When I go out, I need to get my BAC around 0.15-0.2 (8 ish drinks) before I feel comfortable to talk to women. This is even in a case where my friends have bottle service. Alcoholism runs in my family which scares me even more. I battle depression, and sometimes feel like having drinks when I'm sad. My game is terrible, I've gotten ONS's from bars/clubs but its only when I'm severely intoxicated.

How can I fix this? Its staple for me to get that many drinks into me before trying anything, and even then I fail. I have a friend who likes to sober game, but I just cant wrap my head around it.