Hey guys,

Sorry this is long.. just looking for advice. I recently graduated college and I work as an investment banker at a known "sweatshop" in new york and I go into the office most days. Because of my job though I spend pretty much 80-100 hours a week working and it leads me to cancel on a lot of plans with friends / dates etc just because of tiredness or something comes up with work.

Recently I started seeing a girl who I was really into in highschool but never got a chance with. Its been going well, we fucked a couple times and talked about our dreams and shit, but between work and occasionally going out with friends/colleagues I rarely see her (once/twice a week maybe) and barely get to reply to her. I'm guessing this inadvertent lack of attention from me is playing a huge role into why she's hitting me up so often.

At the risk of sounding insecure I'm starting to like this girl and see a future with her, and shes saying shes really into me but I can't tell if she's only into me because I'm unintentionally unavailable and I have no way to test it because I'm going to be relatively "unavailable" for my foreseeable future.

tldr: does girl like me for me or just because of my unavailability / anything i should be looking for or testing her with?