthink it. You sound incredibly fascinating and I'd honestly want you as my friend. Flying planes and skydiving are cool
/r/askTRP03/12/18 07:31 AM
1

Is she a pain in the ass usually? (Serious question) Edit: If she doesn't remember politefully inform her after you get her out of your place and back home. Lie and say you don't want to fuck (i.e sick) if she wants to. Be brutally honest, she deserves to have a stern talking to. If her friends ask you, be honest. If she brings it up, keep your voice level and strong, tell her how disappointed (key word) it made you feel and you do not see a future with her. If she lies to her friends, you don't…
/r/askTRP03/12/18 07:28 AM
1

You're off playing how dangerous drunk driving is and I find it incredibly disgusting. Seriously. I can't find the block button so please do me that one favour.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 07:24 AM
1

What's worse than endangering, really gambling the lives of others? Seriously, an STD is not even bad compared to that
/r/askTRP03/12/18 07:13 AM
4

Are you drunk? Does my username look like OPs?
/r/askTRP03/12/18 07:05 AM
8

Just had a kid die, age 19, at my alma mater due to a drunk driver hitting a brick wall, he was in the passenger seat. Shut your fucking mouth. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.app.com/amp/303543002 EDIT: He was 20.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 06:56 AM
5

I think you've made the right decision. No girl should be so classless to get that drunk and attempt to drive. If she had TWO or less beers I.can see her waiting, but sloppy is unacceptable. I don't think you need any advice my man. Also, it seems like she doesn't respect you if she disobeys something you clearly have a distatste for. That's hard next category for me.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 06:53 AM
2

Depends, I've had much more success getting to know a girl over a week prior to meeting up. Usually try to make plans within a week. But I swear, when a girl is attracted to you for you there's nothing better.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 06:34 PM
2

No, you could literally remove 80% of your exposition and get to the point. Plus, "I'm unemployed because I grew up wealthy?" Go back and read the sidebar because this isn't what the TRP stands for.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 10:29 PM
1

Glad I could oblige.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 10:27 PM
6

Probably one of the dumbest things I've ever read. And I've seen a lot of things on the red pill I thought were stupid.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 09:56 PM
1

Yes, if someone were to find out, especially a business partner, that would completely discredit him. He's not in a career that translates at all, unlike Slyvester Stalone and his acting career post porno. This isn't a time period where you can hide things.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 03:54 AM
6

I bookmarked this, but I'd also add. Keep up with your friends, very very important one.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 11:14 PM
14

You don't see the flaw in what you're thinking? You're going into their frame. You're overthinking. Social media isn't that big a deal for any well adjusted person. Circumvent? I've never had a single issue about not having social media. More people have jad issues with me having an Android!
/r/askTRP27/11/18 11:23 PM
9

That's their fault if they don't like you have limited social media. You're going for the wrong type of girl then. Any lay worth her salt would accept your privacy. Just say you don't have it, then swap numbers.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 11:19 PM
1

Gotchu fam
/r/askTRP26/11/18 06:45 AM
1

Don't be so rough on yourself. One of the things I disagree with TRP is completely holding your own opinion in value when it comes to a relationship. People here often forget you're dealing with a human being, I believe we're animals deep inside, but we've been gifted with higher rationalizing skills based off our cultures. It's very easy to villianise people. I cqtch myself holding some contempt at times. If you want to continue to make it work, reassess how she handled things after you took a …
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:54 AM
3

B. I wouldn't have taken her back, but you've made decisions based off your desires and she paid her penance at the time. But you have to remember it completely altered the relationship from that point on. I wouldn't move in with her period if you're still having hang-ups over it. It would just sow doubts into your head as you share the same living space with her. In addition, if there is another bump in the read where would you go to decompress? You're LIVING TOGETHER. If you intend to prepose …
/r/askTRP26/11/18 04:57 AM
2

Do what you think a brave man would do, stand tall, whole body and mind even if you don't have the actual height. Do you really think she's going to care if you're charming and finds you attractive? I'm the shortest guy in my family at 5'9" the height envy is real. But I remind myself I grew up around tall people so I know how to act like one!
/r/askTRP24/11/18 06:57 AM
4

Yeah, sounds like you had one in a million. The people in my college were a bit toxic and now that I'm out of school it's been a bit easier to get laid. Once I get out of my monk mode it'll be better. Never been much for strip clubs though
/r/TheRedPill20/11/18 10:34 AM
7

I'm only 23, but I wish I had a friend like that in college. It works wonders to have someone that you can bounce thoughts off of in a conversation that truly gets you. My biggest problem I have with gaming (gaming sounds so silly, I mean getting to escalate) women is being sexually suggestive, I haven't struck the raw sexuality I'd like to despite knowing I'm different in the bedroom than outside. I pulled it off once, a girl in a kink club, I tugged on her chocker collar when her doms weren't …
/r/TheRedPill20/11/18 10:26 AM
16

I felt the post was fairly realistic, I especially liked how your friend removed himself, I'll keep that type of thinking in mind if I wingman.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/18 09:57 AM
1

I appreciate the advice! I don't actually try... it takes me about a month to warm up to someone. This girl was an EMT, Firefighter, and former military, very few people impress me like this. I had alot of respect for her. Just sucks to hear it whether it's true or not.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 10:24 AM
1

We were never in a relationship.... but yeah fine point. I deleted her number as she sounded pissed ovee text when I offered her help so I guess there's no point. Not going to bother if she doesn't want me around.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 10:15 AM
1

The instance that inspired me to reach out was less so pride, moreso she didn't want to talk about it. I asked why our relationship feel apart after two months of no speaking (I don't have oneitis, I fucked a girl while we were casually seeing eachother, she had traits I admired and I developed a soft spot for her) and she told me in response. I feel absolutely terrible for her, but it also made me angry how ahe treated me. Apparently she didn't report it which leaves me skeptical. Part of my eg…
/r/askTRP19/11/18 10:10 AM
1

Why does your age keep changing in your posts? Some you're 24 others your 25? I'm talking you have listed 25 9 months ago and now you're saying you're 24?
/r/askTRP15/11/18 08:10 AM
1

I screenshotted this, excellent reminder. I generally like to tweet a woman in my lofe rather well.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 05:03 AM
1

"Hey, I made some soup for dinner, do you want some? I know you're feeling shitty". Done
/r/askTRP15/11/18 02:30 AM
1

You're applying generalities to an individual opinion. This isn't about white woman, this is about a woman. I mean, you're the object of their interest right? Can't chalk it up for just being foreign. You're obviously attractive to them. Sure you want something more local, how about you put it in your profile?
/r/askTRP14/11/18 02:06 AM
1

It works the same way as an American in Europe buddy. There's a foreigner bias and features they don't find in their country.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 01:30 AM
1

I did a semester abroad in London in 2015, feel free to hit me up if you have any questions, I experienced a little of everything out there and I still write to people after akmost 4 years.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 06:20 AM
1

If you're in control and you're confident about it not being a hang-up. You can tell a girl you're a traveling hobo and eat rats if you frame it the right way and act with confidence.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 08:52 AM
1

That was my conclusion also, let him make his own mistakes. I just wanted to infer here. If I'm going to continue hearing more about him chasing after girl's who clearly aren't into him I'm going to want to find a way to point out what's not working for him. He listens to alot of pickup artist stuff, alot of which sounds silly to me. I wouldn't say eager, I just don't want to see him in shit he can't handle/not develop from. I grew up with disabled siblings so I know firsthand some of the shit h…
/r/askTRP12/11/18 08:20 AM
9

Whether their behavior changes if you tell them something personal. Big way of telling whether there'd be an uneven power dynamic in the future. My closest friends have seen me at my worst and at my best and never judged me for it. They'll become more like family than friends. For people you intend to keep at arms length, follow Benjamin Franklin's advice and ask for small favours.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 10:41 PM
1

I've had this happen to me, they're bitches in the first place. I was smiling just being content for a rare time and a girl I wasn't even looking at changed her face to a frown. She was in my peripheral vision. Anotger time one asked if I was 16 and was rude to me as I was walking along with some friends. Hey, if I'm unattractive it's whatever, never stopped me before.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 08:55 AM
-3

Throw a compliment, give her your number pre written, and leave.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 11:49 PM
1

No. Soend that money on interesting experiences and you'll meet interesting people. Maybe as a one shot just to see what it's like, but interview her beforehand and get someone interesting or compatible with your interests.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 11:41 PM
0

I made my costume out of styrofoam and tape. Try that
/r/askTRP27/10/18 09:30 PM
0

I made my costume out of styrofoam and tape. Try that
/r/askTRP27/10/18 09:29 PM
3

Lol, just go for it. You'll have that big dick energy when you're near her friends.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 12:05 AM
1

It's refreshing to read TRPs concensus on corporate culture, I find it rather abhorrent also. I didn't think people would agree with me.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 11:19 AM
15

The only mark you'll leave is with the people around you. You will be remembered, by the people you affected the most. Maybe not always in name, but in values.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 01:02 PM
6

This! My issue come down to distance logistics. But this is more than certainly true. I've had women screaming my name the night before and then get suddenly ghosted. I may have my own issues I'm working through, but the people that I did fuck that ghosted often had issues of their own unrelated to me.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 03:09 AM
-4

Be a man and own up to the mistake you made. You made your bed now lie in it. She's going to be hurt either way best to get it over with. She'll come back to you if she feels you're worthy of forgiveness. Edit: I agree with the above poster, breakup with her and don't give her a reason. If she's still in mental fatigue about her father the worst thing you could do is exacerbate it.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 11:50 AM
2

You started a failed business, turn that around and say you've successfully started a business, but the project plans didn't work out. That's sheer dedication and great resume material.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 05:58 AM
1

I meet more attractive girls in NYC.... lol, NJ I have eh luck. I'd rather be in NYC than here.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 03:18 AM
1

So she's tolerable and not a bitch. How quickly is this event coming up?
/r/askTRP06/10/18 07:54 AM
2

I wouldn't say put your own happiness behind hers, the last thing you need is for her to feel dejected when she invited you. There's a difference between doing something you're not 100% on and holding frame by remaining stoic. If you see yourself having fun with her, why not?
/r/askTRP06/10/18 07:44 AM
9

Might be an old suggestion but Paul Newman. Very typical man's man outfit that fits a palate of skin tones.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 06:42 AM
16

Just go. She might be boring as wet cardboard but perhaps you'd have fun. It's get you social exposure to go. However. If you feel strongly about not going. Kindly let her go. Tell her you didn't expect this direction for your relationship and it doesn't align with your current goals. You'll have to politely turn her down.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 06:16 AM
3

Good move, it'll keep her on her feet and it establishes frame and shows you're comfortable with yourself.
/r/askTRP29/09/18 08:51 PM
13

Ask them how their day is going. Be human, don't think too much about it. It's 10x easier talking to a girl once you know they're interested. Conbersations are two way street so if you feel you're slacking they'll ramp up the effort.
/r/askTRP29/09/18 07:54 PM
3

I don't believe they're meant for American roads and they've become more of a status symbol than a high perforance, high quality automobile.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 06:58 PM
4

Be straight, you wouldn't want a gold-digger around wouldn't you? You'd lose the satisfaction of getting with a girl that is more respectable. Base their perception on you, don't lure with wealth. I parked cars for some extra cash and this kid my age comes around. He's fat, has a beer gut, and pulled up in a new Benz. He was very perplexed why I didn't like his car (I hate Mercedes-Benz) and when he came back he drunk drove with this attractive girl latched onto his arm. Absolutely pathetic.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 12:32 PM
1

I disagree, if you're bold enough and keep your cool amongst her friends you'll most likely hookup that night. I've done it before.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 08:09 AM
1

A peaceful moment of reflection after an accomplishment. To truly grasp what success and goals are to you.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 09:42 AM
2

Good points for me to think on. I was originally gung ho about fucking her, perhaps feeling uncertain is just a sign of my waining interest I have trouble identifying. I'm just not excited and speaking with her feels like a chore. Guess I have my answer. Edit: I noticed the Shel Silverstein & Johnny Cash reference!
/r/askTRP17/09/18 07:50 AM
12

Google Voice. I accidentally got banned for posting shirtless photos to guage reactions out of girls. The test worked well for eight hours then I was shut down. Now I use different google voice numbers.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 07:30 AM
1

I'm not natural, I'm still unwiring alot of behavior. Hard to believe at times I pandered so much. Yeah, I left the ball in her court with my number and I knew she was going to reach out after I cut contact.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 06:12 AM
1

Good point. I've been balancing being assertive and trying to come off less pushy. Any materials you could recommend about setting frame and balancing being assertive but not pushy? I'll give it a shot when I go to Boston or during her winter break. I won't be holding my breath. Thank you for the advice
/r/askTRP24/08/18 05:58 AM
1

Edit: Yes, you're right. If I continue to message her I'll play into orbiter status, I had all the cards before and now I'm showing them. Should I throw a shot in the dark text when I'm in Boston. What would be the best response, if any, after agreeing with her? I know there are other women.... I've literally been with two in the past two weeks. One was the girl I like that's busy being an EMT.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 05:44 AM
1

That is my first assumption and why I initially just played around with her. Until she sent me paragraphs about her travel stuff after I asked and snapped me those pictures. I'm asking how could I put this on ice (like hitting her up in a few months). I don't wait on people who can't make their minds up.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 05:32 AM
4

I was in the Delta Tau Delta chapter of a school in NJ of which I was a founding father. You're welcome to PM me if you have any questions or to ask about my experience However, to sum it up. I'd say no. The majority of people that join fraternities at ny school are not the most responsible. We've had several brothers with alcohol posioning which I didn't feel was taken care of properly. Brotherhood was shattered after the first year when infighting happened and new guys came in. Our chapter is …
/r/askTRP15/08/18 02:45 AM
1

It makes me feel really fortunate to never meet a girl that has given me trouble about expressing what she likes. Reminds me never to settle for a girl who won't reciprocate. At least I can rest knowing I turned them on proper. I'm still working on retainment.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 01:10 AM
2

Ask her where to put your hand, the #1 rule of anything bdsm or rough sex is to make sure you have consent and know where her boundaries lie. I put my potential gf into a very light headlock while pulling her hair back because I felt choking was unsafe. She was very pleased.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 12:59 AM
1

If you do it to yourself, it's almost like they attack you becausr they're so turned on. Out of the eight people I've been with 7 have been into what you were stating
/r/askTRP06/08/18 12:57 AM
1

I'd say why not? I literally just f-closed a girl I've been writing and calling for three weeks. She only texted me to cancel when I texted her to confim, but you want to know what happened each time? Parents needed to be picked up at the airport. I called her and heard her driving. Her friend had a crisis. Father got into an argument. I talked her through it. After all that, after lightly telling her I was losing interest after 3 cancellations. We met, played Sonic the Hedgehog, spent 6 hours t…
/r/askTRP03/08/18 06:44 PM
1

It's eloquently written. Whether it's true or not.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 04:15 PM
2

A box with a few restraints, clothespins, and other things that can be used for fun. Works like charm. In a more serious note, stuff from my travels. I like when someone is observant and takes an interest in how I meticulously decorate my living quarters.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 05:29 PM
14

What would be the number one advice you'd give to someone who has to take care of others who can not take care of themselves? I have to focus on myself so I can straighten out my career, relationships, etc, but I often worry and fear I will be unable to protect them if I completely focus on myself.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 07:24 PM
2

I'll give it a week or so and see if she hits me up. I'm going out next Friday and I'll see her reaction. . I'll be more assertive post Sunday. I am lucky to have two bites irl but this situation is good practice to break my mindset. Thank you for taking the time to respond, especially my follow ups.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 04:16 AM
0

True. But wouldn't my action of telling her I'm hanging out with my friends instead of waiting around chip at her frame? She's been texting me and I've been ignroing it for a bit. It flearly bothered her the first time.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 03:42 AM
1

Can you explain why I'm in her frame? Not as a counter argument but to further understand. I always felt it was a matter of balancing involvement. I'm not concerned if I lose out, I just got two girls numbers off tinder that seem more into me.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 03:14 AM
0

I'm not. I'm leaving the ball in her court now to call me tomorrow. I was close to nexting her after she told me that. I am nobodys' Plan B. I purposely left her a voicemail because I was annoyed she'd only text me and not engage me on my standards. I always call a date first to screen if she's crazy. Edit: That's also a great assumption. AWALT.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 02:39 AM
4

Njce humble brag, you sound like my buddy who came from a wealthy background, nice guy and a good friend to me, a tinge spoiled. However, he hired a dating coach and he's improved with making friends and everything. I'm happy to see him happy.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 05:12 PM
2

It's worth experimenting. I feel alot of stuff flies over a woman's head, but if she takes the time to read something and reslond to it, she's a cut above the rest.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 10:13 PM
0

Since I changed it a week and a half ago, 2 dates, several numbers, and one F-close.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 09:58 PM
0

It works.... you've never done Mad Libs before?
/r/askTRP06/07/18 07:54 PM
1

Here's mine that I've had success with, not short, but it invites people to be creative. think the best way to get to know someone is to fill in the empty space in their I͟m͟a͟g͟i͟n͟a͟t͟i͟o͟n͟. I'm the ⓂⒶⒹ ⓁⒾⒷⓈ type. Want something c̲a̲s̲u̲a̲l̲ but if it blossoms I'd love to make it a b͟o͟u͟q͟u͟e͟t͟. Looking to get d͟r͟i͟n͟k͟s͟ at a b͟r͟e͟w͟e͟r͟y͟, make a little c͟o͟n͟v͟e͟r͟s͟a͟t͟i͟o͟n͟, and maybe end up in our u͟n͟d͟e͟r͟w͟e͟a͟r͟ drinking h̲o̲t̲ ̲c̲h̲o̲c̲o̲l̲a̲t̲e̲ and building a p̲i̲l̲l̲o̲w̲ ̲f…
/r/askTRP06/07/18 04:48 PM
1

I think the idea is that men are more prone to being more "loyal" in relationships. That a high n-count wouldn't be as significant compared to a woman. Not entirely sure how people feel about that on here though. I'm sure there's a sidebar subject. IMO, I think if a woman sleep around alot it's less so about sex and moreso about attention which highlights poor personality traits, context is everything. I.E - I don't remember everyone I sleep with. I made one exception because she was extremely n…
/r/askTRP01/07/18 08:44 AM
2

You're a diamond in the rough, I can't find a girl that'll hold a conversation.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 08:37 AM
1

I keep an emergency fund with $2,000 for repairs and such. I recommend you do the same.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 06:06 PM
1

This has been a painful experience for me becayse couples are TERRIBLE at talking to me avout what they want. If they want a hookup then it becomes a game of phone tag and then it fizzles out. Just give me a bloody yes or no on whether the interest is there. I need time to set things up, schedule it, etc. If they want to chat more I try to be personable but then they lose interest. I can't win you know? I'm direct, polite, I'm professional but fun. I don't ask for nudes out of context. I like to…
/r/seduction12/06/18 05:16 AM
1

Yeah, I was pretty shocked by when she told me that. I honestly didn't believe her but who knows? Maybe she was comfortable. She wouldn't let go of my hand when I tried pulling away. I agree she probably did, but as much as I believe that I've had girls completely shut me down before. Maybe, probably not.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 02:50 AM
1

I'm slowly reading the sidebar. I was honestly about to pull her outside before she asked, i found that kinda funny. I was guaging her at the bar because I wanted confirmation she wasn't crazy (she was an identified feminist). I did my usual kino, sarcasm, etc tests and she beat me to the punch. I also knew she wanted me because she texted me drunk.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 02:47 AM
1

I just figured it wasn't a definite end if she wasn't speaking womanese. Who knows if she'll.change her mind in a month. I won't be waiting around for her obviously but I want to respond properly to it. Yeah, atleast I got confirmation she won't change her story.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 02:44 AM
1

That's why I'm not getting to invested. I've had this routine before by people. I was just asking how to respond differently this time. I don't appreciate being called naive either, I've dealt with my own sort of crazy before and have taken steps to vet that out. I can't just be a tad disappointed I don't get a second time? I'm just being honest. I have a threesome planned for next Sunday and am working on asling a girl out at work now since I'm leaving for another job. Is that not good enough f…
/r/askTRP18/05/18 02:42 AM
1

I agree with this assessment. I hadn't considered the implications this would have on me if her behavior and mental state were in question. I'll take it as it is, she's giving me a heads up.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 01:26 AM
1

Ughhh I just wrote one post. I just find it annoying, but the point of the red pill is to not care. I'm just asking if I should ignore like my gut says or write something nice and encouraging. I'm just working on past blue pill tendencies.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 09:53 PM
2

Yeah, I honestly believe it's over, but I can't think of how she could've lost interest besides the trigger. She clamed up immediately like she went back to that specific moment. I don't know if it was true, but I spoke softly and held her hand and said it's okay. She kept apologising all night. I got her laughing in the car ride back and broke the tension. Yeah, my failure in the past was not giving it time. One girl was pulling a soft next on me and I got "concerned" and blew it until I bumped…
/r/askTRP16/05/18 09:37 PM
1

She said for awhile, if she wanted a definite end it would've been more direct, would it not? I don't plan on getting oneitis, just looking on how to respond so I could potentially plate her in the future. I have other girls I'm texting -
/r/askTRP16/05/18 09:32 PM
1

This is why I read.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 08:27 PM
1

I don't agree with the wording, but 100% establish your boundaries. I've had women give me sex up front then want a relationship even after I told them I am a slow burn for relationships as I haven't been in one yet (22). It is usually a hard-no if they don't respect that or they'll ghost me because I don't give them what they want.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 08:28 AM
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Hey bud, I think the best thing you could ever do for yourself is to expand your boundaries and never stop. You need to challenge yourself even when you tell yourself that you can't do something. You see a guy doing something interesting that you want to learn about, ask him. If you see a hot girl staring at you you ask her to tag along if you decide to go thrift shopping or go to the gym. You do you. Because even if you put on a big Macho personality and act like you're the hottest guy in the c…
/r/askTRP06/04/18 07:27 AM
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It's a shame because I'm always pressed on it if they want to get close to me but I know they'll feign compassion since they wouldn't understand the whole situation. I have been let down by both men and women :/ I'm a strong person... just this part of my life is traumatic.... I'm lucky to have two friends (one male, one female) that put up with me when I fall into those habits. Thank you for the reaffirmation, sometimes it's nice to be told what you already suspect. I will definitely look into …
/r/askTRP29/03/18 05:01 AM
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I completely agree with this. I think the largest changes I've had where when I put myself out there and actually went outside and talked to strangers. This happened both when I was in Europe and out of college. You just need to put yourself in a better environment and mindset and you could do really anything. Some days are going to suck others are going to knaw at you, but I assure you the increased contact will calm you down. I didn't lose my virginity until 21. It really becomes less of a dea…
/r/askTRP29/03/18 03:40 AM
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Don't shit where you eat bro. It gets messy and the food tastes terrible after awhile.
/r/seduction21/12/17 08:48 PM
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This sum's up how I feel I'm appearing here. I feel the last thing I want to do is force anything. That'll just lead to a poor end result. Your reply is a great guideline I should follow. I'm going to let the 1st conversation die and with the second it seems you has become rather fond as it is telling by her responses. They're actually larger than mine. I'm going to pull back for a bit to see if she decides to continue it or not if delay my response to know if she's replying out of interest or g…
/r/seduction21/12/17 06:59 PM
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^ this. Although instead of getting rid of the smartphone, get a cheaper plan. I use MintSim and only paid $180 for a whole year. It isn't bad depending on the area.
/r/seduction20/12/17 09:11 AM
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My apologies, I didn't know that existed. I'll move this post over then. Thanks for letting me know
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 07:06 PM
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That's what I was thinking. Thank you so much for the advice. Doing what I feel is proper is the best way of handling this.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 07:05 PM
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People are complex. There could be 100s of reason why she may be flakey. Alot of it is insecurity.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 07:05 PM
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Yes, when I was in Europe, will write soon.
/r/seduction31/08/17 07:01 PM
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I appreciate everything you have said. I think I'm going to drop asking out a waitress I know to ask another girl that seems to be interested in knowing me despite not talking to me most of the summer. She seems sweet. Just going to slow down
/r/seduction03/08/17 07:12 PM
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I don't try to. It's just unresolved internal stuff I have a hard time seeing. I can't talk to a psych as that doesn't bring it out. I'm trying to confront it. It's like getting a bruise and below it internal bleeding develops. Just need to cull it and stich it up. At times I just find it hard to socialise. It's hard to meet new people. It's so easy yet so difficult. I want to work on.my relationships but I don't know how.
/r/seduction03/08/17 08:04 AM
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You know, it sounds terrible at times but I'd rather have had other things happen to me than having felt I couldn't talk to him. Rather that than worry about my brother and sister every minute and doing nothing with them because it makes.me cry when I think about it too hard. Nobody has it easy. But I've felt in my case I had very little control. Their problems can end, my concerns are alive and the way it affected other people (my parents) affected me. My father apologised for yelling at me bec…
/r/seduction03/08/17 07:40 AM
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