Hey all;

Simple question.

Met a girl off Bumble, hit it off via text, asked her out to play minigolf (at her suggestion) Made plans for tomorrow told her 1PM Sunday and gave her my address for parking.

I texted her today confirming tomorrow. She told me she didn't realise we made definite plans but stated she still wanted to go out but was unsure if her schedule was free anymore. [BS]

I sent her a screenshot of what I wrote. She repeated she didn't realise and 20 minutes later sent me "That's it huh?" when I was thinking of a response. Then I realised I could make other plans.

I called her, she didn't pick up so I left her a voicemail saying if she didn't know her plans for TOMORROW (This is less than 16 hrs from now) we should reschedule and I'll go hang out with my friend in Red Bank instead and that I'd sincerely like to make plans with her. Told her we could push for later in the evening (She works in NYC during the week, I'll lose interest if she's only free on weekends).

Did I make the right call on using her own words against her? I didn't want to soft next because she seemed into me and her annoyed response indicates so. We haven't spent enough time together to figure out if she wants me to orbit for attention.

I honestly struggled to figure out what to say, it bothered me it was so hard.