“Eventually comfortable” meaning

CainPrice · 2019-02-19T21:46:49+00:00

Your girlfriend wasn't raped. She wasn't forced to do anything.

Her last guy had something you don't. He was willing to walk if she wouldn't be sexual with him. He was confident that he had value, confident that he had other options, and wasn't investing everything he had into this one girl. He knew what he wanted, he asked for it without shame or reservation, and when she initially declined, he made it clear that he wouldn't remain interested in a non-sexual relationship her.

She decided - actively decided - that he was worth it and did the things he wanted to keep him around.

You don't think you're valuable and don't think you have options. She knows you won't walk away. You know that if you told her what you wanted, without shame or reservation, and made it clear that you weren't interested in a non-sexual relationship, she'd tell you to walk.

SirKolbath · 2019-02-19T21:10:25+00:00

You don’t want to hear this, son, but you need to. You are in high school. You need to be spending your time focusing on your grades, your extracurricular activities that round you out as a person, and the gym. Nowhere in there is room for women. Save that shit for college. Work on yourself.

Rkingpin · 2019-02-19T21:18:06+00:00

I'd find a girl on the side who's down to smash

Keep it low-key, besides you're young and this is the time to create experiences

[deleted] · 2019-02-19T21:59:52+00:00

Hard next, she isn't sufficiently attracted to you.

Title	“Eventually comfortable” meaning
Author	thotimusprime70
Upvotes	3
Comments	5
Date	February 19, 2019 9:03 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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