Does the ability to speak another language and other so called "attractive" qualities actually help you?

Pitchfork51 · 2017-04-29T03:49:29+00:00

You have to be good looking enough that you are in the ballpark.

6.5/7 or above is good.

Then you have to act correctly. It doesn't even matter what you say. Posture, eye contact, tone, etc. are probably the biggest things. It's what girls mean when they say a guy is "confident" and what we refer to as presence or frame but it's kind of hard to explain.

Most guys that can start a conversation with girls but then get rejected or friend zoned act very oddly and supplicating around girls. I don't even know if it's so much beta as it is just lame or weird.

It's like they try to come up with interesting shit to say constantly but it's never natural feeling to the girl because its forced. Then you aren't fun.

Looks get you in the door though.

alysk3 · 2017-04-29T08:56:58+00:00

I'm bilingual...

If you can use the extra language as a tool to display SMV, then yes. If you can't use it, then it's useless :)

For example, let's say you are at work and you are surrounded by a couple of guys who have your same SMV or slightly higher. Then let's say an important client shows up that speaks only your other language, and these guys can't do nothing.

If, in that context, you start talking with confidence with the client, in front of the other guys and women, then you're SMV will go slightly up because you have an ability that can be easily translated to money, AND the other two can't do nothing about it.

They may either say nothing, or will compliment you, or will try to mock you. Whatever they do, it will play in your favor because you showed, in front of women, that you have an ability they lack and made them "go quite". And make no mistake: controlling other men's behaviors = dominance = more attractive to women.

Title	Does the ability to speak another language and other so called "attractive" qualities actually help you?
Author	smegma_toast
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	April 29, 2017 3:40 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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