Went on date, escalated, made out, blah blah, exchanged a few text.

Few days later I received this :

i feel like i need to put things on the table..im not sure about the whole dating thing cause im not 100% sure im ready for it cause i dont know what i want honestly and i feel like ima lead this on..im not super jumping to assumptions but i like to be informal

Few things to keep in mind:

She shit tested me a lot about our age difference, not too sure how old she is. ( I'm 21, she's prob 23 or 24 ). I'm obv trying to smash, but I'm not sure if this is one giant shit test.

What am I missing here.

Thanks