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2

This is a hard next. Nothing else needs to be said here
/r/askTRP09/06/21 03:06 PM
1

You missread my message, I mean she already said no in other ways. Even a second more is a waste of time, because you end being her orbiter
/r/askTRP20/01/21 07:01 PM
1

Because you are still giving your attention to someone who really doesn't give a fuck about the interaction, instead of working on your mission OR gaming another woman and see what works and what not
/r/askTRP10/01/21 12:41 AM
1

or hard next and don't waste your time
/r/askTRP09/01/21 04:28 PM
5

maybe if you took time to read the sidebar instead you would understand why
/r/askTRP24/11/20 10:45 PM
1

just don't give too much information about yourself, she is not your buddy
/r/askTRP01/10/20 09:15 PM
1

then improve yourself and your game to get higher quality women
/r/askTRP01/10/20 09:08 PM
1

Ofc this is asktrp not TheRedPill
/r/askTRP27/09/20 10:23 PM
2

Seems possible and I think that really small percentage is somehow tied to the guy's smv and game, assuming it is above hers and her hypergamy still chooses him .
/r/askTRP27/09/20 10:19 PM
2

Sidebar
/r/askTRP27/09/20 10:07 PM
7

Too many guy friends is a red flag
/r/askTRP27/09/20 10:02 PM
3

This. She is only a plate at this stage.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 09:44 PM
1

Agreed with this. Makes most of the situation.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 09:42 PM
2

Don't snapchat, or what the most voted comment said.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 09:41 PM
4

Probably shouldn't listen to me, but I cheated for sexual variety and for a time I needed to really remind myself I have/can generate options. Not the best approach.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 01:39 PM
1

I agree in this context. Professional help first, then all this.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 08:02 PM
6

You can't influence what others do. Talk to more girls, get yourself some options, so it won't matter what a particular girl does.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 12:47 PM
5

You must get laid a lot with that attitude.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 12:46 PM
1

Like he said, found myself in the same situation as you OP, and I am not sure anymore that I am ready for LTR (already 1yr in)
/r/askTRP22/04/20 10:08 PM
1

Perfect answer
/r/askTRP22/04/20 10:06 PM
3

I don't think it's actually hate, but actually a caution against supplicating too much in text.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 10:03 PM
1

Is this what I have to say to get laid?
/r/askTRP22/04/20 09:52 PM
1

/thread
/r/askTRP07/04/20 08:01 PM
1

But you haven't considered that familiarity breeds contempt. There is no mystery for her hamster when you live together.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 07:58 PM
4

Stop doing the texting rule autistically. Like before find a way to meet and smash without being too available. Like a game:push and pull. Calibrate between the extremes
/r/askTRP04/04/20 01:33 AM
1

I agree with this. My best lays on tinder(same day) are nothing compared with an ons from a club as hb rating. Plus you have to go through additional steps compared to approaching in person
/r/askTRP04/04/20 01:29 AM
2

Really high in Eastern Europe, in my experience.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 08:14 PM
1

I went with the route of seeing a doctor about my ED, turns out it was nothing of physical nature. Sent me to a shrink, solved the mental aspect. No in person shame.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 02:46 PM
2

Bingo! Thanks for the advice!
/r/askTRP11/02/20 06:39 AM
2

That's what's on my mind as well. Just needed some confirmation from the outside.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 11:57 PM
3

Alright thanks! She does, one of the reasons I don't wanna hurt her.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 09:09 PM
2

A lot of people are virgins beyond that age as well
/r/askTRP01/02/20 02:04 PM
29

This. 90% here don't understand this
/r/askTRP12/01/20 05:46 PM
2

Only as a last resort if you already approach in day/night game. Maybe between sets at the gym
/r/askTRP11/01/20 01:41 PM
2

There was an article regarding dread game that advices you to go out too if she has a GNO and you don't want to break it off
/r/askTRP11/01/20 01:31 PM
5

I assume because religious programming is a logical thing and attraction for them is emotional and primal. And we know women work on emotion and present moment . So he spiked her attraction at one point so much that it overcame the programming.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 12:54 PM
1

Well he told me in an Ltr context so pretty close to marriage since there is exclusivity.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 09:03 AM
1

I feared this comment because it is so true.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 07:22 AM
1

Alright thank you. I will be looking out for myself first as usual.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 06:54 AM
2

Alright. Thanks for the answer. Makes sense
/r/askTRP08/01/20 12:10 AM
2

12 levels of dread, search for that
/r/askTRP05/01/20 12:17 PM
1

Simply move on. She is not that interested in you anyways, and it doesn't matter why outside of maybe you thinking what could you improve in the future. Forget about her, next time handle asd better in person.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 11:08 PM
1

Fuck 10 other women. You are in scarcity right now, that's why you still think about it.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 11:06 PM
1

As always a great one from my favorite uncle.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/19 04:41 PM
2

I think you know, as I do that there are exceptions. Fat guys who get laid despise their looks or money. What I agree with though is that you should make the game easy to play for yourself. If you look good it's easier to get away with fuckups.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/19 04:39 PM
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I can relate, I love going out alone. Only 2 buddies stuck around though (from the ones that wanted to be my buddies because I was approaching alone) and we enjoy approaching together and push each other. Hard to unplug people and you should not waste time on that unless they want to. Either alone or with someone worthwhile. This goes with plates too.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/19 04:36 PM
2

This ! I think this is the best advice here OP. I don't use social media until after I've already went on some dates/fucked but if it works for someone else why not.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 07:27 PM
1

Well for example I live in Europe and live in a rented one bedroom apartment. Not that expensive, kept clean, and gets the job done. That is if you don't go to her place, which is not as safe
/r/TheRedPill19/12/19 01:06 PM
10

Hahahaha that gave me a great laugh
/r/askTRP11/12/19 08:09 AM
2

Nobody is perfect. Keeo improving.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 07:32 AM
3

Totally this! When I up my numbers and became the guy someone would cheat with, I did not care.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 01:53 PM
9

From this post I understand you have a fragile ego and care way too much about what women (and possibly others in general) think of you. Work on that. Make yourself your own mental point of origin. Sidebar for details.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 01:50 PM
1

Very nice article! If you do actually share though, how do you take back the power? Especially in LTR
/r/askTRP02/12/19 10:13 PM
5

This
/r/askTRP29/11/19 09:36 PM
2

Check out "The Bell Curve" on the sidebar
/r/askTRP29/11/19 09:31 PM
2

This should get into the head of all newcomers. Or a sticky post or something. A lot of people today forget this.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 07:45 PM
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Damn good answer here
/r/askTRP01/11/19 11:13 AM
1

Get along with the group. On some occasions that works for me, the friends leave and she stays with me. You know what happens next.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 11:09 AM
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Ok so your problem is that you are afraid to escalate. Instead of going for "smooth" just focus on actually touching her in all the places without much hesitation and calibrate on that. In the end it is better to just escalate and let her say no instead of not doing anything and disqualifying yourself from the start. At least if she refuses AFTER you escalated you know she is not interested and can move on and do the same with the next girl. Dare don't deer!
/r/askTRP31/10/19 08:32 AM
1

her vag is pulsating post-orgasm
/r/askTRP17/10/19 12:29 PM
1

There are more hot ass girls out there, not just one
/r/askTRP17/10/19 11:51 AM
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Yeah but if he makes her his mental point of origin and goes into her frame the LTR will probably crash. This would be an example of using trp for bp goals
/r/askTRP11/10/19 10:56 AM
2

He handled his own mistake here. I think he did great and kept frame by keeping it together after the accident when he did set camp
/r/askTRP04/10/19 08:43 PM
1

Can you elaborate? Like sjws taking over?
/r/askTRP01/10/19 03:55 PM
1

Yeah makes sense.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 10:54 AM
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This happened to me on the 2nd date. The next date I fucked her brains out. I still do. I would say keep at it. If more dates lead to nothing (1 or 2 max) hard next.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 07:17 PM
1

Cold approaching is great because you get over your approach anxiety in general (not just for women but strangers) and get into the habit of noticing IOIs, keeping a conversation amd screening for interest, while creating sexual tension. As others said you should go about your life anyways (don't make this your mission), but if you don't do it on the side you might not notice IOIs or worse, you might approach in some bp ways like asking permission for everything and acting scared.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 11:36 AM
0

Well if you have money you can afford a gym sub and food. You get in great shape. If you have money you afford going out, so you meet people and can work on your approach skills. And these are the most basic things you can do.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 09:33 AM
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All the time. It's not a big deal.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 10:52 AM
5

Text work is just fine.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 04:39 PM
1

Sidebar. You find it in the info of this sub
/r/askTRP30/08/19 05:42 PM
7

This.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 07:42 PM
2

Still doesn't mind hanging out, I don't get that really Free attention that's why. She makes you an orbiter to feel validated.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 03:33 PM
2

Not necessarily over from first date if you escalated. Although if she is from Tinder I would not have the patience to wait for another date. If she "wants to get to know you better" it means she is not that attracted and you are wasting time with her. There are a lot of other women who will be ready to kiss (and probably fuck you) on your first date even.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 11:10 AM
1

Number is more personal and that way you can connect with her easier and it also shows a higher level of interest. She might have a thousand orbiters on IG, she might even forget about you. Ofc there are exceptions to this too.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 11:26 AM
1

Well yeah these are extremes I think. Sadly they exist.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 07:33 AM
1

If she is attracted to him and dtf? I don't think she would prefer orbiters.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 10:36 AM
1

Just no. She's just a plate anyway.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 10:23 AM
2

That would be something.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 12:53 PM
5

No prob. If you don't have a place though how are you going to fuck her? And yeah try escalating everytime but do not give her all your time either, that shit is a turn off. Keep some mistery.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 12:19 PM
3

Yeah, and it's tied to status.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 07:50 AM
3

Personality and charisma are part of game.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 07:39 AM
2

He is right. Read TRM again
/r/askTRP07/08/19 07:39 AM
2

If she is a virgin keep doing what you are doing. In any case you should set up a date at your place with plausible deniability (aka netflix and chill) and try to escalate there. Remember to relax and lead her to do stuff YOU want to do in bed.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 07:37 AM
1

"what are we" could be met with A&A. If she asks for something serios (ltr), before becoming a plate aka had sex with you, it's a no no, you should tell her that you guys are still dating and will see what happens in the future.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 06:53 AM
1

Total life changer
/r/askTRP24/06/19 01:46 PM
1

This does not show a position of power for you and your frame,so no
/r/askTRP21/06/19 08:29 AM
8

From what I understand here, that guy 's real personality is fun and he talked to everyone. Trp endorses that. No bitch cares about your self-improvement when you sit silent in a corner being all "real".
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 02:31 PM
8

So he could probably avoid this mood killer
/r/askTRP16/06/19 04:14 PM
1

I always do that when they ask my name and then we introduce each other. It's still kino. That helps me later in the night to grab her for a dance go in for the kiss etc.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 09:23 AM
1

True. Didn't want to go hard on him.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 08:10 AM
0

^ when you skip the sidebar
/r/askTRP24/05/19 08:01 AM
3

This. Nothing to do there OP. Game other women, who are willing to meet.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 02:30 PM
2

I would say go and take it as a risk. If she disrespects you in any way walk away. In a good scenario you might get some IOIs from her friends, or at least fuck her that night as well. Treat it as a fun experiment if you decide to go. Have the IDGAF attitude regardless.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 02:29 PM
2

Agreed. Really good one after the rational male.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 11:41 PM
1

That's the way I do it. It has been a long time since I started.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 11:49 AM
2

Most here do not understand that and they wonder why just looks won't compensate for their lack of escalation.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 03:35 PM
2

Interesting. I live in a neighbor country and they are not like that at all. There are exceptions too obviously.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 03:32 PM
1

This. This kind of behavior from girls is like a standard for me.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 02:57 PM
3

The point is experience and learning how to get there. You have to walk the walk
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 01:05 PM
1

Don't complain about healthy things. Enjoy
/r/askTRP07/04/19 03:48 PM
3

This. Go socialize somewhere else or meet with some other plate. Fuck all that drama, your friends will probably understand, and most likely you would have more fun elsewhere.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 01:00 PM
0

Agreed
/r/askTRP16/03/19 09:57 PM
0

He actually did give the 90% of advice needed
/r/askTRP16/03/19 09:57 PM
1

Not to burst your bubble but there is a high probability she is fucking other guys.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 09:56 PM
1

Agreed
/r/askTRP16/03/19 09:55 PM
1

> And once they get interested, i start going full Jeff Bezos. Because i don't even know what i should be doing. How do i escalate from there on? If you see they become interested figure out how to fuck them. Edit: Ok maybe that was not too informative. Touch them lightly on the shoulder, get close to them, try to go for physical contact, kissing etc. These things come with experience so as long as you try it's fine.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 02:30 PM
-2

Someone had to say this. Thank you and I hope they do this.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 11:03 PM
7

Agreed. This is what I am trying to practice every day. Pure masculinity. Or toxic as they say haha
/r/askTRP12/03/19 06:42 PM
2

Yes, calibration comes with experience and awareness of your situation.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 09:22 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 04:46 PM
1

This was my situation when I stumbled upon TRP, and this was my first question here on askTRP. You need to work on your game, women probably find you boring. They do not know you will fuck them well just by looks. Approach and be fun.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 08:30 AM
3

I am o the same page here. Spinning plates feels great for me. It provides abundance, variety and little commitment from my part. In my current situation I can't see why I should enter a LTR.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 05:02 PM
1

Plates need to be spinned. I doubt looks get me past the ONS.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 02:35 PM
1

Game is part of smv
/r/askTRP07/03/19 08:00 PM
1

Agreed. If you keep at it you will go from a number close to ONS that day.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 07:27 PM
4

Let it marinate!
/r/askTRP04/03/19 06:47 PM
1

Eastern Europe here. It works, especially in the club scene. From what I read here I would say it's easier in EE.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 12:54 PM
2

Yup. Some time ago I thought one round is enough for my libido. Fast forward some years and some freaky girls I can go for like 5 I think. Depends on the girl(NOT a starfish) and my energy. Whiskey dick still happens but oh well I am a drunktard sometimes. Working on it.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 08:22 PM
2

Basically I am relaxed during sex, not putting unnecessary pressure on myself and actually being in the moment. Abundance helps with this a lot too. It's one of the things that TRP helped me a lot with. Worth to mention I did watch a lot of porn too few years ago and I quit that too. Sec is more enjoyable anyways. The key is to relax and enjoy and dgaf what she will think of you if <insert failed thing here>. Worth mentioning lifting helps with it a lot because of self confidence and a good opin…
/r/askTRP26/02/19 07:45 PM
1

Therapist helped me get over it. I tbink I got lucky to get a compatible one. My issue was psychological and most likely yours too(i am not 90% sure). Do go and check your T levels too like the others suggested just to make sure. Cheers
/r/askTRP26/02/19 07:00 PM
1

True that. I will limit or even stop drinking
/r/askTRP24/02/19 08:35 PM
1

Alright I see your point. I will limit my alcohol as well since the option appears to become a norm
/r/askTRP24/02/19 08:35 PM
1

Ok. I will. Thx for the advice
/r/askTRP24/02/19 08:34 PM
1

Where do you sit when you are at the bar with her? Close to her or face 2 face? I juat pick a pub where I know there is a couch or something that allows me to be close to her. Then you just start with light kino. Some shoulder touch while laughing at her joke, or checking her bracelet while grabbing her hand. Then at some point in our playful teasing I just go in for the kiss to silence her (just an example). Obviously after you initiated the kiss you can touch her hips and so on.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:09 AM
1

Yup definitely. I was sad for a while after because I thought I could not attract anyone else even though I lift cause I love it and height works for me. Oh, now looking back how wrong I've been.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 08:40 PM
2

When I started to be aware of TRP principles I predicted my gf at the time cheating with 2 days before she did it, it was a feeling in my gut. And at that time I knew that if the bad stuff is true then so is the good stuff taught here. That was the moment I took action.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 07:26 PM
3

Number. Much more personal. Social media is just validation for them.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 10:16 AM
1

Alright thanks for the reply! I will keep these things in mind.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 08:05 PM
1

I would not say required for everyone. Helped me solve ED (along with trp helping on that too).
/r/askTRP31/01/19 05:57 PM
7

When I started going out to approach and realised my smv was a lot higher than I thought. It was the 1st time after my last ltr when I did not feel lucky that I got with someone because it was normal and I was worth dating
/r/askTRP25/01/19 04:44 PM
1

Alright, I will take this into consideration. Thanks.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 03:41 PM
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A month and a half I think. I do not want to LTR her, so that is why I find it weird to be exclusive just to try and see if it works out like she said it. I'd rather spin than dedicate time to one person that I just fuck.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 08:55 AM
2

Hahaha nice one. Keep spinning
/r/askTRP17/01/19 12:00 AM
2

Alright thanks for the advice. Your replies are always on point on other posts too I see.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 11:44 PM
1

Thanks for the elaborate answer. Yeah my default thinking was fuck no I don't want to drop my other plates for you, but there was one little thought of maybe. Your answer cleared that up.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 11:34 PM
1

Hi there. I was in a club gaming and a co-worker of hers saw me kissing someone. Edit : yeah I will just let her drop and spin the others.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 11:32 PM
1

Agreed here. Never really got the results I wanted when I was with my friends(which mostly are bp)
/r/askTRP11/01/19 12:52 PM
1

"I honestly rather be alone at a bar than with my BP friends who do some cringe worthy shit". Me whenever I night game. I tried gaming with my bp friends, just using them as social proof, because I thought people find being alone cringy, but had minimum results. So I was not satisfied and went alone. Results skyrocketed and honestly I never went back. I always go alone and really enjoy it and have a great time + minimum a k-close and number. Ocasionally I would let some friends come with me whic…
/r/askTRP11/01/19 12:51 PM
2

Agree with you. I go twice a week, I allow myself to drink and such then. In a few months you'll see significant progress.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 12:45 AM
1

Oh thx for clarification. Yeah I assumed that is what you meant. Sucks that the scene is like that. However it makes it harder. Here in EE is a lot more opening, and it triggers me when incels say that women are hard to get. A bit of gamr and grooming already puts you ahead.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/19 08:14 PM
1

I agree with the dysfunctional part.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/19 06:13 PM
1

Good structured FR and some pretty good info here.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/19 12:15 PM
1

I agree here. Here in eastern europe "hi" followed by a comment and followed by "what's your name" which some ppl might say they are mistakes cause you show interest actually works pretty well 80% of the time.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/19 12:14 PM
1

Neil Strauss in his book "The Game" uses that too.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/19 10:22 AM
1

I was as surprised as you and asked a current plate. Why did you help? Her answer "we're a team in this right?" european and I love clubbing I consider my fun frame being the success more than anything else.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 02:32 AM
1

Its something local from what I understand the psychologist that I got was luck and yeah local. Pm me if you need some advice.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 02:30 AM
1

This. This is what I was thinking cause I am a pretty big regular there, to the point that I get drinks free and I always have fun there in the weekend so I wanted to go. Thx for confirming. I'll go.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 09:10 PM
2

Had the same problem all my life until last year. Sometimes it would get up, sometimes not at l regardless, cause of psychological. Went to therapy, was encouraged to see many girls, and had exposure to the situation till i no longer cared and probably had outcome independence. Paradoxically it stopped happening and now I truly enjoy sex. Also I had luck that girls were not puttin pressure on this journey and always helped when i disconnected or was a bit anxious. Hope this helps. Therapy does w…
/r/askTRP04/01/19 09:07 PM
1

You should go for any and should approach, not wait to be approached. If you get rejected it's not that big of a deal and you might learn something too.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 06:11 PM
2

Was thinking about that but was not sure. Thanks.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 01:52 PM
3

Alright then. Thanks for the reply.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 10:29 AM
8

You should push yourself into social situations. Get into the habit of talking to people. Approach and talk to girls as much as you can and learn about shit tests. Good luck!
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:37 AM
2

Just do the approach when you are stuck . I literally start with "What's your name ?" and if they answer a rare name I look surprised a bit excited telling then "Oh wow, you are the 2nd <name> I know " (like a neg). Then you try to transition in a fun way to a real convo and start seeing if YOU like her. You can open with anything really, as long as you hold frame, have fun and remember you are the prize. If it's a fail, even a big one, you can just try again, cause no beta friend, who thinks he…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/18 09:55 PM
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I was a heavy porn user a year ago. Porn fucks up your libido and dopamine receptors, and on top of that it can cause erectile dysfunction. After you quit just porn, not masturbation, in a while your libido goes back to normal, and sex becomes more enjoyable, no ed problems (unless something else is the cause). The most important thing is, if you limit masturbation to 3 times a week, you will also be more inclined to approach girls. Hope this helps.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 09:07 AM
2

Something similar happened to me as well but it really broke. Nothing you can do about it. If she is gone, she is gone. Don't abuse yourself thinking too much of her and don't give her the benefit of knowing you feel bad for losing her. Have a good time and fuck the other plates, in time you won't care anymore about her.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 09:48 AM
1

Find a prop of hers and comment on it to touch her. Then take her for a dance. You should kiss after let's say 5 mins
/r/askTRP23/11/18 08:51 AM
1

Well if you come as cocky funny in the club and escalate succesfully they just seek the friends for some approval and they sit with you, maybe even take you to their home (happened once). Idk about day game but I assume if the interaction is fun they will want more of that and the chance to flake drops. I have yet to try day game.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 06:35 PM
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Try to make everything fun, tease them a bit, neg them, and then try to go for a dance , dance like 5 mins and then go for the kiss. Always escalate and push for it no matter the response. You can pm me for more details
/r/askTRP22/11/18 10:44 AM
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Sidebar, and a lot of field practice myself (night game/club). The beginning is the hardest, then you will pull relatively fast with decent game. I am ready Day Bang atm btw.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 08:45 AM
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When I started going out alone, I ended up at the girl's place in the same night. When I went out with my beta friends I got kiss closes max, and the girls I approached were lower quality. Idk when I go alone I approach more boldly. I definitely enjoy going solo more now and I highly recommend it !
/r/TheRedPill21/11/18 10:43 AM
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Night clubs are my favorites to pick up women. Easy game and you can have a lot of fun. But maybe that's just me.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 02:54 PM
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Clubs or pubs in the weekends usually. I did not approach during the day that much though
/r/askTRP17/11/18 12:55 PM
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Alrighty. I am seeing others anyways, just she was a bit more interesting. Thanks for the reply
/r/askTRP13/11/18 11:50 AM
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Yeah looks like it. Should I follow up, ghost or soft next ? I am thinking of contacting next weekend
/r/askTRP13/11/18 11:07 AM
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Yeah, true
/r/askTRP12/11/18 05:30 PM
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Yeah that's true, I need more experience with that
/r/askTRP12/11/18 04:11 PM
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Oh alright. Yea I mean I fucked her once and then made her cum, I was pretty wasted after a whole night. Thanks for the answer.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 03:45 PM
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I think this is covered in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 10:42 AM
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Alright then. Thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP03/10/18 11:33 PM
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Luckily I don't have a car haha. On a serious note, I will keep an eye for that. Thanks !
/r/askTRP02/10/18 11:40 PM
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Hahahah exactly !
/r/askTRP02/10/18 09:58 AM
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Totally agreed here, I was raised like that. It is hard to get back in touch with your masculinity but it is totally possible
/r/askTRP27/09/18 10:31 AM
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I do in the weekends
/r/askTRP22/09/18 11:06 PM
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Pickup
/r/askTRP22/09/18 10:08 PM
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Alright thanks man !
/r/askTRP22/09/18 09:35 PM
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So with the bartenders or the people at the bar ? Or both?
/r/askTRP22/09/18 09:21 PM
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Hi. New to trp and game myself. I started recently going out consistently and approach women. So far this rule has helped me to keep a conversation and find out how I can jump from a subject to another.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 05:55 PM
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All good man. Thank you !
/r/askTRP03/09/18 07:01 PM
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Thank you. I will look into it.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 05:22 PM
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Ok so follow-up. She says she goes to sleep at 10, so I said that it will remain on Friday.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 02:19 PM
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It is actually a pick-up day on Friday so it is all good if she flakes. Thx for the advice man.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 02:11 PM
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Alright thx man
/r/askTRP03/09/18 02:09 PM
1

Alright. Can I ask you what I did wrong in the conversation ? Would appreciate some advice
/r/askTRP03/09/18 02:00 PM
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I could reschedule it for today, But it's too early I think ​
/r/askTRP03/09/18 01:56 PM
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Alright, makes sense.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 01:53 PM
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Thanks for replying man. So I cut all contact till early friday with her ? And set up dates before are after with someone else right ? I just want to make sure I get it.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 01:52 PM
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Haha ! You got me there, man.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 12:17 PM
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Oh I see. So definitely going out there and judge for myself. Thank you !
/r/askTRP12/07/18 11:09 PM
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Alright gotcha man. Thanks
/r/askTRP12/07/18 11:07 PM
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Alright man thanks. Time to go out there !
/r/askTRP12/07/18 05:07 PM
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Right on point there ! 80 % nice guy I would say. And yeah the approach anxiety is real. I did approach some time ago like a week in a row but kinda gave it up cause of an LTR (such a fool). Now I am back on it, some ok responses , some rejections, but not doing kino or at least trying to transition to it. I mean I dance with girls but do not take it further for some "nice guy" reason. Thx for taking the time to respond ! Edit : i am a sociable guy but not to the point of being good to girls. It…
/r/askTRP12/07/18 04:44 PM
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Bad lazy comments ? Or to go out and try it myself. One of these
/r/askTRP12/07/18 03:25 PM
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I was trying to ask more experienced people which method gave better results from their experience.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 03:14 PM
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This did not make any sense really. Was trying to ask experienced people about direct vs indirect (since the sidebar embraces both )
/r/askTRP12/07/18 03:13 PM
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Damn best explanation you could give man ! Thx a lot for sharing. It aligns with my intuition , since every time I "unleashed" there was no ED or any other problems. Will definitely go further on this
/r/askTRP22/06/18 10:58 PM
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Haha yup. I think you are right
/r/askTRP22/06/18 08:37 PM
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Thank you ! I will look into it
/r/askTRP22/06/18 08:37 PM
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True that man. Thx for replying. Well I did not want to make a big post since this is my 2nd ever post on reddir. Women of no emotional involvment tell me I am pretty but sometimes I doubt it. I am I would say aware of the nice guy vs bad boy dynamic. I read all the pua stuff and applied a little (at least the most known stuff ).But probably I still fall into that category. I will look into it. My lack of confidence comes from the fact that sometimes I had some ED, solved it lately but still lac…
/r/askTRP22/06/18 07:22 PM
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You are right I learned that the hard way, but I still do not really create that teasing women seem to be crazy about.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 06:44 PM
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Thx a lot for responding man. I have a direction now. Take care
/r/askTRP22/06/18 05:58 PM
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Thx for answering. I always found game so obscure as a term. Are we talking pua game or trp overall ? I am a beginner
/r/askTRP22/06/18 05:48 PM
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