Hi, yes this post will sound all blue-pilled oneitis, I know. My objective is to fuck, not to get pity.

So this semi-LTR dumped me for some reason, I don't know. Probably I lost frame and attraction dissipated, I think I applied too much dread, or maybe just my turn is over. Doesn't matter. I didn't get all beta at the end, that's for sure. She said "I need time", I said, fine. I have a couple bitches on rotation but they are just plates.

So now I'm in no-contact mode for some months, following the BlackDragon 4-month rule. It's been about a month.

In my experience, exes almost never contact you back. But I've had luck contacting them after a long time, like years.

But turns out she's having a shitty time. She is not having a very happy time being alone, I learned that her dog just died, etc. so I wonder what would happen if I contact her now. I mean, its what a decent (BETA) human being would do. But I don't want to reduce my SMV at this point. The theory is that absolutely any and all contact that you do to a plate that dumped you, reduce your attraction, and the only way to increase it is to completely vanish. Is this true?