Hi Fellow Trpers,

So my current LTR wants to go to her ex BF's birthday party (they broke up 4 years ago and were together for 4 years); they're supposedly friends . I already set the rules on never seeing exes one to one.. and now she keeps hammering on me about that technicality.. i never indeed specified anything about group hangouts.

At first i said no, but she kept bitching and says i m controlling.. i m getting tired of that shit so i said "fine, go".. then everything went back to normal, she s supposed to come back early.. however i am losing ..well ..respect for her. So my feelings are going away.

BTW: i already asked if i could go.. Ex BF says he wants something "with close friends".. i never met the dude but he told her i couldn't come and she well.. listened to him.

Any thoughts?