Getting a personality to have girls like you and truly not care is one part of swallowing the red pill. Another is to be charismatic and have the majority of people around you levitate towards your personality.

I've been watching a lot of speeches and presidential debates from Kennedy, Trudeau and the likes. They are naturally charismatic, personally it is partly natural partly artificial.

I sometimes notice I overdo it, the flirting, the amicable joking around with people and the random approaching people/striking up a conversation.

Are there any people you'd give as an example as a natural charismatic leader? I've read books like How to win friends and influence people, and if we're being really honest, aside from a few good chapters, books like that make you seem like a pushover in today's world.

I've applied things such as always remembering names and smiling, but that's about where it ends.

Looking forward to the replies.