When in a LTR, how would you enforce a boundary, for example, telling a girlfriend that she cannot go on any more girls nights out as long as she wants to be in this relationship but what how do you handle it when she says ‘fine, but that means you can’t go on them either, that’s only fair right?’

Does this mean your not high value enough? What do you actually do in this situation if you still want to go out with your pals?