Gonna keep this simple, So, girl I’ve been hanging out with, third date, super shy super traditional. Don’t have a place to stay or go to because her parents are traditional. Texting is logistics only. We’ve been making out, she’s grabbed on my groin. I’ve grabbed her breasts, made out. This is only at a lake or somewhere outside, secluded private. How the fuck do I escalate, i tried getting her to grab my dick but she backed off, every time I go near her pussy she backs off, she’s not ready for sex she says. How do I accomplish a lay? I’m 18, first girl I’ve ever been with.

What do I do? Tips?

On a side note: is it normal to have a woman you have had relations with in your head, or should I be able to cut her off anytime I want to.

EDIT: we always hang out for less than 30 mins to an hour because she’s always getting calls to come home. I feel like that could be a reason she’s standoffish too.