I (20) (SW)163lb (CW)152lb have been a simp for a long time and started focusing more on myself and school but trouble making conversations with anyone. I barely text my friends and don’t know how to text girls on Tinder or talk to them irl been texting few girls that i hooked during hs and slowly improving in fashion. I dont know how to cold approach and pretty sure I say the wrong things at the wrong time. Is there more ways to improve I can socialize and make friends but cant make moves or hit on girls.

So it started my freshman tear of college I don’t blame Fortnite or my old gaming/weeb friends for changing me this is all cuz i started to avoid my bros all Alphas during their return from uni. I would be in the basement playing fifa or fortnite or 2k and wouldn’t be off till 3am started talking to people less and didn’t realize how bad it affected me until now...

Before 2019 I was celebrating my moms birthday and realized my cousin god blessed alpha who post himself fucking girls on Snapchat made me want to change but this was a stepping stone of self improvement I started caring for my nappy hair got waves now and by the new years my friend was serious about my new years resolution so I told him discipline for 2020.

Already March and I dropped my weeb friends and hang out with Alpha packs but rarely include myself trying to adjust but my sense in fashion improved girls give me that look but I still give a weak hi even though I look confident inside I’m still a pussy and afraid of what stupid things might come out of my mouth.

I plan to go to the club tonight if yall have any tips for me please share and I still have moobs which raises my insecurities to maximum. What are some good text games and conversations to break ice and get comfortable.