Hi,

I realized that when I am not approaching a girl that I would like to approach, I feel down. I feel loss of energy, I get caught in a mindless loop of "what if I asked her out" or "man, that girl was so great" or "shit, she was eye fucking you, why didn't you ask her out" for a few hours or even days.

Today I approached 2 women that I know and I like them very much. Both seemed interested in me, but... both rejected. And you know what? I feel better. I feel safe. I feel more secure. Why?

Because I took actions to follow my dreams.

This is very important to me, because in the past I lived mainly inside my head.

How do you see it, is it the same for you?