ED troubles

thrwy75479 · 2019-01-21T20:56:50+00:00

Over time, I've learned more about what gets me off. The following are a few of those things that may or may not be helpful:

younger, pretty girls get me hard more easily; it's like their fertility is instantly picked up on
this isn't always true, but i've found being bigger than the girl helps in that i feel more dominant; this is difficult for shorter guys, but this is where having muscle helps
being controlling also helps by telling her what you want her to do; bend over, turn around, kneel, those sort of things
i don't find being dominated in the bedroom particularly arousing but i have found that being wanted gets me off like nothing else; like when she's enthusiastic about being with you, and begging for it, it feels really good
doing it in the morning is much better; testosterone levels are higher; i've tested this with blood samples
testosterone levels are highest 5-7 days after the last orgasm/ejaculation; i can feel this, and i think they dip to baseline levels after that
the more sex you have, the more sex you'll want; to a certain extent, i think libido can be trained; this is theoretical but i feel it's true; i once had 3 partners in 1 week, and the next week, around similar times, i found that i was wanting it again
compound workouts that include the legs result in hard morning wood the next day; in general, you should try to stay fit through exercise and eating healthy; avoid alcohol as much as possible
eat lots of eggs for the cholesterol; i don't think it's bad for you
being angry helps in fucking; i had a girl cancel on me once, and i was pissed off but played it cool; met another girl the same night, and just unleashed on her; i had no trouble getting and staying hard
try to be in the moment as you're doing it; don't think about her, but become absorbed by your senses: sights, sounds, touches, smells; i've found that dirty talk from both people really helps with this; check out audio sex stories to see if this would work for you
stop watching porn; it's been over 1 year since i've watched it, and that's how long it's taken for me to recover because i was addicted to it; i do check out nude pictures from time to time though; interestingly, once i started getting action more regularly, i naturally couldn't be bothered with porn anymore
i don't think masturbating is bad, but i would recommend trying to masturbate with a very light touch, and a slower jerking pace; it is possible to do that, and the death grip is very real.
i used to have difficulty getting erections with a condom, but quitting porn, and using a very light grip, and a slower pace while masturbating fixed this issue
try meditation to fix issues with performance anxiety; it really does clear your mind but you have to maintain that; it's like mental exercise

alt41510 · 2019-01-21T23:56:01+00:00

First off its normal af so dont stress of it. What worked for me was stop jacking off/looking at porn. Im not an advocate for it but its just what worked for me.

mrmaldoror · 2019-01-21T20:13:24+00:00

- Stop porn, stop masturbating until your dick works

- You need to be active, lift, sport and generate testosterone

- You need to have sex with pretty women

- Drinking always makes the dick limp, I usually just tell girls to wait til the morning if I know I will have whiskey dick

- Make her suck you off and keep telling her what to do until it feels good. Most women suck really bad, you really need to tell them what to do.

- When fucking, get out of your damn head, do not give a shit about what she thinks. Do whatever your primal in the moment mind thinks.

MisterRoid · 2019-01-22T04:59:35+00:00

If you are using condoms, that's probably the problem.

BACONisKEWLEST · 2019-01-21T21:50:38+00:00

Sounds like you need to go nofap, you should have no troubles with erections at your age.

Title	ED troubles
Author	SonnyFFC
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	January 21, 2019 8:08 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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